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posted January 03, 2011 08:52 AM            

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After 20 minutes I get angry and I'm like.. seriously get off now or put it away.

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Mochai, you are perfect! It would only take me like 2 minutes.

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posted January 03, 2011 08:57 AM            

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Originally posted by mochai:

I think my moon in taurus offsets the unpredictability of mars in aqua. I do however get upset if the sex takes too long with most people. I get bored and then think I could be doing something else. This later contributes to me breaking up with them. I was with a mars aqua sun in aries and we had it shortly but often and I loved that. After 20 minutes I get angry and I'm like.. seriously get off now or put it away.

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made my day.
You know it's kind of insulting though, don't you think? Like why is it taking you that long? Am I not turning you on enough? Then depending on your sun you'd react accordingly.
(Leo) would flip their hair do a 180 and say "I'm out of here, I can do better than you and I will."
(Aqu or Sag) would say "Did you know there are 15 cracks in the ceiling? They look like hair-line fractures, some are split ends."
Scorpio would plan for revenge.
Pisces/Cancer would try to figure out what they can do better, before giving up in a fit of tears.

Mars in Aries is impulsive. All the fire signs are impulsive. Aries at the forefront (because they have to be of course).

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posted January 03, 2011 09:24 AM            

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Oh YES For Cancer Mars

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posted January 03, 2011 10:00 AM            

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were you ever a prostitute?

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lol, nope. i was looking into working as a dominatrix though. it didn't work out. not interested anymore now. i'm really not interested in anything sexual. happy to be boring. i think it's just a phase and i'll be normal again though.

littlecloud, that's funny, my partner has the same placement. i wrote in another thread (i think Venus 8th thread?) that he surprised me kinda the same way as yours!

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posted January 03, 2011 10:17 AM            

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Mochai, you are perfect! It would only take me like 2 minutes.

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I can get off quickly so 5 minute sex is perfect! I can get back to my books faster that way!

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posted January 03, 2011 10:32 AM            

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I wanna hear some more Mars in Scorpio stories too! Mostly because I have it, but have issues understanding it because mine is in the 7th so I tend to project it.

To be super specific- mine is at 0 Scorpio, which I've been told is an extremely strong point. It's also my chart ruler. It's exactly quincunx my ASC though, and NN. It's in a wide conjunction to Pluto as well.

In terms of how I go about things it's pretty clear to me- I'm pretty stealth, haha. When I want something I don't really make it known, I investigate a ton before I make even the slightest move. And I do get VERY fixated and stubborn. Nothing can change my mind if I want something. It's pretty obsessive which sometimes I'm embarrassed about, but I'm learning to just go with it instead of denying it because then that energy tends to go inward and I start to tear myself apart and feel like I'm going crazy. Sexually, I put a lot of pressure on myself. I am super guarded, can go a long time without sex, mostly because when I do let loose it's pretty intense and I feel very vulnerable in that position. I've had a few partners that love this and some that are very uncomfortable with it. First bf- an Aries with Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aqua- not into it at all, I could tell I made him super uncomfortable. Second bf- Gemini with a Cancer Venus and Pisces Mars (mind you both making exact trines to my Mars)- LOVED IT. That was the first time, and actually the last time since, that I felt safe to go all out with that energy and like it was being received in the way I would hope it would be. I felt like I could really lose myself with him, and I think that's the heart of Scorpio and why they're so guarded- we want total ego loss from sex. Especially because we're so controlled and controlling about everything, sex is kind of the one place to let go completely. I've never been into bondage or anything, I hear that's a big Scorpio turn on, maybe I will be in the future, but I can kind of see the appeal in that sense. Mostly it's a little too intricate for my Sag Venus though, haha. BUT, I do feel like there's a little bit of a cliche about Scorps and sex- that it's a fixation and super perverse. Maybe it's my 7th house "disowning" that energy, haha, but I feel like Scoprios are really sensitive, maybe too much so. I feel like I tend to zero in on others' feelings and motives and always try to be as responsive as possible to this. If anything, all my actions, are motivated by others' feelings.

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posted January 03, 2011 01:52 PM            

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staborgi, wow, that's the best description of mars in scopio i've ever read!! super secretive, obsessive yet vulnerable. the guy that I know (sun/mars scorpio) didn't have sex for more than a year, although he's gorgeous and he had plenty of occasions and when we got together it was almost scary, so intense and so emotional, and sooooo goooood...for me, mars in scorpio is the best placement if you want to experiment a body-mind-soul connection

my mars is in virgo, conjunct venus 1 degree in the 5h (yes, I do party alot and love passionately ) so i guess I rather feel the fifth house energy. however, even if i am always ready for action, I can easily control myself if needed and plan like a proper virgo the next steps.
and sex...hmm...not sure if mars sets the tone in my chart, even cj with venus, cause i have an exact sun-pluto cj, so u can imagine, lol, why i like so much the mars scorpio guy )

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posted January 03, 2011 02:52 PM            

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Mars in Aries here conjunct N.N in the 12th. I always felt like I had warrior tendencies. I am very independent, strong willed, passionate..Takes alot for me to compete but once I do I don't back down easily. I do have a temper if provoked alot.I also find that I do tend to exhibit a balance of masculine/female energies(Venus trine Mars).

EDIT:As far as the typical impulsive factor that goes with Fire signs especially when it comes to Aries..I could not be more the opposite of this. I put alot of thought and care into my actions so I do not only end up with regret.
I do have alot of fire in my chart but I think it comes out different due to house placements (water houses).

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'I don't know any girl as self-sufficent and comfortable with being single, like myself.'

One here! who is very comfortable lol

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posted January 03, 2011 03:07 PM            

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Staborgi-
Impressive. I definitely understand this placement better now.
The guy I mentioned also has a tight venus/uranus square which I understand a bit more deeply thanks to you . It's just as I thought from the beginning. He firstly came off a bit shy. However, shy didn't seem to be the right word. Then I realized he's just really cautious about who he gives his heart to. I think I mirror many of his aspects/placements which helps me understand him better. I just don't know how to act with him....

Lechien, maybe you could help me out?

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posted January 03, 2011 03:46 PM            

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So I'm chasing a guy with his mars in Aries (well somewhat chasing, he's either there fullforce or i turn around and he's gone) and my mars is in sagittarius. I'm getting very irritated with the fact it's not going fast enough, who do you think will win? me or him?
aries vs. sagittarius mars...what will happen?

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posted January 03, 2011 03:50 PM            

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From what I've experienced mars in Aries men like the chase and like feminine women. If you can somehow make him feel like he's always chasing you, you'll probably have him hooked.

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posted January 03, 2011 03:54 PM            

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littlecloud, could i?

is there something wrong? it took a loooooong time to really understand my partner. he's a really confusing guy. never met anyone like this. is your guy weird too?

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posted January 03, 2011 04:12 PM            

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*sigh* I'll try to let him chase me, it's just I love the chase as well.....also it makes me worried that he wont chase me and he'll just move onto the next pretty woman.
Should I encourage him, flirt, ignore him, what? My mars makes me want to phsyically jump on him whenever I seee him, or at the very least play with his hair. I HATE waiting...

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posted January 03, 2011 04:42 PM            

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cute I like it. Ok so where is his venus? Does it aspect Mars? Generally Mars in Aries like spontaneity. So maybe you should jump on him when you see him. He'll want to know that you are into him but at the same time don't be too available. Let your Sag mars guide you. They have similar energies. You both like to be with someone you can have fun with and joke around, someone to laugh with. Yes let him chase you too. Think of it as tag. Frustrating but fun.

Lechien- No nothing is wrong per say. I mean he gave me the "I don't want a relationship" speech, which is cool. I appreciate his honesty. I just don't know how to act with him. I like his company, I like hanging out with him but I don't know how to convey all that without making it seem like I'm pressuring for a relationship. He seems so aloof on the surface but I can tell that there is more beneath all that, which is what attracts me. How did you snag your guy?

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posted January 03, 2011 05:04 PM            

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oww, *that*.

well it took a long time for us to settle. in short, he was still in love with his "love of his life" ex, too confused, and thus confusing to me too. i have no idea how your guy will do according to his aspects, but astrology aside, in retrospect generally, you should run away now!!

in our case we both mutually felt that we are something like soulmates from the start, although he was too confused to know what to do for a while, so it was worth the pain and waiting. otherwise it's a waste of time! i've heard so many of these "i don't want a relationship" stories. i think for Virgo, there is never the "perfect" and if he doesn't feel it it might take a while to "convince" him... and it can be the duration of the life time, really.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:06 PM            

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Mars in Scorpio in 8th house.

I only really open up to a few people,I'm friendly but hard to get to know.

I'm quiet and peaceful but don't make me angry or you'll regret it. We never forgive or really forget and we will ultimately have revenge.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:14 PM            

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Mars In Pisces here
I have a lot of energy and drive to get my goals done being a Cap Sun and,but my expectations and outlook are usually crushed,because the world doesn't quite meet my ideas..I find myself giving up almost on an instant because the world just seems too cruel or ugly.I have such high expectations for everything,and Spend more time in daydreams and fantasy's of things that could never be.When things don't meet my level or expectations I get depressed.But always rebound.

Romantically..I tend to float between romantic soft gestures and a Fiery Scorpio in Venus that makes me want to posses and please my partner in all sorts of ways.

Sun Cap Leo Asc
Moon Aries
Venus Scorpio
Mars Pisces

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posted January 03, 2011 05:20 PM            

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Lechien- Well I can relate to that. My moon conjuncts his sun. I'm not looking for a relationship myself. Just a friend at the very heart of it all. But I'm a rather intense person all around, even in friendships. I just don't want him getting all confused and feeling pressured from me.
This time hearing "I don't want a relationship" was a relief because I'm not ready for one. I just moved and got out of the worst relationship I've ever been in. My ex made me feel bad for being unsure about what I wanted, pushed me into being in a relationship and it was one of the worst experiences of my life. So I'm all about taking it easy.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:20 PM            

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posted January 03, 2011 05:42 PM            

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littlecloud, aw then i'd say just have fun!! it sounds ideal to you and maybe over time you both develop something, or go separate ways without the pain in the butt.

i really don't know if it has anything to do with Mars in Scorp or Virgo Sun (mine has a Virgo Stellium also), but it could be both, judging from some of the Mars Scorp people's comments about opening up, i find that the big no-no is to be invasive. they need their private sphere undisturbed and it takes a long time or special people for them to "include" others in their private life. they really prefer if you have your own life and are "separate". when they are "ready", they want you to stop being "separate" and want you to come into their life. (isn't that unfair?)

in my case what made it worse was that he was elusive and it made me curious. i'm a heavy Sagittarius, i NEEDED to know what was going on! i needed yes or no, so that either i could go away or stay. the pushiness to "know" nonetheless registered to him as pressure. how frustrating.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:51 PM            

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cool thanks I'll keep that in mind. Yes it is totally unfair. Scorpio like to know everything about another person but doesn't like to share. Poo! (although I do relate to that. I often open up to people after they open up to me) I have the same curiosity bug. In that case I'll just be honest and up front.

"I'm sorry but I can't have sex with you until I know your birth time"

Sounds about right huh?
Just joking.

Thanks for the advice though. I will definitely keep that in mind. I think he has a Libra stellium, 3 planets in Libra. But I forget if 3 qualifies...

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posted January 03, 2011 06:19 PM            

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i think you need to have 5 planets to call it a Stellium (anyone correct me?). anyway he's Libra-y then. i don't know Libras too much, i knew/know a few and they all have... weird quirks. but maybe he appreciates your being open, as long as you are not pushing the info onto him? good luck and have fun ~~~

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posted January 03, 2011 07:14 PM            

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Just looked it up. 3 or more planets (4 to be very significant) all within 5 degrees of each other.

Despite the 3 planets in Libra, he's got 3 earthy planets (sun, venus, moon) 2 water, 2 fire, which I think balances out the Libra. I don't know why, but I find myself very attracted to these chart types.

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posted January 03, 2011 08:08 PM            

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@littlecloud
his venus is in sagittarius, mars in aries, sun and moon in aquarius - he's one interesting dude.

me: aquarius sun, virgo/libra cusp moon, pisces venus sagittarius mars
our charts exactly the same otherwise except i don't know his ascendant, and his jupiter's in pisces and mine is in aries.

i'm starting to become better friends with his friends, but he has yet to join us to hang out - i'm starting to worry that he's already seeing someone else. i've been interested in him since i met him but he's been dating off and on since then. this last month or two is the first time i think i've ever seen him single.

p.s. he really has the best hair in the world hahaha, i've always had a thing for curly mops of hair and i'm dying to run my fingers through it.

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posted January 03, 2011 10:23 PM            

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I actually started a thread about the two of us earlier so you can check it out if you want.

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