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Lioness
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posted January 13, 2011 08:39 PM
  
OOOO... Im not sure what to do here... HELP!!! lol (anyone feel free to join in, advice from anyone is a good thing) Ok so I give up on Pisces for good.. Thats it Im done.... Ive been feeling like this for a while (which we spoke about) now Im really feeling its the best possible solution.. So Im finally ok with it.. I have been feeling really sad, and sort of depressed..... I started to feel better today  Today Gem texts me, telling me he wants to see me, if we can make plans sometime next week (during the week) before we go to the recording studio on Sat...
I got really upset with him, and I just went off, and laid it all out on the table.. We were arguing back and fourth via text for about an hour....
The reason why I got upset, is because he never really makes any effort with me.. Then all of a sudden one day out of the blue he calls and wants to see me... IDK it just pushed a button for me...
So I told him, why?? you never made any effort before, why are you calling me now, wanting to see me? He said geez I just wanted to see you, thats all, never mind sorry I asked...
I said what your afraid of a question?? You cant answer why? Ive been asking you the same questions for 3 months and you have yet to answer, all u do is reverse the same questions back to me... (Ive been asking him what does he want from me) he flatly refuses to answer..
This went back and fourth for a while.. blah blah blah... He made excuses, and avoided answering questions.. but I pushed (he he he)
He finally finally finally said.... I want to spend time with you, and I want you to be honest with me, and give me attention, he said you never give me any attention (ok this is funny cuz hes progressed to a leo...lol) I said I dont give you attention, because you make zero effort to see me or contact me.. Calling me once every 2 weeks doesnt work for me... U know I need attention also... So I take it as your not interested you just want to be friends...
He said no I am interested which is why Im calling you now, but Im cautious... If we can ever have a mutual agreement and respect than I will give it my all. I told him all he ever shows me is the ego.. Blocking himself from me.. So I take off.. The ego thing doesnt work with me.. It drives me crazy... I said drop the ego and just come and talk to me.. really talk to me..
He said its not ego its pride, it goes away with affection.... He said no matter what I value your firendship, and I dont want you to be mad at me... So anyways this went on and on... For a while.. and we made progress.. We settled what we were feeling (again..lol) So we did make plans to see each other next week, and we have had plans to go to the recording studio next Sat. (been planned a while now)
He's been wanting me to go to the studio with him for a while now.. So Im going next weekend.. Its about an hours drive.. What do u think??? Im confused.. Do I dont I.....
I want to,but I dont... Geez we do have great chemistry, plus a pretty good synastry...
I just dont know if I can let go of the past.. What he did to me.... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted January 13, 2011 08:43 PM
I am here , Sweetie 
I don't feel Gem is right for you.
He is not "your guy"---my instincts tell me!Lets go back to our threads mooning over Pluto/Moon lol ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face the dregs of Nessus to touch the love and beauty of Neptune.
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AcousticGod
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posted January 13, 2011 08:49 PM
Have faith and optimism sunny Leo. Relax. If you're on edge then he'll be on edge. If you go with the flow, he'll go with the flow. If you accept him without question, he'll accept you without question. You get what you give, so I say have faith.IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful
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From: USA
Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 13, 2011 08:50 PM
Wow!!!
He reminds me of ... well... me.
Can I ask a question? did you make any initiative to contact him? If not.... I assume he is just afraid of the rejections so he did not call you. I had this damn rule "never call a man" but some years ago I found out ..... well... I was wrong.
By doing an experiment. I called a guy who I was interested in. He is Pieces and shy.
He was surprised and somewhat distant, OMG I kicked myself in abutt for calling him, lol
well... make the story short, after a while we were in a relationship. It lasted for quite a while. Unfortunately, I broke up with him (still regret it)
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Still_Hopeful
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posted January 13, 2011 08:52 PM
"If you accept him without question, he'll accept you without question." I hear you brother
Wise words actually my motto nowdaysIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted January 13, 2011 09:07 PM
((((Lioness)))
I am ,always, here by e mail ,FB or phone ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face the dregs of Nessus to touch the love and beauty of Neptune.
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Lioness
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posted January 13, 2011 09:28 PM
Ami why do you feel he's wrong.. Im wonderin.. We have moon quix pluto.. in the composite we have moon trine pluto.. Its a relief... lol
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@stillhopefullI sometimes call him, but rarely.. I have made an effort with him, the few times we have seen each other was because of me asking.. This was the 2nd time he asked to see me.. But 3 months apart... lol @Ag... Im relax.. There is just a lot of history between us... This is an ex from 12 years ago, that I reconnected with again during the last venus rx... So we are kind of starting off, from where we left off at.. We both went in with a bang, then backed off... but go back... He's very hard to forget about also, since we have this history.. and we were together it was fabulous!! Just an awesome connection.. But im not sure if it will be the same... IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 13, 2011 09:33 PM
My intuition tells me he will be a fling ,at most.
I could be wrong,of course.
I feel he would be someone cuz you want someone rather than wanting "him"
That is my sense.
I know how you have endured the endless frustrations with Pisces 
It has NOT been easy at all and you are tired and ready to give up ,understandably so!------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face the dregs of Nessus to touch the love and beauty of Neptune.
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Lioness
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posted January 13, 2011 09:39 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
My intuition tells me he will be a fling ,at most.
I could be wrong,of course.
I feel he would be someone cuz you want someone rather than wanting "him"
That is my sense.
I know how you have endured the endless frustrations with Pisces
It has NOT been easy at all and you are tired and ready to give up ,understandably so!
Ami.. Gem is the one from the past i never got over.. But yes its not totally the same... maybe never be... But at the same time I always wanted to know what if... Here's my chance, if things dont work out, then they dont work out, but at least I will know, that we tried.. and it wasnt meant to be....
He had looked for me over the years.. I have always thought about him.. I had the mans pictures with me at work for 10 years... lol..
Regardless what happens we are back in each others life for a reason... Even if its just to get our answers....
I also hurt him.. even though it was because of his own actions.. but I did things also... We both have worked on healing that, and letting it go.. but its not easy... We hurt each other... As for Pisces... Im not going to change my mind... Im done... I know you want me to stick it out.. but no.. my mind is made up... I HAVE to do this...
Wanna guess how fixed and stubborn I am... lol IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 13, 2011 10:14 PM
Ohh and Ami, this isnt about Pisces.. I think no matter what, we probably still have things to work through... maybe karma... lolWe do have alot of soul mate indicators.. Its clearly a past life thing.. Hey I met this guy that hypnotizes you to go back into your past lives.. Im thinking about doing it.. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Praha
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 13, 2011 10:26 PM
Look at all that boys fighting over you... U r a heartthrob,lioness  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 13, 2011 10:30 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Look at all that boys fighting over you... U r a heartthrob,lioness
I girl could only wish lol.... IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Praha
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 13, 2011 10:36 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
I girl could only wish lol....
Don't give me thaaat... Always some form of action with u!!! Love is adventure!! IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 13, 2011 11:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Don't give me thaaat... Always some form of action with u!!! Love is adventure!!
No thats transit Saturn in my 7th... lol
karma karma karma karma... IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Praha
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 14, 2011 04:38 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
No thats transit Saturn in my 7th... lol
karma karma karma karma...
Met a lady with tr.saturn through 7th h. She met love of her life at that period. Natally,she has 7th h saturn,opposing venus.. She is taurus moon. That's all i can remember,maybe helps.. IP: Logged |
coconutcancermoon
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posted January 14, 2011 07:08 AM
Perhaps you want to be with him because you never got over him and things were left unresolved? I usually advise my friends to not reunite with exes, in most cases it doesn't work out (at least from my experience) Go forward, not backward IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 14, 2011 07:48 AM
Send me Gem's pix,again,Lioness.I seem to be able to feel things from pix,now.
When I looked at it last time,I think my impression was that you and he could have a fling but not more.
I am not always,right,of course. The more I venture out ,now, the more I will err ,too ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face the dregs of Nessus to touch the love and beauty of Neptune.
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Lioness
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posted January 14, 2011 10:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Send me Gem's pix,again,Lioness.I seem to be able to feel things from pix,now.
When I looked at it last time,I think my impression was that you and he could have a fling but not more.
I am not always,right,of course. The more I venture out ,now, the more I will err ,too
What happen to what I wrote???
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Lioness
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posted January 14, 2011 12:22 PM
Ami I texted you the pic.. Did you get it? Your probably right about the fling, but I think we still have some things to work through... I also know no matter what happens, we will always be a part of my life.. This guy isnt going anywhere... He will always be around... Even if we dont talk alot.. We will contact each other after a break... Last time it took 2 years and me changing my number to get him to stop calling me... Thats because I got so mad at him, I didnt want anything else to do with him.... But I knew one day, we would see each other again.. Anyways we continued to argue last night... BOY is he ****** at me... ROFL!!!
I sure do know how to **** em off... But since I have sun conjunct mercury I know Im right.......... lol He's not seeing my side, or listening to what Im sayin, wants to reply with a joke... His little jokes are working.... He probaly wont want to see me next week now.... lol Ahhhh he will get over it... Im not worried... IP: Logged |
AcousticGod
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 14, 2011 12:31 PM
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and we were together it was fabulous!! Just an awesome connection.. But im not sure if it will be the same...
If you had an awesome connection before, you can have it again. The doubt, I think, will hurt you. You guys have composite Sun in Cancer? That could explain why it was so great (Cancers merge real well; too well; there are no boundaries), and also why it hurt (Cancers are so sensitive to slights). IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 14, 2011 12:33 PM
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nordicsoul
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posted January 14, 2011 12:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
OOOO... Im not sure what to do here... HELP!!! lol (anyone feel free to join in, advice from anyone is a good thing) Ok so I give up on Pisces for good.. Thats it Im done.... Ive been feeling like this for a while (which we spoke about) now Im really feeling its the best possible solution.. So Im finally ok with it.. I have been feeling really sad, and sort of depressed..... I started to feel better today Today Gem texts me, telling me he wants to see me, if we can make plans sometime next week (during the week) before we go to the recording studio on Sat...
I got really upset with him, and I just went off, and laid it all out on the table.. We were arguing back and fourth via text for about an hour....
The reason why I got upset, is because he never really makes any effort with me.. Then all of a sudden one day out of the blue he calls and wants to see me... IDK it just pushed a button for me...
So I told him, why?? you never made any effort before, why are you calling me now, wanting to see me? He said geez I just wanted to see you, thats all, never mind sorry I asked...
I said what your afraid of a question?? You cant answer why? Ive been asking you the same questions for 3 months and you have yet to answer, all u do is reverse the same questions back to me... (Ive been asking him what does he want from me) he flatly refuses to answer..
This went back and fourth for a while.. blah blah blah... He made excuses, and avoided answering questions.. but I pushed (he he he)
He finally finally finally said.... I want to spend time with you, and I want you to be honest with me, and give me attention, he said you never give me any attention (ok this is funny cuz hes progressed to a leo...lol) I said I dont give you attention, because you make zero effort to see me or contact me.. Calling me once every 2 weeks doesnt work for me... U know I need attention also... So I take it as your not interested you just want to be friends...
He said no I am interested which is why Im calling you now, but Im cautious... If we can ever have a mutual agreement and respect than I will give it my all. I told him all he ever shows me is the ego.. Blocking himself from me.. So I take off.. The ego thing doesnt work with me.. It drives me crazy... I said drop the ego and just come and talk to me.. really talk to me..
He said its not ego its pride, it goes away with affection.... He said no matter what I value your firendship, and I dont want you to be mad at me... So anyways this went on and on... For a while.. and we made progress.. We settled what we were feeling (again..lol) So we did make plans to see each other next week, and we have had plans to go to the recording studio next Sat. (been planned a while now)
He's been wanting me to go to the studio with him for a while now.. So Im going next weekend.. Its about an hours drive.. What do u think??? Im confused.. Do I dont I.....
I want to,but I dont... Geez we do have great chemistry, plus a pretty good synastry...
I just dont know if I can let go of the past.. What he did to me....
my experience tells me than whenever somebody behave as a jerk, he doesnt deserve any opportunity... you can go out and have fun, but be aware THAT IS IT!!!!! if you dont expect ANYTHING, just enjoy it, but it seems that you may end up hurt. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 5347
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 14, 2011 12:37 PM
I got the picture of Gem.I think he is sweet.He tries to be a good person .
I think he is.I ,just,think it will not be a deep,love affair.
For me, that is ALL *I* am interested in so my posts are colored by that.
If I cannot have a deep love affair,I would rather have nothing. Each person is at a different space and time in his/her life. I want to qualify that about me ,though,so you know from where *I* am coming ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
You must face the dregs of Nessus to touch the love and beauty of Neptune.
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Lioness
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posted January 14, 2011 01:00 PM
quote:
Originally posted by AcousticGod:
If you had an awesome connection before, you can have it again. The doubt, I think, will hurt you. You guys have composite Sun in Cancer? That could explain why it was so great (Cancers merge real well; too well; there are no boundaries), and also why it hurt (Cancers are so sensitive to slights).
Yes composite Sun and Venus in Cancer with a Pisces ASc... We are way to watery... lol Actually if anything I think I would hurt him, not saying I want to.. but so far I cant let him in like that yet.. I have my HUGE guard up... I dont see myself letting it down before him... I honestly think he would let it down first..
We do have alot of good aspects, but I aspect him better than he aspects me, so in the long run he would be happier... maybe.. The sense I get with him, is he wants something more, but hes very cautions at the same time....
IDK its weird how I feel... But I want to know if he can make me feel like he did before.... IDK if he can.... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 14, 2011 01:02 PM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
my experience tells me than whenever somebody behave as a jerk, he doesnt deserve any opportunity... you can go out and have fun, but be aware THAT IS IT!!!!! if you dont expect ANYTHING, just enjoy it, but it seems that you may end up hurt.
He doesnt really act like a jerk... He "pretends" he is... Like if hes testing me... Hard to explain... but hes a big o teddy bear... Doesnt have a mean bone...
He calls him self Winney the Pooh... lol
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