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Topic: Where is my soul mate???
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Soulsearcher
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posted January 16, 2011 05:06 PM
  
websites and synastry only tell me so much!
I have software even that gives me full reports, lengthy and full of info.
the problem is, I'm only able to find out things and relationship qualities with people i know information for.
When what I want to know is WHO to look for. WHERE to start. Before even diving into another relationship or wasting hurt feelings, theirs or mine, who SHOULD I be looking for in the first place?Sun: Aquarius 2nd house
Moon: Virgo 9th house
Ascendant: Capricorn
(Descendant: Cancer)
Mercury: Aquarius 1st house
Venus: Capricorn 1st house
Mars: Capricorn 1st house
Jupiter: Cancer 7th house
Saturn: Capricorn 1st house
Uranus: Capricorn 1st house
Neptune: Capricorn 1st house
Pluto: Scorpio 10th house Midheaven: Libra
North Node: Aquarius 2nd house
Chiron: Cancer 7th house Now i know the sun, moon, and rising are really the most important, but i add other information in case anyone has any extra knowledge about random specifics. Truly, to find my soulmate - or anything close, is all i want out of life.
I'd rather be dirt poor/ in a third world country or worse and with them than here or anywhere in an unending, fruitless search. IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 16, 2011 05:23 PM
My suggestion to you is this...stop searching...when the time is right, God will put the two of you together, if that is your destiny...praying doesn't hurt though...  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 16, 2011 05:37 PM
Just look for people with qualities like yourself, things that you like about you, and don't try to force relationships to fit a certain mold.IP: Logged |
lindaGreg
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posted January 16, 2011 05:45 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Just look for people with qualities like yourself, things that you like about you, and don't try to force relationships to fit a certain mold.
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lindaGreg
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posted January 16, 2011 05:46 PM
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Originally posted by blonderiverkat:
My suggestion to you is this...stop searching...when the time is right, God will put the two of you together, if that is your destiny...praying doesn't hurt though...
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britterfly
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posted January 16, 2011 07:05 PM
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Originally posted by Soulsearcher:
Truly, to find my soulmate - or anything close, is all i want out of life.
I'd rather be dirt poor/ in a third world country or worse and with them than here or anywhere in an unending, fruitless search.
Amen. I feel the exact same way. Where is he, indeed? I wake up and fall asleep to that question. IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted January 16, 2011 07:07 PM
Let me tell you from my own personal experience and "messages" I am getting from God in response to my prayers...Learn to love yourself, cherish and appreciate the love that already exists in your life, do whatever you need to do to be happy WITHOUT him, be as helpful as you can and as loving as you can be to humanity... and when you forget all about him, he'll suddenly appear. Good luck. IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 16, 2011 07:10 PM
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Originally posted by britterfly:
Let me tell you from my own personal experience and "messages" I am getting from God in response to my prayers...Learn to love yourself, cherish and appreciate the love that already exists in your life, do whatever you need to do to be happy WITHOUT him, be as helpful as you can and as loving as you can be to humanity... and when you forget all about him, he'll suddenly appear. Good luck.
Right on Brit! You got it girl! I told ya you were smart! IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted January 16, 2011 07:20 PM
So much easier said than done. I am a depressed, contemplatively suicidal mess that drinks way too much and has no inspiration any more. I used to be so happy. I don't know where that went.IP: Logged |
aethan
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From: Lisbon, PT
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posted January 16, 2011 07:49 PM
You need to stop looking for "it". For many reasons, and the first one is self-preservation.Also, I'm sure you've read somewhere around here (I'm guessing there's got to be some sort of thread about these subjects in this forum) that there isn't just one soul mate. Thankfully, there's a bunch of them. I've learned it's one twin soul, ten soul mates, others have other theories, but that is beside the point. You probably have already found at least one soul mate in your lifetime, and if you haven't you will, rest assured. They may not "look" like what you expect them to, though. They appear in our lives to help us evolve; so what that means is, depending on the situation, there's a chance we may not like them very much when they cross our path. I've been blessed to have met some, and I love them dearly. Some of them "saw" me first, some others I "saw" them first. Meeting your twin soul is also usually not as people paint it to be. Yes, you're never the same again. Yes, the connection is unlike anything you will experience. But it's also complicated; because the two souls are evolving separately, it usually causes them to evolve at different rates. Their meeting usually causes profound pain for the one that is aware of the connection. It never really leaves you, that pain. So, in a way, it's better that you don't meet them until you're both at the same level of evolution. It's also unlikely that your twin soul is incarnated now. Your twin soul could be a parent, for example. Soul connections don't always reflect as romantic love. What I mean with all that is that you shouldn't spend your time looking for "the one" (although it is your choice to make, of course), because, in truth, you can find love with anyone. And if you are meant to find it, you will. There's nothing better than the surprise of meeting a soul mate. And it always happens in the most unexpected of places at the weirdest of times... Even with soul mates, it's never certain. Have faith and stop worrying. If it's meant to be, it will be. Enjoy life, and its people. IP: Logged |
Soulsearcher
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posted January 17, 2011 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by aethan:
You probably have already found at least one soul mate in your lifetime, and if you haven't you will, rest assured. They may not "look" like what you expect them to, though. They appear in our lives to help us evolve; so what that means is, depending on the situation, there's a chance we may not like them very much when they cross our path. I've been blessed to have met some, and I love them dearly. Some of them "saw" me first, some others I "saw" them first.Meeting your twin soul is also usually not as people paint it to be. Yes, you're never the same again. Yes, the connection is unlike anything you will experience. But it's also complicated; because the two souls are evolving separately, it usually causes them to evolve at different rates. Their meeting usually causes profound pain for the one that is aware of the connection. It never really leaves you, that pain. So, in a way, it's better that you don't meet them until you're both at the same level of evolution. It's also unlikely that your twin soul is incarnated now.
........ What I mean with all that is that you shouldn't spend your time looking for "the one" (although it is your choice to make, of course), because, in truth, you can find love with anyone. And if you are meant to find it, you will. There's nothing better than the surprise of meeting a soul mate. And it always happens in the most unexpected of places at the weirdest of times... Even with soul mates, it's never certain. Have faith and stop worrying. If it's meant to be, it will be. Enjoy life, and its people.
I know all of this, but thank you for saying something other than the previous responses. I've recently had one of these encounters, dreamed of them 5 months before meeting them, and grew so much from having known them and know an unconditional love - one that i wasnt able to label as romantic or familial, friendship, motherly, etc, it is all of the above. But yes, as you said, people still grow and evolve, and the thing is that at the initial meeting it felt as though we had this soul connection, but as you grow into who you're meant to be that will fade. however it could also bee seen more astrologically, that i am fixed and he is mutable. i stay the same (not exactly the same), he constantly changes (more prone to than i). I don't go looking, if anything i convince myself i don't have the time. between school and work and becoming who i am, yes, it is true a relationship may not be the best thing, not the best time to try to form one when i am still growing an experiencing.
There really isn't anything anyone can tell me, advice-wise, that I haven't already thought about and seriously taken into consideration. Question is, there are those people, like my brother for instance, who meet the one they marry in high school,, and ten, eleven years later are still together.... though on the other hand its very visible that they both havent really grown up that much... but theres a lot of psychological background to all that as well. so many factors for every case. Thing is, love is hard, and painful - or so that has been my ending experiences with it. I love it when its not, when it is all that it should be.
There are those people you meet as well and things seem to be greater than you could have ever thought - but only for so long - bc further on down the road there are aspects of those personalities that clash and tear everything apart. My question is why even bother with all that in the first place?
Or upon meeting someone, they may like you more than you like them, and come to find out you end up hurting them, which to me hurts nearly as much as being hurt myself. I don't like to risk other feelings either.
You know, in other cultures in other countries, say like India, they do have master astrologers - their "priests" that either give or don't give their blessing on arranged marriages. and the fact is that arranged marriages last bc those two people do in fact go well together in all aspects that make a marriage and family well and stable.
Why do we have websites like E-harmony and other dating sites? Why don't we have Shamans as readily available?
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blonderiverkat
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posted January 17, 2011 01:16 AM
Thankfully, there's a bunch of them. I've learned it's one twin soul, ten soul mates, others have other theories, but that is beside the point. You probably have already found at least one soul mate in your Meeting your twin soul is also usually not as people paint it to be. Yes, you're never the same again. Yes, the connection is unlike anything you will experience. But it's also complicated; because the two souls are evolving separately, it usually causes them to evolve at different rates. Their meeting usually causes profound pain for the one that is aware of the connection. It never really leaves you, that pain. So, in a way, it's better that you don't meet them until you're both at the same level of evolution. It's also unlikely that your twin soul is incarnated now.More and more people ARE finding their twinflames here on Earth...Because of the times we are in, more people are awakening, as their vibrations rise...it is all part of the 'master plan...to find each other again, now, after lifetimes of lessons preparing them for these times...they make the ultimate spiritual 'team'.
I am 50 years old, been through 2 marriages, a couple of engagements...they were lessons, or Karma, to be worked through to get me to where I am now...my other half and I are one of these teams...being who I am now, I could never have been with any of my exes...and neither he. Just as he and I would never have worked out, say up until 2009...the year we met. Once we met, we really started to 'get it'...started seriously meditating, studying, soul-searching...once we met, it all started to make sense...people are starting to be reunited with their twins more and more...if that is part of your destiny, to be with your twin, it will happen...two months after I stopped looking for Mr Right, there he was... IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 17, 2011 01:18 AM
Brit? Are you okay sweetie?IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted January 17, 2011 01:26 AM
Hello Soulsearcher! Welcome to LL  IP: Logged |
Soulsearcher
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posted January 17, 2011 01:40 AM
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Originally posted by blonderiverkat:
More and more people ARE finding their twinflames here on Earth...Because of the times we are in, more people are awakening, as their vibrations rise...it is all part of the 'master plan...to find each other again, now, after lifetimes of lessons preparing them for these times...they make the ultimate spiritual 'team'.
I am 50 years old, been through 2 marriages, a couple of engagements...they were lessons, or Karma, to be worked through to get me to where I am now...my other half and I are one of these teams...being who I am now, I could never have been with any of my exes...and neither he. Just as he and I would never have worked out, say up until 2009...the year we met. Once we met, we really started to 'get it'...started seriously meditating, studying, soul-searching...once we met, it all started to make sense...people are starting to be reunited with their twins more and more...if that is part of your destiny, to be with your twin, it will happen...two months after I stopped looking for Mr Right, there he was...
This is beautiful
I do believe in the whole 2012 thing, maybe not so much the propaganda info, but more along the Hopi indian thing... and the thing is, yes, i may be young, and it sometimes it does take a lifetime to procure such things, but even without the whole 2012 thing, if i am to think existentially, NOW is the time, not myself in the future, THIS is the moment... (sighs)
I've tried, and continue to do the whole 'not looking' thing, bc i do believe that once one stops, it will appear clearly. I wonder even perhaps if i am still unconsciously looking. I focus all my time and energy in school and work... exactly where it should be at this time in my life... but still, i can't help but want more.
Love is like staring at the sun and, once its gone, it's harder to see, sometimes you've even been blinded..
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blonderiverkat
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posted January 17, 2011 02:12 AM
2012 is not the end sweetie..maybe the beginning of a huge change, a transformation...it's already starting...and twins are just beginning to find each other...larger amounts anyway. There is still plenty of time....2012 is not the end of the world...just a new beginning... IP: Logged |
Soulsearcher
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posted January 17, 2011 02:40 AM
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Originally posted by blonderiverkat:
2012 is not the end sweetie..maybe the beginning of a huge change, a transformation...it's already starting...and twins are just beginning to find each other...larger amounts anyway. There is still plenty of time....2012 is not the end of the world...just a new beginning...
Really... I suggest you google search Hopi Indian Prophecy. They predicted the white man coming, railroads, cars, and the internet. Soon there will be earthquakes and whether or not its "2012" or whatever, the earth hates us for what we are doing to it, and even if we didnt exist here, the earth would eventually do what it will. its science. Earthquakes are getting worse, and if we have a megaquake there will be nowhere to go to escape its damage.
I am a spiritual being having a human experience.
And the world as we know it will come to an end, but the rest of existence still goes on, and the energy that resides within will transfer back into the universe.
the same atoms in corn make up your eyelashes, and the sun. and everything that is... which isnt really there in the first place, nothing really exists, even atoms and quarks are merely vibrations/frequencies of light.
So yes, a new beginning, but not one that includes us as we are now.
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MamaScorpio
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posted January 17, 2011 03:04 AM
I would like to ask something.....could you possibly dream of your soulmate before you meet him? Thing is, I dreamt of one guy a year before I met him. There was no relationship between us though when we met. He liked me, but I didn't feel the same, and his feelings quickly dissolved. Last year, I had a dream of a particular someone saying that the stars AND God wanted us to get married and have a child. He is a famous person. Thing is, should I disregard that last dream? I took it seriously due to the fact that God was mentioned in it. Maybe it was just a dream, I don't know. Any thoughts on this from anyone?IP: Logged |
MamaScorpio
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posted January 17, 2011 03:08 AM
Oh forgot to mention that I was so curious about him, that I did his chart with unknown birth time. He is an actor. We have a boatload of conjunctions including the Juno and Ascendant aspect. I was shocked. Maybe it's just the energy between us. Our Venus/Pluto aspects are bad though. Along with a Jupiter opposition from my Jupiter. I think you need to have a good aspect with each others Jupiter to make it last.IP: Logged |
MamaScorpio
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posted January 17, 2011 03:08 AM
Oh forgot to mention that I was so curious about him, that I did his chart with unknown birth time. He is an actor. We have a boatload of conjunctions including the Juno and Ascendant aspect. I was shocked. Maybe it's just the energy between us. Our Venus/Pluto aspects are bad though. Along with a Jupiter opposition from my Jupiter. I think you need to have a good aspect with each others Jupiter to make it last.IP: Logged |
blonderiverkat
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posted January 17, 2011 03:10 AM
I agree 100%, I know all about the Hopi Prophecies...we are headed out to the Reservation next month as a matter of fact...we have strong spiritual, and astrological ties to them...we have Pleiadian ties as well...and my children are of Mayan Descent...The earth is going thru a major change...we are all having the dreams, visions, etc...I am feeling the shift already in the form of vertigo...the more positive of a standpoint we perceive '2012', the better it will be... IP: Logged |
mochai
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posted January 17, 2011 08:37 AM
Ahh, no! Britt you sound like me ony with more drinking and less hope, but less suicidal than I have been (and that was for -many- years). I still think about it all the time, and I know life is a lot better after I die, but I know this life is only a temporary drama, and I have a role to play in it. Sometimes we fall apart right before we make a huge stride forward. If there wasn't some kind of inner destruction you would have no room to grow. There'd be no impetus for change. quote:
Originally posted by MamaScorpio:
I would like to ask something.....could you possibly dream of your soulmate before you meet him? Thing is, I dreamt of one guy a year before I met him. There was no relationship between us though when we met. He liked me, but I didn't feel the same, and his feelings quickly dissolved. Last year, I had a dream of a particular someone saying that the stars AND God wanted us to get married and have a child. He is a famous person. Thing is, should I disregard that last dream? I took it seriously due to the fact that God was mentioned in it. Maybe it was just a dream, I don't know. Any thoughts on this from anyone?
Sometimes I get dreams that aren't from divine sources. Maybe cosmic amusement? If you were destined to be with someone I'd imagine they'd make it so it wasn't set up in a manner where you were hanging on to a possibility with someone who has thousands of fans dreaming of the same. I'm not saying it's not possible. I ended up on a date with a young millionaire that shocked me, so things happen sometimes. IP: Logged |
Soulsearcher
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posted January 17, 2011 04:03 PM
MamaScorpio, perhaps ask him if he's ever had any dreams. I wonder sometimes if, even though it seems weird to do so, if telling someone that you've had such a dream would help. Like, if they are your soulmate, then wouldnt it not scare them away or freak them out, or think you're weird? don't you think they'd accept it?
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britterfly
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posted January 17, 2011 04:28 PM
i had a dream about my future child. he was dark, had very vivid blue-green eyes and dark, curly hair and a very handsome face. so i am going to end up with a man who is at least olive toned and darker than me.Someone approached me when i was 21 and working as a "hostess" at this bar/restaurant in San Diego (most pointless job ever), and he told me I was going to have 4 children, and they would all have piercing, beautiful blue and green eyes and they would all be dark-skinned. He said we would be a like a "tribe". He was pretty adamant about what he was telling me. I think the man also told me he was high on LSD at the time. IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted January 17, 2011 04:29 PM
He said the children are all going to be amazing, and I asked about the father, and he was like "Meh! He's gonna be alright."So I guess future hubby is nothing special, but future offspring are? IP: Logged | |
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