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polysigh
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posted June 15, 2011 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am interested to know your experiences with the moon in scorpio man especially the darker side i.e. vindictiveness, cruelty, control etc. I know they can be loyal, loving, passionate etc. But it seems some of them tend to go with their basest instincts. Any insights as to why they are like this and how to handle someone like this in a relationship context? I am asking because someone with this placement recently came back into my life after many months. Thanks in advance for any insights.

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Ami Anne
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posted June 15, 2011 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does HE have dark asteroids? I am having the feeling he does,just a feeling.
Check all the darkies and see what you come up with--Nessus, Lucifer. IQ has mentioned many others that I know nothing about like Hekate (sp?) and others.
However,I am thinking it is asteroids.Let me know !

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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posted June 15, 2011 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello

Well, I had the same experience as you with Mr Aries (Scorpio moon). Mine also re-entered my life, he said he had never wanted to leave me in the first place and came back for me. I found even when we were apart, the bond seemed to still be there. How do you feel now he has re-entered your life?

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posted June 15, 2011 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel uneasy about it. He really hurt me, was cruel, vindictive etc. But there were other great things about our relationship which is why after all this time I am considering this again.I am trying to understand if these are typical scorpio moon characteristics and why they resort to game playing and manipulation. It seems when we moved our relationship to a deeper level and real feelings were involved he started to show his dark side. Not sure why they do this.
Can anyone give examples of this type of behavior? want to make sure I am not just being too sensitive.

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posted June 15, 2011 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by polysigh:
I feel uneasy about it. He really hurt me, was cruel, vindictive etc. But there were other great things about our relationship which is why after all this time I am considering this again.I am trying to understand if these are typical scorpio moon characteristics and why they resort to game playing and manipulation. It seems when we moved our relationship to a deeper level and real feelings were involved he started to show his dark side. Not sure why they do this.

Yes I feel there is MORE going on than just Scorpio Moon

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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posted June 15, 2011 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AmiAnne, his moon squares his saturn and he has a cancer sun which only enhances the brooding and moodiness. I have heard this is a tough combination. Not to mention in synastry we have venus conjunct pluto, DW sun pluto contacts, moon sextile pluto, mars sextile pluto. In composite we have moon conjunct pluto and venus trine pluto. I have always felt control was an issue from the beginning needless to say!

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posted June 15, 2011 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check the asteroids Baby

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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posted June 15, 2011 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am new to astrology. How do I do that? Sorry to be so ignorant about this stuff. Thanks!

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posted June 15, 2011 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for woah cakes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ummm, well my very first long term boyfriend was a scorpio moon, in the 8th. he has a lot of affliction in his chart in terms of emotions. he was extremely cruel to me 1/3 of the time and an angel the rest of the time. he got pulled into dark times and that was part of it but i do think scorp moons CAN have that tendency to go to extremes. i know some really healthy ones too who are very emotionally generous and full of integrity. my ex is still very pulled in two different directions all these years later and i think it's really hard for some of them to reconcile the two extremes.

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posted June 15, 2011 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by polysigh:
I am new to astrology. How do I do that? Sorry to be so ignorant about this stuff. Thanks!

It is OK. We are ALL beginners.I am still not that advanced,just a year and a half.
When I came on,I bummed info shamelessly
Go to the Asteroid Forum.I will link you the thread now!

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
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posted June 15, 2011 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum28/HTML/000121.html

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 15, 2011 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The most important thing are conjunctions. Don't go more than 2 degrees for ANY aspect.
1 degree is better.
Exact conjunctions of 1-2 degrees are the strongest

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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polysigh
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posted June 15, 2011 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AmiAnne, thanks for the link! Quick question-do I need a birth time? Don't have one. Thanks.

woah cakes...I see the same thing. Why do you think they act that way? Is it fear? Or thinking they can control? I used to feel he felt these perceived slights by me that I had no idea about and he would hold onto paranoid anger for a long time but never confront me on it, then he would absolutely lash out or just be icey and indifferent.

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posted June 15, 2011 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well with asteroids ,they don't move very fast so you are OK w/out a birth time.
You could not see angles though which are the ASC,DSC etc.
The rest you could see.I can't wait to see what you find

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 15, 2011 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The only "dark " ones I know are Nessu,Deja, Lucifer,Narcissus but just look and see what is close and we will go from there

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
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posted June 15, 2011 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Check "Actor" too

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted June 15, 2011 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Betty Boop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Poly -

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how to handle someone like this in a relationship context?

IMO, It will be really difficult to handle this person in a relationship, unless you have a personal planet in Scorpio/Pisces/Capricorn or Virgo -- in exact aspect to their Scorpio Moon. (OR your Ascendant!)

If they are very much acting out the 'dark' side.. of this Moon... you will probably not be able to snap them out of it - unless you have one of the above placements.

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posted June 15, 2011 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Betty Boop...I thought because I am highly plutonian with sun and venus conjunct pluto, I would be able to handle his energy...not so...

Ami Anne...checked the asteroids...nothing of the dark ones stood out but he does have venus conjunct hades. Could this aspect be almost like venus conjunct pluto although maybe darker? This is so very interesting, appreciate the replies!

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posted June 15, 2011 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got to check Hades

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted June 15, 2011 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I got to check Hades

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted June 15, 2011 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AstrologicalMan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Am I a Scorpio Moon?

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one of my really good friends is a scorpio moon male. he feeds off of drama. if there is none, he'll create it. keeps falling in love with tragic women that will be the end of him and when they leave him two weeks later he's found another love of his life who's just as tragic as the first.

it's not hard to believe though I mean if you think of Pluto ruling your emotions all of the descriptions you've posted of behavior are right on the money.

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posted June 16, 2011 04:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VioletFlyer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't want to generalize...but scorpio moon men AND women are REALLY tough for me to deal with. The stubborness, vindictiveness, attraction to other broken and crazy people...these are the negative traits I have encountered in them again and again. Extremely self-absorbed, etc.

The positive sides are loyalty, dedication and intense love. BUT...in my personal experience, these aspects were just wiped out by the negative ones. Even when they were far less frequent than the positive actions - the negative ones were so awfult that they tended to overshadow the good.

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posted June 16, 2011 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polysigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Violent flyer...I totally agree with you although I am not a broken person. I do like intense people though but you are correct about the bad attributes outweighing the positive ones. It's exhausting. ANd yeah, the self-absorption is off the charts with this guy. I think with my natal sun/pluto I just want to know WHY they can act that way! lol

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posted June 16, 2011 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by AstrologicalMan:
Am I a Scorpio Moon?

Yes

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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