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northernlad
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posted March 21, 2011 08:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm just starting to sort of kinda understand synastry and composite charts and all that, so as a way to try and understand more i've been looking at my last relationship. if you all could look at the synastry and composite and tell me what you see and after a few replies i'll reveal the circumstances of the relationship. (I'm on the outside of the synastry chart)

Thanks!!!

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Lioness
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posted March 21, 2011 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Funny your synastry was similar to me and pisces.. He hit my 12th with the same planets.
And his Mercury was conjunct my Asc..

First I will guess it was a secret affair. (fling)..

You may have felt restricted by him.. But very intrigued.. Did he pressure you to talk?

Was he really parnoid about you?

I think in the long run you both decided to be friends?

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northernlad
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posted March 22, 2011 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha we are friends now. after i broke up with him i cut him out of my life for a good year. he had problems with substance abuse and mental health and i refused to continue to involve myself in the crazy. he seems to have gotten a grip on himself since then though.

it wasn't a secret affair really, but since we both lived at home with our parents at the time we had to sneak around to get any privacy.

he has a huge personality, and dresses a little ridiculously, but i admired the fact that he couldn't give two ***** what people thought of it.

he might have been paranoid about me, but i think he was paranoid about everything due to the drugs/alcohol.

thanks for your response Lioness

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fairaqua
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posted March 22, 2011 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fairaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im curious as to what would make you think it was a secret affair?

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posted March 22, 2011 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by fairaqua:
Im curious as to what would make you think it was a secret affair?

His planets in her 12th.

When I say secret affair/fling I didnt necessarily mean due to someone is married or with someone else.

For whatever reasons the 2 feel its best to keep the relationship private, and away from others.. So they keep it a secret.

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northernlad
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posted March 22, 2011 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
His planets in her 12th.

When I say secret affair/fling I didnt necessarily mean due to someone is married or with someone else.

For whatever reasons the 2 feel its best to keep the relationship private, and away from others.. So they keep it a secret.


it might have been because we're gay and don't do the PDA so as to not get stares from passers-by which might explain the secrecy. but as far as people we knew... not really.

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posted March 22, 2011 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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he had problems with substance abuse and mental health and i refused to continue to involve myself in the crazy.

Lol I was actually going to guess problems with drugs because Neptune conjunct the MC (the 10th indicates the end of the relationship).

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Nine
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posted March 22, 2011 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's the timeline?? When did you first hookup & when did the first part before reuniting??

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northernlad
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posted March 22, 2011 11:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
started dating in april or may of 08. broke up in aug or sept of 08. didn't speak again until spring of 09 where he begged me to be his date to his brother's wedding. stopped talking to him again that august because he pulled some crazy. started talking to him again this past november. basically every time he seemed too off kilter, i took myself out of the situation. but he's like cher. he keeps coming back!

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posted March 24, 2011 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He keeps coming back because you have pMoon conjunct pMoon. You're meant to always get along...

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northernlad
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posted March 24, 2011 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that makes sense... except i'm getting the impression that he wants to get back together, and there ain't no way in hell i'm going down that road again

thanks for replying Nine

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gemgirl
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posted March 25, 2011 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gemgirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You guys are good! Would you mind doing the same for me....I'm so confused as to WHY we are attracted?!?!?!? But there's such a long, complicated and convoluted history....could you tell me what you see? Past, now, future??? I would REALLY appreciate the help If you can, let me know (and also, how do you upload the chart from astro.com???)

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northernlad
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posted April 04, 2011 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by northernlad:
that makes sense... except i'm getting the impression that he wants to get back together, and there ain't no way in hell i'm going down that road again

so, going back to that. he has been up my ass and it's driving me crazy. i hate it when people do that. if i wanna talk to you I'LL CONTACT YOU, LEAVE ME ALONE.

is there something going on in those charts that indicates why he's still all about me and i want nothing to do with him?

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Nine
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posted April 04, 2011 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmmm...

Classically, I don't see anything in the charts which would indicated romance. Perhaps this is why you aren't "feeling" him.

As for him, I'll go out on a limb and say...

With nMoon in Libra relationship mean a lot to him, whether he admits it or not. If he felt he had something good with you once upon a time, he'll always try to "come back" when he's lonesome.

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