posted January 21, 2011 03:58 PM            

Have any of you ever felt like your chart was absolutely terrible? What aspects cause you the most grief? Anything you can share would be great. I'm wondering if I'm the only one who has felt like s/he is the unsuspecting owner of a cursed chart.

posted January 21, 2011 04:14 PM            

It's like how epic beauties don't look like computer-generated faces with perfect symmetry. Their flaws make them unique, and that makes them more beautiful.

There's a flip side to every aspect. Like my ex-boyfriend's tight Moon-Neptune conjunction in Sag in the 12th house--could make him dreamy, deeply spiritual, musically talented, mystical...or druggy, drifty, escapist, and unreliable. Or both. Or each, at different times in his life.

posted January 21, 2011 04:52 PM            

The thing in my chart I hate is ALL THE CANCER. If I could have a Cancer-free chart I would be much happier. I have Cancer Moon-Saturn in my 7th house conjunct my DC, squaring my Pluto....and then also Venus at 29 Cancer in my 7th house. I feel like a big romantic wound.

Also lately I've had transiting Saturn conjunct my Pluto, squaring my Saturn, and transiting Pluto conjunct my ascendent, opposite my Moon-Saturn, forming a T-square with my Pluto.

posted January 21, 2011 05:51 PM            

If you have as many hard aspects as you say : you have to make the tension work for you instead of against you.
It's all energy you just have to manipulate it in the right way depending on what you want.
That's the bonus of the hard aspect, you can move the energy around, with trines and sextiles there's no dynamic element, they're stale, there's nothing to work with there. That's how they fall into ruts cos they get too comfortable.

posted January 21, 2011 08:11 PM            

Doesn't it suck when every interpretation you read is like 'Venus is uncomfortable here', 'Mars is weak here', 'The Moon is odd here'...(*Spontaneously combusts*)

Tragicomic really, that everyone wants to get rid of their Cancer placements, this must make us all typical Cancerians, which must feel even worse - haha! I totally relate - for the longest time I hated all of my Cancer influences. Hating being constantly aware of things people around me weren't, hated feeling so much all the time, hated being affected by other people's energies when I entered a room, it's like: will the universe just make me self-absorbed, deaf and blind?!?

I don't know how old you are, but I'm 27 and only in the last few years started to stabilize and really enjoy the blessings of the chart. You ARE in control, believe it of not. So there's hope.

I still believe Cancer is a complex and difficult sign, especially also because often times people just aren't sure how to deal with you, which doesn't help. But it's a sign that is open to change and transformation and URGES you to please be self aware and use the gifts of emotion, intuition, intellect, etc...to transform yourself and others.

As a side note, I do also have Sun squaring Pluto and Saturn in the FIFTH, so you can imagine how FUN the fifth house is for me.....

posted January 21, 2011 09:02 PM            

Gave me all LEO fire in the 6th mixed with Virgo made me introverted, then put my NN in the 11th.. An introvert thats suppose be become part of a group.. WFH

THEN put my damn Venus and 5th cusp in Water.. Im only attracted to water men, but my fire gets annoyed too damn fast..

Puts my SN in the same sign as my Venus in the 4th and 5th... WTF!!! So Im suppose to pull away from my venus? and my 5th??

Uranus and Pluto in the 7th!!! OMG..

posted January 21, 2011 09:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Gave me all LEO fire in the 6th mixed with Virgo made me introverted, then put my NN in the 11th.. An introvert thats suppose be become part of a group.. WFH

THEN put my damn Venus and 5th cusp in Water.. Im only attracted to water men, but my fire gets annoyed too damn fast..

Puts my SN in the same sign as my Venus in the 4th and 5th... WTF!!! So Im suppose to pull away from my venus? and my 5th??

Uranus and Pluto in the 7th!!! OMG..

Im just cant be pleased in relationships, either if my venus is happy then my NN and Leo isnt...

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LOL, Lioness, I am completely with you! In fact, check out what the universe dealt me:

Well MOJ - Here's a lovely Moon & SN in Sag, BUT in the 6th - water THAT one down. In fact, don't worry about not worrying, just get to work.

We'll put Venus in 3rd house (Gemini), attracted to air men all the time, but you guessed it - irritates the **** out of my water, BUT North Node in Gemini, IN THE 12TH! It's like...here, learn to bubble up and blab, communicate, get with air signs...BUT shut it off, cause you need to withdraw and spend time not talking to anyone and making this area of your life more Piscean.

Oh and finally, just for good measure, here's a Mars in the first house conjunct ascendant, oh you're a bad ass mofo, BUT! we're putting both Mars and Ascendant in Cancer, just to make that super easy on you.

posted January 21, 2011 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Moons Of Jupiter:
What's wrong with that, Venus? Nothing.

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posted January 21, 2011 10:03 PM            

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Doesn't it suck when every interpretation you read is like 'Venus is uncomfortable here', 'Mars is weak here', 'The Moon is odd here'...(*Spontaneously combusts*)

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Actually, reading crappy interpretations of my natal chart isn't the worst--the WORST is that I almost never run into interpretations of my synastry or composite with anyone I like that are at all hopeful. But people never seem to keep in mind that that's because of my natal chart!!

For instance:
-If I'm with an Aries Sun--and I love male Arieses, I am a Leo Sun-Mercury woman for godsakes--usually his Sun will square some of my 7th house Cancer planets. Either the Moon-Saturn or the Venus.
-Anyone's planet that aspects my Moon? has the same aspect to my Saturn...that is the tragedy of Moon-Saturn conjunct

Part of what I don't like about the ways many people use astrology is that, as a Leo/Cancer combo, I actually just wish someone would be like, 'You know what? Your chart is beautiful and great just the way it is! The men you love love you! Everything will be okay!'

And instead it's all, 'You're doomed and you'll never be happy, and also you are synastrically incompatible with everyone you like.'

The only synastry I've ever posted on a site like this one that people had really positive interpretations of was with a guy I was totally not in love with, never had sex with, went on like three dates with and he was overinvolved with his mother. When I've posted synastries/composites here with people I just adore, everyone's like, "This relationship will be really depressing and that person will deceive you." (It's because of generational Neptune stuff.) And the guys haven't ever deceived me, but the relationships haven't lasted either.

My Leo heart just wants life to be great and not disappointing. Bleh.

posted January 21, 2011 10:20 PM            

With the Moon involved, it indicates that I experienced my mother in this way too.

It has a corresponding direct midpoint picture of Moon in 3'11 Pisces oppose Saturn/Neptune midpoint in 3'28 Virgo. Saturn/Neptune midpoint is the most challenging midpoint from a Cosmobiological perspective because it's associated with chronic illness, medical problems. This fits with my disabled mom having Diabetes.

My t-square is evolutionary intensified for transneptunian dwarf planet candidate, Varuna is in 3'01 Gemini R in 9th, conjuncting my Saturn, opposing my Neptune. Varuna is named after the Indian God of the Oceans,former supreme deity. It is aid to be about cosmic order, justice,judgment.
There are evolutionary intensified lessons that involve those matters. Hard transneptunian dwarf planet/candidate aspects involving personal,planets and points could be involved in traumatic events. This is true. My mom was shot by a schizophrenic,and I was with her at the time. That led to my having a strong belief in justice that include believing in death penalty too. I don't believe in death penalty now, but I believe that violent criminals need much longer prison sentences. The t-square also indicates an intensity and ultrasensitivity that can be too much at times ......in other words, sensory integration issues.
It has a corresponding direct midpoint picture of Moon in 3'11 Pisces oppose Neptune/Varuna midpoint in 2'25 Virgo

My Sun in 5'20 quincunx Saturn in 5'08 Gemini is not easy aspect to deal with either. It can restriction,limitation and the erosion of one's confidence,ego,vitality. This reflects the restrictions,limitations that I had with my stepfather who was very strict and controlling. It could also indicate limited,restriction involving my biological father. I never knew him.
There is evolutionary intensification involved for my transneptunian dwarf planet candidate/plutino Ixion is in 5'25 Scorpio in 2nd conjuncting my Sun and quincunx my Saturn. This suggests matters involving karma and second chances.

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No..I am not a Virgo.

posted January 22, 2011 03:43 AM            

I appear brooding to the world even though I am actually a very kind, friendly person.

Don't listen to the negative interpretations. "Negative" aspects are challenges and are a very good thing, because they create an opportunity for awesome growth.

posted January 22, 2011 10:43 AM            

Sun in Cancer -- 28.06.20 degrees -- 12th
Moon in Capricorn -- 7.56.46 degrees -- 6th
Ascendant in Leo -- 1.07.00 degrees -- 1st  
Mercury in Cancer -- 15.52.57 degrees -- 12th
Venus in Virgo -- 7.30.18 degrees -- 2nd
Mars in Taurus -- 14.08.57 -- 10th
Jupiter in Aries -- 23.44.51 -- 10th
Saturn in Cancer -- 23.15.51 degrees -- 12th
Uranus in Libra -- 28.26.52 degrees -- 4th (retrograde)
Neptune in Sagittarius -- 9.16.19 degrees -- 5th
Pluto in Libra -- 6.48.12 degrees -- 5th
True Node -- Scorpio at 29.50.30 -- 5th (retrograde)