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Topic: Sex and Venus/Neptune in synastry
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staborgi
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posted January 15, 2011 01:20 AM
  
I've read a lot on this forum and elsewhere about this aspect but I kinda wanna get down to the nitty gritty about something here! Recently had an experience with someone whose Neptune exactly conjuncts my Venus/Uranus conjunction and things didn't quite finish off if you know what I mean. At first I was kinda down about it and then I realized he really wasn't even interesting in that! He seemed totally lost, on another planet even. It was definitely fun but I'm curious if anyone else has had this experience with this aspect before? Was reading this and it described the experience quite well!
http://d.scribd.com/docs/1btqcdqf2mg7kjkq938i.pdf "However, these feelings of eternity and the union of souls may prove to be so overwhelming that the Neptune person unconsciously avoids the sexual act-although not fantasies about the act. Neptune's longing for dissolution may create a profound reluctance to participate in the individ- ual give and take which the act of love requires. The Venus person may then begin to wonder what has gone wrong, and may become more direct in initiating physical contact, sometimes expressing overt seductiveness. "
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GrlyGirl20
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posted January 16, 2011 10:01 AM
Well I haven't had it in towards Venus...but I have had the aspect on the Sun (most of my generations Neptune is Opp my Sun/Asc and Mars). But I dated a guy who had the natal conjunction and he wasn't the least bit interested in sex lol. And he had an Aries Mars! Lol. He was more interested in cuddling, and kissing and all that romantic gooey stuff. I'm a first house Mars so I deff needed the Sex and his Virgo Moon didn't help things. But I will say that in general the Neptune is ok without a sexual relationship...they will think about it though. And they'll just idealize it. That's the thing about Neptune I've found at least. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 16, 2011 10:07 AM
Can you guys explain this  My Venus conjuncts his SN. It opposes HIS NN conjunct HIS Neptune.
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Lonake
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posted January 16, 2011 02:49 PM
Venus/Neptune in synastry leans toward idealized feelings and platonic relationships.
It's an ideal, something that doesn't belong on earth.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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posted January 16, 2011 03:32 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Venus/Neptune in synastry leans toward idealized feelings and platonic relationships.
It's an ideal, something that doesn't belong on earth.
I wouldn't say this is wholly the case all the time. In my case, my Neptune is conjunct Miss Scorpio's Venus/Neptune conjunction and trust me when I tell you, it would SERIOUSLY happen (and often lol) if we were both single... The chemistry is there and thick... Its not a platonic connection or feeling there, its absolutely romantic on both ends.
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blonderiverkat
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posted January 16, 2011 06:34 PM
My bf and I have my Mercury, Venus, and Neptune in Scorp....his ASC, Venus, and Neptune in Scorp...we have a beautiful relationship...sex is not a priority, but we do enjoy it ALOT! It's amazing, the whole relationship is...VERY affectionate, always holding hands, and snuggling...the kind of relationship you dream about since you were a little girl...he even opens and closes my car door for me..lol  IP: Logged |
staborgi
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posted January 16, 2011 06:39 PM
This Venus/Neptune aspect is exact but takes place in a synastry chart that if RIFE with super sexual aspects and angle action...so I'm hesitant to fully go with the idea that Venus/Neptune aspects are too idealistic to be brought down to earth and become platonic instead. We have amazing chemistry, we're both kind of blown away by it. But I'm curious about people's experiences with bringing them down to earth...maybe it's too early to understand how to approach sexuality from a spiritual place...IP: Logged |
staborgi
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posted January 16, 2011 06:43 PM
blonderiverkat,
that sounds like us! It's so sweet- My Moon and Neptune are in Cap and his Mars is in Cap, my Sun, Venus, and Uranus are in Sag and his Merc, Venus, Uranus, and Neptune are in Sag. The conjunction from my Venus/Uranus exactly conjuncts his Neptune. We both have each other Neptune's at our Sun/Moon midpoint. It's so effin romantic I could melt! Did you guys ever have an trip ups because of Neptune stuff? I feel like there's an element of sacrifice involved as per the physical world...I don't know if you're familiar with the Tarot but it reminds me of the Hanged Man- which is supposed to be a card that represents divine knowledge of a man whose hands and feet are tied. IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 16, 2011 06:59 PM
Hi starbogi...I am not that familiar with Tarot...and I am fairly new to Astrology...I didn't know much about it til something drew me to it, and kept prodding me to learn it...so I don't know if the 'trip up' we had a year ago was caused by Neptune stuff. We split for 3 months, but it was a good thing, and I suppose part of the 'grand plan' our souls had created? We really started to go the spiritual direction, started to open our eyes to 'the truth'....no matter what caused it will never happen again...I am going to look more into this now...thanx for the response... IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 16, 2011 07:05 PM
there's an element of sacrifice involved as per the physical world...Our connection to the 'physical world is very limited nowadays...I even left my mgmt job of 8 years a couple of months ago...he doesn't punch a time clock...we are on the 'Magical Mystery Tour...lol I hope that is what you were referring to...hehe IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
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posted January 16, 2011 07:27 PM
I had this one with the Cap I was crushing on, the conjunction. I was Neptune he was the Venus, I desired him like crazy. But with him it was more of just 'idea' it didn't become physical.IP: Logged |
letram
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posted January 16, 2011 08:22 PM
no.astrology isnt that "narrow". thats ONE potential outcome with the energy between them. the truth is, astrology is energy that two individuals with free will decide what to do with it. two might decide they prefer to have something so idealistic that it may manifest into a plantonic relationship. thats only one outcome of the energy taking place within a venus-neptune theme. it can indicate that the neptune person's imagination is very beautiful to venus person, and very hot in sexual matters. i have Neptune square her Venus. and conjunct her dsc. her neptune widely squares mine. we've shared idealistic thoughts in various ways. its very romantic, we don't have classic sexual aspects in our synastry, but boy do we contradict that with our desires! her mars trines my sun but what turns taht up alot is the fact that her mars is in my 5th house, so the sun-mars energy is absolutely emphasized. the perhaps non classic indicates are venus trine asc. venus-square-uranus venus-oppose-venus. i read once venus-moon can be, but im not too sure, were really happy with what we share, sometimes astrology is contradicted maybe IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 16, 2011 09:05 PM
We have alot of strong synastry though...there are other factors that come into play...many...and we know we will be together til the end, whatever and whenever that may be... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 16, 2011 09:12 PM
My neptune conjuncts Pisces Moon and it definitely turned to a platonic love. IP: Logged |
staborgi
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posted January 17, 2011 12:50 AM
letram, that's good to hear! wish you guys the best IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 17, 2011 12:53 AM
Thanks for all of the good info...  KatIP: Logged |
staborgi
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posted January 17, 2011 04:00 AM
Lioness, if you don't mind me asking- who initiated it turning platonic?IP: Logged |
allouette
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posted January 17, 2011 05:33 AM
i have neptune in the 8th house, and what usually happens when i fall deeply in love is that i somehow dissociate the feelings from the physical attraction so it takes time to adjust and to incorporate all my sexual energy into neptune, lol, but i always manage to do it. so for me, having difficulties in expressing my sexual energy at the beggining = i am so high into love, it's somehow too much. but otherwise i am very very happy with my neptune placement, you'll see what i mean if you take your time and get to know the netpune way of getting physical  IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 17, 2011 09:38 AM
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Originally posted by staborgi:
Lioness, if you don't mind me asking- who initiated it turning platonic?
HIM... The moon... it sure wasnt me!
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Lonake
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posted January 17, 2011 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
I wouldn't say this is wholly the case all the time.
Of course not, there are always other factors.
It is true, when you *isolate* this aspect. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 17, 2011 10:07 PM
I can see the hound is at work here.IP: Logged |
staborgi
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posted January 18, 2011 12:15 AM
HA! You know what Lonake, eff it, who knows, you might be right. Time will tell I guess? I've been up and down with this all week and I have a feeling Venus/Neptune is to blame! Insane how bipolar it is...but that's why I'm so curious to hear as much about others' experiences with it. So far it seems pretty divided but I wonder how much Venus/Neptune influences what we're willing to say about a relationship, particularly if we're in the midst of it. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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posted January 18, 2011 02:30 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Of course not, there are always other factors.
It is true, when you *isolate* this aspect.
Why do you believe Venus conjunct Neptune alone is a platonic aspect? (Platonic meaning a friend-like feeling as opposed to a romantic-like feeling?)
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squirrel
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posted January 18, 2011 08:56 AM
I don't think that this aspect is a platonic one at all.With this aspect (Neptune conjunct Venus), making love is almost a mystical experience. You are connected to each other on a much higher level. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 18, 2011 09:01 AM
Yes,my sense would be with Squirel.Neptune makes things romantic and otherworldly beautiful.
When it touches Venus,I could see poetry ,roses and music.
In fact,perhaps Romantic poetry could be encapsulated by Neptune/Venus.
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