posted May 04, 2011 01:27 PM            

To even up my other topic, here's a how-to guide for any enquiring minds out there who want to know how to catch a woman of a certain sign, at least one typical of her sign. Additions/corrections welcome....

Aries - let her know you like her, make the first move, don't be sarcastic to her.

Taurus - Be the life and soul of the party, don't be dramatic, be consistent, look good and have good taste, she'd rather have a little luxury than a lot of ordinary.

Gemini - not a clue

Cancer - show her you like being at home, you're a nice guy and you are protective of your family. Don't object to her possessiveness, try to understand that she is only doing it because she really likes you

Leo - Be sure you can afford her, don't skimp on her presents or taking her out, don't show her up in public. Make sure you give her compliments, and praise her for things she does for you.

Virgo - Don't make a mess! Understand her need for cleanliness, help her with it once in a while.

Libra - not a clue

Scorpio - Make it 90% obvious you like her, but keep that bit of uncertainty there and she will follow you until she can 'conquer' you 100%. She will get jealous easily, and you can tempt her in with a little bit of competitiveness, however go too far and she'll see you as an enemy not a prize. Wear aftershave, all the time. Make sure you have something different with her than all your other female friends - e.g. you have a special look that she knows is just for her, or a name you only call her, something that lets her know she's more important to you than anyone else. Don't wear green, lol. Hint that you're good in bed, very good, but don't be vulgar.

Sagittarius - no idea.

Capricorn - be trustworthy, dress well and conservatively, possibly blacks browns or navy blues, get to the top of your field, impress her with your financial abilities - i.e. earning money, and not wasting it. Don't give her too flashy compliments, make sure they are real and genuine.

Aquarius - be her friend.

Pisces - not a clue.

Being a girl, I may be completely wrong on all of these, so please feel free to add as you see fit. The only one I'm sure of is Scorpio, cos that's me and I'm very typical although my Venus is in Virgo.

Here's what Starfox had to say in the other topic:

Some of my (tongue in cheek) 'ex'periences

Aquarius woman: wears weird/colourful clothes, talks too much and is an oddball, often a bit too hairy..

Virgo woman: pleasant,lovely shiny long hair, but obsessed with cleanliness,takes 2 showers a day on a camping weekend.

Scorpio woman: Likes karate and aggression, being argumentative and winning at all costs.

Aries woman: will try to drag you into her room even when its plain you're not interested.

Taurus woman: Thick dark curly hair,would cheat at the drop of a hat, willing to make first move on a guy.

posted May 04, 2011 01:33 PM            

I will talk a lot if I know the person and the topic is of interest to me.

Oh and stupid, stuck up people that cannot understand sarcasm and irony need not apply ^^

posted May 04, 2011 01:36 PM            

I guess this can depend on how you see it.
Do you look at her ASC, for this, or do you look at her 7th house, indicating what she would like in a partner.

I have Leo on the 7th, so this is the one for me....

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Leo - Be sure you can afford her, don't skimp on her presents or taking her out, don't show her up in public. Make sure you give her compliments, and praise her for things she does for you.

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posted May 04, 2011 01:40 PM            

Rachel

posted May 04, 2011 02:21 PM            

just posted this on my fb, cause my vrigo bfriend hurt me

posted May 04, 2011 05:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
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I have Leo on the 7th, so this is the one for me....

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posted May 04, 2011 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by RMChex:

[b]Aries - let her know you like her, make the first move, don't be sarcastic to her.

Here's what Starfox had to say in the other topic:

Aries woman: will try to drag you into her room even when its plain you're not interested.

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posted May 04, 2011 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Yrone:
Pffff, I am no oddball and I am definetly not hairy. Odd clothes? Jeans and Shirt/Blouse usually, although I admit I like Star Wars prints on my shirts. That's my comfy wear, if needed I can slip into conservative stuff and be just as at home.

I will talk a lot if I know the person and the topic is of interest to me.

Oh and stupid, stuck up people that cannot understand sarcasm and irony need not apply ^^

P.S. I am a scorpio desc and the karate as in martial arts and agression stuff totally fits me

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posted May 04, 2011 05:59 PM            

Be quick witted.
Have an energetic look about you/You should be in constant motion if possible (even if it’s just tapping your foot).
Always be honest, even if it sounds blunt.
Make her feel appreciated for her brain first and foremost. Don’t let it seep that you are romantically/sexually attracted. It’s best to work your way in from friendship.
Otherwise she might feel trapped and run.

Don’t ever do the opposite either: pretending you are not attracted, playing games, playing hard to get or some other idiotic idea. If you do this, you are setting things up to be a war zone between you. This can only lead to trouble long term.
Sometimes men think this behaviour will lead to feisty sex. This is very unlikely to happen with an Aries woman!
It’s much more likely it will lead to her attacking you in a very disturbing and aggressive manner that you didn’t expect – such as throwing rocks at your new bmw.

She has to be absolutely sure that you SEE her personality, that you GET her personality, that you LIKE her personality and you find her interesting/funny.
If she is in doubt on this ^ --- she’ll become extremely cold. Aries has self-esteem. They have a well-developed ego. They will never be with someone who does not appreciate them, for this reason. They would prefer to be alone – quite literally.
Often, other people will SAY that they prefer being alone. But Aries actually *does*.

So when you read astrological advice about being a ‘bad boy’ and how Aries likes the chase --- That really depends on whether or not you tread on her toes. If you do – you’re gone and forgotten.

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If an Aries woman thinks you are into her physically (i.e. you give her compliments for her physique calling her beautiful and what not) --- and at the same time ignore her personality completely… she will instantly put you in a box titled “Casanova wannabes”. It takes one to know one. Casanova was an Aries with a lot of Pisces in his chart. (So am I! and so are many other Aries women). We are onto you! Please stop while you are ahead. This crap and fake compliments will get you nowhere.

In the same vein, if your convos revolve around love and sex topics --- She’ll HATTEEEEE this to no end.
She needs a lot of mental stimulation. You have to be interesting and have interesting new things to tell her about, whether it is about politics, astrology, psychology , sports or whatever you may think of. If it’s something you are passionate about – all the better!
In some ways you have to treat the Aries girl as a close male friend.

posted May 04, 2011 08:09 PM            

I personally dont agree with the sterotype Leo thing..

posted May 04, 2011 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by RMChex:
[b]Leo - Be sure you can afford her, don't skimp on her presents or taking her out.[/B]

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posted May 04, 2011 10:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I wrote one for the Aries woman a while ago. Here it is:

Be quick witted.
Have an energetic look about you/You should be in constant motion if possible (even if it’s just tapping your foot).
Always be honest, even if it sounds blunt.
Make her feel appreciated for her brain first and foremost. Don’t let it seep that you are romantically/sexually attracted. It’s best to work your way in from friendship.
Otherwise she might feel trapped and run.

Don’t ever do the opposite either: pretending you are not attracted, playing games, playing hard to get or some other idiotic idea. If you do this, you are setting things up to be a war zone between you. This can only lead to trouble long term.
Sometimes men think this behaviour will lead to feisty sex. This is very unlikely to happen with an Aries woman!
It’s much more likely it will lead to her attacking you in a very disturbing and aggressive manner that you didn’t expect – such as throwing rocks at your new bmw.

She has to be absolutely sure that you SEE her personality, that you GET her personality, that you LIKE her personality and you find her interesting/funny.
If she is in doubt on this ^ --- she’ll become extremely cold. Aries has self-esteem. They have a well-developed ego. They will never be with someone who does not appreciate them, for this reason. They would prefer to be alone – quite literally.
Often, other people will SAY that they prefer being alone. But Aries actually *does*.

So when you read astrological advice about being a ‘bad boy’ and how Aries likes the chase --- That really depends on whether or not you tread on her toes. If you do – you’re gone and forgotten.

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If an Aries woman thinks you are into her physically (i.e. you give her compliments for her physique calling her beautiful and what not) --- and at the same time ignore her personality completely… she will instantly put you in a box titled “Casanova wannabes”. It takes one to know one. Casanova was an Aries with a lot of Pisces in his chart. (So am I! and so are many other Aries women). We are onto you! Please stop while you are ahead. This crap and fake compliments will get you nowhere.

In the same vein, if your convos revolve around love and sex topics --- She’ll HATTEEEEE this to no end.
She needs a lot of mental stimulation. You have to be interesting and have interesting new things to tell her about, whether it is about politics, astrology, psychology , sports or whatever you may think of. If it’s something you are passionate about – all the better!
In some ways you have to treat the Aries girl as a close male friend.

PS. Always have goals and aspirations for a bright and happy future. Never mope about the negatives. She will not like people raining on her parade.

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posted May 05, 2011 03:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Coffee:
That is great Betty. Was this for a woman who is Aries Sun, or Aries ASC?

You should look at ASC more.

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Do you think? In my experience I have found it yields much better results if you angle your approach to someone's sun sign, not ascendant. And besides, when you're at the stage of trying to get someone to like you, its not a given that you'll even know their ascendant.

posted May 05, 2011 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Leo - Be sure you can afford her, don't skimp on her presents or taking her out, don't show her up in public. Make sure you give her compliments, and praise her for things she does for you.

I personally dont agree with the sterotype Leo thing..

Taking me places and throwing a compliment is not the way to my heart..

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Lioness and Vertiver -

Completely understand; and that's what I meant by corrections welcome - I just started the topic, but I am totally no expert at this, and being a girl myself I've never tried to woo a Leo so I was just going on the only 2 Leo women I know, and how I perceive what they want from a man. So to give a better description of how to get a Leo woman to like you in the first place, what should I guy do/not do?

Rach