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PrettyPisces
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From: Cambria heights,NY
Registered: Jun 2011

posted June 27, 2011 11:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PrettyPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So heres the story I just started talking to my cancer again after a close family member of his passed, I reached out. We exchange a few words and he said:
MY RESPONSE:'ve been talking to my crush for a while now. A couple weeks back he asked me was I single I replied " I was at the moment"he said its good I'm single then he went into A LOT of detail of why he was also single then saying at the end "When his one come by which will be soon or later he was gonna show her his love and appreciation and she would be displayed as his 8th wonder on the world then he said that I (Me) already know. Yesterday we were having a convo and I said I'm a free spirit but I'll never go against my morals then i said I caught 2 of my roomies in the act. He replied back IN EXACT WORDS by saying" I know college is fun and wild but don't forget why ur there in the first place, You have the right ideal, don't compromise your morals, but have fun also. Don't go having **** with a lot of dudes SMH. But find one you like, make em strap up and go in (we don't want nothing now). You gotta try everything at least once...Have you?"......I'm a little confuse by him and why he would say that to me, pLus I like him and I think he likes me "i responded by saying I wasnt experience(Im still a virgin) but in order for me to lose my virginity I needed 2 way love, mental stimulation and emotional attachment, I said I rather wait for the one ...Perhaps I scared him off?

HIS RESPONSE:my responsed to my crush via letter(Im far away at college)...he wrote me back 2 weeks later he usually only takes a week if that stating this:
he stated " I take major breaks in between though, Sometimes, being I haven't been around for so long, some people I feel too disengaged; I barely have anything to say, Its sad sometimes". We must have an mutual agreement and understanding to call each other on our mistakes and faults and errors!! It is our duty as friends to correct each other and ourselves, with humility, when we are wrong!! To hold ourselves to less would be diminishing!! We would only be betraying ourselves, for we must behave in accordance with who we want to be!! In the words of Niall Ferguson,"Its NOT the fault of the mirror if it reflects our blemishes as clearly as our beauty"....WHAT IS HE SAYING?? DO YOU THINK HE WANTS TO BE JUST FRIENDS?
Also he said:I find your vibes to be intelligible and lucid, and I always re-evaluate my assessment of your mind.because it is not often that i encounter young women who are capable of their own thoughts.

He also gave me an explanation as to why he didnt send me a letter back quick : he said being that he hasnt been around for long, he feels ppl are too disengaged. He barely has anything to say: its sad sometimes.
I replied back by saying: I didnt need an explanation as too why he didnt write me back quick, I told him letters are optional and have no time limit. So when u need to take a break by all means do so, and when u do write I'll make sure to send my regards back.

Est then he hasnt wrote me back or phone call. emails NOTHING. Its going on three weeks!
Can I get some feed back!!!

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seeleah
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From: kokomo, IN, USA
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posted June 27, 2011 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have no idea..I say just be upfront with him...water signs are hard enough as is...don't waste time.

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Dee
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posted June 27, 2011 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
here's an old thread with lots of cancer man info
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/006701.html

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mintgirl123
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posted June 28, 2011 02:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancers are NOTORIOUS for going MIA and being hot/cold and inconsistent (not everyone of them, but just go online, and google bout it, you'll see what I mean)

I've experienced alot of this with a cancer guy. Never again.

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PrettyPisces
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From: Cambria heights,NY
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posted July 10, 2011 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PrettyPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow dee I just went through that thread and was amazed by it. As far as my story I get mixed opinions on it. First my family and friends think we shall be together with the exception of my bestfriend.(she thinks I can do better). Then people tell me he is testing the waters and is confused. Then some say that his last response to me was a subtle way of saying Im NOT interested in you...another thing that bothers me is he had ask to read my poems, I sent him 4 of them. Maybe he thought some of them where about him. Im kinda hurt about that because I let u see my innermost thoguhts then u disappear!
My question to you is what should I do if or when he comes back?

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Deluded
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posted July 10, 2011 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Deluded     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
wow dee I just went through that thread and was amazed by it. As far as my story I get mixed opinions on it. First my family and friends think we shall be together with the exception of my bestfriend.(she thinks I can do better). Then people tell me he is testing the waters and is confused. Then some say that his last response to me was a subtle way of saying Im NOT interested in you...another thing that bothers me is he had ask to read my poems, I sent him 4 of them. Maybe he thought some of them where about him. Im kinda hurt about that because I let u see my innermost thoguhts then u disappear!
My question to you is what should I do if or when he comes back?

I agree with your best friend.

When you find someone who is really bothered, you won't have all this confusion. You deserve better is my advice : )

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Dee
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posted July 10, 2011 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think we need to hear from women who finally ended up in a committed relationship with a cancer man.... and their Experience

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amowls**
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posted July 10, 2011 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This was hard to read... I would reformat it.

I think if he hasn't tried to contact you in 3 weeks, he's not interested at the moment and you should move on.

For future reference on astrology boards, this is hardly astrological at all. All we have to go with is that he's a Cancer Sun. That doesn't say anything.

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CancerRising
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posted July 10, 2011 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CancerRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first boyfriend was a Cancer, and it was only 1.5 years because he was crazily possessive and an alcoholic (still is). Now he's been in a committed relationship with this girl for a year and she and her kid (not his) moved into his house.

For all of his issues, he's very devoted and likes to be mothered but also take care of people. But he has Venus in Taurus and Saturn in Scorpio, so...who knows.

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