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VirgoMaiden
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posted April 03, 2011 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi all,

Still a fairly new poster. Haven't been on in a while but am still on a quest to understand Cancers (or Cancer men per se) more profoundly so let me apologize now if this topic (or some variation of it) has been posted before...my bad!

So Cancer men please tell me...what are the games all about? Is it because you actually like the girl...or not? What's behind them? Is it consciously done or an inherent part of the Cancer man MO? Are the games a way to measure the woman's like for you or do you only play games with women who may seem weak and are easy targets for you to toy with? Is insecurity underneath all of the game playing or do you just enjoy messing with the minds of women? Or is it confusion (as it not knowing that this is the right person for you)? What's with the disappearing act? LOL, I KNOW! I've got questions for days but please answer only what you can/want.

Also, one last thing; can you tell me anything in particular or specifically about your interactions with Virgo females (i.e. your thoughts on them, behaviors, complications, etc)?

Any and all thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

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Dee
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posted April 03, 2011 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
there are a lot of cancer man threads here. for now check out this link. hope it helps
http://andersenhuang.wordpress.com/the-cancer-man/

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Coffee
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posted April 03, 2011 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coffee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Society tells us to act a certain way and not act a certain way. Men, and women, listen to what society has to say in this regard and follows to the letter. This can be filtered through the friend or family circle of people who have interacted with society, and have been brainwashed into thinking this is how to actually act.

Cancers operate in a very defensive way. It's like when a woman likes a person, she may HINT that she likes them. Unfortunately the bloke has no idea and assumes she is crazy, acting all weird. She does this because she wants to keep her emotions to herself and not RISK a personal rejection.

Men and women play games to test the ground, not risk what they currently have (no fear by not making a move) and because society tells them it is the correct way to act.

Basically they are scared and have no leadership skills of their own to decide what to do. This applies to men and women, as women tend to be the biggest game players of all.

51% of people asked agree with this statement.

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VirgoMaiden
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posted April 03, 2011 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Dee, I will check it out.

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VirgoMaiden
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posted April 03, 2011 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Coffee,

Are you a Cancer Man?

Thanks for your input.

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Coffee
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posted April 03, 2011 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coffee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, but I'm a bloody good astrologer.

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Ami Anne
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posted April 03, 2011 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Coffee:
No, but I'm a bloody good astrologer.


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VirgoMaiden
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posted April 03, 2011 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, thanks Coffee.

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Dee
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posted April 03, 2011 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
from Linda Goodman Love signs

cancer/Virgo
http://books.google.com/books?id=1ZaiCWVol4UC&pg=PA421&lpg=PA421&dq=cancer+man+virgo+woman+linda+goodman&source=bl&ots=klY20F1mxI&sig=Pz9rjlMPRzvxRKZ3Wuuski_QO4w&hl=en&ei=KfuYTZSPJ ILovQOchvHjCw&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=9&ved=0CGMQ6AEwCA#v=onepage&q&f=false

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VirgoMaiden
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posted April 04, 2011 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks again, Dee!

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Nine
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posted April 04, 2011 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As stated in another thread, if he's grossing you out, he's not interested.

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VirgoMaiden
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posted April 05, 2011 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoMaiden     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Anne,

"Grossing me out"?

What exactly does that mean?

Thanks!

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