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Lioness
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posted January 03, 2011 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I described it this way on another thread.
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Well in Synastry we have a both way Moon Sextile Pluto and in the Composite we have the Moon conjunct Pluto..
So we have Moon/Pluto 3 ways.. I think the composite intensifies the synastry's sextile.. I feel it very deeply and to the core...
I feel he HAS HAS HAS to be in my life.. That I cant be with out him, yet at the same time, Im not afraid of loosing him, bc I know he will just always be there.. If that makes any sense at all..
If one of us does pulls away from the other, THEN the fear comes to the front, and you start to worry, did I do something, what happen, you will do just about anything to get that reassurance, that the other person is still there.. Once the other person acknowledges yes Im still here, then every thing is better.. Like a sigh of relief. Until the "other" person than pulls away, then that person will do anything to get that reassurance.
It seems like its a never ending cycle that you cant get away from.. This is absolutely the hardest time I have had to pull away from some one..
What makes it worse, we stopped seeing each other over a year ago, but cant break the bond... One one feels like we are loosing the other,its a literal hell.

We stopped talking once, for 3 months, I have never in my life been so miserable.. Not even when I split with the ex of over 10 years...
This was just a short fling... lol
Shrug its a complete and total mess...

I finally stopped trying to escape and accepted its better to have him, in my life verses being miserable...
But at the same time I desperately want to pull away, and get this out of my system..

It seems to be an impossible task.

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As I said before I feel this Moon/Pluto very deeply and to the core... I have experienced the trine before but not the Conjunction, and not in a composite.. Ive really had to sit a face some things here..
ITs very odd.. BUTTTT

I THINK I GOT IT!!

I think I now know, why it has affected me so deeply and to the core of me...

Synastry
Both way's Moon sextile Pluto

Composite
Moon conjunct Pluto.

My Draconic Pluto conjuncts his Natal Moon
His Natal Pluto conjuncts my Draconic Moon

My DR Moon/Pluto midpoint conjuncts his Natal Moon/pluto midpoint.
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Ok so why so much moon/Pluto.. What does it all mean?
What does Pluto want from me???

I wonder what the reasoning is for all this moon/pluto?
It seems to be both ways, but I have read that the female feels the moon/pluto more..
But I know he feels it..

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Ami Anne
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posted January 03, 2011 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check out the thread about Venus conjunct the MC in synastry,Lioness.
We discussed Moon/Pluto in synastry,there.
That got me thinking some more about it,though.
I think what we term "love" is Venus/Mars or Venus/Pluto love.
Moon/Pluto love is very different though,I think.
The Moon represents the mother.Maternal love is a unique love.
You have children,Lioness, so you have experienced it.
It is the most intimate love there is,I think.
You carry the baby in your body and breastfeed,if you do.
The baby is as much a part of your body and soul as any human will ever be.
For all the days of the child's life,you can enter in to his space as no other person can.
Moon/Pluto feels child like,I would say.
It is not the nightclub love of beautiful people.
It is the love of curling up on a sofa.
Maybe,one has a cold.Maybe,one looks terrible or feels terrible but you love him ,anyway,cuz the love is more than romantic.
It is soulful.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 03, 2011 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lioness,i think i saw this thread coming
I had moon sq pluto,me the moon,and it was the most all consuming/tearing platonic relationship i ever had. I always will remember him. And i am sure he cherish memory of me.

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posted January 03, 2011 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Pluto opposite Moon synastry?
I am the Moon
Is it still bonding aspect?
is it so bad as other sites claim to be?

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posted January 03, 2011 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
What about Pluto opposite Moon?
I am the Moon
Is it still bonding aspect?

Yest conjunction, and opposites and squares are siminlar.
Its very bonding...

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posted January 03, 2011 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
What about Pluto opposite Moon?
I am the Moon
Is it still bonding aspect?

Yes,even slightly easier to handle

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posted January 03, 2011 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Lioness,i think i saw this thread coming
I had moon sq pluto,me the moon,and it was the most all consuming/tearing platonic relationship i ever had. I always will remember him. And i am sure he cherish memory of me.

You broke away??? Was that hard?

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posted January 03, 2011 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

quote:
Originally posted by Maka:
I have Moon trine Pluto,they have Moon conjuct Pluto

In synastry there is a Moon/Pluto Double Whammy

In the composite Moon conjuct Pluto

We both have water moons which intensifies the aspects more and our moons are both in the 3rd house.


It's hell to get away from this person..

I remember one day telling this person I just didn't want to "feel" anything anymore and the person said "I can't accept that and I am sorry I feel the way I do for you, but I do.."

We distance ourselves the longest was 4 months of hell, we saw different people and I was in one of my deepest depressions to date (Pluto transiting my 12th house at the time).

Then the person came back, they always do I chalk it up to the fact they have a Scorpio Moon and probably feel comfortable in these Moon/Pluto aspects.

And in that time (we've known eachother for 4 years; sometimes we loose count, because we felt we've known eachother longer than that) we consumated, because time just "felt" right if you know what I mean and I didn't feel obligated to do so, because I was with the person...I WANTED to deep down and I knew this person felt the same way

Now here we are, together again.



Ahhh... A good story..

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posted January 03, 2011 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmmm
I do not like this aspect.
i feel overwhelmed and somewhat control by the Pluto. Or may be I am just projecting.
Venus why did u get away? too overwhelming?
too platonic

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posted January 03, 2011 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm...I have Moon conjunct Pluto natally.

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posted January 03, 2011 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never break away really,or stop loving someone. I just move on. Next stage,transformed by love,new challenges,new hunger... I never had desire pick up the phone or sth... Maybe i am decieved by the idea of fated relationships?

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posted January 03, 2011 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus, spoken like a true Aqua, do you have any heavy Aqua influence in a chart?

I have Moon opposite Pluto in synastry 4 degree. Is it too far away? or you would consider this aspect ONLY with closer degree?

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posted January 03, 2011 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
hmmm
I do not like this aspect.
i feel overwhelmed and somewhat control by the Pluto. Or may be I am just projecting.
Venus why did u get away? too overwhelming?
too platonic

It was consumated by only one kiss. At the time i thought that tongue was THE organ of the body
Yes,pluto is stronger... But u r addicted

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posted January 03, 2011 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Venus, spoken like a true Aqua, do you have any heavy Aqua influence in a chart?

Adore aqua energy. Only in sidreal,sun conjunct moon,5th degree
I have 11th H sun,though very well aspected

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posted January 03, 2011 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Addicted to Pluto? or Pluto addicted to MOON?

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posted January 03, 2011 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AG
Can you describe what Moon conjunct Pluto feels like,natally.
You know my annoying Gemini

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posted January 03, 2011 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Maybe Moon-Pluto couples are learning lessons about letting go of each other


Pluto is also the planet of elimination, throwing away the trash,getting rid of what's no longer useful

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posted January 03, 2011 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Addicted to Pluto? or Pluto addicted to MOON?

Moon addicted to pluto. I think 4 degree could work,with luminaries anything is possible.
Glaucus,great remark!!!!

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posted January 03, 2011 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No ,Raymond
We ,woman ,are gonna hold on to our Moon/Pluto's like a pair of designer shoes in a bargain basement

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posted January 03, 2011 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Still_Hopeful     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glaucus
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Don't you think Pluto has a harder time to let go? To give up control, rather than moon?

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posted January 03, 2011 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 03, 2011 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 03, 2011 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yea I agree I think it's Moon addicted to Pluto. I have the square natally, and when someone's Moon goes to conjunct mine you wouldn't believe all the needs and feelings that come up in them directed to me. Then I become the mother/lover.

It really is like touching some basement part of them, that they had no idea existed so strongly, because not only are they getting Moon conj Moon (which is strong in itself), but they're getting the hard aspect from Pluto as well. They become very vulnerable.

And the vulnerability is sooo attractive cos it's coming from a Capricorn Moon man, who typically seems not eager to reveal himself, but they do to me, it's the sweetest thing.

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posted January 03, 2011 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto likes its moon certain way:completely bewitched,depending... When moon breaks away,or tries to,i think it would also meaning breakng the pluto's spell.

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