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Topic: Ok Ladies I need your opinion..
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Steam Knowflake Posts: 61 From: US Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 06:29 AM
The Cap moon is very similar to a Scorpio moon. He can be quite secretive and cryptic in his communication. Did you meet in a public place the 2nd time? The inability to control his drinking when he knew he was meeting you is a huge red flag.
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Scorpionic_Web Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 15, 2011 06:37 AM
In touch with his feminine side? I agree with Ami, it's often a trait of the venusian Libra male. Anyway, I say thumbs down on a second chance. He showed a complete lack of consideration for you on what was supposed to be your first date. Pretty pathetic.IP: Logged |
abcd efg Newflake Posts: 13 From: Mumbai,Maharashtra,India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 15, 2011 09:07 AM
I agree with bunnies. Only thing is if he is really decent and has some solid reason for this 'mad' (comm'on after all its a first date and nobody behaves so indifferently on a first date)behaviour u can think of going ahead. For this u will have to talk it out with him first.IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 11:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Ahhh you guys... He wanted to meet thurs I said no. he said Fri? I said noo... He said SAT??? I said Nooo LOL... Ooo Im nervous...
What if he doesnt like me.. Has anyone met anyone from the net before??? Care to share your experiences?? Isnt it akward? How do you know who each other is.. Do I say Im wearing a white shirt with a red rose in my hair, so you will know... lol
I like his venus conjunct your DC, but his saturn hit exactly your IC. maybe you may feel not at home with him. he may be critical of your emotional. your venus square his pluto, but did not see a double whammy here. normally, your pluto should also aspect his mars/venus/moon... as well. but i cannot see the aspects clearly from the chart. as for your question about dating sites. i have met 4 guys from the Net. and it was similar to having met anybody else. the difference is there is much expectation and you may be dissapointed with the appeareance or some gestures, etc. this, if you have not seen him in videos. my last long-term relationship was with a person i met in a dating site. we talk on skype for about two months before we met in person. he is the man i have loved more in my entire life, we almost married, but things did not work out when we moved together. this has nothing to do with meeting him online. i would say the earlier you meet them in person, the better. less expectation and more realistic appraisal. u get a lot of info when dating online that they dont share in face to face first meetings, but there are things you want to see and feel. a thought cros my mind, what if the GEM guy is this same guy? just a thought!!! IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 1808 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 11:44 AM
For the most part I agreed with you ladies, thinking why should I give him another shot.. I asked him that, and he said he was sorry he was at a family party it it just happen... I do have to give him credit for coming to me and apologizing.. I thought he was going to be embarrassed and not call again, and I was not going to call him. He did step and admit he made a mistake and understands of his bad impression.. I had to give respect for that.. I admired that he did that.. He told me he felt really bad, and that he still wanted to talk to me.. Plus he said Pretty Pleaseeeee.... lol Also I liked talking to him... We click.. I got a total 360 impression of him now.. Totally different person. He was then a very nice person, and very considerate.. Im glad I gave him another shot... Worse case scenario we will talk a few times, and then just go our separate ways. He comes across as a neat freak... He does have Venus in Virgo.. He has a Libra Stellium. Maybe thats why he comes across as girly... IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 167 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 11:54 AM
I know that sometimes "accidents" happens, but I would never give a second chance to a person that acted like this in a first date. however, you have seen him and have a different story to tell.follow your instinc. just a warnig sign. he may do that in the future and said "hey, u know from the start" sometimes people do this things unconsciusly to test if you stand with their ugly behaviors. good luck IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 7142 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 12:01 PM
(((Lioness)))) ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 1808 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 12:13 PM
@nordicsoul.. Yeah I dont really like the synastry that much.. I was wondering about his Saturn on my IC. But there is something about him, I genuinely like.. I dont really see this as long term.. Probably another lesson for me... :/ Im not sure of his time, but either way his Moon is in Cap, I checked the whole day, Its in Cap from 12am until 11:59Pm.. So Im not sure of the degree.. If its early cap it squares me Pluto... (lets hope not... no more moon pluto for me) and opps my venus If its mid it Quix my sun/moon/merc. If its late it conjuncts my NN I just moved into a Progressed Cap Moon.. My P.moon is at 3Cap. My pluto widely conjucnts his Mars.. I think around 8orbs.. Too wide? But yeah I dont really like the unaspected planets. In the composite we have Sun conjunt Mars (scary) Sun conjunct Merc Merucy conjunt Pluto Moon sq venus venus trine neptune moon sextile jupiter OMG saturn .. Maybe thats why I felt I should give him another chance.. Or at least decided to do it.
Saturn sq Mars/sun/merc saturn trine uranus. shrug.... IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 1808 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 12:31 PM
Ohh I forget to mention, I did look further in the possibility of Gem and Libra knowing each other. They do work for the same company. (its a big well known company) BUT they work out of different area's.. They work different positions and they work different hours.. So I dont think they know each other.. phewwww IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 7142 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 12:34 PM
I did not think they knew each other  ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 7142 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 01:04 PM
Thank you for your help in that horary,Lioness. I am so excited. It was wonderful. I will tell you when we talk. If you had not told me about that,I never would have asked  ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |