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Topic: South Node in Synastry
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scropiojunkie85
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 04, 2011 04:50 PM
  
I have no idea why I can't seem to get this person out of my life for the last 6 years. I kept ignoring him for years although I had always been very attracted but he was relentless. The physical attraction is insane and we oscillate between being really great friends or end up in a wild love affair. Is there any indication that we will ever end up in an actual relationship? I don't know much about astrology but I am finding it very interesting and from what I read north node/south node contacts seem to be very important. And also if you take a look at the chart is that a grand trine? Here are some aspects:
His sun is opposite my north node, chiron, asc and falls in my 7st house. His sun is conjuct my saturn in my 7th house. And His sun is trine my moon, venus and mars which fall into his 2nd house.
His moon and jupiter falls into my 5th house. My sun is square his venus and is in opposition to my moon. His sun falls into my 1st house. His north node is in opposition to my moon, venus and mars... Do I like him more than he likes me?  IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted January 04, 2011 06:28 PM
I have that same aspect with someone.. who I can't stop thinking about. Both my Mars and Venus conjunct his South Node... and we definitely knew each other in past lives. Since your moon is there as well, I'd say you definitely have had many, many relationships with this man over the life times. It's no wonder you guys can't decide if you're coming or going. Also, your moon conjuncts his south node, as well. That is supposed to indicate you were his mother before. I don't know if I would necessarily be that literal about this placement.IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 04, 2011 07:35 PM
Thank you so much for the reply. It's the craziest relationship, do u know anything about grand trines? I have to figure this out. It's the weirdest feeling, I just know he is always going to be there and I am super confortable but at the same time ALWAYS anxious and nervous around him. I feel like I have a super-crush since the day I met him and it hasn't at all lost its intensity. He is always yelling at me and then looking for my approval... Smh Any other insight that anyone can give me?IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted January 04, 2011 08:26 PM
Weird. I noticed.. You and I are about the same age (25 years) and we're both Aquarius, and it looks like this dude you're talking about is probably in her early thirties, right? Same age as the guy I am all hung up on. My venus and mars conjunct his south node with an orb of like 2 degrees, my pluto opposes his moon, and his pluto opposes my venus and mars (obsession!!! see, i can't help it.)The energy I feel around him is soooo similar to what you described. I am BESIDE MYSELF in his presence. My gosh darn mind won't go strait! I feel like I'm 3 years old again. It's terrible, and I make a gosh darn fool of myself whenever he is around. He's kinda mean, as well... but then we talk and he's kind.... and we connect, deeply. We usually are about to say the same thing, we both think the same thoughts.. it's just weird. IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 04, 2011 08:56 PM
Hahahaha.... wow yes. I am 26 he is 32 and since the first day we met its been a rollercoaster ride. It just seems like he is scared of me and he is also super nervous around me. We always end up in some physical situation because thats the only time we can be normal around each other. We both connect very deeply and we end up spending alot of time together listening to music. Music plays a huge role in our relationship. We also live of opposite coasts of the country but some how we manage to stay very much connected... I'm dumbfounded. I have been in a semi-platonic affair with this man since I was 19... It's nice to know that u have a similiar problem/situation. IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted January 04, 2011 09:07 PM
Well, it's not exactly the same.He is neurotic (or so he says) and doesn't want anyone close to him.. Either that, or he just doesn't dig me. But we recently started talking again on Facebook, and the conversation has been just as startlingly in-sync as it was. I WISH it was some topsy turvy love affair... instead of this weird, cold, distant correspondence. I love this man, even with all his flaws (I even love his flaws), but I am afraid he just thinks the worst of me, so I am just trying to not think about him and accept the fact he won't ever really be in my life. IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Jan 2011
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posted January 04, 2011 09:20 PM
It doesn't sound like thats going to be easy. From my experience, I tried getting rid of this guy. Fate (if I can use that word, not sure what I believe in anymore) keeps bring us together in unexpected ways. It's definitely not normal. Our problem is that when he is single, I am not. And when I am single he is not. I was single for sometime 3 years ago while he was on a "break" from his relationship and well round 1 of our crazy affair started (but that was 3 years after he waited out my previous relationship), I got scared of the instensityand I stopped talking to him. I ended up in another relationship and we ran into each other and have been friends since (we can never be just friends even when we try). But as of recently I became single and he has talked to me everyday for more that 1/2 a year now. EVERYDAY. But he is NOT single and in a relationship that we both know he doesn't want to be in. I have no idea why this is. I have a feeling I just need to wait this out but for some reason I really scare him. I am convinced. :/ I was hoping our chart could explain some of this to me because I don't know how to make him comfortable. IP: Logged |
scropiojunkie85
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
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posted January 04, 2011 09:25 PM
Oh yeah and something I forgot to add, our relationship seems to come back to the center of my life when I'm about to start a new phase in my life. Just when I need someone to hold my hand he is there. I just don't get it. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 04, 2011 09:27 PM
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Originally posted by scropiojunkie85:
It doesn't sound like thats going to be easy. From my experience, I tried getting rid of this guy. Fate (if I can use that word, not sure what I believe in anymore) keeps bring us together in unexpected ways. It's definitely not normal. Our problem is that when he is single, I am not. And when I am single he is not. I was single for sometime 3 years ago while he was on a "break" from his relationship and well round 1 of our crazy affair started (but that was 3 years after he waited out my previous relationship), I got scared of the instensityand I stopped talking to him. I ended up in another relationship and we ran into each other and have been friends since (we can never be just friends even when we try). But as of recently I became single and he has talked to me everyday for more that 1/2 a year now. EVERYDAY. But he is NOT single and in a relationship that we both know he doesn't want to be in. I have no idea why this is. I have a feeling I just need to wait this out but for some reason I really scare him. I am convinced. :/ I was hoping our chart could explain some of this to me because I don't know how to make him comfortable.
I had the same thing with Gem.. We were never single at the same time.. But we longed for each other, for years and even looked for each other.. After a 10 year separation,we re connected during venus rx.. both of us being single for the first time since we met.....
But it wasnt the same, I think we both feel its best to leave it in the past... But at the same time we still talk and "sometimes" go out.. lol His Mercury/Venus is on my SN in my 5th..
My Saturn/Venus is on his SN. My leo Stellium, sun moon mercury is in his 5th.. It was a great love affair, back in the day though.... I fell head over heals for him.. I had his pictures in my desk at work for 12 years.. Well still do 
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scropiojunkie85
Newflake Posts: 6
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
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posted January 04, 2011 09:39 PM
Isn't the 5th house usually the house that denotes some type of love affair? I keep calling our relationship an affair but its not really that, its something else. I was always the hesitant one and I didn't really know what to do with him at first but he is still in my life. He made sure of it. He is more important than just an affair, and the problem when we were both single was ME. So I figure I can't really move on until I resolve this issue which means I'll have to stay single until he figures out what he wants to do.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 05, 2011 01:37 AM
No, there isn't a grand trine in the synastry.
There is however heavy SN contact which gives a feeling of familiarity (as if it's a Moon/family connection), typically the SN person has something to teach the planet person (look at the planets conj the SN to see what).IP: Logged |
maira
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posted January 05, 2011 06:54 AM
Lonake, I read somewhere that it is the SN person that "owes" something to the planet person, but I'm beginning to doubt it. Could you elaborate on this? Isn't the SN something we already master? What's there to learn about the energy? (I have a lot of people in my life who have planets conjuncting my SN, that's why I'm asking). Thank you!IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful
Knowflake Posts: 112
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 05, 2011 11:13 AM
Maira,
I have opposite information Planet person "own" something to a SN person.
Someinformation from this site
"In synastry Node-Saturn conjunctions lean toward the Node person learning and growing a lot from the relationship with the Saturn person actign as teacher, role model or guide in this growth. If this is a romantic relationship, the relationships tends to last only as long as the Node person needs to learn (or shorter, if other aspects are adverse, and the lessons are learned in retrospection). Once the Node person learns the needed lesson, the relationships tends to naturally ends because it has served its karmic purpose, and each partner needs to move on.""South node conjunct Saturn between charts: Indicates very strong ties to the past and or will play out relationships from the past that may have felt safe and very secure but required new energy to allow growth. An excellent source of learning for the south node person who can find a sense of safety within the saturnian relationship to examine where growth and movement needs to be embraced in their lives." IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 05, 2011 10:35 PM
When I met this guy it was the hour of my SR.. It was girls night for my birthday. I was at a club dancing on stage (lol) he walked in.. We saw each other as soon as he walked in, we locked eyes... We both watched each other the entire night.. Neither making any type of contact except eye contact.. (we told each other this later) Near the end of the night, one of his friends approached me and said Lioness is that you???
OMG I knew one of his friends... lol.. I asked him who"s your friend.. So he introduced us... We went out side and talk for the rest of the night.. He followed me home, and we talked on the porch until 8am..
Come to find out we went to two of the same schools, and live 5 mins from each other.. It was very very fated!! Still is... When we reconnected during the last venus rx.. He had looked for me, I have looked for him.. (he went to my old job)
This is that one guy that broke my lil leo heart and messed me up for other men... Now Im like what ever... lol... But we still talk and do get together sometimes.. but I do feel that its best not to, but its really hard not to... IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 06, 2011 03:08 PM
Lioness, I hear you
"You are damned if you do , you are damned if you don'tHowever, there is some kind of calmness, unconsious understanding of SN connection with another person.
"Don't go there" lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 06, 2011 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Lioness, I hear you
"You are damned if you do , you are damned if you don'tHowever, there is some kind of calmness, unconsious understanding of SN connection with another person.
"Don't go there" lol
Yeap... If only he would show his Aries Mars... lol... But I guess were past that, he shows me his pisces moon..
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Still_Hopeful
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posted January 06, 2011 03:24 PM
Mars in Aries lol
I have one... Unfortunately I also have moon in Aries. shiiish.... talking about temper BTW: if he is in need of extra Aries mars I woooooould be sooooooooo happy to share it
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Lioness
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posted January 06, 2011 03:42 PM
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Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Mars in Aries lol
I have one... Unfortunately I also have moon in Aries. shiiish.... talking about temper BTW: if he is in need of extra Aries mars I woooooould be sooooooooo happy to share it
YES please.. I cant take this cancer composite... He's so freakin passive with me, its driving me nuts...
He sure does talk the Aries talk I have yet to see it... Can he download your Aries Mars.. Do I need to buy a USB cable????? lol
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Still_Hopeful
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posted January 06, 2011 04:00 PM
USB will work However!!!!!!! Interesting enough
I don't have good history with cancers as well (sun cancer)
However, Love of my life was Cancer ascending.
I loved him so much and I broke up with him.
why? He was/is somewhat passive to my liking.
He was not fast or "agressive" enough for me.LOL
I regreted my action for a long time. What can I do now? just move on.
However we did not share any Nodal aspects. But our axes (IC/MC) had some heavy aspects.With the father of my baby who is ... OMG (he is cancer asc) we share some neavy Nodal aspects. (My SN conh his Moon and Saturn)
His NN conj my Pluto and MC
his SN conj my IC. It was great sense of familiarity in the beginning and I would even say big attraction. However the person can hold you back and restrict ur freedom. well at least it is true in my personal experience. BTW I am SN person IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 06, 2011 08:48 PM
You know, when every I am around cancer placement people... I get attached to them, but after so long.. I just love them to death I just have to get away.. I really start getting annoyed.... I dont end the friendship, but at times I really need to keep my distance.Which really kinda sux since my venus and 5th cusp is in cancer... Boy did nature really mess with me here... lol IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful
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posted January 06, 2011 09:32 PM
LOL the nature "messed" with all of us.
I for example do not have ANY cancer placement. Not even damn asteroids in cancer What is ur SN connections with the guy? IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 06, 2011 09:33 PM
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Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
LOL the nature "messed" with all of us.
I for example do not have ANY cancer placement. Not even damn asteroids in cancer What is ur SN connections with the guy?
Which one Pisces or Gem... lol... dont ask...
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Still_Hopeful
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posted January 06, 2011 09:41 PM
both
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Lioness
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posted January 06, 2011 09:59 PM
Ok with Pisces
My SN to him
SNd (Can 26°00') - Moo (Sag 01°29'): trine (120°00') orb: 5°28'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Ven (Cap 16°34'): opposition (180°00') orb: 9°26'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Jup (Leo 00°48'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 4°47'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Ura (Sco 21°00'): trine (120°00') orb: 5°01'Pisces SN to Me
SNd (Pis 17°35') - Sat (Gem 18°02'): square (90°00') orb: 0°28'
SNd (Pis 17°35') - Cer (Vir 20°14'): opposition (180°00') orb: 2°39'
SNd (Pis 17°35') - BMo (Sco 18°42'): trine (120°00') orb: 1°07'
=========================================== With Gem
My SN to him
SNd (Can 26°00') - Mer (Can 24°53'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 1°07'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Ven (Can 19°00'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 7°00'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Mar (Ari 00°19'): trine (120°00') orb: 4°19'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Plu (Lib 01°42'): sextile (60°00') orb: 5°42'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Chi (Ari 20°26'): square (90°00') orb: 5°34'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Pal (Lib 27°02'): square (90°00') orb: 1°02'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Ves (Can 18°04'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 7°57' His SN to Me SNd (Can 07°40') - Ven (Can 02°17'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 5°23'
SNd (Can 07°40') - Jup (Sag 28°54'): opposition (180°00') orb: 8°46'
Gem is the one I wrote about earlier
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Still_Hopeful
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posted January 06, 2011 10:04 PM
OMG!!!With Gem
My SN to him
SNd (Can 26°00') - Mer (Can 24°53'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 1°07'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Ven (Can 19°00'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 7°00'
SNd (Can 26°00') - Ves (Can 18°04'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 7°57' His SN to Me SNd (Can 07°40') - Ven (Can 02°17'): conjunction (0°00') orb: 5°23'
SNd (Can 07°40') - Jup (Sag 28°54'): opposition (180°00') orb: 8°46'
Thats heavy!
Def. past life connection
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