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Topic: Cancer men and mind games?
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VirgoMaiden
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, NY , USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 03, 2011 03:40 PM
  
Hi all,Still a fairly new poster. Haven't been on in a while but am still on a quest to understand Cancers (or Cancer men per se) more profoundly so let me apologize now if this topic (or some variation of it) has been posted before...my bad!  So Cancer men please tell me...what are the games all about? Is it because you actually like the girl...or not? What's behind them? Is it consciously done or an inherent part of the Cancer man MO? Are the games a way to measure the woman's like for you or do you only play games with women who may seem weak and are easy targets for you to toy with? Is insecurity underneath all of the game playing or do you just enjoy messing with the minds of women? Or is it confusion (as it not knowing that this is the right person for you)? What's with the disappearing act? LOL, I KNOW! I've got questions for days but please answer only what you can/want. Also, one last thing; can you tell me anything in particular or specifically about your interactions with Virgo females (i.e. your thoughts on them, behaviors, complications, etc)? Any and all thoughts would be greatly appreciated. IP: Logged |
Dee
Moderator Posts: 4966
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 03, 2011 04:14 PM
there are a lot of cancer man threads here. for now check out this link. hope it helps
http://andersenhuang.wordpress.com/the-cancer-man/ IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2242
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 03, 2011 04:15 PM
Society tells us to act a certain way and not act a certain way. Men, and women, listen to what society has to say in this regard and follows to the letter. This can be filtered through the friend or family circle of people who have interacted with society, and have been brainwashed into thinking this is how to actually act.Cancers operate in a very defensive way. It's like when a woman likes a person, she may HINT that she likes them. Unfortunately the bloke has no idea and assumes she is crazy, acting all weird. She does this because she wants to keep her emotions to herself and not RISK a personal rejection. Men and women play games to test the ground, not risk what they currently have (no fear by not making a move) and because society tells them it is the correct way to act. Basically they are scared and have no leadership skills of their own to decide what to do. This applies to men and women, as women tend to be the biggest game players of all. 51% of people asked agree with this statement. IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, NY , USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 03, 2011 04:20 PM
Thanks Dee, I will check it out. IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, NY , USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 03, 2011 04:21 PM
Hi Coffee,Are you a Cancer Man? Thanks for your input. IP: Logged |
Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 2242
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 03, 2011 04:22 PM
No, but I'm a bloody good astrologer.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 74285
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 03, 2011 04:27 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Coffee:
No, but I'm a bloody good astrologer.
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Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, NY , USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 03, 2011 06:44 PM
Ok, thanks Coffee. IP: Logged |
Dee
Moderator Posts: 4966
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 03, 2011 07:01 PM
from Linda Goodman Love signscancer/Virgo
http://books.google.com/books?id=1ZaiCWVol4UC&pg=PA421&lpg=PA421&dq=cancer+man+virgo+woman+linda+goodman&source=bl&ots=klY20F1mxI&sig=Pz9rjlMPRzvxRKZ3Wuuski_QO4w&hl=en&ei=KfuYTZSPJ ILovQOchvHjCw&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=9&ved=0CGMQ6AEwCA#v=onepage&q&f=false IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, NY , USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 04, 2011 02:39 PM
Thanks again, Dee!IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3954
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 04, 2011 06:44 PM
As stated in another thread, if he's grossing you out, he's not interested.IP: Logged |
VirgoMaiden
Knowflake Posts: 91
From: New York, NY , USA
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 05, 2011 04:47 PM
Hi Anne, "Grossing me out"? What exactly does that mean? Thanks! IP: Logged |
sassaqua
Knowflake Posts: 1002
From: Oz
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 19, 2022 07:20 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 7899
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 20, 2022 02:21 AM
Oh yes they do!I would consider one again though because they are good in bed. IP: Logged |
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