posted April 18, 2011 03:23 PM            

Simple answer: you shouldn't feel bad about this girl dumping you because chances are that this vapid bimbo probably can't make a single decision without consulting an almanac or a crystal ball. I wouldn't be surprised if she had Chiron afflicted by Neptune.

And for the record, I don't have a mother complex either. I love her, but damn she annoys me as much as everybody else's mom's annoy them. No two cancers ever manifest the energy in EXACTLY the same way, but some people are too stupid to realize that.

Bottom line, find your time of birth so you know the house placement of your stellium, that'll give a better clue. I can already tell you though that Neptune opposing your Cancerian planets pretty much enhances the energy. Cancer is very imaginative and creative, and Neptune even more so.

Signed,

The Mature Cancer with a flamin' Aries Mars.

P.S. Here's a window into the Cancerian soul, to refresh your memory.

posted April 18, 2011 04:57 PM            

thanks grey..i still dont quite understand that girls reaction as compared to other girls i have dated..if i ever find a girl attractive sooner or later i find her approaching me and talking to me but this one confused the crab out of me..

posted April 18, 2011 07:54 PM            

Also, I believe alot of the descriptions on Cancer are pretty outdated. I can agree that we're moody/temperamental (try to talk to me when I haven't eaten a morsel) but I've honestly never met a Cancer, male or female, that is unhealthily attached to their mother and most of us are as self-sufficient/resilient as we can be.

posted April 18, 2011 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Joey123k:
my god benedict...im under ur debt for recommending mia to me...thank you....

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Her stuff is amazing, isn't it? I am HOOKED. Its truly like a window to my mind/soul. We really do have colorful minds.

And yeah, you should probably obtain your birthtime so we can figure out your Ascendant, houses, and moon placements.

posted April 21, 2011 10:49 PM            

Venus in Cancer

Kindness, sympathy, the expression of tru love and affection and a high level of emotion are characteristic of Venus in Cancer subjects. A powerful protective instinct can at times create a claustrophobic atmosphere within a relationship. A tendency to look nostalgically to the past is also frequent, and this may need conscious correction if the subject is not to reach stalemate due to his or her fear of progressive changes. Killing with kindness and moodiness are sometimes present, and the need for a secure relationship is of above-average importance. Ties of friendship will be long-lasting. Love and affection will be focused on the home, and a great deal of money will be spent carefully to make it comfortable- although often cluttered and untidy (whatever). Creative cooking and home crafts will be displayed with flair. A safe, steady growth in capital is preferred, and shrewd investments will be made when possible.

Sun Cancer/Venus in Cancer

The emotional force and expression of love are very powerful, but the inclination to worry over the partner and family is immense, and the Cancerian capacityy for caring may also get out of hand with friends. Here, the qualities are very much as for Sun in Cancer. Shrewdness in business matters is a strong asset.

Moon in Cancer

The Moon is always the third most important factor of a birthchart, but because it rules cancer, its iunfluence is considerably increased when placed in this sign.

The well known natural defensive system, which is such a prominent characteristic of those with a Cancerian Sun, will be equally--if not more powerfully-- present. Defensiveness will be the immediate reaction, not only when the individual is challenged but also in less threatening situations.

Instinct and Practicality

The emotional and intuitive levels are second to none, and those with this placing should learn to trust and rely on them-- their instincts will not let them down. However, it is important that you look for other practical down-to-earth indications in the chart, so that these marvelous facilities can be controlled and not allowed to dominate in a negative way.

The Sun or Mercury in an earth sign, for instance, or perhaps a trine aspect to Saturn from the Moon itself, would be of enormous help. Such a stabilizing influence is neccesary because, in addition to powerful intuition, there is plenty imagination that, triggered in a negative way, can be expressed through worry.

Expression of anxiety

When worried, the individual will tend to think that the very worst has happened. He or she may not neccesarily have a depressive outlook, but apprehension over loved ones can cause these powerful responses to build up out of control. For instance, if a child is unexpectedly late home from school, the subject will soon imagine there has been a serious accident. Nevertheless, both sexes tend to make excellent and loving parents.

From a physical point-of-view, the digestive system will be upset by worry, and is frequently the case that those with this placing have very sensitive skins, whatever their ethnic coloring (heh?). Caucasians will turn beet red in the sun while other races will find it difficult to get rid of even quite minor scar tissue. Protection from the sun, and additional care over cuts, insect bites and so on, is absolutely essential.

Mood and Expression

There may be quick changes of mood, which can frequently be disconcerting foir loved ones to witness. Women with this placing may suffer from premenstrual tension, but should try not to let it dominate their lives.

The face is usually round, with a quite literal moon like shape and glow to it (they always say this about us....*rolleyes* ). When the Moon is placed in Cancer, no matter what its house, it can influence the individual's facial expression: a tiny frown-line may appear between the eyebrowns.

posted April 22, 2011 05:03 AM            

i just get tired of being the nice guy though..i truely resent the nice guy thing because i have always have none that nice guys finish after last no matter what..

posted April 22, 2011 05:32 AM            

Be yourself and nobody can make you feel small. Know that rude people will try to be rude no matter what. Don't try to change yourself because someone doesn't like you. A true friend likes you for who you are, that includes your faults. Your faults are what make you, you. If you went around trying to please everyone, then you'd stop being you.

So, you're a nice guy. Accept that. Nobody hates you for it, trust me. Whoever does is number one: An idiot. Number two: a b*tch.

Here's a nice quote: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss

Stop thinking that girls don't crush on you that much because you're too nice. They dont crush on you because they dont feel that way about you period. Love is....in the eyes...in the way someone walks....in their smile. It has little to do with how nice or not nice someone is. That's why you can still love a douchebag or a b*tch despite all their unniceness.