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Topic: Ok Ladies I need your opinion..
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Lioness
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posted March 11, 2011 10:52 PM
  
Help a gal out here... I joined a dating website over a year ago. Ive have talked to a few guys some a little more than others... I never actually met anyone... I always nahhh Its probably not the best person to meet.. So I have made excused not to meet these guys... Im really leary about it.. My guy has just told me before not to.. So I wouldnt... NOW Ive been talking to this guy.. I REALLY REALLY want to meet him.. We actually have plans to meet on Sun...
Im sooo excited, but nervous at the same time..
Of course I said it would have to be a public place.. He said yes of course..
He's very sweet and he flatters me...
He just steps up more than any one else... He stands out.. I really like talking to him... DO I dont I???? OOO here's another thing... OMG!! me and my crazy coincidence's.
I found out this guy works for the SAME COMPANY as GEM!!!
Its a big well known company.. I have no clue if they know each other...
If they do Gem will find out, and never speak to me again..
Do I risk it... Me and Gem are not seeing each other, but well you know... We "try" Whats killing me is both Gem and this guy text at the same damn times!! It never fails.... lol This is a huge CROSSROADS! What do I do...
This is kinda what happen with me and Gem before.. LOL.... I didnt choose Gem I choose Virgo... I really really want to meet him... Im sooo excited... I feel good about meeting him.. IDK if its a good idea though.. Should I yes no??? here is the synastry... I dont know his time so moon/house's are off, but you can see how he effects me... Boy does he pack my 7th.. lol .. His Venus on my Dsc... Our B-days are two months apart.. Ive never dated a Libra Man.. What should I expect? 
Also if we do meet it will prob be around 9:30 pm.... I will have to adjust the time that day.. But here is the first meeting chart at 9:30PM..
PLEASE help me... Should I????
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Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1808
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posted March 11, 2011 10:58 PM
OMG!!! Moon opps Pluto???? What the hell?? I cant get away from it no matter what?? OOOO the universe is really after me here with that moon/pluto crap...
AMI!!! 
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Scorpionic_Web
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 11, 2011 11:05 PM
I'm a male, so sorry for jumping in. I say meet the guy. After all, nothing beats a trial but a failure, and so the only way you'll know is if you give him a chance.I'm trying to accept that I may only live once. I need to learn to take risks. And I suggest you take a chance and see how it goes. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 11, 2011 11:14 PM
OOHHH no.. I welcome men's comments too  What about risking he knows Gem? Im not sure if you read that story or not... IP: Logged |
Scorpionic_Web
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posted March 11, 2011 11:19 PM
I don't know the full story of the Gem, but should he matter? If you're single, and especially if you met this new guy completely independently from the Gem connection, then it's your life. Without knowing what the Gem story is, I think at worst I would consider the Gem an awkward coincidence worth ignoring. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 12, 2011 12:00 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Scorpionic_Web:
I don't know the full story of the Gem, but should he matter? If you're single, and especially if you met this new guy completely independently from the Gem connection, then it's your life. Without knowing what the Gem story is, I think at worst I would consider the Gem an awkward coincidence worth ignoring.
Yeah NoI did not meet him through Gem its just a coincidence. Im not even sure they know each other.. I just know they work for the same company.. Gem is an ex that I talk to but we have issue's.. Its in no wheres ville.. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 12, 2011 02:30 AM
Is Gem guy that controlling?I mean you are not in a relationship right now. Why would he imagine that you are not dating anyone? I'd say go for it! IP: Logged |
TxGirl
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 12, 2011 02:49 AM
I vote go for it! But, be safe as always. Public place etc. But, I'd go for it!IP: Logged |
Venia
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: Bonn, Germany
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 12, 2011 07:32 AM
Yes! Go and see...
You have nothing to lose... you might even gain!
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amowls**
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posted March 12, 2011 10:03 AM
Go for it. I don't know your Gem situation, though, so I don't know how big of a deal it would be for him to find out.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 12, 2011 11:48 AM
Ahhh you guys... He wanted to meet thurs I said no. he said Fri? I said noo... He said SAT??? I said Nooo
LOL... Ooo Im nervous...
What if he doesnt like me.. Has anyone met anyone from the net before???
Care to share your experiences?? Isnt it akward? How do you know who each other is.. Do I say Im wearing a white shirt with a red rose in my hair, so you will know... lol IP: Logged |
mochai
Knowflake Posts: 623
From: Charon
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 12, 2011 12:11 PM
Lioness, the leo soulmate I went to high school with I reunited with over an online dating site (okcupid.com). I've heard of other people literally finding soulmates through them. It's not so bad and it's not that awkward. My sister has had great success dating through online website, and met her current boyfriend through one, whom she has been together with for 2 1/2 years.It'll be fine.  Just be safe about it. I usually just text with a description and say where I'll meet them at. When I get there it's usually evident but more texting may be required. Don't worry about it too much and just enjoy whatever happens And actually.. my long time best friend I met through online gaming when I was busy being depressed and trying to throw my life away. I had a huge healing influence on him and we had a lot of fun together. I would greatly regret not having met him. He lived in north carolina when I met him and I ended up getting stationed there. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 7142
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 12, 2011 12:17 PM
I met someone from the net. He was fine as a person.I was not attracted to him but he did not kill me,either  ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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TxGirl
Knowflake Posts: 107
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Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 12, 2011 12:21 PM
Oh, I know a bit more about it than I like, I met my ex husband online but we'd talked for about 8 months before meeting and he came to my house- my whole famiyl was there and we were young. I was 16 and he was 21.I also am what most would call a gamer, I play online games as a hobby and I've met many of my good friends through it. We just did the whole what are you wearing where are we meeting thing. That was a big group of us. And one guy I dated I met at the friends group thing. I knew what he looked like so we got together later. Did you not share pics? If you are so worried email a pic or use a webcam and say hi. Don't keep putting it off it could be something great! Before I met my ex husband we sent pics and I told him all the flaws I had- just so there was no surprises cause I was very worried too. So, I figured I'll put it all out there if he's still interested- great and if not no harm done it's soon and we'll just move on. Qit procrastinating! Just do it! Then come back and tell us all the details! It isn't as awkward as you would think, and the bit of awkwardness goes away. What's the worst that could happen yall don't hit it off and decide to not hang out again? Bah, you worry too much just like I do lol. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 12, 2011 01:03 PM
Ahh Thanks everyone.. Yes we have exchanged pictures.. But you a pic is a pic... lol He looks handsome, and seems to have very masculine bone structure.. Lioness like Im sure he would be able to spot me from the crowd, Im usually the only blond with curly hair... Im thinking since he's mostly air, he's not going to be attracted to me, since I have no air or earth to go with his Venus/Mars.
I have Uranus/Pluto in H7, He has Sun conjunct Uranus and mars conjunct Pluto.
So he fits my 7th..
We both have alot of unaspected planets in synastry.. IDK.. I dont like the synastry.. I dont think its good.. I am going to go meet him tomorrow... But Im still going be worried... LOL. Im doing it Sunday nite, and I already told him I cant stay out long, We will just meet and have one drink, then I will probably take off... LOL
Then I guess lets see if, we call each other... IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: u.k
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2011 03:04 PM
Oh good grief!!
When did life get so bloody complicated?
You are meeting for a drink....not in vitro fertilization.
Relax.
Let everyone know where you are going.
Turn up.
Smile.You have jumped ahead about 6 months.
You don't need to know his synastry, his blood type, how you sound being Mrs Entwhistle (or whatever his surname is)whether Mr Gem will commit a "crime passionelle" and have to spend 20 years in the State Penitentiary (if you're American or Wormwood Scrubs if you're English)
All you need to know at this point is, does he
a. have good manners and will insist on buying the drinks.
b. have a dewdrop hanging off the end of his nose that he hasn't noticed and you are too embarrassed to point out. If the answer to a. is Yes and the answer to b. is No then you can relax and see how the evening goes. That's all. Enjoy  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 7142
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 12, 2011 03:33 PM
Bunnies
If you said that to me,I would feel dismissed.------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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littlecloud
Moderator Posts: 743
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posted March 12, 2011 06:02 PM
Playing devils advocate here.I met a guy online, saw our synastry, all RED. I went ahead with it anyway. We did have an affect on each other, I think mine was stronger on him than on me. However it's not a very happy memory for me. Thinking about it I find myself rather regretful of the whole thing. On the other hand my friend met the love of her life online. She has never been so ultimately completely in love before. Moral of the story; Anything can happen. Play it safe don't stress and always be honest. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1808
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 13, 2011 05:56 AM
Well was texting me all day today.. Come on lets me.. Lets meet.... Pleaseeeee... SO after a while I finally agreed.. I met him tonite... OMG... It was a disaster. He was handsome, we did kiss.. I believe there was an attraction from both to the other... But it was just wrong..... sighhhh Ill have to fill you in tomorrow... Good nite.. Gotta get some sleep IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 7142
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 13, 2011 09:04 AM
I felt that,Baby,but I did not want to tell you when you were so excited to see him and I could have been wrong,too.
I felt he was really a decent guy ,though. Was he?------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: u.k
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2011 05:59 PM
Well I didn't say it to you Ami so you have no need to feel dismissed.
But if you wish to take umbrage please feel free.
An opinion was asked for.....I gave it.
No malice meant, just the way I saw it.
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Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 1808
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 04:41 AM
Sighhh... Sorry I never got a chance to say what happen... So here goes... Ill keep it brief though.. Well we planned to meet at a bar, when I told him I was on my way, he replied back Im not there, Im at my mom's house.. Can you come here to my mom's ? (WHAT!! lol) I finally did agree I was close by, at that time... Only he couldnt really give me directions, saying he doesnt know which way to go..
So I got upset with that.. THEN I finally make it there, I text him, he comes out side.. He gets in my car and he smells so bad of beer... His eyes were barely open, and it was obvious he was drunk off his azz.. We talked in the car for a bit.. Then he said he was going to go inside, to use the rest room, If I could wait for him... I said yes..
She he went in.. I waited outside and he was taking a long time.. SO I text him, and he didnt reply.. So then I just left... The next day he calls me and apologizes, and said he knows he made a terrible impression, and if I could please just give him another shot... I asked why should I.. He said I was drinking with my brother, and I didnt pay attention to my drinking.. and Im really sorry.. Pretty please give me another chance... I did ask what happen to him, and he said he got dizzy and sat down, and he passed out...
So I said well maybe... IDK... We will just play it by ear and see what happens... He said ok fair enough... He then said Hey wanna come to me house tonight... lol... I said No... I have to get up early, maybe some other time.. He said Ok.. I understand. Today (monday) he calls me again, he said if we can get together... I said yeah ok... So we did... We had a nice chat, and it was definitely better than the first meeting... He seems kinda girly.... I wonder what would make him appear girly.. He's masculine, but it seems like he's in touch with his feminine side. Im not sure how to explain it..
Anyways so we are still talking.. Its much better now.... He said he doesnt usually drink like that, it just got ahead of him... IDK.... Only time will tell.. IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 15, 2011 05:02 AM
go for it. Where something sexy.IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: u.k
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 15, 2011 05:32 AM
Why would you want to give a man who cares so little about anything a chance?
On a first meeting (when even the worst of us endeavour to make a good impression)he doesn't even bother to turn up at the right place and then when YOU drive to HIM climbs into your car stinking and ****** .
Make sure you don't let this little peach get away.Oh yes and wear something sexy.
He's so worth it.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 7142
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 15, 2011 06:02 AM
I feel the girly thing may be explained by a Libra something but I am not sure what ------------------
Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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