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posted March 18, 2011 05:10 PM            

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This is about a man, who has a majority of female friends,all quite attractive and single lol

I'm not jealous!! just want to clarify.
But is there anything in his chart pointing to infidelity? for future references.
http://img338.imageshack.us/img338/8672/hischart.gif

I really just want the best for him.As of right now,I haven't been able to give him the attention and companionship he needs.I am semi sure of taking a break with our relationship.I am curious if this will crush him,or will he like being set free? (perhaps he has his eyes set on another person if we dont fall through?) I would be hoping he did,since i just want him to be happy and have someone give him what i havent been able to.so any chances he might be looking elsewhere at the moment? he's spending a lot of time with some of these women.

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posted March 18, 2011 05:22 PM            

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Just break up with him. "Breaks" are nothing more than delaying the inevitable. It's obvious you can't trust him and don't want to be with him. So just don't. Everyone will get over a break up, so just end it quickly and painlessly without dragging it out and making a mess. -shrug-

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posted March 18, 2011 06:25 PM            

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Yeah when a guy has alot of female friends. For me its harder to take them seriously when they say they want to be exclusive with me. So I usealy say, "I want to get to know you better" or "I don't want to rush into anything." And I hang out with them and feel them out. I'm an amateur, but I'll take a peek at his chart.

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posted March 18, 2011 06:55 PM            

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Actually,I don't think astrology has much to do with it.

He hangs out with these women,buy them gifts etc..asks them to join him places.I am 3000 miles away from him at the moment,and it just doesn't sound right.If he is thinking about other options in the future so be it.I want him to be happy and have love he needs.I haven't done a very good job being there for him so I can't blame him for anything.I love him and always will..but I don't want to be disrespected.I rather set him free and set him on his way to recovery.We've been together nearly 4 years,so its going to be hard for both of us.

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posted March 18, 2011 07:56 PM            

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dang 4 years (for me thats a long time)

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posted March 18, 2011 07:59 PM            

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There are plenty of fish in the sea, ditch him!

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posted March 18, 2011 10:31 PM            

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he's a Pisces, what do you expect.

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posted March 18, 2011 11:31 PM            

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awwwwwwwwwwwwww Starzy...

You know I wasn't sure if I remembered correctly so I went back to soul-unions to find this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/003785.html

I was vapor-lash then ^

I remembered it because you guys were the only Capricorn-Pisces couple who I thought would *work*.. I have never seen another one before and I have not heard of one since.
I actually thought - WOW! This combination can work. You both seemed very serious about each other, from what you were saying.

But now even you guys are breaking up... so

I have to say I feel disappointed. I guess the fact that Capricorn is such a reliable sign and Pisces can be the epitome of unreliability... does not work very well. It's sad in a sense - because there are also many positive things about the Cappy-Pisces relationship.

I'm hoping things still work out for you both!

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posted March 19, 2011 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by starzy54:
Actually,I don't think astrology has much to do with it.

He hangs out with these women,buy them gifts etc..asks them to join him places.I am 3000 miles away from him at the moment,and it just doesn't sound right.If he is thinking about other options in the future so be it.I want him to be happy and have love he needs.I haven't done a very good job being there for him so I can't blame him for anything.I love him and always will..but I don't want to be disrespected.I rather set him free and set him on his way to recovery.We've been together nearly 4 years,so its going to be hard for both of us.

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Starzy, your ex is a very needy man,you said he didn't even want you spending time with your family because he wanted you with him all the time, you didn't do anything wrong, you aren't mandated to be a man's mother and girlfriend, you are entitled to have your space and freedom in a relationship. If he is buying them gifts and spending time with them that's self explanatory. It's easy for a needy and insecure person to cling on to the next. Unfortunately he will continue to just drive women away with the nonsense.

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posted March 19, 2011 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Mannequin:
he's a Pisces, what do you expect.

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So true, stick to Earth signs if you want realibility...

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posted March 19, 2011 02:17 AM            

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I hope you ladies don't get mad at me..
We ended up making up about the situation tonight.We had about a 4 hour heart to heart.
I don't think I mentioned to some of you we are engaged.So its only natural for us to try to resolve the issue before calling it quits.We've had our ups and downs before and we usually come out winners.This was probably again one of those times.

We honestly have to stop this long distance thing we are in.3000 miles apart for hundreds of days is no good for the best of couples.Most of our problems stem from misunderstandings and mis-communications because of the distance.We aired out our problems and agreed to work on them consciously.We both needed a little kick in rear,and I think we're straightened out now.I'm making an effort to be there more,and he an effort to seek other outlets for happiness and not rely all on me.Also this other women business is out the door.I understand he is handsome and charming by nature and women flock to him..I've seen it.He is going to tone it down and always ask me if i'm comfortable with him hanging out with certain gals.I scared him quite a bit today,scared myself too,but we compromised and found a way to work it out instead of take the easy way out.

Thank you ladies for the good points and well wishes.That old thread wow thank you Betty

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posted March 19, 2011 03:04 AM            

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Glad it worked out!

You've got to make ending the whole long-distance thing a #1 priority! Sounds like you've done that already, by getting engaged. Long distance==the same as no relationship, in a way.

It'll be easier with your Pisces Man when you live together. Some mutable men are unfaithful, sure, but some are faithful and just have a big brood of female friends.

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posted March 19, 2011 11:12 PM            

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Thanks Lucia

Agreed,we're working on moving in together,and once that happens,A lot of pressure will be off of us.Visits are getting expensive,and breaks our hearts every time when its time to say goodbye.Can't wait till that's over.

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