posted May 04, 2011 07:03 AM            

In my experience, a popular topic of conversation amongst all girls, is boys. It doesn't matter whether you are married, involved, single or celebate - its still fun to discuss them. Even once you're taken, flirting can often make the world a lighter place. I'm not advocating cheating, but I would also never judge anyone that felt it necessary to do so/impossible not to.

So, with that in mind - how do we get those men to fall for us!? Here's my take on it - I'd love to hear everyone else's opinions!

Aries - Be fun, chatty, sporty and energetic but don't be sarcastic or controlling.

Taurus - Be funny, sarcastic, take note of his actions not just words, don't nag, suggest something once or twice then leave him to mull it over and eventually think it was his idea. Be consistent, avoid drama. He'll want to know you're honest and not going to run off at any minute. Flatter him lots, but sincerely. Jealousy doesn't really work too well, he's more inclined to back off completely because he feels insecure.

Gemini - Trust him, don't pry too much or tell him you know him deeply (even if you do), give him his freedom, be genuine at all times he can spot b-s a mile off. He won't get jealous, so its a waste of your time trying that angle.

Cancer - Be loving and warm, smile lots.

Leo - Flatter him - constantly. It doesn't even have to be realistic, lol, he'll take any kind of compliment you care to give. Enjoy life with him. It is easy to make him jealous but if you do it too much, he will start sulking and having a tantrum.

Virgo - no idea, other than be tidy, organised and clean. Don't be unreliable or break dates etc.

Libra - again no idea.

Scorpio - no idea.

Sagittarius - be fun, be relaxed and chilled out. Don't try to change him or cage him. Don't make him jealous he has more fish in the sea than you do, and it could backfire.

Capricorn - flatter him, but very carefully and genuinely. He doesn't find it easy to accept compliments, so ends up getting very few. Those he does get will lift his spirits. Don't be shy around him, you won't scare him off, but make sure you back up what you say with solids, he can see through falseness. Doesn't usually want a lot of make up and won't respond to slutty appearances, particularly in public.

Aquarius - be his friend, go along with his ridiculous ideas, allow him to go in to his daydreams, and dont even bother trying to keep up when his thoughts run at 1000 mph - just be there for the important bits when he manages to vocalise some of them. No point in jealousy, he's not likely to notice.

Pisces - no idea.

I don't know if anyone agrees with me on the above, or can add to the ones I've missed out - its interesting though I think to discuss it.

Rachel

posted May 04, 2011 10:38 AM            

Scorpois are easy, be a bit sleazy, well sexually anyway (unless alot of earth involved), be the uber-femme-fatale, be deep, dark and carry an air of suspicion. Having said that, Scorps are highly intuitive and being secretive themselves, they take no ******** and can read way, way between the lines.

Pisces, dont bother, there is either the good fish or the bad fish and in the end the Fish is always the Fish and will swim~~~ (I am one)

Virgo, I got one, I "chased" him for ever! I was patient, appropriate, wear little to no makeup, dress not so conservatively, but not slutty, either (tho his Mars in Scorp lets me get away with more than most Virgins! ) And what they really like is intelligence!

Any of the above are hard to understand and capture, but the key to these three is to remember they are men living in a femanine energy, and I have seen with all of these 3 the difficulties of a man trying to express the natural femanine he feels inside...

posted May 04, 2011 12:14 PM            

Oh and no wonder Cancer people like me...lol (I smile alot)

posted May 04, 2011 12:53 PM            

someone should make a female version of this for us guys..? Some of my (tongue in cheek) 'ex'periences

Aquarius woman: wears weird/colourful clothes, talks too much and is an oddball, often a bit too hairy..

Virgo woman: pleasant,lovely shiny long hair, but obsessed with cleanliness,takes 2 showers a day on a camping weekend.

Scorpio woman: Likes karate and aggression, being argumentative and winning at all costs.

Aries woman: will try to drag you into her room even when its plain you're not interested.

posted May 04, 2011 01:11 PM            

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Originally posted by starfox:
Agree with Capricorn one..

someone should make a female version of this for us guys..? Some of my (tongue in cheek) 'ex'periences

Aquarius woman: wears weird/colourful clothes, talks too much and is an oddball, often a bit too hairy..

Virgo woman: pleasant,lovely shiny long hair, but obsessed with cleanliness,takes 2 showers a day on a camping weekend.

Scorpio woman: Likes karate and aggression, being argumentative and winning at all costs.

Aries woman: will try to drag you into her room even when its plain you're not interested.

Taurus woman: Thick dark curly hair,would cheat at the drop of a hat, willing to make first move on a guy.

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LOL Starfox!

I can start a topic off if you want...

Rachel x

posted May 04, 2011 02:13 PM            

And I can be an sarcastic. Even a sarcastic ass to random people, (like a woman blocking the way, I'll say "take your time!!" and then she'll get out the way)or someone who is just asking for it. But for me this one is not the style I use to show someone love.

For me it's really about the person's intentions and tone when they say it. It has to be in a 'you have flaws and I love you and your awesome' kind of tone... not in a 'I want you to feel that you are pathetic and stupid' kind of tone.

posted May 05, 2011 04:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Oh and just so your clear on the sarcastic thing...
I can have fun and have people poke fun at me, and laugh with them...as long as their intentions/tone are in the right place. It really all depends on their intentions. I can tell when people are doing it to be fun and flirty, and when people do to bring me down a peg...cause they don't like me being me. It's either fun or a war with me. :P

And I can be an sarcastic. Even a sarcastic ass to random people, (like a woman blocking the way, I'll say "take your time!!" and then she'll get out the way)or someone who is just asking for it. But for me this one is not the style I use to show someone love.

For me it's really about the person's intentions and tone when they say it. It has to be in a 'you have flaws and I love you and your awesome' kind of tone... not in a 'I want you to feel that you are pathetic and stupid' kind of tone.

(sorry bout my spelling, this internet doesn't come with spell check. And I really need it :P )

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Hiya

Don't worry about the spelling, its still clear what you mean :-)

That's really interesting about the sarcasm, my best friend (girl) is an Aries and she is very similar to you. She just doesn't respond to sarcasm when it has a nasty edge to it. She's one of the few people in my life who doesn't, and for ages I thought it would make her seem soft or niaive to others, but in fact it has the opposite. She doesn't take any b-s from anyone, and she doesn't need to use sarcasm to achieve their respect. I'm amazed at her ingenuinity and powers. Its the old saying of 'there's more than one way to skin a cat' - for me, unfortunately, there's only one instinctive way - be as sarcastic as I possibly can lol. I'm slowly learning, though, to adapt my manner to suit others - you learn much more that way!

posted May 05, 2011 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by RMChex:
LOL Starfox!

I can start a topic off if you want...

Rachel x

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posted May 05, 2011 08:26 AM            

I have one question though: the sag I'm quite casually seeing (as in: we're not even dating, just sex) gets jealous without me even having to do anything for it... Then again, I'm naturally flirty around other man and it has driven my partners to insanity before. The funny thing is that I don't even care about cheating.

Sometimes I do tease him by blatantly flirting with other men though. But I assume he already knows I'm a teaser in every way imaginable.

And there are just as many fish in my sea as there are in his

posted May 05, 2011 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by starfox:
Yes! please do one.

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Here ya go: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/208248.html

I'll warn you though, the conclusions in the thread so far are quite varied - it would seem I know male star signs quite a bit better than female ones as my guesses were quite far off on some of them, hehe. The Scorpio one is accurate, as that is me and I'm very typical (I think anyway).

Rachel

posted May 05, 2011 06:23 PM            

Aries-Be blunt, humorous, direct, indepedent and quick witted. Ideally you'll be recieving attention from other fellas in their vicinity-They love anything that encourages competition! Start an argument or a debate with them, but be easy-going about it. Don't belittle, tease. They like physical activity-Playfighting etc

Taurus-Fun, flirty but still refined. It'll take them awhile to trust you. Emphasize an interest in the arts and general culture, particularly cooking. Speak in a practical, down to earth fashion. Avoid weird or unpredictable behaviour.

Gemini-They always want a mental sparring partner! Just be as interesting and vivacious as you can be, but also make it abundantly clear you're not interested in them. If that makes any sense..Their curioisity aroused is a terrifying force!

Cancer-Loving, warm, feminine, they like dresses and hold-ups. Be polite and witty. Cancer have a serious soft spot for clevage. Lots of eye contact, ask them how they're doing and really mean it :P

Leo-you need to appear as a 'prize' of sorts to ignite their interest, they will invariably start talking to you based on this. Flattery, compliments, laugh at their jokes, lots of eye contact and flirting. They're suckers for a bit of 'worship'

Virgo-Emphasize your intellect, they have a soft spot for people that appear genuinely innocent and sweet. Cleanliness and good taste is a must, if you like anything obscure that they like you're onto a winner. Don't be forceful.

Libra- NO IDEA! Ironically the one I like at the moment. Gaaaahhh...

Scorpio-Outrageous, dark, mystical, flirtasious, argumentative. They like mind games, and they like people that can play them better than they do :P

Sagittarius-Be eccentric, wild and hilarious. They love a good time! Change the topic frequently and go on adventures. They need constant stimulation. Be cheerful, stray away from emotional talk and anything even vaguely resembling commitment.

Capricorn-Make it apparent you're a serious person, showcase a dark sense of humour ladled with sarcasm. Speak of current affairs, it's rare to meet a Capricorn that isn't well read. Avoid drama and pretension. Be dignified.

Aquarius-Ignite interesting conversations, make random comments, ask obscure questions and generally make it apparent that you're unique. Similar process to the Sagittarians, except the Aquarius will appreciate intellect over mindless banter.

Piscies-Show an interest in them, be gentle and calm and funny. Look at life in a surreal way, engage them in topics of conversation that cover the unknown.

posted May 05, 2011 06:26 PM            

Aries-Be blunt, humorous, direct, indepedent and quick witted. Ideally you'll be recieving attention from other fellas in their vicinity-They love anything that encourages competition! Start an argument or a debate with them, but be easy-going about it. Don't belittle, tease. They like physical activity-Playfighting etc

Taurus-Fun, flirty but still refined. It'll take them awhile to trust you. Emphasize an interest in the arts and general culture, particularly cooking. Speak in a practical, down to earth fashion. Avoid weird or unpredictable behaviour.

Gemini-They always want a mental sparring partner! Just be as interesting and vivacious as you can be, but also make it abundantly clear you're not interested in them. If that makes any sense..Their curioisity aroused is a terrifying force!

Cancer-Loving, warm, feminine, they like dresses and hold-ups. Be polite and witty. Cancer have a serious soft spot for clevage. Lots of eye contact, ask them how they're doing and really mean it :P

Leo-you need to appear as a 'prize' of sorts to ignite their interest, they will invariably start talking to you based on this. Flattery, compliments, laugh at their jokes, lots of eye contact and flirting. They're suckers for a bit of 'worship'

Virgo-Emphasize your intellect, they have a soft spot for people that appear genuinely innocent and sweet. Cleanliness and good taste is a must, if you like anything obscure that they like you're onto a winner. Don't be forceful.

Libra- NO IDEA! Ironically the one I like at the moment. Gaaaahhh...

Scorpio-Outrageous, dark, mystical, flirtasious, argumentative. They like mind games, and they like people that can play them better than they do :P

Sagittarius-Be eccentric, wild and hilarious. They love a good time! Change the topic frequently and go on adventures. They need constant stimulation. Be cheerful, stray away from emotional talk and anything even vaguely resembling commitment.

Capricorn-Make it apparent you're a serious person, showcase a dark sense of humour ladled with sarcasm. Speak of current affairs, it's rare to meet a Capricorn that isn't well read. Avoid drama and pretension. Be dignified.

Aquarius-Ignite interesting conversations, make random comments, ask obscure questions and generally make it apparent that you're unique. Similar process to the Sagittarians, except the Aquarius will appreciate intellect over mindless banter.

posted May 05, 2011 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
The number one query on astrology sites is about a current guy these gals fancy (it's mostly women) - what can I do to get this guy to notice me? The best answer to give is be yourself, be your chart and not about what makes him tick. Make him tick because you are you, not because you are being a different person to normal, or being what he wants. If he doesn't like you, your chart, find someone else.

All good info though.

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I agree.

posted May 05, 2011 08:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
The number one query on astrology sites is about a current guy these gals fancy (it's mostly women) - what can I do to get this guy to notice me? The best answer to give is be yourself, be your chart and not about what makes him tick. Make him tick because you are you, not because you are being a different person to normal, or being what he wants. If he doesn't like you, your chart, find someone else.

All good info though.

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Yes i actually agree with you there, but not all women are ready to be themselves, and then there is the conquest aspect; i hate it if a guy i like doesn't fall for me, so by adjusting very slightly i can achieve my goal. For me, its no worse than altering what i'd say in front of my friends than my elderly rellies. Does that make any sense?!

Rach

posted May 06, 2011 01:13 AM            

And RMC yes I can get what you are saying.