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Topic: what makes one a NAGGER?
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Venus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 07:43 AM
my dad, may he rest in peace, constatntly called me a nagger, funny coming from a moody crab but alas he ment it..it never annoyed me because at heart i new it was true.. i nag alot, about my life, my luck, bad hair day, nothing to wear, exams, classes, politics, illness etc... what aspects do you think cause this? i think my sun in libra keeps my mind spinning, worries, worries, worries.. also my scorpio moon keeps me agitated because of all these worries that i cant express.. hence i start nagging.. you see when im upset, thats when the nagging machine comes to life.. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9652 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 07:57 AM
Scorpio moon is one of the hardest placements for a female. The moon is the center of us, the core. Scorpio does not like the moon energy,If you picture the moon as being comfortable in Cancer you can see how the moon would be agitated in Scorpio. Cancer emotes freely.Scorpio holds things in out of fear of exposure and fear of loss of control. Cancer lives to nurture and make a nest.Cancer lives to surround her loved ones like a mother hen, Cancer puts herself out there for those she loves .Scorpio does not like to show it's cards. I suppose I am saying that Cancer is exposed in a way that Scorpio dreads.------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
starfox Knowflake Posts: 272 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 08:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Scorpio moon is one of the hardest placements for a female. The moon is the center of us, the core. Scorpio does not like the moon energy,If you picture the moon as being comfortable in Cancer you can see how the moon would be agitated in Scorpio. Cancer emotes freely.Scorpio holds things in out of fear of exposure and fear of loss of control. Cancer lives to nurture and make a nest.Cancer lives to surround her loved ones like a mother hen, Cancer puts herself out there for those she loves .Scorpio does not like to show it's cards. I suppose I am saying that Cancer is exposed in a way that Scorpio dreads.
Hi Ami a new (female)friend of mine has scorpio moon, can you tell me any more about it? IP: Logged |
starfox Knowflake Posts: 272 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 08:39 AM
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ecomat Knowflake Posts: 44 From: Budapest, Hungary Registered: Feb 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 08:51 AM
virgo moon too, i think.IP: Logged |
Shalimar Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:01 AM
Hello, my name is Shalimar, and I am a NAGGER, lol. I will fully admit this. I think my tendency to nag comes from having control issues. I'm a virgo sun/virgo rising with pluto in the first house as well. I *try* not to nag, but when I find myself in a situation where things are not going well, I tend to start nagging to push people into action. I've been called pushy too, and that's something about myself I'm working on changing. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9652 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 09:12 AM
OK Starfox I will think about it and be back.My dear friend Stone Age Queen who just joined is a Scorpio Moon. She can chime in, too ------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Stawr Knowflake Posts: 438 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 09:13 AM
I've never been called a nagger, but I've been told that I complain too much and that I'm full of exuses.I have Aries Sun, Scorpio Moon, and Taurus Mercury. My mom on the other hand picks the worst time ever to critisize or sugguest things. She doesn't only do it to me. But it really can set off my temper.
Like 2 nights ago I had a fever. Why would she pick that time to nag about my room being messy? and I said something like "well no **** it's messy, I am not in any shape to clean my room right now...why would you pick a bad time to bring that up!?" then she said something like, "It's always a bad time for you" another person telling me I'm full of exuses! Then she continued to go about my room being messy. (I am almost never a voilent person. I've never even been in a real fight) but I kicked her. Since my words had no affect on her. And she wasn't backing off, I used my actions to tell her to shut up. but here are some more examples of my mom picking bad times to nag. by the way my Mom is a Leo Sun, Cappy Moon, and Leo Mercury At her mom's funeral her oldest brother is a gluten. (I think he eats a bag of chocalate a day sometimes) So he has this huge stomach. Well they desided to get a picture with all the brothers I think then my mom desides to blurt out something like "Scott, your stomach is way too big you need to watch it with those candy bars." Yeah at the funeral home! In a funeral home! and then my other uncle...we where having a Sunday family dinner...with my sister and her husband comming and Grandma (on dads side) And my uncle isn't close or liked by them. Well my uncle wears his glasses over his head sometimes. And is hair is grey/brown and not short. So my mom blurted out "Kyle, you look like a mad professor with those glasses on your head. Wich I was laughing so hard on the inside (cause I don't like this uncle and same with alot of other people in the family) also when I wake up in the morning with my hair a mess and come down for coffe my mom will say something like "your hair is scarring me" and I'm thinking really??? and I be like "no sh!t Sherlock, I just woke up!"
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RMChex Knowflake Posts: 426 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:18 AM
<hangs head in shame>I too am a nagger... there, I've said it lol (my husband would be so proud of me!) I can't help myself sometimes. It is just that I want things done, so I keep on. I forget that the person I'm nagging has feelings and opinions of their own and are not on the planet to just obey my every whim. I try to stop, and think how I would feel if the roles were reversed and I was being nagged. The trouble is, I'm such a strong character that I could stand up to the nagging and nothing would make me do it if I didn't want to. I would just argue until they stopped nagging! I guess my Capricorn Moon and Venus in Virgo are probably behind my remarkable ability to nag and moan lol! ------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Shalimar Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:19 AM
Stawr, did you really kick your mom? IP: Logged |
Venus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:24 AM
i like your mom she seems like quite a "no funny business" kinda woman! respect!yes me too i complain alot, i dont like to give excuses though, but i always complain. ..now i almost certain its a moon in scorpio thing IP: Logged |
Venus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:25 AM
Ami you know me too well! heheIP: Logged |
Venus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfox: Hi Ami a new (female)friend of mine has scorpio moon, can you tell me any more about it?
starfox my dear if you cant handle a woman with a load of emotional baggage then run! run like the wind! .. now if you could handle it, it is remarkable, I tell you, to be an insider in a scorpion moon storm!
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Venus Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Beirut Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Shalimar: Hello, my name is Shalimar, and I am a NAGGER, lol. I will fully admit this. I think my tendency to nag comes from having control issues. I'm a virgo sun/virgo rising with pluto in the first house as well. I *try* not to nag, but when I find myself in a situation where things are not going well, I tend to start nagging to push people into action. I've been called pushy too, and that's something about myself I'm working on changing.
nothing is wrong with nagging, i say, if it gets the work done.. oh i also have merc. in virgo that probably adds to it! IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 426 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 09:45 AM
I don't have Scorpio Moon, but I do have Sun, Mercury and Uranus in Scorpio so I wonder if it is the Mercury in Scorpio could also bring out the "moan and nag, moan and nag..." in me?------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 9652 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 09:53 AM
No Rach I think the Scorpio moon is it's own animal unlike any other Scorpio placements.------------------
"Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Stawr Knowflake Posts: 438 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 10:21 AM
Yes I did Shalimar. I know what I did was wrong. And I am way too old for that behavior. I know thats a place alot people would fear to do to their parents. And what I did was a big deal. It's not a habbit that I have. I don't think I've ever done that before. Something came over me that night. Me and my mom are very close, and sometimes we really do get into it with eachother. I think the last time we really got into it pshysically like that was when I was in middle school. But we where able to eventually control ourselves, before things got really out of hand. I don't expect anyone to like or respect me for saying that. But that is the ugly truth, I could of chose to leave that part out but for some reason I didn't. And I know I'm not the only one here that has been voilent a few times in their life. Weather it was a sibling, a friend, their kid, or someone getting on your nerves at the bar, ect.
But something my mom is good at saying with good timing is "you need to take a pms pill" Also about the exuses, there are exuses that are made up (tall tales). And then there are exuses that are true. Either way they are both exuses though. I have exuses, but I don't make any up if that makes sence. (maybe only a few times, cause everybody lies sometimes) I can still take responsibibility though. IP: Logged |
bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 10:32 AM
Naggers are usually black. You know, dark and pessimistic. IP: Logged |
RMChex Knowflake Posts: 426 From: England Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 12:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: No Rach I think the Scorpio moon is it's own animal unlike any other Scorpio placements.
Oh, well I wonder what makes me nag then? My husband would say all women nag and its nothing worse than average, but I'm sure not all women do..!? ------------------ Where possible, give people a piece of your heart, not a piece of your mind. IP: Logged |
starfox Knowflake Posts: 272 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 01:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Venus: starfox my dear if you cant handle a woman with a load of emotional baggage then run! run like the wind!.. now if you could handle it, it is remarkable, I tell you, to be an insider in a scorpion moon storm!
Ok..hmm..thats something to be aware of then. Mind you, when you get older you find most people are carrying a fair bit of emotional history around with them. IP: Logged |
abcd efg Knowflake Posts: 396 From: India Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 02:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: Yes I did Shalimar. I know what I did was wrong. And I am way too old for that behavior. ............
It's OK. Very few have the courage to admit their mistakes leave alone in public. And also, when we are ill we are just not ourselves at times. Sometimes we do things without actually meaning to do it. Just some reaction out of frustration or anger. Its OK as long as we realise our mistake and try to improve on them. And on the topic, hmmmm i don't nag much but i do have a virgo moon so you know how it is. And yes, many women nag. And i know many terribly fair naggers too. IP: Logged |
Maka Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 04:04 PM
They say women are known to nag a lot, but I've known men to do it too and sometimes worser.=SMy dad(Libra Sun/Taurus Moon), My uncle(Gemini), My bf(Capricorn Sun/Scorpio Moon/Capricorn Mercury) and his cousin(Gemini) and our mutual friend(Leo) and my other friend (Gemini). It's like I exspect us girls to nag from time to time, but when a man does it..it's like I just want to rip my ears off. Especially with our Leo friend, his nagging out beat any old cranky woman. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 784 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 04:15 PM
I have my moon in Scorpio....everyone ****** me off IP: Logged |
Stawr Knowflake Posts: 438 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 19, 2011 07:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by abcd efg: It's OK. Very few have the courage to admit their mistakes leave alone in public. And also, when we are ill we are just not ourselves at times. Sometimes we do things without actually meaning to do it. Just some reaction out of frustration or anger. Its OK as long as we realise our mistake and try to improve on them.And on the topic, hmmmm i don't nag much but i do have a virgo moon so you know how it is. And yes, many women nag. And i know many terribly fair naggers too.
whew, thank you abcd efg. I feel beter. And me blurting that out on here today made me apoligize to my mom later. And my mom was pretty much just like "that was random" lol Yeah this has been a wired week. I am doing more than I'm used too. Staying out late on Fridays and Saturdays. And then being at work from 8am-6pm and then going from school or play rehersal from 6-9. Then I get the fever. Ugh, and also (tmi but) pms will make me do and say things I regret later, sometimes. So my Mom sees me later today and says "ohh Kerry, your make-up! you look like a vampire!" Cause today I took a coral lip linner and used it as eyelinner. That was funny. IP: Logged |
Shalimar Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted May 19, 2011 07:29 PM
Stawr, I'm not judging. I just wondered if you really did kick your mother. Wasn't sure if I read that right, because you said it so casually. But I saw your subsequent posts, and you truly seem regretful of it. I just hope that if you're being subjected to violence yourself, you won't take it lightly. I hope I've not offended you. I'm probaly oversensitive to the topic of any violence right now, because it seems that lately so many people I know are being subjected to abuse.IP: Logged |