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MertSerimer
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posted June 27, 2011 03:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
till this time , I realized that there has been noone who had a crush on me. I am liked a lot, but never had someone who had crush on me. I am really sure about it because i can understand if someone likes someone or not in ten minutes just by observing(chiron in 5th house). I am an attractive(sun conjunct venus, venus on mc in equal house system) man , i am being very loved in normal way(venus trine jupiter, moon in first house). But they are not enough.

I have personally chiron conjunct south node which is in cancer. This turns me into a unloving person also. People see me as an obstreperous, madcap person so cuz of that they never dream me as their future lover, spouse, partner. Because they think i am somewhat uncontralleable(many sagit traits) or unreachable(venus opposite mars, many sag traits, moon trine pluto, pluto in 8th.... in personality way not cool way, i am not that handsome or attractive.) My friends, relatives, family etc always but always forgive me when i do sth wrong. But not my lover. Even if it is the case that i attract strong personality partners who does not show their emotions, still it is the same as not being had a crush on. I am just a tool to walk with so their rep. increases or be hanged around for the night etc.. I don't know my first impressions are producing these situations but i am not that really. I lost my loving and nurturing ability to %90 percentage because of wrong people in my life.

We are saturn, neptune and uranus in capricorn generation. These generations are generally unlucky in love. Saturn in cap people generally does not be happy in love and marriage. This is why i must be alone, this is why i believe solitude equals power.


What do you think?

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DepTaurus
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posted June 27, 2011 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i feel ya mert i actually havent developed any type of relational feelings for anyone ever but people just seem to come into my life one day and out the next i never see them again.

im sure that many people with saturn uranus and neptune in capricorn have great relationships.

it just depends on the type of personality your giving out to people.

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feitlebaum
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posted June 27, 2011 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for feitlebaum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe you're just not finding the right people? I don't think generational aspects cause you to be unlucky in love.

A lot of people see me as "just a friend" and when I am in the friend zone, people don't find me as hot as others I haven't gotten to know, and I think I have some nice aspects. Though I have had my share of tough people, I realized that being cold and callous will never get me anywhere, despite having Saturn squares against me. I have my share of depression, but generally, I try to love, love, love. :-D

I have neptune/uranus in Capricorn, but my Saturn is in Aquarius. So... a little difference.

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samsaoule
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posted June 27, 2011 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for samsaoule     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
till this time , I realized that there has been noone who had a crush on me. I am liked a lot, but never had someone who had crush on me. I am really sure about it because i can understand if someone likes someone or not in ten minutes just by observing(chiron in 5th house). I am an attractive(sun conjunct venus, venus on mc in equal house system) man , i am being very loved in normal way(venus trine jupiter, moon in first house). But they are not enough.

I have personally chiron conjunct south node which is in cancer. This turns me into a unloving person also. People see me as an obstreperous, madcap person so cuz of that they never dream me as their future lover, spouse, partner. Because they think i am somewhat uncontralleable(many sagit traits) or unreachable(venus opposite mars, many sag traits, moon trine pluto, pluto in 8th.... [b]in personality way not cool way, i am not that handsome or attractive.) My friends, relatives, family etc always but always forgive me when i do sth wrong. But not my lover. Even if it is the case that i attract strong personality partners who does not show their emotions, still it is the same as not being had a crush on. I am just a tool to walk with so their rep. increases or be hanged around for the night etc.. I don't know my first impressions are producing these situations but i am not that really. I lost my loving and nurturing ability to %90 percentage because of wrong people in my life.

We are saturn, neptune and uranus in capricorn generation. These generations are generally unlucky in love. Saturn in cap people generally does not be happy in love and marriage. This is why i must be alone, this is why i believe solitude equals power.


What do you think?[/B]


What's your birth chart?

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blugrey
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posted June 27, 2011 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blugrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That might not be true. A long of times when I get crushes on people, I don't say it and I act almost the opposite. So you never really can tell who has feelings and who doesn't because people express them in different ways. Don't feel to bad about it. I can only think of like 2 people who ever had a crush on me, and that was BARELY. haha

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amowls**
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posted June 27, 2011 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe people are too intimidated to tell you that they find you attractive. And if they do, you don't believe them (ie: you feeling like people want to be with you to use your social status).

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Aya_and_baby
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posted June 27, 2011 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aya_and_baby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I know what you mean... and am afraid I suffer from the same thing

I can imagine how someone with a lot of wild Sagittarius energy can be less "attractive" personality wise. People can easily assume that such people cannot be counted on, are flighty and you can get the impression that they are going to break your heart anyway or are going to drive you mad in the end. All in all, not someone you would want to give your heart to.

... And it's safe to say that I've probably never been the subject of a crush myself. Some deep-rooted love, yes, but as far as I know, never the kind of crushes where the man was love-stricken and acting like a lovesick puppy around me... Well, maybe once. A long time ago. And I didn't like him at all because he pretended to be something he wasn't (had this Texan cowboy act even though he was just as Belgian as me... weeelll, maybe not like me since I'm part French )


Anyway, I digress again. But I'd say all the Sagittarius might have some part in not being the subject of a crush...

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Ami Anne
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posted June 27, 2011 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Mert
I have been meditating on your question.We did that thread together,of course.
Correct me if I have some things wrong.I have done many charts in the last few weeks.
This is my sense of what you are experiencing.

I think the problem ,in part,is squares to your ASC.I think you feel one way inside and you feel you must act one way outside.
Hence, you THINK people like you for your rep,looks etc even if that is NOT the case.
I think your squares "split" you,if you know what I mean so that YOU perceive this to be the case whether or not it actually it.

What do you think Baby?

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MertSerimer
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posted June 27, 2011 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thx all for replies.

@Ami Anne and @Aya_and_Baby

You both are perfectly right. Many Sagit traits, Squares to ascendant and maybe chiron in cancer conjuncting south node are the answers.


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Ami Anne
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posted June 27, 2011 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mert
If Chiron conjuncts the SNin Cancer---how would that work?

I am thinking the SN would be where you are comfortable already--right?

So you would already have incorporated this energy.
What do you think?

I am thinking that Chiron conjunct the NN would be where Chiron would be the defining factor of your life .

I would think that if Chiron conjunct the SN,you would have good use of that Chiron energy as a natural healer or counselor.

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sand
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posted June 27, 2011 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wouldn't being wild get you a lot of girls especially when young?

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Ami Anne
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posted June 27, 2011 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
wouldn't being wild get you a lot of girls especially when young?

You are so cute

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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 27, 2011 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrazyAquarian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First off, how do you even know this? Its not possible to know this for sure.

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aethan
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posted June 27, 2011 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aethan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Exactly, I mean... An example: lots of people are good at counseling others about relationships but are terrible when it's their own relationship.
How can you be sure your "radar" works well for you?

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MertSerimer
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posted June 27, 2011 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never got wrong so far. My assumptions about other people's likes always came true at the end. Astrologically speaking i have moon trine pluto, moon sextile neptune, pluto in 8th house, moon in first. They all give me good hunches and also good "environment's mood absorptions and analyzing skills." Chiron in fifth also makes me good counselour in 5th house matters. Maybe chiron in cancer problem is not "not being loved" rather "not feeling being loved" i guess...

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