posted May 07, 2011 08:14 PM            

anger is something that doens't go away when we lose it

let it subside into feeling

and you will see that you have a paternal-child loss issue of control

posted May 07, 2011 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Maka:
Mercury Retrograde, makes it hard for one to express themselves:

"..Those of us with a Mercury Retrograde in our natal chart are likely to have difficulty focusing on the now. His or her conscious mind may go in and out of other dimensions without even realizing it…this ability may only be recognized after a dramatic incident makes it clear that his or her way of thinking is NOT the general way of thinking, even if they thought it was for many years. Once this ‘difference’ is acknowledged by the Mercury retrograde native, it may cause issues with self-esteem or feelings that he is the odd one out. It is really a matter of perspective.."

I have it too, I haven't figured out how to put "myself" out there yet..due to anxiety.

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Hi Maka,

Personally, I have known since I was a child that my way of thinking was different. Over the years, I've learned to embrace it. One thing that may help you with anxiety over putting yourself out there is to try to figure out what makes you anxious about it. For example, are you afraid that someone won't like the real you? If so, then ask yourself if deep down inside you really care if they like you or not. I'd be willing to bet that if you really thought about it, you'd realize that you don't care if that stranger likes you or not.

posted May 07, 2011 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
Hi Maka,

Personally, I have known since I was a child that my way of thinking was different. Over the years, I've learned to embrace it. One thing that may help you with anxiety over putting yourself out there is to try to figure out what makes you anxious about it. For example, are you afraid that someone won't like the real you? If so, then ask yourself if deep down inside you really care if they like you or not. I'd be willing to bet that if you really thought about it, you'd realize that you don't care if that stranger likes you or not.

Another thing you might ask yourself - what will be more painful to you when you're a little old lady (or man)? The thought that you were true to self even though it was sometimes scary or painful? Or the thought that you never let your true self shine because you were afraid of what others thought? Does that make sense? In a nutshell, embrace your quirkiness - it's what makes you special and wonderful - and despite what you may think, people often think much more of you than you give them credit for.

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posted May 07, 2011 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
Looks like we got our friend here feeling for once....

he is being very passive agressive...

also, take note...

he pretends to understand the nature of projection when he is only a simple photographer

overstepping his boundries in the professional realm with false knowldge.

This man speaking is similar to a shipbuilder attempting to teach blood transfusion.

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Ha Ha. We simple photographers are anything but. You should know better than to judge a person by what he does for a living.

My response was anything but passive aggressive. Quite the opposite. It was direct and to the point.

Thank you. Every time you throw another dagger at me you prove me more and more right. I have a profound understanding of psychological projection and the definition of passive-aggressive behavior. I suggest you learn what they mean as well so you will stop embarrassing yourself with your false knowledge.

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Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
The blockage has been borken JOJO becareful now, not to take it out on someone, let the anger fade

anger is something that doens't go away when we lose it

let it subside into feeling

and you will see that you have a paternal-child loss issue of control

you are overbearing on your children in passive ways.

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posted May 07, 2011 09:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Maka:
"..You may have difficulties in your relationships, particularly with your family and relatives, simply because you think differently than they do. Your ideas and visions may have been ridiculed or slammed in your youth. You may be forced to question yourself over and over again throughout life, as you can see many overlays and dimensions for every situation that makes it very difficult for you to see life as others see it. It is hard to focus on simple, mundane tasks when your conscious mind is recognizing so many things at once and picking up subtle nuances that others do not have the ability to recognize. Your thought patterns may be obsessive at times, but as you go over and over things in your mind, you are actually learning to focus better..."
http://www.throughnightsfire.com/MercuryKarmaretrogrades.html

Sorry about the snippit and links, it's hard for me to explain how Mercury Retrograde works.

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posted May 07, 2011 09:09 PM            

Also by simple i meant you are simple in the feild of psychology, becuas eyou do not have a psychology degree...

I didn't judge you, but stated a fact using words that could mean judgement.

With regards to throwing daggers?

CAn you please explain that further, i wans't aware that i threw a dagger at you

however

posted May 07, 2011 09:09 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
Maka, to me, this defines one who is different because they are brilliant, not because they're...I don't know...weird (for lack of a better word). People like this fascinate me because they live out the uniqueness that the majority of society envy. You should be bold in your uniqueness - Lord knows I am, and it's never failed me. Quite the opposite in fact. Because once I embraced the real me and dared to show myself for who I really am, I wasn't so alone anymore... I hope you find the courage to be true to you... I really do. It's liberating!!

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posted May 07, 2011 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
Ha Ha. We simple photographers are anything but. You should know better than to judge a person by what he does for a living.

My response was anything but passive aggressive. Quite the opposite. It was direct and to the point.

Thank you. Every time you throw another dagger at me you prove me more and more right. I have a profound understanding of psychological projection and the definition of passive-aggressive behavior. I suggest you learn what they mean as well so you will stop embarrassing yourself with your false knowledge.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
[b]The blockage has been borken JOJO becareful now, not to take it out on someone, let the anger fade

anger is something that doens't go away when we lose it

let it subside into feeling

and you will see that you have a paternal-child loss issue of control

you are overbearing on your children in passive ways.

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Interesting that my son just came home and I let him read this thread. When he got to the part where you say I am overbearing in a passive way towards him, he actually laughed out loud. [/B][/QUOTE]

posted May 07, 2011 09:12 PM            

The blockage has been undone, again use it wisely i only warn you because of my own past mistakes.

posted May 07, 2011 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
These words would be wise except for one thing. You are a photographer and in no position to evaluate another with regards to psychology.

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LOL...proving your ignorance yet again. Photographers are tasked with evaluating others, finding the root of the issue, and bringing it to light. Psychology and human emotion is the basis of everything we do. LOL.

posted May 07, 2011 09:16 PM            

my plan has unfolded as planned, and the meaning of each planet listed above has been confirmed

jojo sorry for making you the butt of the experiment but you asked for help in removing the blockage

some other htings...i know from your chart you ahve a sexualy deviant side which could cause you moral harm...pisces is at odds with itself and venus in aries will give you strange individualistic impulsive sexuality....

i recommend a healthy dose of celebacy for atleast 100 days..

thank you for letting me help you and have a good day, i'm closing this thread now...as teh blockage occurs again contact me and i'll be more then happy to unblock you

posted May 07, 2011 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
LOL...proving your ignorance yet again. Photographers are tasked with evaluating others, finding the root of the issue, and bringing it to light. Psychology and human emotion is the basis of everything we do. LOL.

As much as I would love to continue to educate you, I simply must go. I've already given you too much of my time, and my son's offer to spend the evening with him and his friends celebrating his 18th birthday today is much more appealing than casting pearls before swine. Have a good evening, and as hard as this may be, try not to spend it alone.

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Again, no matter how hard you try, you cannot turn a photographer into a psychologist, the fields are mostly unrelated...it's true photographers and psychologists both use bathrooms, they both brush their teeth, but that doesn't make you an expert in psychology just becuase you are human?

posted May 07, 2011 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by JoJo:
LOL...proving your ignorance yet again. Photographers are tasked with evaluating others, finding the root of the issue, and bringing it to light. Psychology and human emotion is the basis of everything we do. LOL.

As much as I would love to continue to educate you, I simply must go. I've already given you too much of my time, and my son's offer to spend the evening with him and his friends celebrating his 18th birthday today is much more appealing than casting pearls before swine. Have a good evening, and as hard as this may be, try not to spend it alone.

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your son offered to spend time with you because you are a lonly man and he feels sorry for you being alone....you can't admit this to yourself so now you project it on to me, who choses to be alone even though he can go to the club right now with a group of people...lol

more proof that a photographer is a lousy psychologist if he doesn't have a degree in it.

posted May 07, 2011 10:09 PM            

Before this post, I actually thought you had a handle on understanding astrology but your reading is so off, I now believe you're making it up as you go.

Consider this your first warning from me.

I answered this post last night but lost it in transit.

IMO the answer to your question Jojo is Jupiter. Yours is conjunct the Ascendant and exalted in Cancer.

A strong Jupiter personality can negate some of the negativity that comes from water signs like moodiness.
Jupiter is positive always preferring to look at the glass as half full instead of half empty. They know instinctively that positive thoughts bring positive actions and this attitude works for them. When you expect the positive you usually get it.

posted May 07, 2011 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Roadwarrior you are so out of line it isn't funny. Do you think you have to be insulting to get a reaction or what?

Before this post, I actually thought you had a handle on understanding astrology but your reading is so off, I now believe you're making it up as you go.

Consider this your first warning from me.

I answered this post last night but lost it in transit.

IMO the answer to your question Jojo is Jupiter. Yours is conjunct the Ascendant and exalted in Cancer.

A strong Jupiter personality can negate some of the negativity that comes from water signs like moodiness.
Jupiter is positive always preferring to look at the glass as half full instead of half empty. They know instinctively that positive thoughts bring positive actions and this attitude works for them. When you expect the positive you usually get it.

Out knowflakes

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posted May 07, 2011 10:36 PM            

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Lalinda....your opinion is appreciated but your experience in astrology is lacking...roadwarrior

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posted May 07, 2011 10:57 PM            

pisces is pleasing others to please teh self, and venus in aries would make this joy by action happen, initiatory etc...

also the aspects involved indicate this as well.

posted May 07, 2011 11:04 PM            

venus in aries

attracted to strong dominent type woman

would literaly be attracted to a dominent female type in every way both sexualy, etc...probably teh one with teh high powered career....

pisces is more offbeat and artistic but also more inclined to be the one who is not in control

also fantasies of punishing the self...teh two fish one swims for the ego the other gainst...

etc...

this is all textbook astrology...

and since he is a male his mars in scorpio would make him very secretive and repressed...which would only strengthen the fantasy nature since it is a psychological fact that when we repress the urges grow in strength if you want i'll list my sources

but i won't go through allt he work uless you apologize to me first.