posted June 16, 2011 08:51 AM            

I'll explain my experience.

My first serious boyfriend when I was a teenager was a Scorpio Sun and Scorpio Moon. Definitely instant attraction and very passionate (my mars, saturn, MC and pluto are all in scorpio as well).

I think I was scarred being with such a strong personality as my first serious boyfriend! but I guess this makes you grow as a person.

Being young and naive I didn't realise at the time that I should have broken up with him much earlier than we did.
He used to tell me that he loved me but that he would never get over his first girlfriend. Instead of me leaving I used to try and be more awesome around him lol but of course that was never enough because I would never 'measure up'. (it just gets worse from here .. btw he has venus/mars conjunction in Virgo so also very critical).
Just before we broke up the first time we were meeting at a play at my school (this was in last year of high school.. but it was definitely serious I never did the young lala stuff hehe) and I arrived there to meet him as it was after school hours.I had made him a valentines card which he laughed at then he ignored me for the rest of the night. He went off to talk to his friends. I tried to talk to him and he would ignore me in front of his friends (as in - he would turn his shoulder and turn his back on me). I ended up sitting and watching the play by myself. He was so BLATANTLY horrible and he knew it. He's a very intelligent person (dux of school and now a psychiatrist!)
A week later we broke up. (He would never love me as much as his first girlfriend). 4 weeks later got back together (did I say we had awesome magnetic attraction?). about two months after that he started being really mean .. and I mean, blatantly mean. He would belittle me on purpose and make me feel like I was stupid. I broke up with him. He said "thank you, that saves me from having to break up from you! I was getting annoyed that it took you so long to break up with me that's why I was getting meaner and meaner to you".

That's my experience.

Fast forward 10 years - we are now facebook friends and have had some friendly and mature online convos. He used to belittle me because my dad was a doctor, but it's funny now he is a doctor and almost finished studying psychiatry. Actually he wanted to meet up for a coffee and a catch up (how 10 years makes a difference) but I declined. I got over him pretty quickly when I was younger but the experience stayed with me. He seems like a different person now, but we aren't involved either. People grow and change.

posted June 16, 2011 08:56 AM            

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Originally posted by polysigh:
Betty Boop...I thought because I am highly plutonian with sun and venus conjunct pluto, I would be able to handle his energy...not so...

Ami Anne...checked the asteroids...nothing of the dark ones stood out but he does have venus conjunct hades. Could this aspect be almost like venus conjunct pluto although maybe darker? This is so very interesting, appreciate the replies!

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Darling
I will look it up and do a thread on it in the Asteroid forum.

posted June 16, 2011 09:05 AM            

I think that there's the tendancy for this to play out exactly the same again. Like a broken record.

I am currently living with an ex (and we are still exes!) but the issues that occurred during the three years we were together, have come up again three years after we broke up. I'm moving out soon. thank goodness. But it's just interesting how the same issues play out over and over again, we interact exactly the same as just friends. Our composite charts are ONLY red lines (T squares) and our synastry is mostly square aspects. We like each other (sometimes) but can't live together. I dont mean to sound like a wet blanket but sometimes its best to keep at arms length until you are sure the same issues won't recur.

oooo I found something with the asteroids!! Scorpio sun/moon guy:

Nessus - 11 Leo
Lucifer - 9 Aquarius
Sun - 11 scorpio

posted June 16, 2011 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by MsCandeh:
I forgot to add.. that I would never get involved with the Scorpio sun.moon guy again even if there was intense attraction still (I assume there would be.. )

I think that there's the tendancy for this to play out exactly the same again. Like a broken record.

I am currently living with an ex (and we are still exes!) but the issues that occurred during the three years we were together, have come up again three years after we broke up. I'm moving out soon. thank goodness. But it's just interesting how the same issues play out over and over again, we interact exactly the same as just friends. Our composite charts are ONLY red lines (T squares) and our synastry is mostly square aspects. We like each other (sometimes) but can't live together. I dont mean to sound like a wet blanket but sometimes its best to keep at arms length until you are sure the same issues won't recur.

oooo I found something with the asteroids!! Scorpio sun/moon guy:

Nessus - 11 Leo
Lucifer - 9 Aquarius
Sun - 11 scorpio

T square with the evil asteriods! Totally explains it as well. His Mercury is 13 Scropio and Saturn at 7 scorpio.

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WOW Mc Candeh that is big lol

Does he have any attraction asteroids too such as Eros,Cupido and Aphrodite.
Also, does he have any asteroids on his ASC
What about fixed stars.I bet he has some prominent fixed stars .

posted June 16, 2011 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
WOW Mc Candeh that is big lol

Does he have any attraction asteroids too such as Eros,Cupido and Aphrodite.
Also, does he have any asteroids on his ASC
What about fixed stars.I bet he has some prominent fixed stars .

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I'm not sure about his ASC I dont have his exact time of birth. Thats why I am not sure what exact aspects his scorpio moon makes.

Fixed Stars:
Uranus is 1 degree off Antares - Heart of the Scorpion.

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A Royal Star. The Archangel Oriel, the Watcher of the West. Spirit of adventure, obstinacy, injuries to eyes, honours, sudden loss, stubborn, suspicious, violent, several marriages

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His Pluto, most probably his Moon, Saturn, Sun and Mercury are all placed in the Via Combusta.

Sun exact conjunct Acrux
- Interest in astrology and spirituality, metaphysics, sacrifice

Mercury is almost conjunct (1 deg) Alphecca
-Honour, dignity, literate, brilliant, poetic, scandals, betrayal in love, sorrow through children
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Menkent (1 deg)
- Wisdom, astronomy, divination, medicine, botany and music

Mars conjunct Denebola
- Criticism, perseverance, control, lack of imagination, honours, undesirable associates, mental illness, happiness turns to despair, disease, natural disasters, catastrophes

Venus 1 deg from Coma Berenices
- Eye problems; suave manner, with great personal charm; idle and dissipated; dramatic; an asterism, or galactic cluster, rather than a star, with the main star being Diadem.

Yeah he was suave!!

NN conjunct Rigel
-Technical and artistic ability, inventiveness, humour, honours, riches, happiness

Cupido trine Mars
Aprhrodite *possibly* trine moon
Eros sextile sun and square jupiter

HIS eros trines my jupiter, squares my uranus (chart ruler) sextiles my mars and trines my venus, all in the exact same degree of 12. Probably explains a lot lol.

posted June 16, 2011 11:54 AM            

So my experience with scorpio mooners has been good. I used to love that aqua best friend before we grew apart. She was awesome. Even with a Leo moon i love scorpio mooners. Oh, also my best friend in elementary was a libra with scorpio moon. Very kind and loyal person, she would always defend me, but she was extremely quiet and i never did find out what her deeper emotions were. One day i asked her if she had been talking about me behind my back, and because that shows i didnt trust her i guess, she stopped talking to me. Her response was "no, of course not, You're my best friend. That disappoints me that you would think that." and then she just stopped talking to me.

posted June 20, 2011 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes,his thing goes beyond Scorpio moon.I felt that right away. Do you still care/am obsessed with him lol
If so and you want me to look at the synastry,put it in Personal readings addressed to me.
I am thinking that the asteroids, and strong Pluto are your answers.
Please --put the relevant asteroids on the chart.
Also, I like degrees, too.
Put each of your natals up with asteroids if you want.
This will be a project but well worth it IF you are still interested in him which I think you are.
If you are not, lets not bother lol
Add Child asteroid and Hades too

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