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posted December 08, 2010 10:36 PM            

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What are signs of interest or not so much interest from the very beginning when just texting/messaging etc?

Also, what should be expected on the first date?

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posted December 08, 2010 11:43 PM            

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hi mystic!

i'm seeing a taurus right now and i'm a taurus moon. he is very mellow and subtle and doesn't actually say a whole lot in his emails. our communication is very much about body language more than anything, and there is a comfort about taurus that i just LOVE. he is my 4th taurus, and sexuality aside, it's all just basically sensual and relaxed and not especially verbal, in terms of where our affection and interest is concerned- we just feel it and are comfortable in it. THOUGH this guy has aries mercury and can be very direct when he feels like it. feel free to ask me any questions! my thing with him is new, a week or a bit more, depending on whether we go by our first date or when we realized we were both interested.

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posted December 08, 2010 11:45 PM            

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oh, haha, i didn't really answer your question. i knew he was interested by the way he looks at me: a very steady gaze. in terms of written word, there are subtle hints and sensual context (likes to talk about food and wonders what i favour, for example), but nothing really overt. i think you will know if a taurus is interested if they seem really at ease.

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posted December 08, 2010 11:51 PM            

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i had a taurus bf once.....he followed me around a lot and referred to me as "dragon girl" cuz of my jacket before he knew my name, lol

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posted December 09, 2010 03:48 AM            

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hmm. that's a tough one.
i'm a taurus girl and i assume ppl just know, however only once asked to put it all into words, do i realize just how tricky it is.

lol...i don't think you can.
him showing affection can be just him being nice (cross that off ur list)
if he's shy, nervous...that could mean something
him SUBTLY pushing away can be a good thing (most likely a test..and he DEF won't waist his time testing someone he's not interested in)
idk...i think u really gotta go with your gut on this one.
if he's there, good chance he's interested.
it's important that he feels desired (aka secure). if u can make him feel that..U GOT HIM

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posted December 09, 2010 04:14 AM            

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my (ex) husband is a Taurus and when we first met he wrote, called and emailed me about 100 times a day. We were only friends at that time but every time he had a thought he would write me. we had a fun, dynamic courtship.

which led to him being glued to the couch once we were finally together. :-)

but i would think you'd need to look to the mercury sign for how they communicate and the mars for how they pursue.

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posted December 09, 2010 10:05 AM            

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Well that is brilliant (and obvious, should have known hehe) Merc in Taurus and Mars in Cancer...

Whoa, yayyyyyyy
We haven't got to the body language part yet... met online but have mutual friends in the area and he said he wants to meet me, then said we should meet up for a drink etc but I am busy this weekend. He said to text him (he works 2nd shift) but I am the only living person over the age of 13 with no cell phone so can't text. (which is exactly what I messaged him hehe) He didn't answer for a day or so ("subtly pushing away"?? lol) and I asked if the no cell phone thing was a deal breaker and made a little chit chat and he messaged back right away saying oh no sweetie and he is busy at work etc. All very nice. I'm just curious about how they behave. I don't want to mess it up. I want to at least meet him and build a friendship.
I will see about the body language on our "date". I think I will suggest playing darts. I haven't done that in a decade other than a year ago when I played with another Taurus and it was very nice. Stand close to each other and flirt etc. Better than sitting at a table and searching for things to say that help you get to know them but that aren't too prying etc. :^)
I often wish I were young again so guys could follow me around and tease me. THAT'S how you REALLY know. lol :^D We are in the same social "group" so we will see each other in the future for sure. Then we can follow each other around.♥

So, what about this first date?

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posted December 09, 2010 10:30 AM            

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If they are persistent with you, it's a good sign.

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posted December 09, 2010 12:00 PM            

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Mystic, don't forget to feed him.
My Taurus was only manageable on a full stomach. Sometimes he would be a real ***** and i couldn't figure out why and then i always realized that he hadn't eaten.

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posted December 09, 2010 12:16 PM            

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Hi MM, I'm seeing a Taurus and another ex was a Taurus sun too.

Umm basically, they woo you with food! The second they got your interest, they want to take you out to lunch or dinner (which they pay for, of course) with alcohol included.

Nice hotel room afterwards, its always their secret plan.

This goes very well with my Taurus Venus

And they love going out for drinks, pampering you, being lavish on their lady..

Taurus is the sign of sensuality so anything that stimulates their senses, particularly their appetite, the things they like to touch and nice things to look at, which includes whomever they have interest in. They like sweet, classy, elegant women they can take out, show off and pamper

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posted December 09, 2010 02:20 PM            

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the food thing is so true! my ex from 15 years ago that i was seeing briefly this summer who is a taurus ALWAYS fed me! as soon as i walked in the door he would hand me some of his amazing raw food concoctions. and my new guy is always offering to take me out for food as well and keeps telling me what a great cook he is. it's cute. and it's so true about lavishing.

mystic, what are your stats (sun, moon, venus, mars) and what is his moon and venus? with his mercury in taurus and mars in cancer he may move pretty slowly, possibly shyly, but still with persistence and presence. the keyword (for taurus) to me is presence, but it is hard to explain. as a taurus moon myself, i really value it. it's quiet and calm and steady and appreciative, this presence. once you feel and have established this sense of presence and steadiness and comfort, there is little else to do but honour it through sensually delighting in it. come to think of it, it's only been my taurus exes who've really appreciated my sensual nature and who can match it, and this includes simple presence. ahhh, i wish i could explain it better! but it's a really grounded, relaxed feeling and taureans need that. it's like their hearts are tied to the sensual, the lovely, the artistic and romantic, but in a real world sense, unlike neptune. quiet comfort is huge to them, and being valued.

haha, i really doubt no cell phone is a dealbreaker in fact, it might secretly tickle him. they are traditionalists to some extent and homebodies usually, so it might fill his head with dreams of the two of you snuggled up on the couch sans tehnological interruption!

first date.. hmm, in my experience of taureans they really like to impress. my first taurean boyfriend and i were teenagers (well i was 18, he was 20) and i don't remember our first date. he played in a band and of our early days i only really remember us making out a lot in bars after his shows and not much else other than that initially he was pretty shy. my second taurus definitely provided food and ambiance, and with all of them there was a lot of, yeah, making out right from the get go. food and making out seem to be their forte

and.. CUDDLING! they love that stuff.

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posted December 09, 2010 02:56 PM            

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My BF is a True Taurus, Sun,Moon,Merc and Mars in Taurus. Venus in Aries..That stands out in him and puts a twist on things.

He is so sweet, Very communicative, affectionate, caring, manly and so forth. They want you to be honest with them no game playing or unfaithfulness. We are so compatiable. And YES they love food be it a homecook meal or out to dinner. They prefer homecook though. They say Taurus are home bodies mine is and he likes to go out too..They like feminine women, soft spoken.

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posted December 09, 2010 10:05 PM            

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Ok, so I'm definitely making brownies to bring along then, right?!

me
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Sun Libra
Moon Cap
Merc Virgo
Venus Libra
Mars Aqua

he
AC Leo
Sun Taurus
Moon Sag
Merc Taurus
Venus Gemini
Mars Cancer

He has a lot of fire... he plays a guitar in a band so not too shy, but I can never figure out Mars in Cancer. I had a decade long crush on another Taurus and oh did we have that sensual presence thing down. ♥
My computer is going slow and I still have homework to do so I'll be back!!

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posted December 10, 2010 01:57 AM            

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posted December 10, 2010 02:19 AM            

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I remember a Taurus who liked me in High school,
stalking is a *very* appropriate term.
He was more creepy than any Scorpio I'd ever met.

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posted December 10, 2010 02:27 AM            

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omg, stalking!! yes!! for a long time my ex followed me around before he even knew my name...and even after he asked me out and i turned him down he still pursued me!! LOL

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posted December 10, 2010 02:39 AM            

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The Taurus who stalked me for a period of months, then cursed at me in the street in broad daylight after I had refused to go out with him: "******* ***** I didn't want to go with you, anyway." Oh yea honey, that's why you couldn't get enough of looking at me, huh, that's why you followed me everywhere, because you hate me. Well, coming from a Venus in Capricorn gal, I was quick to reject men even then. But still..

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posted December 10, 2010 02:46 AM            

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LOL, that "quick to say no" thing..is that a venus in cap thing? i have that placement and i'd say i'm pretty quick to say no depending on how much i like or dislike the guy asking me out

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posted December 10, 2010 05:43 AM            

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It may be, I've only just noticed that about myself this year. Venus in Capricorn, and in mutual reception with natal Saturn in Libra, and Venus is square Saturn. Rejection in some form or another seems par for the course.

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posted December 10, 2010 01:14 PM            

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"They stalk you and call you all the time"

lol, mine don't. When we first started seeing each other he use to call me and text me all the time. But since he is secure and has gotten to know me better he doesn't. Infact the other day I got mad at him for not texting me good morning like normally. They like to feel secure. Once they feel secure and see that you are consistent and seriouse they let up..

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posted December 10, 2010 01:34 PM            

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Mystic..Ive dealt with a Taurus Sun and now Im dealing with a Taurus Moon...and of course you have go by the connections to the Sun for filters but in general they seem to be in no rush. To push forward or push away. They seem to be ok in the moment.
And every now and then they take deliberate strides forward with the relationship...nothing can be rushed. I usually feels really good though. Its a very comfortable Energy...like you know he is always gonna be there and that you are a priority. I feel like it helps you be transparent in the relationship much sooner if you are able to handle that.
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posted December 10, 2010 03:30 PM            

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Maybe they are more prone to act that way with women they can't get a handle on. I was one of those women, refusing to be boxed in. Some women like the box.

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posted December 10, 2010 04:24 PM            

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Well mine is not controlling at all he is bout as free as I am, thats part of the reason why I like him so much..And well a match is a match..

MM: I wouldnt worry about any of that, just be you bake those brownies :-) and if its a match it will just flow..

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posted December 10, 2010 04:29 PM            

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Haha..yeah I dont like a box either. The box sucks..

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posted December 10, 2010 04:48 PM            

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It may be, I've only just noticed that about myself this year. Venus in Capricorn, and in mutual reception with natal Saturn in Libra, and Venus is square Saturn. Rejection in some form or another seems par for the course.

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lol, i have venus in cap conjunct saturn and neptune in cap

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