posted May 01, 2011 07:54 PM            

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Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Virgo 8.08 Ascendant Leo 2.19
Moon Aries 9.37 II Leo 18.56
Mercury Leo 24.47 R III Virgo 10.13
Venus Leo 19.37 IV Libra 9.19
Mars Taurus 22.56 V Scorpio 18.26
Jupiter Libra 28.53 VI Sagittarius 29.45
Saturn Sagittarius 19.09 VII Aquarius 2.19
Uranus Leo 13.37 VIII Aquarius 18.56
Neptune Scorpio 2.38 IX Pisces 10.13
Pluto Virgo 2.13 Midheaven Aries 9.19
Lilith Aries 21.27 XI Taurus 18.26
Asc node Libra 22.59 XII Gemini 29.45

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Pluto 5.55 180
Moon Trine Uranus 4.00 42
Moon Trine Ascendant 7.19 8
Moon Conjunction Midheaven 0.18 349
Mercury Conjunction Venus 5.10 290
Mercury Square Mars 1.51 -68
Mercury Trine Saturn 5.38 35
Mercury Conjunction Pluto 7.26 92
Venus Square Mars 3.20 -41
Venus Trine Saturn 0.28 104
Venus Conjunction Uranus 5.59 112
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 3.44 175
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 3.20 20
Jupiter Square Ascendant 3.25 -21
Saturn Trine Uranus 5.31 15
Uranus Trine Midheaven 4.18 10
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.25 54
Neptune Square Ascendant 0.19 -19
1486 -149 1337

Me : -

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Taurus 14.59 Ascendant Pisces 24.21
Moon Pisces 16.32 II Taurus 15.54
Mercury Gemini 2.49 III Gemini 10.18
Venus Gemini 25.47 IV Gemini 27.59
Mars Pisces 18.31 V Cancer 15.18
Jupiter Aries 11.25 VI Leo 7.59
Saturn Cancer 14.22 VII Virgo 24.21
Uranus Libra 29.48 R VIII Scorpio 15.54
Neptune Sagittarius 11.06 R IX Sagittarius 10.18
Pluto Libra 6.57 R Midheaven Sagittarius 27.59
Lilith Pisces 10.01 XI Capricorn 15.18
Asc node Sagittarius 1.03 XII Aquarius 7.59

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Sextile Moon 1.33 232
Sun Sextile Mars 3.32 38
Sun Sextile Saturn 0.37 166
Moon Conjunction Mars 1.58 144
Moon Trine Saturn 2.10 66
Moon Square Neptune 5.26 -10
Moon Conjunction Ascendant 7.48 79
Mercury Opposition Neptune 8.17 -24
Mercury Trine Pluto 4.08 65
Venus Trine Uranus 4.01 50
Venus Square Ascendant 1.26 -53
Venus Opposition Midheaven 2.13 -106
Mars Trine Saturn 4.08 34
Mars Conjunction Ascendant 5.50 100
Jupiter Square Saturn 2.58 -32
Jupiter Trine Neptune 0.18 67
Jupiter Opposition Pluto 4.27 -61
Uranus Sextile Midheaven 1.48 33
1074 -286 788

posted May 04, 2011 05:56 AM            

Here is your Synastry Chart:

Hope, somebody will explain your Chart.

B

posted May 04, 2011 06:29 AM            

However this is opposed by your Pluto...so I'm going to go with my instinct and get straight to the point...do your insecurities, jealousies affect him emotionally at times? Do you sometimes think that because he does not respond to intimate matters that he doesn't care or feel emotional about them. Do you sometimes say or do psychological games or test him just so he will open up emotionally?

If yes I can tell you that it does affect him and because he is usually quite direct and reacts quickly he is unable at times to do this in your relationship....can you relate to that at all? Or is it off the mark completely?

There are quite a few squares in this synastry that suggests you can mislead or misunderstand each other at times.
However what this also means is that there is plenty of interaction between you too...and his leo ascendant appreciates this greatly.

I would suggest to you to be careful not to project the negative Pisces qualities of evasiveness, confusion onto him. Own your insecurities and trust him.

posted May 04, 2011 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Quinnie:
You share what I love to see in a chart...a Moon/Jupiter aspect which shows genuine appreciation and respect for each other.

However this is opposed by your Pluto...so I'm going to go with my instinct and get straight to the point...do your insecurities, jealousies affect him emotionally at times? Do you sometimes think that because he does not respond to intimate matters that he doesn't care or feel emotional about them. Do you sometimes say or do psychological games or test him just so he will open up emotionally?

If yes I can tell you that it does affect him and because he is usually quite direct and reacts quickly he is unable at times to do this in your relationship....can you relate to that at all? Or is it off the mark completely?

There are quite a few squares in this synastry that suggests you can mislead or misunderstand each other at times.
However what this also means is that there is plenty of interaction between you too...and his leo ascendant appreciates this greatly.

I would suggest to you to be careful not to project the negative Pisces qualities of evasiveness, confusion onto him. Own your insecurities and trust him.

There is plenty of mutual sexual attraction and love and you do work toegther in the relationship and possibly outside of an intimate relationship? Both of your 7th house rulers are conjunct which suggests a long term significant relationship.

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Hi, I don't really display much insecurity although I do have quite a bit, but he triggers it very much so, because he is quite harsh. He simply tends to blurt out everything and anything without thought for how it might affect the feelings of others. At times, I have simply assumed it is because he genuinely does not care nor feel. In fact, early on he tried to convince me he has no emotions. He has had a very difficult life, as have I. But we seem to come from opposite ends of the spectrum in that he is ruled by thought, I tend to be more ruled by feeling.

If I believe he does not care, it is because he tends to say things in an attempt to make me believe that, lol. The only time I have really got upset and walked off and went home (the royal wedding), he simply went into a bar for the first time in years and had more to drink and stayed away for 3 days. He said he didn't want his weekend ruined and cant be dealing with that emotional stuff. So obviously, from things like that, it would be easy to presume someone doesn't care.

I don't do any games to make him open up emotionally, as I am not sure if he can and I don't believe in playing games.

I, personally, on first seeing him had a strange sense that he is the man I will marry, but at this point in time, 8 weeks into talking, even after spending every evening together, I am beginning to wonder, lol.

The main issue I am hitting is that for reasons unknown, sometimes he just goes into these hyper critical rants, where he will tear apart everything from love in films and music, to the money system, and at times, even me, because he sees me as too sensitive, and thinks I shouldn't react to any words said to me, no matter how hurtful because he doesnt react to all the bad things said to him. He does not respect my sensitivity. I do not know if that is connected to the synastry. I am quite balanced, but at times, his nature is throwing me out of balance because he goes to an extreme of criticism and seemingly has no idea at all of how his words might be taken. Admittedly, I have generally just reacted by going silent and stashing my feelings inside, as I do not like showing anger or getting into any sort of conflict. He knows his words get to me, and comments on it, saying 'that's really got to you hasn't it' but he laughs about the fact words hurt me. He only seems to understand the pain of being physically hurt, though it was not always so.

I suppose I am curious as to why there has been such a strong draw, seemingly mutual since I am the only person he has allowed into his home in 20 years and the only woman he has spent time with in 20 years. Yet whereas I make it clear I like him a lot, and feel no desire to upset him in any way, he repeatedly says things that hurt.

posted May 05, 2011 03:33 AM            

If you read my post again, only reverse the roles, maybe it would be more relatable.

There are definitely some emotionally volatile aspects between you too and sometimes it's difficult to know how it plays out...
His Virgo Sun...is critical and in combination wit a Leo asc...he thinks he is a king with divine right to criticize, and an Aries Moon...sudden impulsive emotional reactions...well it just fits with your description of him.

All signs have positive and negative traits that can be expressed and triggered by synastry...

With regards to synastry....you can see if that desription would fit if the roles were reversed and it was him playing games because of his insecurities.

There is inherent contrast in how you react emotionally individually. He is Aries Moon...and it can be hot and harsh.
Yours is a Pisces Moon which is gentle but can be evasive.

posted May 05, 2011 04:00 AM            

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on first seeing him had a strange sense that he is the man I will marry, but at this point in time, 8 weeks into talking, even after spending every evening together, I am beginning to wonder

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You'll marry someone much better on so many levels. Thinking back you will find it funny that you thought so much of him - because in comparison to your true future husband - he'll seem like a tiny little insignificant blob.

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and it was him playing games because of his insecurities.

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posted May 05, 2011 04:26 AM            

But your Moon/Mars conj in Pisces!!!!!!

I mean seriously!!!!

You are NOT marrying this nincompoop.

You are marrying someone who has a real brain -- as opposed to a narrow-minded broken track record that keeps playing on and on (and often turns sadistic).

Do you know how many morons like him there are in this world?
I've met SO many men like this.
All THE SAME OLD BS. Very OFTEN they are Aries-infleunced and OLD. I've heard it all before. Everything you mentioned about his realistic/logical thinking and how he is emotionless and you should be also.
What are you doing with this ..... thing... (man?? - robot?? - whatever he is..)

posted May 05, 2011 07:19 AM            

I have feeling that you are really good and helpful person.

I do also Synastry reading but yesterday wasn't very good to write anything, except to post Synastry Chart. Beside that, I must be sure that Synastry Chart is good Chart for both persons.

Look there about my friend and your reading her Solar Return. I brought it back.

Thank you again,
Bobbie

posted May 05, 2011 07:21 AM            

And yes, unless he has a miraculous revelation, I cannot see this going beyond what it is now (shared meals, a beer together, intellectual conversation, holding hands). I am quite strong these days, in spite of all that Pisces in my chart, but not enough to simply allow everything said to me bounce off with no impact.

posted May 05, 2011 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by bonadea33:
Hi Quinnie,

I have feeling that you are really good and helpful person.

I do also Synastry reading but yesterday wasn't very good to write anything, except to post Synastry Chart. Beside that, I must be sure that Synastry Chart is good Chart for both persons.

Look there about my friend and your reading her Solar Return. I brought it back.

Thank you again,
Bobbie

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posted May 05, 2011 07:25 AM            

I have no idea what is: nincompoop. In each case is nothing good.

Your answer made me laugh. You must be somebody very special and my feeling tells me that people in your company never feels boring. You should give more times some comments: “on your special way”.

WL, Bobbie

posted May 05, 2011 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Quinnie:
Graelwyn

If you read my post again, only reverse the roles, maybe it would be more relatable.

There are definitely some emotionally volatile aspects between you too and sometimes it's difficult to know how it plays out...
His Virgo Sun...is critical and in combination wit a Leo asc...he thinks he is a king with divine right to criticize, and an Aries Moon...sudden impulsive emotional reactions...well it just fits with your description of him.

All signs have positive and negative traits that can be expressed and triggered by synastry...

With regards to synastry....you can see if that desription would fit if the roles were reversed and it was him playing games because of his insecurities.

There is inherent contrast in how you react emotionally individually. He is Aries Moon...and it can be hot and harsh.
Yours is a Pisces Moon which is gentle but can be evasive.

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Your description of a king with the divine right to criticise, certainly fits how he behaves at times. I think he tries to calm it down more now, but it is obviously very hard as it doesn't last long, lol.

posted May 05, 2011 07:41 AM            

I mean that there must be more trines and sextiles than in this Synastry.

I don't like squares: they confuse me. Here is his Saturn in square with your Moon and Mars, what is not good at all. Your Saturn has no aspect to his planets. Saturn is planet that holds people together.

From other side, there is some kind of love, as his Moon (in conjunction with your Jupiter) in your 1st house: it is place of the Moon, when this person is in love with you. His planets in your 7th, together with NN there: there is a lot between you two. Both Venus are well aspected, what shows love from both sides.

But, remember, love alone is not enough.

Bobbie

p.s. You better listen to your heart: maybe it will tell you, is he the right one for you or not.

posted May 05, 2011 10:36 AM            

I love him unconditionally. That has always been there since I saw him. We have not had an argument ever. There is.no shouting and that sort of thing. Just a clash I'm terms of his critical and non demonstrative nature and my tendency to prefer to look for the positives in everything and to dream. I would not say it os hopeless because we both share the same view of god, morals and life but from different angles. We can talk for hours. We have identical interests. Both believe in a love that does not come from movies and books.

All I can say is that on a soul level there is a connection I have never experienced before and I have had soul mates. This is not the same. There have been dreams that actually came to pass, which is quite freaky, we both experience physical symptoms at the same time, in the ways we have reacted to past experiences, we are the same and there is a lot more it too much to tell.

It is possible we or he is not evolved enough for us to meet in the.middle on our differences. I know the squares are there and squares represent challenges to overcome. But there are some strong positives there too ? I van only say it is an incredibly strong connection, if one believes in a soul level of life. Maybe it will not get beyond friendship. Maybe I just need to learn to live each moment.