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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 09:05 AM
  
You are so real and funny,Alice.
You can pull yourself up from all this ,little by little 
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 10, 2011 09:54 AM
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Coffee
Knowflake Posts: 1260
From: Leeds
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 10, 2011 10:01 AM
Sagiwaqus, I HAVE seen your writing STYLE before somewhere. I THINK it may have BEEN on a LETTER through my LETTERBOX when people are selling SOMETHING. You just MISS out the colours, BOLD and ItaliCs.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 8361
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 10:12 AM
Alice,Sweetie
I have been through so much.I don't want to discuss the specifics but I lost my son.Now, I feel happiest when I can lend a hand to someone and help lift them up a little.
Thank you for your kind words,Darling  ------------------
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LoVeLy
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posted April 10, 2011 10:16 AM
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 10:23 AM
((((Lovely))
Thank you ,Sweetheart ------------------
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 786
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 10, 2011 10:26 AM
Alice, i recommend reading these books, one is called Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder by Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger, the other one is called Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds & Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem by Kimberlee Roth.i have not read the first one but it's said a bible for people who have live/lived with, or were involved to borderline patients. the second one is for children of borderline disorder patients, and i'm half way through it myself. for people who has dealt with BPD patients, often their reality gets wrapped around by the BPD patients and it is eye-opening or even life-altering to know about this. the books help you understand what happened and overcome the traumas. it's sometimes hard for people like you (or me too) to even accept that we have traumas, even if they think they understand that. i guarantee these books can give you a whole new perspective, or partially, depending on how much you have looked into it yourself, but it will help definitely. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 10:29 AM
I have read all those books,Lechien.
They are helpful to learn about it.
You know what book helped me the most---Cure By Crying--- By Stone.It is out of print so expensive but it is a gold mine,written by a normal,everyday guy on how to heal trauma and pain ------------------
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 10, 2011 10:46 AM
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saquariogoces
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posted April 10, 2011 10:47 AM
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted April 10, 2011 10:54 AM
Goof on,Alice  ------------------
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
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posted April 10, 2011 10:57 AM
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saquariogoces
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posted April 10, 2011 11:18 AM
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saquariogoces
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posted April 10, 2011 11:21 AM
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
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posted April 10, 2011 11:27 AM
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Originally posted by lechien
it's sometimes hard for people like you (or me too) to even accept that we have traumas, even if they think they understand that. i guarantee these books can give you a whole new perspective, or partially, depending on how much you have looked into it yourself, but it will help definitely.[/B]
it's not hard for me to admit. i'll talk about it all day and night, haha.. it's getting other people to me seriously that's the problem sense my emotional responses to things are not your garden variety sort. they can be down right bizarre in comparison. IMAGINE THAT. Thank you very much for the list. i have read the first one and i will definitely check into the others too
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 786
From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat!
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 10, 2011 01:29 PM
yep, i didn't think it was hard for you to admit that actually! but there are times we are not aware of the simplest thing, and one magic snap of finger, we'd be like, "eureka!" don't you love it when that happens??  Ami, i'll check out that book, it sounds good. sounds like it'll be way too expensive anyway, but maybe there's a copy floating around on the net...  IP: Logged |
saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 10, 2011 01:30 PM
I JUST LOOKED AT THIS PAGE 2 SECONDS AGO AND THERE WEREN'T THESE POSTS HERE! SO, it may take me 3 damn hours to reply. since pute = weirder than i thought. haLF BOing. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 8361
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by saquariogoces:
HAHAHA!! ARIES - a meat carcass with a cleaver still in it.
TAURUS - a stubborn jar of mayonnaise (a very fancy jar)
GEMINI - a jumbo box of condoms
CANCER - a jug of superglue
LEO - a gilded mirror
VIRGO - some windex with a box of Q-tips.
LIBRA - a sugarbaby
SCORPIO - a penis
SAGITTARIUS - a big mouth with a foot in it.
CAPRICORN - a mothball (HAHA! scorpio17's idea)
AQUARIUS - an alien in a lab coat
PISCES - a slug wallowing in it's own pee.
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 8361
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by lechien:
yep, i didn't think it was hard for you to admit that actually! but there are times we are not aware of the simplest thing, and one magic snap of finger, we'd be like, "eureka!" don't you love it when that happens?? Ami, i'll check out that book, it sounds good. sounds like it'll be way too expensive anyway, but maybe there's a copy floating around on the net...
I think God heals us through the vehicle of tears.
Trauma theory/right brain healing theory says this.
So simple lol ------------------
Life is lived in the sand box.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 10, 2011 03:51 PM
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saquariogoces
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posted April 10, 2011 07:41 PM
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 8361
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 07:46 PM
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Originally posted by saquariogoces:
OMG AMI ANNE!! when you said that you lost your son, I THOUGHT YOU MEANT TODAY, THAT it just happened to day!! I HAVE BEEN SO UTTERLY FLABBERGASTED AND TOTALLY SPAZZED BECAUSE I ....OH WOW, I . whew! i couldn't understand why everyone was acting the way they were . oh jeeez. what a crazy crazy bout of misunderdanding and UTTER CONFUSION! OH wow, you must have been thinking i was sooooooooooooooooooooo weird, haha! OH GOD I FELT WEIRD! I DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO! aaaaaaaah! oh thank goodness this got cleared up....thank goodness! holy mackeral! i need to go for a walk or something, what an INTENSE DAY! **** i need a beer, haha. i wish i drank! aaaaaah!
It is OK,Baby.
It was 3 years,ago,not today.
I am OK .
Ever since he died,I have 2 Guiness Extra Stout each night lol
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 10, 2011 07:51 PM
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 8361
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 10, 2011 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by saquariogoces:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[B] Alice,Sweetie
I have been through so much.I don't want to discuss the specifics i have been FREAKING THE **** OUT since you posted this. I THOUGHT IT WAS TODAY AND WE WERE ALL SUPPOSE TO CARRY ON LIKE NORMAL! AAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!! AND I DID NOT KNOW HOW TO DO THAT!!!
YOWZA YOWZA!! BOING CRAASH! farK!!
jeez loooo-weeeeez! i think something in my brain has *POPPED*. *INTERNET BLOG PUBLIC FREAKOUT* **** , haha! they do not have an icon for this type of MAJORLY INTENSE misunderstanding.... 
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Life is lived in the sand box.
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saquariogoces
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: yo mama's house
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 10, 2011 08:02 PM
oh hell i didn't know you repsonded . i was gonna delete the lessser, whcichever one that was! fhwoow! i'll be fine, haha. i feel like a SUCH A BUTT for you to have to confort ME over something like this! WHATADAY!somebody pleaase erase superfluous freak outs, lordy lordy! IP: Logged |
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