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Topic: The ex Husband
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Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 11:07 PM
  
We it did drastically change our life's. But self destruct? Maybe for him.. but not me.. Im didnt.. Do u remember what happen to him? IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted December 15, 2010 11:08 PM
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Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 11:09 PM
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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
Well, don't make the same mistake twice. That would be my best non-astrological advice.Reconcile with him if he's truly what you want, but like Raspberri mentioned, tread carefully, because if you're wrong about your feelings, then you could possibly deeply hurt him.
OO No Im totally done..... I will NOT go back no matter what.
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Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 11:14 PM
Yeah but can u delete that.. please. Thanks  IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted December 15, 2010 11:16 PM
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Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 11:25 PM
Thanks.. much appreciated.. Its hard for me to share my stuff.. I know I did it once, but Idk.... I just dont want to keep doing it..
I do feel it was meant to be, what happen.. That unless that happened we would have stayed together.. I felt stuck.. like glue... I know he would have never left... So I guess fate stepped in and made sure it happen...
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PlutoSquared
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posted December 15, 2010 11:33 PM
Well... so you couldn't envision yourself happy with him again? Do you believe he could ever potentially do the same things again to compromise your relationship?IP: Logged |
raspberri
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From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 11:34 PM
The relationship was meant to bring pain for growth. Sometimes, that's all a relationship can offer. It's up to you to let it go, to find someone to make you feel happy. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 11:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
Well... so you couldn't envision yourself happy with him again? Do you believe he could ever potentially do the same things again to compromise your relationship?
No.. I cant ever see myself with him again...
Im totally over him, and done... Remember how fixed I am... lol... There is no changing my mind. I have totally put it all behind me.. I have moved on....
But I do feel bad, bc he cant let it go.. He cant accept what happen.. He still has hope.. Even though Im sure I have been clear...
I told him even if he does come back, he cant live here... Yes.. I dont see that he really has learned his lesson... He was warned that this may happen...
HE just says " I know what I'm doing" Ok then so do it... but count me out...
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Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by raspberri:
The relationship was meant to bring pain for growth. Sometimes, that's all a relationship can offer. It's up to you to let it go, to find someone to make you feel happy.
PISCES!!!!!! lol..... Or maybe Gem! ================================== Do you guys think its ironic that I was seeing Gem before my husband, and then once me and the husband split I reconnected with Gem again.. Gem was with me before my husband, and now he's with me after my husband... Gem's been looking for me over the years..
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PlutoSquared
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posted December 15, 2010 11:57 PM
Yeah, that is funny timing IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 12:11 AM
PS.. Can you look at me and Gem and tell me what u think? If yeah... Synastry or Composite any specific asteroids? If your busy its no problem IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted December 16, 2010 12:13 AM
Can you post the charts here?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 12:15 AM
Yeah give me a few.. Thanks...
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PlutoSquared
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posted December 16, 2010 12:18 AM
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Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 12:26 AM
Ok.. Me and Gem..
Ok short version.. We dated 12 years ago.. We broke up, I got married... Once I separated, we reconnected during Venus Rx. During the rx we worked through all the past issues. Once Venus went direct we stopped talking.. 2 weeks later we reconnected again, now we are not mentioning the past at all.. We are taking things slow.. Im on the inside
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raspberri
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From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 12:30 AM
Grand cross with Venus/Mars/Jupiter/Puto??IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 12:33 AM
We both have Uranus in the 7th..
we both have Cancer venus in the 4th.
we both have Sat in the 3rdhis Mercury is on my SN, my venus is on his SN My venus conjuncts his Sun. We complete each others T-squares. DW Jupiter opps Sun.. plus moon,and mercury for me.. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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From: Mars
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posted December 16, 2010 12:33 AM
With so much involved with the DC in the composite, and 4th and 5th house involvement, I can see why you guys like each other...There's also a nice synastry going on, with the both of you... I think as long as it feels right for the both of you, enjoy it... because in spite of the uranus and pluto aspects in wide orbs... things look good to me. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 12:35 AM
How would you interpret that Raspberri? quote:
Originally posted by raspberri:
Grand cross with Venus/Mars/Jupiter/Puto??
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 2217
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 16, 2010 12:38 AM
Well. I see it as a major shake up that they came into each others lives. It involves every aspect of what love should be about... Venus(love)/Mars(sex)/Pluto(transformation)Jupiter(expansion). IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted December 16, 2010 12:39 AM
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Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 12:40 AM
I also met him the hour of my solar return. At like 1 am. The Sun when we met was 2mins from my Natal Sun.. We spotted each other from across the room.. I saw him as soon as he walked in.. He saw me also.. Our eyes locked, but we didnt actually met until hours later... Funny but one of his friends recognized me, and came up to me, which is how we met.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 12:43 AM
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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
How would you interpret that Raspberri?
Its also on his Sun.. Also the Lunar Eclipse coming up is on his Sun and my venus.. Which will effect the G.Cross.. I wonder if we will end it then??? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 16, 2010 01:06 AM
quote:
Originally posted by raspberri:
Well. I see it as a major shake up that they came into each others lives. It involves every aspect of what love should be about... Venus(love)/Mars(sex)/Pluto(transformation)Jupiter(expansion).
I was thinking about this.. You know when we first met, thats exactly what happen.. But the timing was off.. It was really bad timing.. At least for him.. Then when the timing became better for him, The timing was then bad for me.. I was already engaged. So I rejected him.. I went to him before I got married, I wanted him to stop me.. He said no... He then rejected me.. After I got married he came to me.. I then said no Im married and then rejected him... LOL...
I know its a mess...
This is the first time the timing is "good" for both of us... I always sort of thought of him.. I kept his pictures in my desk at work... I always wondered what would have happen if I didnt reject him before I got married..... IP: Logged |
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