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posted March 02, 2011 05:39 PM            

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What aspects in a synastry chart would point out obsession and stalking between two people?

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posted March 02, 2011 05:48 PM            

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Lioness
Lets get the Girl's Club going for Moon/Pluto
LOL

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posted March 02, 2011 05:58 PM            

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Hi, guys!
I have a question for you. It seems like venus/pluto conjunction in synastry could result in obsessive behaviour. What about composite? if composite venus squire composite pluto, what kind of behaviour this conjunction can produce? same as synastry?

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posted March 02, 2011 06:02 PM            

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The reason I ask is because my current relationship actually began with him and I mutually stalking each other for the first two years. We live next door to each other, which made the stalking rather easy. However, I think he stalked me more than I stalked him. I am not even talking about a "Wow, he's pretty hot, I'm going to look every time I happen to see him." It was more like we both had each others schedules memorized, knew what each other was doing at any given time of day, knew what time the other got up in the morning, and what time we both went to bed, left for work, etc.. For a while he was actually looking in my window. I was actually so curious to know his name but was too shy to ask, that I actually looked through his garbage once!!! Throughout those two years of stalking each other, we never spoke to each other once. Anyway, this type of behavior was not like me at all, and was not something that I would have normally done. He also said that this was the first time he had ever stalked anyone.

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posted March 02, 2011 06:04 PM            

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We do have Venus Square Pluto in our synastry chart, as well as some other tasty Pluto aspects.

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posted March 02, 2011 06:08 PM            

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In composite chart, I just found Pluto Conjunct Saturn... I have a feeling that can't be a good aspect.

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posted March 02, 2011 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Lioness
Lets get the Girl's Club going for Moon/Pluto
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You also have to look at the person's natal chart..
I have in my natal Venus sq Pluto and everyone in my age range Pluto will sq my venus.. It doesnt really effect me that much... I cant speak for the other person though it may be "new" to them...

The effect may be stronger when its a new feeling...

For me When I first felt Moon/Pluto it just knocked me on my azz... I was feeling it BIG TIME!!! It became unbearable...

Now when I see moon/pluto connections

Lioness goes

I just called Ami freaking out,bc I met some guy who's moon conjuncts my Pluto... OOO lordly!!! not good..

Where can I get a free will card???? And get the FLIP outta there... What's free will's phone number???

OOOOHHH I just know the universe is after me on this one now....
I have a feeling, it wants me to really really learn from moon/pluto....

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posted March 02, 2011 08:43 PM            

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These are the Pluto aspects in each of our natal charts.

Me
Pluto Sextile Moon
Pluto Opposition Mercury
Pluto Sextile Neptune

Him
Pluto Conjunct Mars
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Square Lilith

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posted March 02, 2011 08:53 PM            

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ROLFL Lioness

I am sans Moon/Pluto .

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posted March 02, 2011 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Pixienoire:
These are the Pluto aspects in each of our natal charts.

Me
Pluto Sextile Moon
Pluto Opposition Mercury
Pluto Sextile Neptune

Him
Pluto Conjunct Mars
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Square Lilith

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So then yeah its prob something different then....

OHHH boy that pluto..... Take a look at both your transits.. I think my transits mad it even worse for me..
I had/have T.pluto opps my Venus right now and sq my natal pluto..

so I have a pluto/venus/ pluto t-square then add that to my moon... It hit me hard...

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AT Ami.... OMG he's sooooooo upset with me.... lol... He wont have anything to do with me now.... Ive been so rude to him...

WHAT A RELIEF!! Im thrilled!!!

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posted March 02, 2011 09:08 PM            

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I'm actually thinking that maybe it was his Pluto-Lilith aspect that was the problem. When I look at our synastry chart,

My Pluto Sextiles His Lilith
My Lilith Trines His Pluto

His Pluto is in Scorpio, and mine is in Libra. It could be his pesky Scorpio Pluto touching my Lilith.

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posted March 02, 2011 09:13 PM            

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What did you DO to that poor boy,Lioness

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posted March 02, 2011 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What did you DO to that poor boy,Lioness

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hummm

nut--innnn

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posted March 02, 2011 09:39 PM            

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ROLFL

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posted March 03, 2011 02:48 AM            

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I've seen this a few times (without significant Pluto-stuff);

Out of bounds Venus (girl) parallel out of bounds Mars (guy).

The girl was obsessed.

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posted March 03, 2011 03:55 AM            

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Dear Mir
What is a parallel?
I have not seen you for a while?
HOW are you?

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posted March 03, 2011 04:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
hummm

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lol so cute

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posted March 03, 2011 04:44 AM            

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Hi Ami!

Well, let's save the answer for another Pisces thread

.. but okay, I'm pretty fine with my Pisces at the moment.
(glad you didn't ask me this 2 days ago )
Living in extremes must be inherent to me.

I now know what it can mean to have my Venus in his 12th, I'm hiding the fact that I see him again for most around me.

To study parallels;
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/016067.html

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posted March 03, 2011 05:49 AM            

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Hi mir

What did you mean by saying "I now know what it can mean to have my Venus in his 12th, I'm hiding the fact that I see him again for most around me." I'm sorry if I don't understand, I'd like to know more, please? Do you feel like you don't want him to know how your feel or you don't want other people to know how you feel around him? I have someones venus in my 12th house and I get that they like me but don't want to admit it.

Thanks in advance for any answers.

Sharon_1977

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posted March 03, 2011 08:19 AM            

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Well, it must be more than obvious to him that I like him although I still get the impression he thinks I've a hidden agenda or something, where are you going? where were you yesterday when I called? etc.
(no anger eruptions from my side because of this anymore )

So yes, it's definitely that I don't want other people to know how I feel around him.
It's because he wanted me to introduce him again to my family, otherwise they still wouldn't know..

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posted March 03, 2011 09:33 AM            

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Wow Mir
You are STILL connected to him. We,sure,don't want to let go of our connections.
Do we? lol

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posted March 03, 2011 09:48 AM            

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you know me!

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posted March 03, 2011 05:23 PM            

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Thanks for your reply mir. I'm sure he still feels for you. Your venus in his 12th house would be a very spiritual connection, I'd say hard to cut.

Sharon

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posted March 03, 2011 05:37 PM            

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Yepster ((((Mir)))

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