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Topic: UGH tired of cancer guy
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Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 22, 2011 11:05 AM
Watery people can send unreadable, vague signals by text, email, IM, even phone for YEARS, even when directly confronted with something like "make a move already." Don't do ANYTHING by electronic communication...everything needs to be physical and in-person.You can either just move on, or, the next time you're alone together, you can make some subtle physical moves towards him. Or even unsubtle physical moves. Touch him more, stand closer, RELAX and let yourself feel the attraction and chemistry between you, kiss him if you feel like it. It sounds like you might be so wrapped up in "wanting him to make a move" that you're overanalyzing his behavior, trying to manipulate or confront or just communicate with him by text to get an answer....and all of that keeps you from having a relaxed vibe in the present moment and FEELING what really is or isn't happening between you. Cancers are all about the in-person vibe, if you do things by text the mixed messages can go on for YEARS, sometimes even after you've been intimate. Spend as much time with him as possible, let your feelings in the moment rise to the surface, and just enjoy each other. Don't worry about getting rejected. If he rejects you after you make a gentle, physical move, then just move on. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2395 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 22, 2011 11:10 AM
If you tell a water sign, "I like you," they have no idea what that means, whether they feel the same way, whether they will end up trapped by you or hurt by you.They have to FEEL that you like them, not your actions, but your vibe. This is why they do better with other watery people, who also go by vibe, or very earthy people. Airy people want to say, "I like you" and hear "I like you" back. IP: Logged |
lunagoatlion Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 22, 2011 11:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moons Of Jupiter: LOL at your 'we're meant to be' Cancer - you must be a darned special Aqua (is there any other kind, really?) My father's wives, in comparison, were like: f*** this, and ran a mile.
Hahaha! This definitely sounds more like something a Cancer would do! Aquacaps' Cancer must have an Aries Mars or something because every Cancer I know always has their running shoes on and partially laced up!
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