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Topic: Why Are You Attracted To That Person?
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 07, 2011 09:27 AM
  
I think I found something.
Mars in Scorpio is the single most attractive part of a man's chart ,to me, if I had to isolate one part of a chart.
I wondered WHY this Mars touches me as it does.
There must be a reason.Lo and Behold---My Saturn is in Scorpio.
This Mars can do and be what my Saturn can only sit on the sidelines and wish to be. Please tell me YOUR Saturn and WHICH Mars you think is MOST attractive in the opposite sex. ------------------
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popcorn
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posted June 07, 2011 09:47 AM
My biggest love in this life. My second husband. 15 years marriage. His venus conj merc conj my saturn in house 8 in pisces trine my venus conj N.N conj mars cancer. Togheter with his neptun and his pluto this build a Kite pattern. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted June 07, 2011 09:50 AM
I be often attracted to men who have something in trine/sextile/square to my venus conj N.N conj mars. Not often in opp.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 09:54 AM
Popcorn Darling
What sign is your Saturn in? What sign is the Mars of the men to whom you are attracted?------------------
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Betty Boop
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posted June 07, 2011 09:57 AM
My Saturn is Sagittarius... and I like Sagittarius Mars, but I don't find them most attractive. I like them from afar - like looking at a model in a magazine.. I like their presence. I think they are good looking. It's not a strong attraction though. The strongest sexual attraction I have ever felt was for Taurus Mars (conjunct my Venus/NN). However in terms of making things work long term and being sexually *happy* rather than just attracted, Scorpio Mars feels right (opposite my Venus/NN). But it's difficult to separate things, because I have a lot of trines in synastry with the Scorpio Mars man.. including Sun2Sun (which makes it much easier and sweeter overall).
Whereas with the Taurus Mars guy - we did not have such a strong connection on other levels. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 10:00 AM
Yes Betty
You have a point about separating things in a chart.
The chart is like a huge ball of yarn with strand winding upon strand.
One can try to separate for purposes of learning and/or fun.
However, each isolated factor must be seen in terms of the whole as you said.------------------
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popcorn
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posted June 07, 2011 10:05 AM
My biggest loves mars conj valentine was in conj to my jupiter in taurus... My saturn in pisces.I need some triggs from something to my venus conj N.N conj mars. IP: Logged |
pepper
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posted June 07, 2011 10:07 AM
My saturn is in Virgo and my mars is in libra. Actually what i notice abt the men who i fall deeply for, they always have natal venus conjunct pluto exact iregardless which sigh. I always wonder if it is cos my mars conjunct pluto in first house in libra.. If it helps yr experiment, i am currently head over heels with this guy who has natal venus - pluto conjunct exact in libra n whose saturn and libra in libra loosely conjunct my mars. I'm curious abt yr experiments. Do share.  IP: Logged |
snarly
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posted June 07, 2011 10:09 AM
My Saturn is in virgo. I like virgo men as friends, but have never been attracted to them, although a lot of them have liked me a bit too much for my liking. My mars is scorpio, and I am more attracted to that type of man.... ooh, I go all wobbly just thinking of them!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 10:12 AM
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Originally posted by snarly:
My Saturn is in virgo. I like virgo men as friends, but have never been attracted to them, although a lot of them have liked me a bit too much for my liking. My mars is scorpio, and I am more attracted to that type of man.... ooh, I go all wobbly just thinking of them!
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mir
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posted June 07, 2011 10:19 AM
Hi Ami,..
Maybe you have a point here as my Saturn is in Gem and his Mars in Gem but I've never thought of it like that and I even wondered why I could or should be attracted to a Gem-Mars (only having an Aqua-mars myself?) as I know for sure that I wasn't ever attracted to a Gem-Sun guy or the traits belonging to them..If I would die NOW I would say; this was REAL (and the second REAL experience in my life). That's why I always say/think, the END of a relationship.. that's most interesting  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 10:44 AM
 Mir As Betty said, the chart is so complicated but we can find strands of truth still keeping in mind the larger whole may modify them. How have you been Darling Mir? Did you have the surgery? ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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Got Gemini??
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From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 07, 2011 10:51 AM
I'm a guy so I guess ill explain the Venus. My Saturn is in Leo in the 12th. I love water Venuses I guess because I have one too. I'm really not familiar with my Saturn energy. The woman I love most has a Sagg Venus though.------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 10:56 AM
How is your daughter ,Got Gemini ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 11:28 AM
OK This is what I am thinking after Betty's post and several others. We crave the energy in which Saturn is placed.
We need that energy and crave it like a piece of cheescake  However,it may not make a direct application to a man's Mars. It may as in my case but it may not,as well. Please keep your thoughts coming. ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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Jesus
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JohnFKennedy
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posted June 07, 2011 11:57 AM
My Saturn Capricorn is in the 4th, and I guess I am attracted to men with prominent Capricorn in their chart. Last dude I dated had his Capricorn Sun and Mercury conjunct Saturn. Love of my life has 3 Capricorn planets in their home, the 10th house. I like a Mars Sagittarius - have an exact trine with my Venus with the last guy. Love of my life has a Mars Libra in opposition to my Aries Venus - although it trines my Aquarius moon. Last guy was a mega Capricorn, and I have the same stellilum of planets in Capricorn (Neptune, Uranus, Saturn), as well as Taurus placements, so there was a nice, slow familiarity there. I love Scorpio placements because instead of everything being slow and drawn out, there is so much more energy in that opposition. Love of my life has Sun/Merc/Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th. My Taurus Sun and Mercury is in the 8th. IP: Logged |
roadwarriorsdp
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posted June 07, 2011 12:26 PM
some men with mars in scorpio..
kurt kobain
jude law
leonardo dicapriodo they do the job?
patrick swayze http://www.astrotheme.com/celebrites/mars/scorpio/1.htm also when you have saturn in scorpio how do you sit on the sidelines? Is it fear of intense experiences so you keep everything charming even at the expense of your own needs...fleeing from power struggles...etc? I have libra on the sixth and scorpio with saturn intercepted in there so i'm wondering. IP: Logged |
allouette
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posted June 07, 2011 12:28 PM
lol Ami, wanna join the club! After I experienced a scorpio mars man don't want anything else! this is funny I know but I ask all the guys that are interested in me and want to date me their birthdata and if they don't have mars in scorpio I don't date them at all! and yes, my Saturn is in Scorpio hmm...creepy IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
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posted June 07, 2011 01:41 PM
Well my saturn in in Scorpio too, conjunct my sun and in 12th.As for what mars I find most attractive in men, I think I simply can't answer that. The men I've been most attracted to, have different mars signs. I can say though, that sexually, the most attractive man happened to have Capricorn mars, and his venus was conjunct my own Capricorn mars. In fact, the two most attractive men in my life, do happen to have the same sun, mercury (even retrograde) and venus signs, but one has Capricorn mars while the other has Pisces mars. The latter's mars does trine my sun and saturn, though
Edit: come to think of it, I believe the first one could have his mars sextile my Sun-Saturn conjunction.
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samsaoule
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Registered: May 2011
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posted June 07, 2011 01:51 PM
My saturn sits in Gemini and I am attracted to them, but most specifically to Sagittarius men as my Venus and Mars sit in Sagittarius. I am a gay man.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted June 07, 2011 01:56 PM
oops. oops. oops Mars and Saturn do not usually get along when they are conjunct in a comparison.
There are exceptions, but not many. When you feel a strong attraction to someone, it could very well be that they have planets in your first house.
This is a very strong attraction and it doesn't always aspect your love planets but you feel it just the same.  IP: Logged |
Aya_and_baby
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posted June 07, 2011 02:01 PM
LOL lala, that explains why I always get attracted to Sagittarius suns ------------------
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Anemone
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posted June 07, 2011 02:24 PM
Ami, will it shock you greatly if I mention their Nessus on my ASC (or Sun even)?? I know, I know * sighs * IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted June 07, 2011 02:26 PM
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Originally posted by roadwarriorsdp:
some men with mars in scorpio..
kurt kobain
jude law
leonardo dicapriodo they do the job?
patrick swayze http://www.astrotheme.com/celebrites/mars/scorpio/1.htm also when you have saturn in scorpio how do you sit on the sidelines? Is it fear of intense experiences so you keep everything charming even at the expense of your own needs...fleeing from power struggles...etc? I have libra on the sixth and scorpio with saturn intercepted in there so i'm wondering.
Yes Road got me down on this one  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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Ami Anne
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posted June 07, 2011 02:29 PM
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Originally posted by Anemone:
Ami, will it shock you greatly if I mention their Nessus on my ASC (or Sun even)?? I know, I know * sighs *
You are hopeless Girlfriend ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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