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Topic: The ex Husband
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Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 09:11 PM
  
Some of you, know what happen with me and my ex.. Idk Im thinking about everything... No way Im going back, but just thinking about everything... Tell me what you think of our synastry. For the record we were together 11 years.. He doesnt want to let go.. He still calls me everyday to tell me he loves me.. But I just cant go back...
I wish he could move on... I really want him to.. He just cant accept everything that has happened...  
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raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 2217
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 09:13 PM
Your Chiron conjunct his Moon badly aspected shows how you hurt him. Chiron wound is deep.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 09:16 PM
I didnt hurt him... The separation was because of his actions, and I wont forgive them or let them go... IP: Logged |
raspberri
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From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 09:17 PM
You're honestly saying you caused him no pain?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 09:22 PM
His actions is what caused the separation.. Yeah I guess he's hurting bc I walked away... but I told him I would... He didnt want to believe me, so he continued.... Ive done everything I could... I have nothing else to give... He wants me to save him, but I cant... IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Newflake Posts: 5
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:29 PM
Just because lioness left him doesn't mean she's NOT hurt. Sometimes a person needs to do what's best for them. Obviously his actions hurt her enough for her to leave. He did not respect her feelings and continued with his actions...Stay strong lionessIP: Logged |
raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 2217
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:32 PM
I know that Chiron pain, and I feel bad for the guy.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:38 PM
I don't like the Neptune placements or the aspects to the composite sun and mercury.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:38 PM
I understand raspberri, but he caused everything... I did everything I could.. But it comes to a point when you just cant take anymore... I got to that point...... I stayed with him through thick and thin.. but I just cant deal with the last thing... I tried... He hurt himself, he knew the consequences of his actions.
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Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:40 PM
Wait... Raspberri... your totally blaming me, when you dont know what happen... lol... Trust me if you knew, you probably would have walked away also... IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:40 PM
He has a packed 12th house... difficult placements for those planets in his chart in Virgo.IP: Logged |
raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 2217
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:41 PM
No I'm not blaming you. I'm just saying that his pain is deep whether you know it or not. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 15, 2010 10:44 PM
I admit he has had a tough life... Ironically he has 3 kids and when all 3 kids turned 6 "something" happened and took each of his kids out of his life.. Even this happen when our son was 6... He does see him, but mostly only during summer vacations... My son spends the summer with his dad.. So he see's him two months a year.. Give or take... My son will be with him though for 2 weeks during xmas vacation.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:46 PM
quote:
Originally posted by raspberri:
No I'm not blaming you. I'm just saying that his pain is deep whether you know it or not.
Im with ya... He's hurting but really not because of me.. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:46 PM
I don't think you two could have a trusting relationship together, honestly... just from those Neptune placements...I think the relationship would always be confusing and on shakey ground. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:49 PM
quote:
Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
I don't think you two could have a trusting relationship together, honestly... just from those Neptune placements...I think the relationship would always be confusing and on shakey ground.
You know we did trust each other... I dont think he ever cheated on me, and I never cheated on him...
But the BIG problem was not being able to confide and talk to each other.. Maybe thats where the trust issues came in...
We did give each other a lot of space to come and go... IP: Logged |
raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 2217
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:49 PM
Venus is also trine Neptune.IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:51 PM
Meh. So it's romantic? /shrugIP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:55 PM
It looks like Pluto is square Ascendant within 3 degrees?That is another downer... IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:55 PM
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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
Meh. So it's romantic? /shrug
You know I cant remember any romance.. We were pretty boring... lol... He wouldnt even watch TV with me..
He would only watch Married with Children and Andy Griffin.. lol... If we were out, we had to rush it home so he wouldnt miss it...
I use to say I bet its a rerun... lol IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:56 PM
Lioness,What made you decide to marry him? IP: Logged |
raspberri
Knowflake Posts: 2217
From: venus
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 10:57 PM
LMAO. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 11:02 PM
Welllll...... Ooooooo.... Well after Gem (yes the same gem) broke my heart, he was there to pick up the pices... He use to tell me to dump gem and be with him.. and I was like NOOOOOO.... Then after gem he was doing things for me, and always by my side.. IDK I fell for that... Feeling the emotional security.. When he first asked me to marry him, I said no.. but I felt really bad and I didnt want to loose him either.. So I did... I know the wrong reasons.. BUT this is part of what I am discovering now.. I didnt know that then... I guess I was confused.. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 11:04 PM
Even with the wide orbs, I think what did the relationship in was the Pluto conjunct MC and square the Moon conjunct DC, and Ascendant...This relationship was meant to like change the course of your lives, ultimately... And, also like self-destruct. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Moderator Posts: 2076
From: Mars
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 15, 2010 11:05 PM
Well, don't make the same mistake twice. That would be my best non-astrological advice.Reconcile with him if he's truly what you want, but like Raspberri mentioned, tread carefully, because if you're wrong about your feelings, then you could possibly deeply hurt him. IP: Logged |
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