posted June 04, 2011 10:41 AM            

I dont really like the Scorpio's behaviour, since there's nothing real he could provide you because of his wife.
I can imagine that he quite much likes your attention as well what he might fear to lose if you move on from your troubled marriage.

Oh, and you can just stop talking with him whenever you want. If you dont believe that its possible, then i think it's just because of his strong energy/aura.

But in the end, you have to ask YOURSELF about what to do...

posted June 04, 2011 02:31 PM            

Yes Scorpio is pretty traditional. He does seem to want me to get back with my husband in the sense that its better for the children (his opinion).

I asked Scorpio why if he loves his wife,, and is happy with her, that he would want a relationship with me, and his answer was that "I have a big heart, and can love more than one person"

But we've really resolved to the fact that it's a dead end. Iknow he finds this forbidden thing as fun, but we know the truth. I just don't know why he exposed his feelings. I'm an Aries, I tell the mailman I love him. Scorpio hasn't returned my calls or texts since Thursday. I would assume he feels guilty, especially when he spends time with his family.

The recent events just confuse me about him. The same day Scorpio tells me he loves me, and we share a really great hug, is the same day my husband (who has no clue about this) beat me up, and the same day I went to my mom's.

Then he pursues things with me, tries to fix my relationship with my husband, tells me to go to Jordan, or come live in my now empty apartment (under his) for a month free. He told me that "time is running out, before school is out," and wants to have lunch with me before the kids are home, and he won't be able to see me. He works the night shift, so he'll be home all day with the family.

posted June 04, 2011 04:54 PM            

up until this point, I thought your neighbor could be a nice friend for you but not now, Sorry Sweetie but you are being manipulated. I know this is going to be hard (and you probably won't take my advise) but you need to distance yourself from him.
IT WOULD NOT SURPRISE ME IF HE WERE TALKING TO YOUR HUSBAND TOO.

My reason for asking if they are Jordanian is because they have their own opinions on how to treat their woman and it probably differs from the opinion of an American Woman.

posted June 04, 2011 05:03 PM            

Scorpio is arab too,but not jordanian.

running out of time how? scary statement. please elaborate, lalaland

he hasn't really shared with me his own personal things, just matter of fact things that he makes to look like sharing. but why manipulate me, why now? we lived in the same building, and have been alone together plenty of times. I never felt he was trying to take advantage of me. And he's told me he loves me, finds it amazing how we think things at the same time, and has done things in the past to show he cared about me.

posted June 04, 2011 05:36 PM            

The manipulation part, is the love connection.

Question, what would a Middle Eastern man's opinion be of a woman who had these conversations with her neighbor, would it be misconstrued?

Assuming your husband is aware of these, (and the letter) how would he react?
Would he do whatever it takes to get you over there and THEN deal with you?
Is your neighbor more likely to side with your husband because they are both men and used to a certain standard?

No matter what you can't be with the neighbor, He is married and you don't want that bad Karma.

posted June 04, 2011 05:43 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by lalalinda:

No matter what you can't be with the neighbor, He is married and you don't want that bad Karma.

I wish you love & happiness

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Well said...
and i wish you love % happiness esheep123
Ignore my past comments, i didn't read the abuse part so i apologize for it.

But why'd past me think of that(karma) i wonder? if i had a time machine i would slap him in the face and beat him to the hospital. If this karma thing exists i am paying my stupid debts for an ******* guy - past me -...

posted June 04, 2011 08:02 PM            

I don't plan on going to Jordan, anymore anyway.

I don't want to go back to a bad relationship. My husband has a lot of making up, if he wants to get back together.

I like what the Scorpio revamped in me, that I could have someone who tells me things like " I love you." "I missed you too" "You deserve the best, swear to God"

It's nice. I'd like that someday with a man I could be with.

posted June 04, 2011 08:47 PM            

or whatever rings true for you

esheep, it's only too late if you go to Jordan and you have no plans to do that.

posted June 05, 2011 12:25 AM            

He called me almost immediately, and agreed that this is the best. He wished me luck, kept his offer to take me out to lunch as soon as Monday (which would be difficult for my situation to go somewhere for a few hours unnoticed) and feels it's better this way.

I cried, he didn't seem too phased by it. He was calm and cool, and was kinda in a rush to get me off the phone.

I'm sad. Real sad. But I figured in the last throes of Aries Jupiter, I should cut it out.

I told him I'm not going back to my husband, and he feels it's a shame.

He called our relationship a dead circle, but told me he will always love me, and cherish our relationship. He told me to call him whenever I needed him and he will be there. He was glad, he said, that I chose to end it...

Definitely not interested in bad karma.

Why the lunch invite. even after everything, with a date and time even?

posted June 05, 2011 01:02 AM            

Concentrate on your children and a plan for your future. Work on this.

The right person will come along and he will be worth all of the extra effort you have put in for a better life. Have a little faith in the goodness that is you.

posted June 05, 2011 01:36 AM            

The thing is scorpio-influenced people see a lot of violence around them in life - even if they are not directly involved, although sometimes they are.
So violence does not instantly scare or put them off, and they do believe people can be reformed and changed.
So he probably thinks this is something you and your husband could still work on and resolve.

I don't believe he is right at all. I think your glass is well and truly full and you are done. You cannot live in that environment with your children. And it would not be "better" for them in any sense.

I don't think I would personally keep in touch with Scorpio guy, were I to be in your shoes.. but if you do want to keep in touch as friends, I think that's OK, as long as you are aware that his traditional views can be very different to yours... and you do not get coaxed into doing things 'his' way.

In terms of a romantic relationship, based on what you are telling us here - it is very likely that Scorpio guy will never leave his wife.
He might be in love with you..
But in any case, he may also be in love with her (the watery men I know can definitely fall in love with multiple people). And even if he is not in love with her - as he said himself - his perspective is that - people should stay married for the sake of the children (regardless of anything else that happens). Being a fixed sign he will stick to this belief until the day he dies.

posted June 05, 2011 04:59 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
I would tell him something like
"I can't bear the thought of dragging you and your family into my issues, so for now I'm going to take a (temp?) break and step back to reflect on my family"

or whatever rings true for you

esheep, it's only too late if you go to Jordan and you have no plans to do that.

Keep us updated

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posted June 05, 2011 03:34 PM            

Scorpio loves you but doesn't want to hurt his wife,he thinks he would be incapable to provide for you.He might also think you are incapable at present time able to be independent.