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Topic: what makes one a NAGGER?
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Nightingale
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posted May 19, 2011 07:42 PM
  
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Scorpio moon is one of the hardest placements for a female.
The moon is the center of us, the core. Scorpio does not like the moon energy,If you picture the moon as being comfortable in Cancer you can see how the moon would be agitated in Scorpio.
Cancer emotes freely.Scorpio holds things in out of fear of exposure and fear of loss of control.
Cancer lives to nurture and make a nest.Cancer lives to surround her loved ones like a mother hen,
Cancer puts herself out there for those she loves .Scorpio does not like to show it's cards.
I suppose I am saying that Cancer is exposed in a way that Scorpio dreads.
Awesome post Ami Anne  Scorpio Moon is an unhappy Moon, it just finds it difficult to find emotional nourishment. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted May 19, 2011 07:56 PM
You erased your post Starfox about the Scorpio moon.
For me,personally,I do not think I could have a partner with a Scorpio moon cuz I am not intense enough to deal with it.
I have strong Pluto but a Gemini Stellium and a Cancer moon.
I am kind of light,in general,as a person,as far as revenge etc goes.
I do not have deep ,swirling emotions.
I like Scorpio in Mars and angular Pluto's or a Scorpio ASC but not the core of oneself which is the moon.
I like a gentler core lol------------------
‎"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
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posted May 19, 2011 07:57 PM
Thank you Nightingale
That was sweet of you to say 
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Betty Boop
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posted May 19, 2011 07:57 PM
I'm going for Cancer on this one. Person who nags most is: Cancer
Sco Moon
Cancer Mercury
Virgo Venus
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Betty Boop
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posted May 19, 2011 08:01 PM
I've read through the thread now.. I mean - I guess anyone can nag... But I just think people who have both Cancer & Virgo in their charts -- beat everyone else to IT.. lol
They're just *bigger* nags than the average nag lolIt is interesting, though, that the person I instantly thought of as - the biggest nag I know... does have a Scorpio Moon lol But I still think it's only in the context with her Cancer and Virgo -- that it comes across as nagging - because I know several Scorpio Moon people who do not nag.
They are passionate and they can just about kill you in an argument whether through caustic words or sheer silence... But they don't "nag" as such. IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted May 19, 2011 09:37 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I've read through the thread now.. I mean - I guess anyone can nag... But I just think people who have both Cancer & Virgo in their charts -- beat everyone else to IT.. lol
They're just *bigger* nags than the average nag lolIt is interesting, though, that the person I instantly thought of as - the biggest nag I know... does have a Scorpio Moon lol But I still think it's only in the context with her Cancer and Virgo -- that it comes across as nagging - because I know several Scorpio Moon people who do not nag.
They are passionate and they can just about kill you in an argument whether through caustic words or sheer silence... But they don't "nag" as such.
Cancer and Virgo I would say also! I have Virgo moon 
I believe Scorpio would be more demanding, pushing. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted May 19, 2011 09:42 PM
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Originally posted by lunatic:
Cancer and Virgo I would say also! I have Virgo moon
I believe Scorpio would be more demanding, pushing.
I agree, comparing my scoprio moon with my mother, venus in virgo and sun in cancer and a sun in cancer and moon in virgo I know OH and my dad has his merucry in virgo! Ohlord my sis has virgo too but with some scorpio but shes not pushy,probably the libra anyway...
I PUSH YOU! They just kinda whine/nag.IP: Logged |
jwhop
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posted May 19, 2011 09:50 PM
Anyone here a Venus in Virgo?It's not that you're trying to hurt someone when you're critical and/or nag. You're just trying to make them "better". You do desire order. You probably won't nag those you don't care about. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted May 19, 2011 09:52 PM
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You probably won't nag those you don't care about.
Yes, I know a Leo man with Venus in Virgo and he is very loveable. What you said is true about him. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted May 19, 2011 09:55 PM
Actually it's also true about the Cancer woman above ^... She does care about me a lot. And she probably wouldn't bother otherwise. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 19, 2011 10:21 PM
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Originally posted by Shalimar:
Stawr, I'm not judging. I just wondered if you really did kick your mother. Wasn't sure if I read that right, because you said it so casually. But I saw your subsequent posts, and you truly seem regretful of it. I just hope that if you're being subjected to violence yourself, you won't take it lightly. I hope I've not offended you. I'm probaly oversensitive to the topic of any violence right now, because it seems that lately so many people I know are being subjected to abuse.
Your fine Shalimar, and everything I posted wasn't all directed at you. More to everyone.
Cause I realized how bad it sounded when I said what I did. Even if at the time I felt like she was askin for it, even if it was a one time thing. It's messed up that I did that. And that it isn't normal.
And my mom is pretty good and doesn't deserve that.
And I hope that if I'm in a situation like that again that next time I'll kick the wall or scream.
Wait that isn't normal or healthy coping behavior either...oh well still better than then you know...
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lunatic
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posted May 19, 2011 11:34 PM
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Originally posted by jwhop:
Anyone here a Venus in Virgo?It's not that you're trying to hurt someone when you're critical and/or nag. You're just trying to make them "better". You do desire order. You probably won't nag those you don't care about.
You reminded me something now. There was a Virgo girl that I thought she had a crush on me and one day while we were talking about books and poetry, I told her I want to be a writer but I don't know exactly how.. she got serious and she told me these are just excuses, you have to sit down and try and started making plans for me. Right there I thought, nah, probably she doesn't like me that much, but later I understood she cared about my progress. I could easily misunderstand her behaviour IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted May 20, 2011 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
Your fine Shalimar, and everything I posted wasn't all directed at you. More to everyone.
Cause I realized how bad it sounded when I said what I did. Even if at the time I felt like she was askin for it, even if it was a one time thing. It's messed up that I did that. And that it isn't normal.
And my mom is pretty good and doesn't deserve that.
And I hope that if I'm in a situation like that again that next time I'll kick the wall or scream.
Wait that isn't normal or healthy coping behavior either...oh well still better than then you know...
Stawr, don't feel guilty, most of us have done some nasty things.. You are an Aries, right? I love Aries girls and their temper. I try to tease the Aries I like, and she 's ready to punch me every time. I hope she enjoys it though. 
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Benedict Moon*
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posted May 20, 2011 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
I've read through the thread now.. I mean - I guess anyone can nag... But I just think people who have both Cancer & Virgo in their charts -- beat everyone else to IT.. lol
They're just *bigger* nags than the average nag lolIt is interesting, though, that the person I instantly thought of as - the biggest nag I know... does have a Scorpio Moon lol But I still think it's only in the context with her Cancer and Virgo -- that it comes across as nagging - because I know several Scorpio Moon people who do not nag.
They are passionate and they can just about kill you in an argument whether through caustic words or sheer silence... But they don't "nag" as such.
Not I. Don't get me wrong, I can be critical/impatient when people can't simple instructions right the first time, but I also don't have the patience or the interest to influence other people's lives. The 2 biggest naggers that I know are a mixture of Libra and Virgo. There's one (Libra Sun+ Moon/Sag Asc/Virgo Venus) who was always in my grill everytime I decided to wax my eyebrows instead of pluck them, because CLEARLY plucking is the only way to go.  THAT was annoying, so I just stopped telling her when I went to the salon. The other one in my class is a Libra Sun/ definite pisces moon/ Virgo Venus and Mars. She also has Sun conjunct Pluto blowing up those qualities 10 fold. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 20, 2011 07:19 AM
My mom has Venus and Mars in Virgo.before my uncle finally headed out the door this morning my mom said to him "wash your hair"
Yes I was laughin on the inside. Maybe the Venus in Virgo placement makes you feel like if you love someone, you need to tell them that they could do or look better.
The way my mom does it though, is wired. And not always the best time. So it's either funny or really aggravating and then funny later. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted May 20, 2011 08:35 AM
Jwhop
That was a very interesting insight in to Venus in Virgo.Thank you ------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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jwhop
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posted May 20, 2011 10:24 AM
Hi Ami Anne...  Stawr, that's funny and very Venus in Virgo..like! Honestly, it's not done to put someone they love down. Most of the time, the recipient of the wisdom from our lovable nags of the Zodiac would be better off heeding the unsolicited advice. "White socks with your dark suit Harry?"  I'm not picking on Venus in Virgo types here and it should be remembered that nothing is universal but, there are "tendencies". There's an aspect in synastry which tends to produce the same result. Sun square Saturn...where Saturn is the teacher and Sun is the recipient of lots of advice...usually unsolicited and unappreciated.  IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 20, 2011 11:13 AM
"White socks with your dark suit Harry?"
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fenia
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posted May 20, 2011 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by Stawr:
My mom has Venus and Mars in Virgo.before my uncle finally headed out the door this morning my mom said to him "wash your hair"
Yes I was laughin on the inside. Maybe the Venus in Virgo placement makes you feel like if you love someone, you need to tell them that they could do or look better.
The way my mom does it though, is wired. And not always the best time. So it's either funny or really aggravating and then funny later.
I don't know if it's the same, but my father that usually says these things, hurt me a lot. I feel rejected by him. I think sometimes he is doing it for my own good, but mostly not, it's like someone who puts me down cause he doesn't appreciate who I am. I cannot be myself around him cause I m afraid his critisism. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted May 21, 2011 03:50 PM
betty, "I've read through the thread now.. I mean - I guess anyone can nag... But I just think people who have both Cancer & Virgo in their charts -- beat everyone else to IT.. lol
They're just *bigger* nags than the average nag lol"yup. i know a cancer dude with moon and rising in virgo. oh my GOD nitpicky. the most annoying thing about him is that he not only thinks he's always right and totally logical (and will argue everyone to pieces to prove it), but he's soooooo totally subjective, and moody to the point of being paranoid. he nags about every single thing. i know he means well but it's exhausting to be around him for more than an hour. IP: Logged |
jwhop
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posted May 21, 2011 06:38 PM
"White socks with your dark suit Harry?" Well yes, Stawr, even my Venus in Libra cringes and is offended and my Mercury in Virgo says NO, NO, NO, don't do that! IP: Logged |
Anicia
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posted May 21, 2011 09:05 PM
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Originally posted by jwhop:
Anyone here a Venus in Virgo?It's not that you're trying to hurt someone when you're critical and/or nag. You're just trying to make them "better". You do desire order. You probably won't nag those you don't care about.
Venus/Mars/Mercury in Virgo, on my ASC. I say this all the time "I wouldn't bother if I didn't care!" Most of the time is isn't even about my personal desire for order, as much as I'd like those I care for to reach their fullest potential. My persistence can definitely rub people the wrong way.. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted May 22, 2011 11:57 PM
planets in the 6th house can cause nagging as well. like if you have mars in the 6th irritation is expressed through nagging. virgo in general i think can be nagging. scorpio is in certain ways similar to virgo, with it being analytical and introspective. IP: Logged |
Saraintheski
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posted May 23, 2011 12:08 AM
What about a 6th house moon (leo) ? I'm quite the complainer ..IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 23, 2011 08:45 AM
All my Scorpio stuff is in the 6th house. Where I have the Moon, Pluto, Lilith, JunoIP: Logged |
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