posted February 21, 2011 12:58 PM            

Being a cancer moon myself I can say that I
am

* Co-dependent

* insecure

* can be childlike

* always feel like people close to me "owe" me something.

*Challenging person to love. Push/pull dynamics in my personal relationships.

A good drawn out cry is necessary every other day for my emotions to satrt off on a proverbial "clean slate".

I often set it up by throwing a pity party, playing melancholic music, thinking of people who've betrayed me(always playing victim ofcourse)and other horandous things that have happened to me.

posted February 21, 2011 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
It is a very difficult moon sign to have; not much positive is said about it(I'm afraid)

Being a cancer moon myself I can say that I
am

* Co-dependent

* insecure

* can be childlike

* always feel like people close to me "owe" me something.

*Challenging person to love. Push/pull dynamics in my personal relationships.

A good drawn out cry is necessary every other day for my emotions to satrt off on a proverbial "clean slate".

I often set it up by throwing a pity party, playing melancholic music, thinking of people who've betrayed me(always playing victim ofcourse)and other horandous things that have happened to me.

I often gain a clear perspective after that. When I am done feeling down, the only way to go is up(until I have to take time off to feel down again).

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Wow, this is brave of you to admit.

posted February 21, 2011 09:46 PM            

Maybe it's cause the Moon signs are the emotion sign...and water signs have the deepest emotions. Making them more complex/complicated than any other moon sign types.

posted February 22, 2011 08:44 PM            

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I DON'T, however, feel like anybody owes me anything.

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posted February 24, 2011 08:04 AM            

Asc Taurus
Are you a guy ?

Do I come off sounding like a girl? lol

I swear it's my moon in cancer that is to blame.

I can be a real b***h at times.

Lehia2

I have found that descriptions on cancer placements tend to be negative. It can be mars (too sumise, passive-aggresive etc) , sun ( moody, emotional, clingy) venus (like to play victim) I could go on..even the moon in cancer (which is supposed to be at home) gets more negative reviews than it does positive ones. (just look at this thread).

I guess there's some signs people love to love (Saggy, Aquas..) and some others people love to hate (most water signs).
Has anyone else notice this or am I being just too sensitive? hehe
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I also strongly agree with you Lehia. I think it's the whole patriachal system that we are all living in. We are more likely to put down traits associated with women,like moodiness, sadness, sensitivity etc. especially when they are "excessive".Hence the put-down on Cancers, Pisceans and Scorpions.

posted February 27, 2011 02:07 PM            

And he isn't really like what everyone else is saying. Then again I've got:
Sun- Aries (1st house)
Moon - Scorpio (8th house)
Mercury - Aries (1st house)
Venus - Pisces (1st house)
Mars - Gemini (3rd house)
Rising - Pisces (1st house)

As you can see it's a little different because of how our charts mess. He also has a Jupiter in Pisces, which conjuncts my venus-rising, this kind of helps.

The only problem I can say is that all cancer men are needy in some way. It depends on how their mothers were to them and how they dealt with stuff from their ex girlfriends.

My guy's ex, pretty much was a crazy woman! She is a Sagittarius w/ a Leo moon! She also had a Scorpio Venus! So she was pretty much a loose cannon with him and she brought out his bitter side 24/7. She cheated on him and he couldn't trust her.

Thats the thing, if you cheat on a cancer man (sun/moon/rising), FORGET IT! You are either dead to him, lower than scum, or worse than the black plague. No cancer man deals with a woman who does that to him.

They also have a hard time leaving their women, because of how immersed they get on an emotional level with her. My guy told me that I'm the only person he has ever known and feel he could just talk to about anything and everything. He gets real vulnerable with me and gets upset if he offended me, made me disappointed, or anything that isn't good. He even cries sometimes because he knows how screwed over he is from his ex.

Thats another thing, all cancer men will have at least one ex girlfriend that screwed him over royally in such a way that the good boyfriend part is pretty much dead. Thats why most turn into such vicious two-faced guys sometimes. They are trying to either even the score to feel better about being so scorned by women or they are too afraid to let any female back in again.

These men are deep, not as deep as my scorpio brothers and sisters of the sun/moon/rising group, but they are just as brooding as us.

posted February 28, 2011 01:31 AM            

His mom had depression.
He said he has it too. But he smokes alot of pot and I think that helped him not seem all that depressed at first. He also has ADD or AHD or whatever, and bi-polar.

Anywho he was "put away" for a while.(mental institution?) Not even his own mamma could handle him.
He told me that kinda made him not have a child hood. (and how he would yell at her from the grave about why she did that to him)
He was on meds and that made him sleepy so he's been off his meds for a while.
Also his mom died when he was 16 from cancer.
But according to his dad he was a momma's boy.

And then his highschool sweet heart or whatever...He couldn't take her anymore...so he drove to OH to get away for a while. Well this ex girl ended up hooking up with his step brother. (His dad remarried after his mom passed)
Those two ended up getting married and had a baby together.

So he has to see them every so often. And act like its all good.

He would also tell me about how he would get with girls who where chatty with other guys and would say "oh we are just friends" and later they would say "oh I can't talk to you anymore cause I'm going out with him now" He also told me how he has cheated on girls...or if he would tell me about certain things and I would put the peices together and say "oh that means you cheated on that one girl" so cha he would confess.

When we where on and off near the end, he told me "I finally get a good girl and I don't know what to do"
(and deep down I'm thinking...that may be true but eff you...cha blame other skanks for you treating me like crap.)

posted February 28, 2011 01:57 AM            

My dad has never ever ever talked about ex girlfriends and such. And its probibly not so complicated.

posted February 28, 2011 03:48 AM            

Orwell: http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3215/2742925447_9c7566591f_o.jpg

Pinochet http://www.lsg.musin.de/geschichte/Start-G/pinochet.jpg

I think some cancer moons can be revolutionary, some radical.

posted March 01, 2011 12:43 PM            

My guy smoked a lot of pot, but being I recently found out that I'm allergic to all smoke, cigarette the most (I get light headed, sick to my stomach, headaches, and can pass out), that the pot smoke was doing the same thing. But I also mentioned how after a certain point I noticed he was doing to the point of an addiction. So not only has he cut back, but he seems a little more relaxed.

I know what you mean... my guy's father has bipolar tendencies and he had an ex who had ADHD and Bipolar, so he was confused as hell on what to do half the time. She also was never good at taking her meds, so she would be breaking stuff, getting drunk to the point of beating on him, and just go get high like crazy. It drove him nuts having to be a babysitter when it came to her all the time.

But that was the only girl that screwed him over. Every other girl didn't.

But I do think your ex, no offense needs some kind of therapy, cause if he isn't getting any and has Bipolar w/ AD/HD, he is suppose to get some to help regulate his moods, talk about whats going on, and make him feel normal most days. It's helps my mother.

I can say some days I do want to just put a pin in the relationship and take a vacation from him cause he sometimes gets selfish (I blame that damn Leo rising of his lol) but I can't cause he gets so emotional that I feel bad (I blame my Pisces Rising for that one!).

But at the end of the day I can honesty say compared to most guys I've met or dated, he is 10x's more understanding, loving, and aware of things that most guys don't grasp, if ever.

Just wish he wasn't so emotional all the damn time lol (thats the Aries Sun/Scorpio Moon talking). Guess I'm so use to my father being he is a Scorpio (Cancer Moon) fellow.

My father is far from a typical Cancer moon. I swear on my life with that one lol Cause he isn't as insane. He grew up as the oldest kid of eleven other kids in the family! This taught him things that most Cancer men can't handle: women! lol He had 8 sisters (my aunt passed away 3 years ago) and he respects women very much.

posted March 01, 2011 01:54 PM            

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Thats the thing, if you cheat on a cancer man (sun/moon/rising), FORGET IT! You are either dead to him, lower than scum, or worse than the black plague. No cancer man deals with a woman who does that to him.

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Wow, I'm a Cancer Stellium female and you've just described me.

Another pet-theory of mine take into consideration: if any person's moon is harmoniously aspected to their sun, they are probably more comfortable with this side of themselves and are therefore less likely to act out the negative traits of their moonds. That is granted that it doesn't have many other serious afflictions.

posted March 02, 2011 10:24 PM            

I wish he would do the world a favor and take his pills!

And when we where on and off. He told me he was seeing a counsler, well when I started giving him a chance again. He stoped doing that! Ugh!

Anyways I've been thinking about guys with Cancer placements...cause after that realationship, I was starting to think "guys with lots of Cancer in chart=dealbreaker/red flag" thinking that way is ridiculous though, and I know it.