posted January 28, 2011 10:31 AM            

In the beginning, he was alluring, intrugiung, something very deep, but not showing it, more of an energy thing.

Recently, passionate, o my god, how passionate, sexually deep, sensually exquisite...and all held in by his Virgo sun...and only let loose when the time is right with the right person...

I am blessed!

posted January 28, 2011 12:07 PM            

Now how I control my temper and anger is by walking away from things and letting them go. Realising that this is so very small in the bigger picture of life. It's just a passing moment. A passing moment, leading me from one path to the next.

Another thing that helps me cope with my anger/being upset is music. Locking myself up in my room and playing guitar for hours straight. It feels like putting my energy into something else that I genuinely love, heals all my anger/resentment. Also intense exercising. Like running stadium bleachers and stuff. I did competitive swimming for 14 years. It was never about winning things, it was the release of energy I got with swimming/loads of dryland exercising. If I was upset I couldn't stop until I pushed myself over the limit and felt the pain. Knowing that it didn't matter if I won the race or not, but that I gave it my all in every possible aspect until I could feel all my negative energy released.

Now as far as control of the sexual energy goes..well that's lost hope. lol I love sex. But when I have sex I want something intense, passionate, and out of body.I want someone who can provide things with passion and a touch of animalistic behavior lol.

There is a song that always plays in my head when I think of sex. Turned out my Scorpio Sun ex knew them and it was one of his favourites too.

Tv on the Radio-Wolf like Me

posted January 28, 2011 06:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Great Post Heavenlyhera
I am starting to get Mars in Scorpio just starting.
This one is hard for me to grasp

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Thank you Ami

posted January 28, 2011 07:30 PM            

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Thank you Ami

I thought I'd also mention. With the sexual energy...I want the orgasm that's closest to death. The sexual experience has to feel like rebirth when finished. I sometimes feel like I won't ever experience that in my life. I feel like it's just not humanly possible to reach that level, so in a way I am always left a little disappointed. lol

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posted January 29, 2011 07:33 AM            

I have noticed that the guys I have met have tended to have mars in water signs, namely Scorpio. I met a guy recently (Aries sun/moon, pisces venus/mars scorpio. There is an attraction in the respect he makes me laugh ALOT (due to my saggie sun/leo moon liking his fire in aries).

BUT mars in scorpio has caused devasatation in my world more than once. Am I not learning a lesson?? I think a fire or air mars would be less abrasive for me?

posted January 29, 2011 08:03 AM            

From Wiki;

Reproduction
Most scorpions reproduce sexually, and most species have male and female individuals. However, some species, such as Hottentotta hottentotta, Hottentotta caboverdensis, Liocheles australasiae, Tityus columbianus, Tityus metuendus, Tityus serrulatus, Tityus stigmurus, Tityus trivittatus, and Tityus urugayensis, reproduce through parthenogenesis, a process in which unfertilised eggs develop into living embryos. Parthenogenic reproduction starts following the scorpion's final moult to maturity and continues thereafter.
Sexual reproduction is accomplished by the transfer of a spermatophore from the male to the female; scorpions possess a complex courtship and mating ritual to effect this transfer.

Mating starts with the male and female locating and identifying each other using a mixture of pheromones and vibrational communication. Once they have satisfied the other that they are of opposite sex and of the correct species, mating can commence.
The courtship starts with the male grasping the female's pedipalps with his own; the pair then perform a "dance" called the "promenade à deux". In reality this is the male leading the female around searching for a suitable place to deposit his spermatophore.

The courtship ritual can involve several other behaviours such as juddering and a cheliceral kiss, in which the male's chelicerae – clawlike mouthparts – grasp the female's in a smaller more intimate version of the male's grasping the female's pedipalps and in some cases injecting a small amount of his venom into her pedipalp or on the edge of her cephalothorax,[25] probably as a means of pacifying the female.

When the male has identified a suitable location, he deposits the spermatophore and then guides the female over it. This allows the spermatophore to enter her genital opercula, which triggers release of the sperm, thus fertilizing the female.

The mating process can take from 1 to 25+ hours and depends on the ability of the male to find a suitable place to deposit his spermatophore. If mating goes on for too long, the female may eventually lose interest, breaking off the process.

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posted January 29, 2011 02:10 PM            

I've been with a Mars in Scorp for two years now, and the sex is just extreme. Both my venus and mars are in Pisces so we complement each other very well. I am of the opinion that every Scorpio must have his Pisces. Scorpios need to experience everything at the fullest, and this is something a Pisces can give them. At least emotionally.

posted January 29, 2011 05:50 PM            

I have Mars conj Neptune - and Venus trine Neptune (but they are in earth - not Pisces)
I love Scorpio Mars for the same reasons. I just love to lose myself in him.

My Jupiter is in Pisces trine his Mars.

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I understand where they're coming from -- he just wants to eat my soul.

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posted January 29, 2011 06:02 PM            

Yeah, I guess there's no other way to put it. They're just so hungry for more all the time. A little sadistic streak perhaps, even when they're under control. My guy always apologizes for accidentally giving me bite marks. I got curious about this insane passion inside him and asked him to let loose everything so I could know more. He said he couldn't, because he would definitely hurt me. Some feminist people may dread this kind of thing, but I really love it. It's the only way I would feel desired -- totally.

posted January 29, 2011 06:09 PM            

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they're the type who can make you do what they want.

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posted January 29, 2011 07:22 PM            

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A little sadistic streak perhaps, even when they're under control.

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LoL - "Little" she calls it
I love the sadistic streak personally, because it's very honest. It goes way down to something so deeply instinctual but buried in a great majority of people.

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Some feminist people may dread this kind of thing, but I really love it. It's the only way I would feel desired -- totally.

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It really bothers me when people mix sex and politics. To me 'feminism' and what I personally choose to do in my bedroom - are worlds apart and have no connection whatsoever. Since when does feminism teach that we should not be true to our animal natures and enjoy sex as we please? I thought feminism was meant to be about having *choices*. But some people love to distort it and apply it in very inappropriate contexts.

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I guess it's what makes Scorpio Mars so one-of-a-kind. They are satisfied with nothing less than everything you can offer. Half-hearted lovemaking is their biggest turn-off.

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This is so true and it suits me perfectly because I feel the same way. I also have Pluto in Scorpio in the 5th and his Mars is on my Pluto. I really appreciate his intensity.

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They always give their all, so they want you to do the same. No holding back or detachment in bed. And not much of a problem with that anyway -- they're the type who can make you do what they want.

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Yes! See I feel like I have a strong desire to do what he wants and make him feel good. But that is precisely *because* he gives his ALL. I get so much positive energy from him and he has helped me in so many ways - I know he deeply cares about me.. so of course - I have a strong desire to reciprocate.

With my Taurus Mars ex... He also asked for a *lot* and wanted a *lot*... But he gave *nothing* in return. That's selfishness pure and simple.
As time went on I lost all desire to do anything for him.

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posted January 29, 2011 07:52 PM            

But I liked it.

Anyone with Scorpio Mars -- they simply cannot be just ordinary. These are people who will find the limits of an ideology, a taboo, an institution -- and smash it to pieces. They were simply born and bred to do just that, to smash boundaries. They constantly test their limits to prove to themselves what they are capable of. They would go to extremes -- blood, violence, sadomasochism, the like. They just want it all, to feel it all, to experience it all. They can be a lusty beast or a celibate saint if they so wished. And that capacity for control that they have is simply extraordinary...and very, very attractive.

posted January 29, 2011 07:57 PM            

I can relate. As an Aries I hate being manipulated into doing something as well I would have done anyway minus the lying, if only I were asked directly. But I managed to find a way around this and became more open to my Scorpio Mars SO. I showed him how much the lying and manipulating hurt me and that I was willing to do things anyway if only he'd ask. Sometimes he's more honest, sometimes he reverts back to his nature.