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luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 04:36 AM Anyone have any idea what goes on with the sulkiness of the cancerian man? One minute they r full on and promising u the world, next they r no where to be found - then the process starts all over again........... the confusing bit is when they return again, that act like nothing happened......... don't get me wrong - i know it is worth the wait but how do u manage the moodiness and disappearing acts? what makes them disappear? IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 27, 2005 06:05 AM Here we have loads of cancerian threads http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/001044.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004184.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004657.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004772.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/004208.html http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/002629.html Welcome! ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 06:28 AM HI luvscorp I dont think its just the men - I have known Cancer women like this too......I think their innate sensitivity causes them to hide at times....to protect themselves,their energy......back into the shell, so to speak.....and then come out to play when things are safe... Arent Scorps like this to a degree....I know I have been in the past......but wouldnt be so moody as my fellow crab...but have had a tendancy to hide........ xxx IP: Logged
MoonDuchess88 unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 06:31 AM Just check the moon gurl ....j/k But for real, Im a cancer but not a guy. Anything can put me in a mood whether it's good or bad. Sometimes even a gray sky will put me in a bad mood. Sometimes I'm just having a bad day,but in the end I'll be alright. I'll come back to you if I really care. IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 06:34 AM Thanks for the replies - will check out those links most definately Yes, I guess we scorpios do hide sometimes, but i am hiding at the momemnt not out of choice but out of the necessity to maintain dignity and composure maybe sometimes the best thing to is nothing .. just don't want this picking up and putting down aspect - how does one tackle that with a these lovely cancer guys? IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 07:25 AM I never had that problem with the cancer men I have dated. We were always together. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ��) �.��.���) �.��) (�.�� (�.�� * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 07:32 AM lucky fish u must have a fab way with them ............. maybe I should be taking more tips from geminis. we scorpios think 2 much, so am looking inwards now and just taking on board the 'chill out' factor. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 07:46 AM Maybe it's my cancer rising and north node in cancer that makes them that way? ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ��) �.��.���) �.��) (�.�� (�.�� * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Pop Producer unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 08:59 AM Scorpios sometimes are too pushing for Cancer (well, for everyone else). Cancer is a cerdinal sign and needs to feel that he's leading the situation. When we are confronted with the overwhelming Scorpio passion sometimes we need to take a break. If this happens, don't stalk him! Don't call him 20 times a day and don't assume he must be out there partying with other girls. He's at home (maybe talking to his mum) recovering from the hurts and getting ready to go for you again. Once a Cancerian has an emotional tie to somebody, you can be sure he'll stay. He'll go round in circles and take his time, but he'll never leave you without you knowing it (and he'll need a lot of time to recover from a break up). IP: Logged
hot_ice unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 09:09 AM I'm not a cancer,but I've got 3 in cancer(including moon..) Yup I do that at times....usually when I want to think about things and I kinda do something to get the girls attention and it doesnt quite work out,and when I'm kinda confused or a little sad,but then being a gem,it can blow over in a second...they really puzzle everyone,cause they come and go at lightning speed... IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 27, 2005 09:41 AM quote: don't stalk him! Don't call him 20 times a day Hmm, I don't think scorps act like that especially at the beginning! It took my ex scorp 2 months to call me and say "hi, I'd like to see you again" (by that time I could hardly remember who he was, lol; we had met only once before)His cousin then told me that he was very shy and insecure and could not make up his mind and call me and spent loads of evenings sitting by the phone and looking at it, lol. As for the cancerain, I think he is insecure (most cancerians are) and not sure about how you feel maybe he wants you to make the 1st move to be sure that he won't be rejected! Anyway, you should listen to your intuition and to what your heart says Do you know his DOB? If his moon/sun are afflicted then he may be moody without any reason (or fault on your part). ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 09:43 AM Thanks Pop I have to admit that I have been a bit aloof, rather than pushy. I was so overwhelmed by his interest that i was completely taken aback initially. I may have been a bit evasive with regards 2 spending time with him, purely out of sheer panic (he comes across as very strong, together and sorted) - a bit intimidating for me at the mo. But when I do finally say yes to him, he doesn't contact me for 3 weeks and then asks again???? He comunicates purely by texts messages which drives me nuts lol - then says how busy he has been. Why does he bother at all? What keeps him there? He is just so lovely and I would be over the moon to spend time with him - ut I also can't let him think i am here at his beck and call. Don't u think? I feel like he is punishing me lol IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 09:54 AM Nice message Peri & very helpful .... Think I agree on all points there. His DOB is 3rd July, I am not as knowledgeable on these things as all of you ... so everyone's help is fab! What my hearts says .. hmmmmmmmmmm....... it says " oh my gosh girl a moody great white shark has just taken your breadcrumb bait & you and the dinghy are being taken along for the ride" lol Problem is the GWS is helluva cute and really lovely. One question - how do tell an insecure/sensitive cancerian man that you wanna spend time with him but his behaviour is not really acceptable ........ without him running back into his shell again? IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 09:58 AM Nice points Hot Ice .. the lightning speed aspect is what got me into this mess lol - what a lovely mess it is though I know this will be worth it in the end, cos he is fab. Sad thing cos we haven't been in contact for a few weeks he doesn't know that I am going away for 3 months ........... hope he doesn't retreat for good because of it. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:13 AM quote: He comunicates purely by texts messages which drives me nuts lol I do that alot because I don't like to call people and bother them. I think you should call him. Cancers like that. You cannot expect someone to call you all the time. You have to call also. Please call him. Trust me. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ��) �.��.���) �.��) (�.�� (�.�� * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009	posted September 27, 2005 10:14 AM quote: One question - how do tell an insecure/sensitive cancerian man that you wanna spend time with him but his behaviour is not really acceptable ........ without him running back into his shell again? Hmmmmmmm, I wanna spend time with you but your behaviour is not really acceptable ...without your running back into your shell again will suit I think Do you know place and year of his birth? ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged
hot_ice unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:26 AM wow! I'm kinda in the same situation...but on the other end... Very similar,I used to call her all the time...then I backed off...then she called all the time,now I just text her,I dont know...I think of calling her,but I just dont....but I do like her a lot...the more i liked her,the more aloof I became..But i never cut-off contact.. I think this guy is into you.... IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:27 AM Mystic - Got all mushy then when u said that - and was tempted to pick up the phone....... Would soooo like to but wouldn't feel right. I too would feel like I am bothering him. The last communcation between us was from me....... so must give the guy his space (even if it is weeks lol). He knows where I am and he knows I like him, so i guess it is the waiting game for me. (i do trust you tho' and is good advice, tks. IP: Logged
hot_ice unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:29 AM and yes maybe you should call him...it might make him happy(it makes me happy when she does ) but dont make it too monotonous...(did I spell that right?)but I guess you know that... IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:35 AM Yep Peri - think that is what I will say if I hear from him again ....... in the nicest possible scorpio way lol He was born in England (sorry not sure which town) in 1972. IP: Logged
Pop Producer unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:40 AM quote: Hmmmmmmm, I wanna spend time with you but your behaviour is not really acceptable ...without your running back into your shell again will suit I think Answer you'll get: "Shell? what shell? I never got into any shell... I'm a very direct person so cut it out." (Then he locks himself in his room for a week). IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:44 AM Hot Ice are u involved with a scorpio? or is just the sit'n similar? Hard one to tackle really, almost like having to be crazy about someone in silence - shutting up is not my strongest point lol He has only ever called me twice - the rest have been texts and this has been going for months now ........... i must admit that I did tell him I didn't like the games and texting etc.... so hence him being in his shell (gulp). But also can't tread on egg shells forever :alseep: Strange u say that u don't cut off contact or tell her it is not going to happen tho - cos he is the same ......... he won't say no - he just becomes more and more aloof ...... why do that? doesn't it make u feel like u may lose her? what if u saw her with another guy? IP: Logged
luvscorp unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:46 AM Pop you r hilarious - just can't stop giggling now - made my day - thks for that IP: Logged
Pop Producer unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:47 AM quote: I have to admit that I have been a bit aloof, rather than pushy. I was so overwhelmed by his interest that i was completely taken aback initially. I may have been a bit evasive with regards 2 spending time with him, purely out of sheer panic (he comes across as very strong, together and sorted) - a bit intimidating for me at the mo. I think he knows how deeply interested you are and he's panicking too... The deep realms of Pluto are very frightening to us crabs... (and to everyone else). Don't think you'll fool him by saying nothing or acting casual... HE KNOWS WHAT YOU FEEL. We need no one to tell us these things. IP: Logged
Mystic Gemini unregistered	posted September 27, 2005 10:53 AM I would boss my ex cancers around Lmfao. If we weren't on the phone we were out eating or having fun and making corny jokes. Now that I think of it. I was kind of mean an demanding LOL. On of them recently tried to get with me again. Uh sorry but we broke up years ago and I have no interest in you what so ever. Cancers like to cuddle. Write him a poem even if it is through text messages. They want to feel loved and needed. Don't boss him around thoguh Lmfao. ------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus 29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra ��) �.��.���) �.��) (�.�� (�.�� * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged

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