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freebrainstorms
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posted June 07, 2011 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for freebrainstorms     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my saturn is in sagittarius which is the same as my mars. I seem to attract people whose mars is trine to me i.e. Fire, Scorpio Mars and sometimes Air Marses....marses? hehehe

never really anything else.

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starfox
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posted June 07, 2011 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfox     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
some men with mars in scorpio..
kurt kobain
jude law
leonardo dicaprio

do they do the job?
patrick swayze

http://www.astrotheme.com/celebrites/mars/scorpio/1.htm


sorry to butt in off topic.
(As I've written before) I have a small group on facebook for us Mars in Scorpio folks. I will publish this list to it.

Anyone else here who is 'mars in scorpio' please look us up on facebook and join..


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bethcarliseh
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posted June 07, 2011 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bethcarliseh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BETTY BOOP, do I have mars in scorpio?

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iliketurtles
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posted June 07, 2011 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for iliketurtles     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have 10th house saturn in libra, ruling my first house, and i do have a weakness for men with either venus in libra or libra sun in the first decanate. i think you may be onto something here....

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blugrey
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posted June 07, 2011 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blugrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is funny!!! My Saturn is Cap - my favorite Mars are Cancer and Cap.
I have Cancer Mars myself.

I met my first Scorpio Mars man last night. :x He's a Sag. He's a lot more playful than smouldering, but eek! He's so hot!

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
My Saturn Capricorn is in the 4th, and I guess I am attracted to men with prominent Capricorn in their chart.

Last dude I dated had his Capricorn Sun and Mercury conjunct Saturn.

Love of my life has 3 Capricorn planets in their home, the 10th house.

I like a Mars Sagittarius - have an exact trine with my Venus with the last guy. Love of my life has a Mars Libra in opposition to my Aries Venus - although it trines my Aquarius moon.

Last guy was a mega Capricorn, and I have the same stellilum of planets in Capricorn (Neptune, Uranus, Saturn), as well as Taurus placements, so there was a nice, slow familiarity there.

I love Scorpio placements because instead of everything being slow and drawn out, there is so much more energy in that opposition. Love of my life has Sun/Merc/Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th. My Taurus Sun and Mercury is in the 8th.


So Cap did hold true for you.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mir:
Hi Ami,..
Maybe you have a point here as my Saturn is in Gem and his Mars in Gem but I've never thought of it like that and I even wondered why I could or should be attracted to a Gem-Mars (only having an Aqua-mars myself?) as I know for sure that I wasn't ever attracted to a Gem-Sun guy or the traits belonging to them..

If I would die NOW I would say; this was REAL (and the second REAL experience in my life).

That's why I always say/think, the END of a relationship.. that's most interesting


Yes Saturn dampens that energy.We crave it and look for it outside of ourselves.
You know--even books,movies ,so many things have a particular energy in them.

For example,one of my fave authors Evan Hunter is ALL about evil/Nessus in human nature.
There you go.I have been reading him since high school lol

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by allouette:
lol Ami, wanna join the club! After I experienced a scorpio mars man don't want anything else! this is funny I know but I ask all the guys that are interested in me and want to date me their birthdata and if they don't have mars in scorpio I don't date them at all! and yes, my Saturn is in Scorpio hmm...creepy

It spoils you G/F.You know the old joke.If you don't ,I won't say it

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by samsaoule:
My saturn sits in Gemini and I am attracted to them, but most specifically to Sagittarius men as my Venus and Mars sit in Sagittarius. I am a gay man.

OK so do you feel YOU do not have access to the Gemini energy in yourself?

Sag is like Gem in many,many ways.
It FEELS like Gem energy.

Can I ask you a question as a Sag Venus? Could you ever settle down with one person? Would you get bored once it was routine?

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
my saturn is in sagittarius which is the same as my mars. I seem to attract people whose mars is trine to me i.e. Fire, Scorpio Mars and sometimes Air Marses....marses? hehehe

never really anything else.


Is the Sag energy hard for YOU to access in yourself --that bold ,courage ,enthusiasm, adventure ,jovial,upbeat nature that is particular to Sag?

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by iliketurtles:
i have 10th house saturn in libra, ruling my first house, and i do have a weakness for men with either venus in libra or libra sun in the first decanate. i think you may be onto something here....

Awww Thank you
I never knew that people actually had a theory that you crave your Saturn energy lol

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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by blugrey:
This is funny!!! My Saturn is Cap - my favorite Mars are Cancer and Cap.
I have Cancer Mars myself.

I met my first Scorpio Mars man last night. :x He's a Sag. He's a lot more playful than smouldering, but eek! He's so hot!


Yes Blugray
Thanks for sharing Baby

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Betty Boop
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posted June 07, 2011 07:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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However,it may not make a direct application to a man's Mars.

I definitely love Sagittarius energy! I don't know if I crave it though. The thing is my Uranus is also in Sagittarius, but not conj by degree (so maybe that changes things).

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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 07, 2011 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aya_and_baby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interestingly enough, I met someone whose mars is also trine my mars (in virgo, mine is in capricorn) who seems to be interested in me physically, but we'll have to wait and see what it gives from my side


I can already tell that I should avoid mars in Gemini - at least when those are opposite my Venus and Neptune (although I can't imagine anything good coming from a conjunct to my moon and chiron)

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posted June 07, 2011 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Sagittarius Saturn and I do best with either Aries Mars or Scorpio Mars men... The intensity and energy is awesome...

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posted June 07, 2011 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Saturn is in Virgo and in the 9th house… However, I am most attracted to Mars in a Fire sign.

While I think it is true that we may often struggle with the traits of our Saturn sign, and do admire those who seem to effortlessly embody those traits, it may not necessarily be a romantic admiration unless Saturn is connected with a relationship house… like the 5th , 7th , or 8th.

In my case Saturn is conjunct the MC by 3 degrees, and my MC is also in Virgo. I really do admire the Virgoan traits of being fast and yet also efficient at the same time, and also their ability to keep their minds focused on mundane things, in the professional sphere. Even though I am a Capricorn I have mercury in the 12th and do tend to daydream too much, and find mundane household details utterly boring. My Cap sense of responsibility forces me to deal with them, but I certainly don’t relish it. That being said, Saturn is also my sun sign ruler, and having it in Virgo has given me a very analytical mind, a rigid sense of duty, a dislike of chaos, and a love of organization… but I still hate mundane details. Forget about scrubbing the kitchen floors, and pruning the hedges, I’d rather spend my time solving the mysteries of life. My analytical tendencies tend to be applied more to intellectual things like studying astrology. Also, my 3rd house cusp is in Aquarius which is co-ruled by my Virgo Saturn and I have always had a fascination with alternative health, and nutrition.

As for what Mars or even Venus signs excite me…. I’m a Sag rising, and my Dsc ruler Mercury is also in Sag, and I really do just love the energy flow of this sign. Usually such positive and humorous people to be around. I have Aries on the 5th house cusp ruled by Mars in Leo, and I just find the boldness of both of these signs extremely exciting. To me, Aries just has that ‘it’ factor (pure hotness), and Leo has this fascinating heartfelt quality that I love. I haven’t had experience with Gemini my Dsc sign, in Venus or Mars via synastry, but I have noticed that when Venus transits my Dsc, it does make me feel really warm and affectionate and romantic. I also seem to like Aquarius, which is the sign on my 3rd house cusp, and seeing as I have a Gemini Dsc, it makes sense that I’d be drawn to those who are ’interesting’ to me. These sign preferences actually seem to apply to any part of a the other person’s chart, and not just Mars and Venus, but also the sun, the Moon, and the Asc. I also seem to like Cancer and Scorpio, usually as a Venus or Moon sign. My 8th house falls in Cancer, ruled by my Cancer Moon which itself falls in the 8th (ruler of the 8th in the 8th), so perhaps this explains my occasional fascination with people who have these signs prominent.

So, in conclusion, I don’t really see my Saturn sign on someone else’s Mars as being ‘sexy’ at all. I think this type of attraction comes more from having someone’s Mars of Venus influencing the 5th , 7th or 8th houses in your chart, or even influencing the ruler of those house cusps…

There was a Virgo sun sign actor on whom I had a crush, but he also had Mars in Sag conjunct my Mercury… and Mercury is my 7th house ruler… Plus he had Moon in Cancer, either in my 7th or 8th house, and his Venus in Libra also sextiled my Mercury.

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posted June 07, 2011 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn Libra here, and I find Mars in Aquarius most attractive. I have Mars in Libra.

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posted June 07, 2011 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by pepper:
Actually what i notice abt the men who i fall deeply for, they always have natal venus conjunct pluto exact iregardless which sigh. I always wonder if it is cos my mars conjunct pluto in first house in libra..

I would definitely think so, this sort of thing happens a lot.

For me, I have Moon conjunct Venus, and I naturally fall in line with men who have Sun conjunct Venus, or in Taurus or Libra or their Moon in Taurus or Libra.

Also, my Venus and Mars are both in aspect to Saturn/Pluto, so usually they also have Saturn or Pluto in aspect to their Venus or Mars or those planets in Capricorn/Scorpio.

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posted June 07, 2011 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by allouette:
this is funny I know but I ask all the guys that are interested in me and want to date me their birthdata and if they don't have mars in scorpio I don't date them at all!

The guy I'm with, I've been hounding him for his birth certificate, and he knows I study astrology and he really thinks I'm going to do this to him, so he's been insanely stubborn about handing over the data! ::madface::

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posted June 07, 2011 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn is in Sag conjunct Uranus. Favorite mars: Taurus. I'm also very attracted to Gemini Mars provided its not badly afflicted.

I make easy friends with Sag-influenced, but I don't crave the energy that much.


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posted June 08, 2011 04:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pepper     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lonake:
I would definitely think so, this sort of thing happens a lot.

For me, I have Moon conjunct Venus, and I naturally fall in line with men who have Sun conjunct Venus, or in Taurus or Libra or their Moon in Taurus or Libra.

Also, my Venus and Mars are both in aspect to Saturn/Pluto, so usually they also have Saturn or Pluto in aspect to their Venus or Mars or those planets in Capricorn/Scorpio.[/B]


That makes a great lot of sense now! So you tend to attract Saturn/Pluto types! Thanx for sharing!!!

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posted June 08, 2011 05:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for joyrjw     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mars in Scorpio and Saturn in Leo

I tend to be attracted to different Mars types/Saturn types though many of the people I've had relationships with I never knew what there mars was in.

I married a guy with Mars in Sagittarius/Venus Rx Aries and Saturn in Aries.

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posted June 08, 2011 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My partner has Aqua Mars and I have libra Saturn.

I'm also very attracted to a Gemini Mars at the moment...

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posted June 08, 2011 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsCandeh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha yes I relate to this!! My Saturn is in Scorpio and my Mars is also in Scorpio. I usually attract Mars in Taurus guys and have FUN with Mars in Scorpios
A good one for me was Mars in Pisces as well trining my Saturn / Mars nicely...

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posted June 08, 2011 12:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Anemone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
You are hopeless Girlfriend


Hopeless is an understatement

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