posted December 10, 2010 08:13 PM            

He just gives these short messages that say next to nothing and just when I am about to give up on him he throws in the "sweetie" term or something. I am just giving short messages back because I don't want to overwhelm him. The very first message I wrote him I said something about Taurus men not liking to talk as much as Libra women and he said something like, "you would be surprised" but hmmmm. No message today. boo. I offered to meet for a late drink on Sat because my plans were with my daughter and we would be home by 10pm at the VERY latest, and he works 2nd shift so wanted to go Saturday night. But now no response. And now my plans with daughter have fallen through because we can't travel with the ice storm that is coming this weekend here in the midwest so I will be free. I don't have very much patience. lol

He doesn't know me enough to really pursue me and I would be turned off if he did... thinking he just liked my picture without knowing anything about me. But he isn't making an effort to know about me and I don't know if that is because he is some lazy musician who has girls flocking all over him so doesn't feel the need to put forth any effort or if he is just a regular guy and wants to wait to see if we actually click when we meet before taking the time to get to know me. I think that's reasonable which is why I offered the late drink so I didn't have to wait another week to actually get to know him a little. Also, next weekend will be busy too so... I made the joke that it was the holidays and he worked "weird hours" (his words from last message) so we might never meet and start our new friendship adventure. I am wondering if he didn't like the word "friendship". hehe
Ahh well. Time will tell. I'll probably get some other very short, dull message this evening that does not answer my question about the drink tomorrow. But that is a negative attitude.
MEN! arrrg