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Topic: Cancer Risers / Cap 7th - Destined for lovelessness?
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A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 12:41 PM
Does Saturn ruling the seventh mean 'bad' in that area. Or 'lack of', or 'difficulties with' etc etc??? Just thinking about myself, aswell as many other Cancer risers i know. I've been through alot of women in my time, but i puyt that down to Mars in the 5th, but does my seventh house ruler mean love will be hard to come by for me, permenance, not just flings, or romance. I've noticed that yes i attract women, but i don't attract 'the one'. Everyone else seems to have the one. Why not me? Is it Saturn. Whenever a girl really likes me i'm not so into her, and whenever i'm really into a girl she's not so into me. I've had 36 years of this ironic bu11shlt and i'm starting to think it's the ruler of my seventh. Please noone reply with anything like 'you have to learn to love yourself first, and then they will come blah blah'. I don't want rhetoric rubbed in the wound. It's a serious astrological question. Do people know any other Cancer risers with this 'syndrome'?IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 995 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 12:54 PM
well, you are on the ball with grasping the theme of saturn, but you have to remember that astrology ISNT** about exacts in themes and energies, it only offers potential outcomes down one avenue.in other words, all your ideas are possible, no one idea is wrong or right. but the possibility of not finding love ever is very unlikely based on any once ascendant. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 01:10 PM
I did ask politely for people NOT to post non-responsive answers please. That was the same as saying 'all signs are good', 'it's what you make of it blah blah' NO. Not all things are the same. Not all planetary positions are good. I take on board what you say about aspects though. But the question is really about Saturn ruling the seventh and any interpretation thereof - ceteris paribus ALL OTHER THINGS BEING EQUAL. So just to remind people the topic heading refers to Saturn ruling the seventh house. IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 995 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 01:28 PM
ALF,i know my lady is a cancer riser, and i'm the one for her. try to give what i said a chance to sink in, i am not trying to give you the kind of answers you say you don't want, its just the truth. do you consider the possibility that you perhaps want people to tell you the answer that You want it to be? or do you want the truth? anyway.. the point of my post is that saturn ruling the 7th doesnt mean naything you concern for in regards to not finding the one. astrology doesnt work in exacts, that is the answer. astrology works in energies and themes and possibilities within a theme. one planet doesnt not equal x. a planet is a host of possible outcomes and meanings, in other words, a theme of a house in a chart offers abcd a planet can offer xyds an aspect between two planets can mean dyzl then what do we do? we have the potential for so many meanings by mixing different parts of the equation, the result could be dcba what saturn square venus in one chart means can mean a different up bringing than someone else with the same aspect, but what it will promise is one way ro another, saturn-square-venus energy is playing out in their life, but it doesnt mean because in one persons life, it turned out they had no father and was underloved, means it was the same in someone elses life. in someone elses life thye couldve had a very stable up bringing and two parents happily married, but maybe they dedicated alot of their time to their carreers so much that it left the child feeling under attended to, or lack of time and attention, leaving af eeling of lack of love, leading to feelings that are presented by venus square saturn in their life. thats juts an example of how astrology works, in my opinion and experience that is. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2085 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 01:30 PM
ALF, the way the Cap-Cancer axis plays out in the 7th is on the emotional level....whatever's going on in your love life, you FEEL needy and vulnerable and self-protective (Cancer) and very hard on yourself (Capricorn.)Sometimes you can be in a relationship with someone who mutually loves you, and still FEEL caught in that trap, as if destiny for lovelessness is your life-story. It feels impossible to get help that really helps (that's the Capricorn), but desperate for help at the same time (Cancer.) I am Cap rising, Saturn-Moon conjunct in Cancer in the 7th...I am also 36, so a lot of what's going on with us right now has been transiting Pluto-Saturn square putting a chokehold on this axis...I've had Saturn on my Pluto, squaring transiting pluto on my ascendent opposite my Saturn. Pluto wants us to transform and break out of the chains that are hurting us on this axis, I think....so that instead of coming at relationships (or lack thereof) from a place of neediness or pain, we will manifest the positive aspects of it--long-lasting relationship (Cap) and nurturing (Cancer.) That FEELING--"everyone else has love and all my loves are one-sided and I'm the loneliest kid in the playground"--is all about Cap-Cancer. Lots of people could be in the same situation as I am and not attach that emotional quality to it. I was in a very long, committed relationship, I ended it, and a few years later fell in love with someone amazing who seemed into me too, and had a five-month thing that HE ended four months ago. Some people might read that in their lives as: "I just broke up with someone, I hope someday soon I'll meet someone new I have a good thing with." I read it as "No one is EVER going to love me back and I'll never meet someone like that again and I never get to be happy in love and never get what I want or need." IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 02:02 PM
Oh boy do I see my best friend in you - she's also cancer asc Some info on cap dsc (various sources, sorry - it's from a former group on msn): The opposite sign of Capricorn will be found on the 7th house cusp, and evokes those qualities which balance the extremes of Cancer. Those with Cancer rising may be flooded and swept away by upsurges of emotion and feeling, but maintaining a relationship demands that they discriminate between which emotions are appropriate and useful and which should be filtered or kept under control. Through partnership, a structure (Capricorn) is built, into which the otherwise random and chaotic feelings of Cancer can flow. They may enact their own need to achieve in the world through helping another person to become successful and established (Capricorn on the 7th). With this placement, a partner who will offer security, strength and stability is sought. At some point, however, Cancer rising will need to find these qualities from within, rather than importing others to provide them. Childhood is a tremendously traumatic time for one with Cancer rising. The rising sign is related to the 'orphan' complex. Whether the individual was really orphaned or not is irrelevant; he feels orphaned and abandoned early on, and his emotional coloring starts right then. He feels a distinct lack of mothering and tender loving care from childhood. My Cancer-rising daughter Diane recalled an incident during a regression session that clarified many of her childhood reactions. In that session, she went back to the age of five months, when she was sick and in the hospital. She recalled seeing me standing above her, seeming to ignore her fears by not picking her up and holding her close. She said she was scared and needed to be held. When I kept my distance, she decided right then that I didn't love her. She felt, and decided to act, like an outsider in our family for much of her childhood. The recollection of this incident was a revelation to both of us, and I was grateful for an opportunity to present the 'facts' of that moment. Her grandfather was the Chief of Staff of the hospital and the fashion of his day was not to let mothers stay with their babies. His words were: 'Hysterical mothers have no business being around sick children'. That moment she recalled took place when she was in the nursery undergoing a blood transfusion. I was behind a plate-glass window, with my heart in my mouth, watching her, aching to take her in my arms to comfort her. There was no fighting the boss, however, and I was sent home, knowing it was the wrong thing to do. What Diane didn't photograph was my feelings. She only saw my actions. Her behavior during her childhood certainly reflected the decision she had made about my love. Fortunately she has no doubts about that love now, but her childhood was made more difficult because of this early reaction. I, in my state of unawareness, did not think to talk to her, at five months, to explain what was going on. She said that many times after that, when she felt particularly alone or abandoned, she would think of that incident and feel better almost immediately. The deprivation of touch at that critical and traumatic time of life has affected her whole life. It is interesting to not that the sensitive area for one with Cancer rising is the stomach and digestion. Diane was in the hospital because she was having trouble digesting food and was not receiving enough nourishment. The actual first memory of feeling abandoned could have come with my inability to nurse her for very long. Again, an example of oral needs connected with this rising sign. It appears that what one with this ascendant is looking for in a marriage is security. His own emotional swings keep him coming and going, so when he finds a person who appears to be stable, reliable, and responsible, that person represents the security he feels he needs. If Saturn is well aspected in the chart, it will be a serene and stable marriage, but if Saturn is badly aspected, the likelihood is that the marriage can be heavy, restricting, and limiting. Many times, a heavy Saturn in the chart can indicate an inherent fear or marriage. It is as if the individual sense the restrictions connected with partnership. It is especially important to examine the relationship to see where the limitation will end and the sense of stability will begin. If it is well-aspected, Saturn is the planet that indicates responsibility, practicality, and steadfastness. It can represent the parent type, who is there to give a solid base, be supportive and responsible. In its positive sense, the one with Cancer rising can act as the mother and the partner will assume the father role, the disciplinarian. If Saturn is not well aspected, however, it represents one who is insecure, overly cautious, and judgemental instead of supportive. The Cancer rising can find himself in a limiting, restrictive partnership with someone cold and unresponsive, hardly what he needs to ensure security. The Kabbalists liken Saturn to the 'playpen' Mother Nature puts her children in. That playpen can be important for the safety of the child early on, but later it can be restrictive and limiting. Safety can also be fun, so the person with a Cancer ascendant must be sure there are plenty of toys in his playpen to keep him happy. He needs to look for someone who is responsible without being overly conservative. A 'proper' person, but fun-loving. He must be careful not to let the prospect of a sturdy family tree keep him from looking at the realistic potential of the individual. He wants a heavyweight, but one that will act as a supportive agent, not a limiting one. The most important facet of the partner to be aware of is a strong sense of self-worth. If that person is sure of himself or herself, the support in the marriage is fantastic. It will be long-lasting and comfortable - a 'forever' situation. But if the partner has insecurities, he will tend to keep the one with Cancer rising tied to the limitations he feels in himself. He will convince the Cancer rising that he can't live without the partnership, whereas in fact it is the partner that can't live without the energy of one with Cancer rising. This person, the partner, will act like a rock, stuck in the mud at the shoreline, keeping one with the Cancer ascendant tied up, rather than acting as a stabilizing anchor. A rock creates its own little whirlpool, pulling things to its own stuck place. Unless he is very careful, the one with Cancer rising is sometimes easily pulled in by negative strokes, negative messages, and negative situations. Since he is so sensitive, he needs to be aware of the first judgemental message he hears from one he is interested in. He will never be able to do anything about anohter person's feelings of self-worth; all he can do is take care of his own. He needs to understand what he has to give in a partnership situation and look for someone who truly appreciates him. He must guard against a desire to rescue; a rock will remain a rock as long as its behavior produces the desired results. The Cancer rising will have to deal with his mothering instincts most carefully in this instance. He may have to consider that marriage may be his own way of keeping himself safe and in the playpen. If he is willing to assume responsibility for his own happiness and life, he ultimately attracts to his side one who is protective and who is desirous of fulfilling the same sense of destiny and duty on a humanitarian level as Cancer rising. Together they can act as 'mother and father' on a profound level, being mutually supportive and nurturing to each other and to mankind. For you, probably the most important aspects of a relationship are integrity and security. You do not rush into an affair helter-skelter, and when you do commit yourself to a lover you expect it to be a lasting relationship. You will persevere through many trials and tribulations in order to make an affair work out, as long as you feel that your partner is equally committed. If there is any problem with this position, it is oversensitivity, a tendency to take remarks made in jest too seriously. You can overcome this difficulty in part by choosing your lover carefully. Then you should watch your emotional reations and be discriminating about what you take to heart. This position makes you a very faithful lover, but in the liberal climate of today, an incident of unfaithfulness will be very traumatic for you. You should avoid being overly possessive in the physical sense; faithfulness belongs more to the heart than to the body. If you can keep this in mind, you can avoid much unnecessary emotional injury. Physically, what is most meaningful to you in sexuality is love and devotion; sincerity in a partner far outweighs technique. For a truly happy and fulfilling long-term relationship, sex and love must be synonymous. IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Where I want to be.. Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 02:36 PM
Hmm.. dunno, the Cancer risings I know seem to be the opposite of what you're describing. They settle down really fast and pretty young too (either married with children, or in long term relationships.)One Cancer rising has Saturn between 5th/6th house cusps, Saturn sits on her Sun. She started noticing guys pretty late too, I think she was 19 at the time when she realized... "Huh?.. someone has a crush on me? I didn't notice lol." She's currently married with kids. Other Cancer riser with Saturn Singleton in 7th has been dating since she grew breasts. Lol, the power of breasts has drew many guys to her till she met her now long term bf. Happily together with a daughter. Another Cancer riser has Saturn in 4th, squaring Venus in 7th. He dated lots of women, especially older, currently settled down and has a kid with his gf. ------------------ “If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang.” — Charley Reese IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 51 From: California Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 03:31 PM
I think Maira's response was incredibly perceptive. I'm a Cancer Rising; my 1st-3rd houses on the cancer house cusp, or however you say it. I'm female, and I look for stability and maturity in a guy. Capricorn embodies those qualities. But I initially attract and/or am attracted to Aquarians, Scorpios, or Arians...My Moon is in Scorpio and my Mars in Aquarius. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 04:05 PM
Thank you for those contributions. Maira's extracts resonated with me too especially about the childhood, especially as i also have retro Saturn conjunct my ascendent! I was discussing this with someone the other day. I felt my addictive nature was moving towards sex addiction. I've slept with 4 women already this year. One i even randomly pulled in the middle of the day after i saw a really hot pair of legs walking down the road. She went into a hairdressers, and i couldn't pull over so i phoned the hairdressers and gave them my full name and number and asked them to give it to the 'beautiful girl in the red head scarf'. She text me and i met her a couple of days later. To be honest they say 'you should never meet your heros'. Which rung true when i met that girl with the legs. She wasn't that fantastic, and tbh was a bit mental. But i don't want to sleep around like this. I want to be in a loving relationship. I'm sleeping with people that i don't want a relationship with and it's ultimately unfulfilling, empty and dirty really. I went out on one date with a beautiful women a couple of weeks ago who i DO want a relationship with. But she has alot of men vying for her attention and i hate competition. I was saying to my Scorpio pigeon mother that i think i have low self-esteem hence my behaviour. But she said my self-esteem was too high (lol) which was why i sleep with people then don't want to know them the next day. But i still maintain i chase the best, but settle for the average ones out of desperation. I've done everything i can to find love, and it evades me in any real long term way. The few girls i've really wanted didn't want me, and the ones that have really wanted me i didn't want. It totally sucks and i find it wierd. Am i punching above my weight? Should i just settle for someone gross?IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2085 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 04:18 PM
Don't settle!But why not try to be friends first with some women? Not just ones you're attracted to, but ones you like and respect in a friendship way. That'll help you get used to being intimate and open with women and deepening a connection, and may change the vibes you respond to. It's not about the "level" someone's at...each human is a completely unique individual. It's about finding someone who really fits with you and inspires you. My ex thought I was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen (he wasn't just flattering me, he talked to other people about it after we split up), and that he would never have anyone that beautiful. And lots of people would not see me that way at all...it was just the way I fit with *him* that made him feel that. (0 degree conjunction of his Venus to my Sun, among other things.) People aren't in leagues or levels. I hope you meet someone you really like mutually, who is also ready for a long-term thing, soon. IP: Logged |
Moons Of Jupiter Knowflake Posts: 149 From: Australia Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 04:31 PM
ALF - the answer to your last question is no, and don't do yourself the disservice self-indulging in that concept.Just briefly, I am also a Cancer rising, Cap on the Descendant, with Saturn squaring my Sun in the 5th (which has so far sucked the fun out of everything 5th house represents, including the fun side of relationships). A good astrologer once told me that Cappy on the descendant means that on a subconscious level, you keep your ideal relationships as something that is always 'in the future', a goal to strive for, something to work towards, an ambition of sorts - but never in the present. You basically don't consider where you are at in life right now to be 'worthy' of a happy relationship. It's something that will come along when you feel great about yourself one day and all your dreams will have come true and you'll be exactly who you want to be, and THEN conveniently at the time suitable to you, your perfect soul-mate will magically slot into your life. I know it doesn't feel like this to you because you want that good r'ship now, but what we manifest around us speaks VOLUMES, and it's not based on our intentions at all. In reality, people come into your life when you're f***ed up, and hate yourself, and that person usually exposes you to yourself, and you blame them somehow, and off it goes.... I understand you, because I share the same tendency for thinking this way, but I've also realized is that with Cappy on the Descendant, we want to feel those bells and whistles, but our lesson astrologically is that even that is tied to CHOICE, and it will not come to us without some difficulty. We may not be astrologically destined to see 'the one' and have 'the one' see us, and then just be one of those happy soul-mated couples that never had a doubt and bounced into the perfect relationship. Astrologically, we have to work harder, I really do believe that, so don't resist your nature in that respect, but build your character through awareness and choices. Maira was very right with: "If Saturn is badly aspected, the likelihood is that the marriage can be heavy, restricting, and limiting. Many times, a heavy Saturn in the chart can indicate an inherent fear or marriage. It is as if the individual sense the restrictions connected with partnership." This was totally my relationship with someone who was crazy about me and could have perfectly well been my life partner, but I just felt soooo heavy and restricted and am looking (and still looking) for that spark that I want to feel. So yeah...I totally get you, but understand that you're not doomed to never find the one, but you are being astrologically asked to work harder within yourself around the area of relationships, and take your 'awareness' as a blessing, not a curse. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 04:33 PM
Thanks Lucia. Btw how did you know i was 36? Are you from the U.K? (btw that isn't the start of me hitting on you although it could sound like that. I'm terrible aren't i). IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2085 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 04:41 PM
You said you were 36 in your original post! And I'm not from the UK. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 04:41 PM
Moons of Jupiter that was extremely well worded. And i agree with every single word of it, and i did read it properly. It's the most accurate portrayal of Cap D/C i've ever heard, and so true of me personally. The bit about 'in the future... not worthy now...'' etc SO true of me. Thanks. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 04:42 PM
Ah ok, thanks Lucia, sorry i forgot i mentioned my age. IP: Logged |
maira Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 06:13 PM
Lucia is right, try to have female friends, my guess is that it is an intimacy problem. We all struggle to find that balance, not wanting someone who does not give a damn, but also avoiding um, poodles Astrologically, what's your Saturn doing in the chart, aside from being conjunct asc? I was thinking about my descendant in Aries, it does bring more ease. Maybe the keyword for Saturn is caution, too much of it? (mine is conjunct asc too). And my Mars is in Aries, in the 7th, I married at 23 and got a divorce at 24 - damn you, pluto-mars opposition IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 1103 From: Firey Jupiter Registered: May 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 06:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by A_L_F:
I've noticed that yes I attract women, but I don't attract 'the one'. Everyone else seems to have the one. Why not me? Is it Saturn. Whenever a girl really likes me I'm not so into her, and whenever i'm really into a girl she's not so into me.
I once dated a Cancer ASC. and this was exactly the dynamic, in fact he told me I just wasn't the "one." I was flabbergasted, I mean he wasn't that great to begin with and I think he could sense that I felt some uneasiness from him, and considering Cancer is a water sign, there is some intuitiveness going on and Capricorn DSC. relates to status, meaning he wanted a girl that had something over him. The thing was I did have something over him, but he was too narrow minded to realize this because he fixated on the Capricorn requisites of being overly educated or being popular among others. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 07:11 PM
Maira my Saturn is basically unaspected. IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Where I want to be.. Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 07:20 PM
Your Saturn quincunx Venus, it's not unaspected. I can feel my Moon/Neptune quincunx more strongly than my Moon/Merc trine.------------------ “If malice or envy were tangible and had a shape, it would be the shape of a boomerang.” — Charley Reese IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 08, 2011 08:01 PM
There is a long standing BEEF between your Sagittarius stellium --- read: "I want to break free!" ----- and your Cancer/Cap dichotomy... read: "I was born in this hole and I will die in this hole!" (Have you seen 'Ice Age?')Somewhere down the yellow brick road between your Cancer AC and Cap DC --- you seem to have forgotten who you are. Sort out the beef - you'll be happy. Be happy - you'll attract love. Namaste. IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 702 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted February 08, 2011 08:06 PM
aah, the infamous ALF.IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 2085 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 09, 2011 12:04 AM
Your Moon is conjunct my Sun(1), your Venus is trine my Mercury (0), your Uranus is exactly conjunct my midheaven, and we have flipped ASC-DSC (I'm Cap rising, but Saturn conjunct my Cancer DSC gives it Capricornian/Saturn qualities...you are Cancer rising, but Saturn on your ASC gives it a Capricornian flavor.) I see why I relate so much this thread.Betty Boop is right...it's not the Cancer-Cap axis in and of itself, it's the incompatibility between being a happy, lusty fire sign and the watery seriousness of that ASC-DSC axis. In your case, your enormous Sag stellium probably doesn't even want to settle down--it just wants to romp around getting laid. And then your Leo Moon is very status-conscious, in a different way than your Capricorn DSC is status conscious. The status-consciousness doesn't go that well with the adventurous Sag, which likes all flavors. That Leo/Cap combination is hard (I have it with Sun/ASC)--your mate has to totally impress you and live up to your status ideals. I'm trying to follow my Sag NN and be more adventurous and open-minded, seeing who I really feel attracted to whether or not he has all the fancy qualities I usually go for. In your case, the Sag is a huge stellium. In addition to getting close to women as friends, you should explore your spiritual side...get yourself in touch with who you really feel intimate with and what you really need at a deep level, instead of what/who you think you SHOULD want and need. IP: Logged |
A_L_F Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Jun 2010
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posted February 09, 2011 04:46 AM
Yes soulfoul, you're right. Quincunx. Bit of a b1tch that aspect, and it's the same between my Ascendent and general group in Sag as others have pointed out. Bit of a sucky set-up all round. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 738 From: Praha Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 09, 2011 04:46 AM
Ur problem isn't cappy dsc. But,saturn in detr. in 1st H=ruler of 7th in 1st,and 3rd H Moon. 3rd H Moon is great for creative work,but it is crappy everyday position. Moon has nothing to do in the house of intellect. As if ur heart and mind r biting each other to blood all the time. This is seriously subjective position. >everyone has the one except me< perception is distorted,u see fullfillment of ur desire everywhere,while u r marginalised; u do that,putting urself aside. Accompanied by saturn that will deprived u from anything until everything is perfect,just the way u imagined. Visionary. If u want to be happy,be hedonist. Be NOW! Be 5th H Mars. Also,saturn is restrictive to anything that isn't of same nature. And u have moon trine venus! Use it! Cancer/Cappy axis is tradionalistic;sure u want the one,only etc... Having the one is only possible way. Cancer is messed up sign. Apply some sag&aqua philosophy. As to saturn,start appreciating beauty of life. Search where u haven't look for. Recognize ur butterfly sexuality. IP: Logged |
stormyvirgo Newflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted February 09, 2011 07:20 AM
Hey A_L_F, I really related to your first post tremendously. Like you, I'm a Cancer Rising but additionally I have an empty 7th house. Sometimes I do feel cursed in the love dept; I never like those who like me and often crush on those who don't notice me. The few relationships I have had weren't great (very challenging) so you can say I'm unlucky in the love department. Yet I still desperately want to find true loveUgh I hope we (those with Cancer ascendants) are truly not destined to be alone :-(. I still have faith, hope this thread and all the positive responses has helped you to restore your faith. IP: Logged | |