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Topic: Horary quesrtion: Does he still like me? Push-Pull Virgos
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 11, 2011 02:29 AM
  
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Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2011 07:23 AM
I did not think the push/pull was specific to Virgo.
It seems like Pisces,most of all,with Libra a good second  ------------------
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posted February 11, 2011 04:09 PM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 11, 2011 05:33 PM
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mir
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posted February 11, 2011 06:15 PM
It's so sweet what I read..I must me VERY wrong if he doesn't like you! Well, I'm just an old lived case but with a heavy Virgo influence myself (asc/merc) I'm STILL afraid for holding hands in public.. especially in front of my sis ..and believe it or not .. she's still making fun of it  IP: Logged |
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posted February 11, 2011 09:02 PM
hey, i'll go over the chart...but before i do i want to read over some stuff to make sure.....i'll probably respond to it in a couple of days.i gave it a quick look...and it's not looking good...
there isn't much (good or bad) going on btwn your guys...the jupiter sag means distance....it kinda looks like he forgot about you... the one aspect you guys have is btwn your co-signifiers and that's a square with no reception...although it's not impossible and not ALL hope is lost...you'd have to work really really really hard to get to the point you'd like to be at...he is in detriment(weak)..so your efforts may pay off...but idk...you would have to work for his affection ..and it's not going to come easy. also pluto in the first house means " a complication and the Querent is vulnerable; likely to exposure or to be thrown into a position of isolation in some way". your venus is in his 8th house (of lost)
you're in his 10th house (he saw you as someone worth conquering, kinda makes me think he'd do or say anything to conquer you)
and really not to sound mean....but the things you listed sound like some very amature techniques guys use to sneak themselves into a girls heart...(although, i know it's hard to see/accept it when you're in the middle of it)....99% of us have been there. i'd honeslty forget this guy i'll double check everything though and get back to u as soon as i can... IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 12, 2011 02:01 AM
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posted February 12, 2011 04:54 AM
It's just based on what I read that I'm abt absolutely sure he likes you and it would surprise me if he didn't. It isn't easy to be a Virgo when it comes to *love* .. but ofcourse, the main point is that it must feel good for YOU...
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 12, 2011 06:24 AM
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mintgirl123
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posted February 12, 2011 09:23 AM
I don't think you know what love is. You CANNOT love somebody in two weeks. That's simply not possible bc love takes time and really knowing a person very well. I'm a virgo (with libra moon, venus, mercury) I have a virgo mars. I take relationships seriously. We do tend to waver alittle and usually don't jump in head first straight away. We usually think things through before proceeding bc generally Virgos are cautious. We are quite cynical when it comes to relationships, so yeah we like to take things slow. It's very hard for me to fall in love. Only happened once.
I'm the same age as you lol. From what you wrote, he probably does like you. Virgos are generally pretty good with actions corresponding to words.
Like I always keep my word. Did he say why he wanted to break up? Maybe it was the age gap... I can't imagine dating even a 19 year old lol. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 12, 2011 02:17 PM
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 12, 2011 02:20 PM
Nah, I think with sun conjunct venus in the composite you just know right away that you just love that person. of course u can love 500 million people and i have. And it doesnt mean i love any of them any less. I think earth signs complicate things too much. I may not have been in love but i did feel love.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 13, 2011 01:07 AM
BumpAnyone willing to try to interpret my horary question? IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted February 13, 2011 02:06 AM
What you described is NOT love. It's infatuation.Love isn't butterflies in your tummy. It's alot more than that. It's alot more meaningful than that and it's hard to explain until you actually DO fall in love.
But meh. You haven't had any experiences of it so you wouldn't know.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 13, 2011 04:13 AM
Well how would u know what i felt? I actually didnt feel any butterflies or even nervousness around him, i actually just felt very relaxed and comfortable and happy. I also felt like i wanted to pour a lot of caring on him. I just thought he was cool.IP: Logged |
specialistangel
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posted February 13, 2011 06:57 PM
This story reminds me of a guy I knew when I was 14.... he would hide his love, not show it in an overtly loving way, I'm not sure why, I think he just got used to loving in that way as he wasn't able to express his love with me because of various reasons (some astro and some not astro related). If he pays attention to you, like, mean attention, I would express your dislike with his behaviour towards you, because a little bit a of teasing is okay, but too much will hinder the romance. Look at the Venus and it's aspects, that's how the love will be expressed. Also look at the 2nd house of love and money, and the 7th house of love and marriage, and the aspects these houses make. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 15, 2011 01:46 AM
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specialistangel
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posted February 15, 2011 02:03 AM
LOL. Bumb for you also!!!IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 15, 2011 02:13 PM
Lol thank u....Where are my horary chart readers?!IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted February 15, 2011 02:27 PM
Hmmm did a good reading of the horary, right here: quote:
i gave it a quick look...and it's not looking good...
there isn't much (good or bad) going on btwn your guys...the jupiter sag means distance....it kinda looks like he forgot about you...the one aspect you guys have is btwn your co-signifiers and that's a square with no reception...although it's not impossible and not ALL hope is lost...you'd have to work really really really hard to get to the point you'd like to be at...he is in detriment(weak)..so your efforts may pay off...but idk...you would have to work for his affection ..and it's not going to come easy. also pluto in the first house means " a complication and the Querent is vulnerable; likely to exposure or to be thrown into a position of isolation in some way".
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Lucia23
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posted February 15, 2011 02:52 PM
His messages don't sound mixed. He broke up with you, and has tried to be friendly afterwards, and he's interested in someone new now.A mixed message or push-pull would NOT involve telling you he didn't want to go out anymore--telling you that directly is pretty straightforward. Some people on another thread were saying things like "he sounds like a douche"--but one thing that might have happened is that, when you made out, he didn't feel a romantic and/or physical connection. It's sad, but it doesn't make someone a bad person. And it doesn't automatically mean he's being wishy-washy, or that he's secretly scared. At every stage of a relationship, both people are seeing whether they feel good together, how they "fit", balancing needs and desires, and getting a feel for whether they want to continue on as a couple. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 15, 2011 03:08 PM
The thing is that yes he is a douche because if he didnt feel that way about me in the first place then why go out with me, why be affectionate, why lead me on? And also why try to kiss me himself
What sign are you, Lucia? Just wondering because I noticed something
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Lucia23
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posted February 15, 2011 03:22 PM
I'm saying, it might not have been leading you on. He could have felt interested, attracted, and connected...and then after kissing and touching you, felt less interested, attracted, and connected.He might not have felt enough physical or romantic compatibility with you to want to kiss you again. That happens sometimes, to everyone...you can't REALLY know what it feels like to kiss someone or be with them in that way until you've tried it. If it had been an experience he badly wanted to repeat, he would not have called to tell you he didn't want to date you anymore afterwards. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted February 15, 2011 03:29 PM
Oh, to answer your question, I'm a Leo.It's not douchy to lose interest after you get a better sense of what it feels like to be with someone, it's just human. Douchey would be if he lied to you to use you for something. It sounds like he just does not want to date you, make out with you, or be in a couple with you anymore, and like he told you that both straightforwardly and politely. Being interested in someone and kissing them doesn't obligate you to stay with them forever if you're no longer interested. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 15, 2011 03:34 PM
He said it felt amazing right after we kissed and he said "wow, this is niiice" as we were just standing there huggingPlus, why would he embrace me to say goodbye and kiss me on the cheek and be so shy afterwards, literally fumbling over his footsteps and blushing strongly. And why would he say we got very close when he was breaking up and say that we shouldnt stay friends because we were gonna be affectionate? IP: Logged |
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