posted March 16, 2011 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I'm a cancer and cancers try to be good people and more than anything want to be considerate of other people's feelings. I think if she were done with you she would've told you straight out. The thing is even if we SAY we are done with you, that may not be for sure. Cancers always want to be friends with others and be on good terms. Even if it seems like she is abandoning you right now, trust me, give it a few years, she will come back. You must've done something to really hurt her. Just make sure to say sorry a looot when she decides to talk to you again. Also, that's not necessarily true about the sag mooners bc my best friend is a capricorn with a sag moon and aqua venus and mercury and she would never abandon me. And capricorns are just as loyal as cancers.

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Thanks! See is abandoning me though. In the hardest time of me life she mad it harder for me when it didnt have to be like that. She not only ditched me, in a way, but she did so without even saying goodbye. Thats not caring about someone, thats selfish and immature. Thats why its so hard for me to figure out. Im happy that you keep saying that you think she will be back in due time though! But what is she going to just call me out of the blue after a few years? Is this something you cancers have done before?

posted March 16, 2011 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Maybe I'm being harsh - but it's so blatant that no matter how much she may or may not continue to love you, she does NOT want to talk to you right now. It sucks that she had to be so underhanded about it and not blatant with you, and I'm sorry you didn't receive the closure any person rightfully deserves when a relationship ends, but clearly the girl needs her space right now and does not want to think about the relationship - not only did she block you from seeing her wall and eventually unadd you, not only did her good friends unadd you, as well as her FAMILY members, but she's not responding to your emails. She is hurt and wants to be left alone, clearly.

I feel for you dude, I really do. But you have to take a step back from the situation and your own feelings and realize that the situation is done for right now, and continuing to push when it's blatant she wants her space is only going to further ruin her opinion of you, in my opinion. I'm coming from a basic psychological/woman stand point right now and not an astrological one - however, if we must get into that - yeah, if she has a Sag moon, trust me. Once they've made their decision, there's no bringing them back until they feel like it again on their own accord, and that can take a while.

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Thanks! You are not being harsh at all, i appreciate your sincerity. Thats why im hear. When she told me not to call her i never did again.

I did happen to run into her and a bar about a month or so ago, and ago 3 months after we last spoke. She was coming of the dance from with a guy (i know its a good friend of hers but who knows if there are more now). She was shocked to see me and was kinda nervous (not in a bad way, like butterfly's). She kept repeating "so how are you how are you". Then she asked if a knew if she was going to be there. I just said no i had to idea. That seemed kind of arrogant on her part but who knows how she meant it. Then she asked who i was there with. I asked her if this was akward but her and she said no she was just hammered. I mean i guess it was good.I also said "OK, keep in touch". my friend said it looked very cordial. I dont know if is was a good thing that i went up to her or not but it happend so...just dont know what to make of it....

Again, 2 weeks after we officially ended things she deleted me from facebook and blocked me. So at that point i could still see pictures she was tagged in but i just could not click on her name. NOW, i cant even see her name. So, she did something else. I dont know knew but i think she did.

posted March 25, 2011 12:29 AM            

If she didnt care about u she wouldnt care if u stared at her pics all day or not

The fact that she tried to act happy when you said hi to her means she does want remain friendly towards you in her heart. Otherwise, she would've been very rude to you because cancers have difficulty being fake and if we're mad at you we cant hide it.
The fact she thinks ur stalking her, since she asked if u followed her there also shows why she blocked u on fb. She thinks u will not leave her in peace if u werent blocked and she thinks this will hurt her more.

posted March 29, 2011 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
She wants to show you how much you hurt her......

If she didnt care about u she wouldnt care if u stared at her pics all day or not

The fact that she tried to act happy when you said hi to her means she does want remain friendly towards you in her heart. Otherwise, she would've been very rude to you because cancers have difficulty being fake and if we're mad at you we cant hide it.
The fact she thinks ur stalking her, since she asked if u followed her there also shows why she blocked u on fb. She thinks u will not leave her in peace if u werent blocked and she thinks this will hurt her more.

To answer ur other question she will probably start out wabting to be friends first, and then she will slowly let things turn into dating since she was hurt. Cancers are needy and have passionate feelings and always wabt to forgive and keep the harmony and get along with everyone so i highly doubt she will ever truly get over you....

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Thanks again for keep helping me with this.

I sort of dont get it though. If she wanted to show me how much she hurt me wouldn't she want me to see pics of her with other guys? Also, she didnt ask if I followed her there, she asked if i knew she would be there. She may be projecting. Because before that I did not see the girl for 5 months so she has no reason to think that I want anything to do with her.

posted April 05, 2011 10:16 PM            

As for my opinion you are both young people and probably it is too hard for that girl to be with you since the arresting situation if it was really about something very serious.

I do not think that she doesn't love you or doesn't care about you any more since she was the one to come to you and want to be with you for 6 months without giving up, so that tells me clearly she choose to be with you and she must have had strong feelings for you. deleting you off facebook and her friends deleting you too probably is to isolated herself from you because she is scared of what has happened and is self-protecting herself and the feeling of her being insecure about you is strong into her.

I know that as a Taurus you must be a very loyal person and I think there is something emotionally special between a Taurus and a Cancer, we understand how each of us feel without saying it and it is what connects us I believe.

I am really sorry that she is trying to cut you off her life. I feel sad about it. My advice is because I can sense you have strong feelings for her too, is just send her one last e-mail and write to her that you would not disturb her if her decision was to leave but that one last thing you wanted to tell her is that you are really sorry for what has happened and that you know you can not change things and that you would always remember that connection you had because it was something special and even if it ended you would always be thankful that it happened between the two of you as it was a great relationship and that you hope both of you would be happy in life. I think if it was me, I would do that and then I would try to move on.

I am really sorry for that, I can feel you need time to move on, we Taurus are slow and take time, I liked one Scorpio guy and it took 3 years to move on but believe me once we do, we do not hold any strong feelings any more for the past, it remains just a memory and we never blame on anyone things didn't work out, so that time would come and you would be able to meet other nice girls I am sure.

I am sorry if I made you feel sad, I feel sad myself a bit because I really like a Cancer guy I mentioned, he is really kind and polite to me but I sense he is not feeling the same way, even though I just try to enjoy the present and the time when I see him, talk to him and joke because I know that one day I am going to change the environment and it all would just remain a nice memory.

posted April 06, 2011 11:25 PM            

This is how she feels right now, but that doesn't mean she wouldn't want to talk to you in the future. Like i said, you would have to wait at least 2 years. Wait for her to contact you, though. She will pull away if you contact her first.

I think it will be a lot more consoling for you at this time to think that she hasn't completely abandoned you. Just give her time.
Love is patient, love is kind

posted April 07, 2011 12:33 AM            

This is how she feels right now, but that doesn't mean she wouldn't want to talk to you in the future. Like i said, you would have to wait at least 2 years. Wait for her to contact you, though. She will pull away if you contact her first.

I think it will be a lot more consoling for you at this time to think that she hasn't completely abandoned you. Just give her time.
Love is patient, love is kind