posted July 05, 2011 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
I find synastry to be correct when I'm not reading cookbook reports from websites. You have to get a reading from a live human being. Charts are so complex that a bad aspect may cancel out a great one and vice versa.

Plus if you want to find out how long a relationship is going to last, check your progressed charts for the placements of the Sun, Venus and Mars (for romantic relationships). Synastry doesn't always do that.

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posted July 05, 2011 03:41 PM            

they make reference to Kelly Clarkson lol.

this is what we got:
"You know that Kelly Clarkson song that goes, "my life would suck without you?" Replace "you" with "him," and truer words have never been spoken. Anyway, as La Clarkson so aptly puts it, you guys belong together (Forever uniiiited heeeere somehow). So, even as you're slogging through your daily grind, he provides the unadulterated fun and excitement that helps you escape the boredom. You love what he has to say, and you're always ready to try out the crazy new plans he concocts. He's psyched that you're so open-minded, and you're generally having such a good time with him that you wouldn't trade a minute for anything. Even cooler? You two can expand the entertainment into the cultural realm. Since you're both so receptive to new ideas, learning together at the museum or the library can be its own fun (shocking revelation, we know). But the truth is, it doesn't really matter where you are or what you're doing; any time you spend together is bound to be awesome. So go ahead, feel free to get your dork on if you need to"

I find it very accurate and I can relate it to our exact Venus-Jupiter conjunction. I understood from their website that they are looking at the closest aspects, but then again we have sun conjunct saturn exact, mars sextile mars and I dont know if they look at all these or only at one single aspect

I also ran it with myself and I got 95% ) did you get the same text?
"Could you guys please stop being so unbelievably ideal for each other, already? Yes, you're super attracted to each other, but everyone around you can tell that's just the tip of the relationship iceberg. You actually "get" what makes each other tick on a seriously deep emotional level (no... We're not talking about a drug-induced discussion on the intricacies of Pink Floyd's "The Wall"). And you do that weird thing... What's that called again? Oh, right. Empathize. You empathize with each other, so you're excellent sources of comfort when times get tough; similarly, you totally and unselfishly rejoice in each other's successes. To make matters even more insufferable, you're genuinely into the same sorts of music, hobbies, and entertainment; you probably even share the same iTunes playlist, and we're pretty sure we caught you giggling while watching "The Soup." Gross. So, yes: we know you're BFFs who are all "2-getha 4-eva." Now, take your little two-person perfection brigade and go somewhere you can't make us ill."

posted July 06, 2011 02:16 AM            

Actually the reports on Grupovenus *are* instant . It's only like 1 or 2 that are usually paid which arent. Theyre nice enough to let you have it for free, twice i think, so that's nice of them . Were you able to find the one on Astrograph?

posted July 06, 2011 02:23 AM            

Oh and I like how the percentages really do change. Like if the number is different even by 1% the reading changes completely as well. Pretty awesome . Shows it isn't a totally canned reading kinda thing.

posted July 06, 2011 07:04 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
"I also ran it with myself and I got 95% ) did you get the same text?"

yup same one i got! this actually makes me wonder if astrowise should we look for someone born on the same day and close in birth time? i asked this in the synastry questions thread but no reply yet.

edit: hmm but then if you're 97 then he's even more compatible to you than u are with yourself! kinda blows my theory away i guess.

"No, u dont have to pay anything. I think it's called the harmony report."

cool thanks!

iv tried grupovenus before. i remember it's not instant. but yeah i like their reports.

glad u liked it. try changing pov's as well. like if the girl was the one wondering bout u. sometimes it's the same but iv had a few where the girl pov was lower/ higher. dunno why.

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Hah! I wondered the same thing myself you would have similar aspects and the synastry would only reflect the same thing. Theoretically perfect, but there are a few things to consider in that case though:

I could go for someone whose birthday is close to mine. In fact I met someone like that and we got on great (only difference is he had Virgo Moon, his Venus was already in Capricorn and his Mars in Aquarius. Different flavours to those planets ) and he came off as calm and collected, which in theory I do look for in a man, so in theory it could have worked. But his birthday was a week after mine so I wouldn't consider that all too close anymore.

But I do ask myself sometimes if I'd get along with someone like myself in a relationship and I suppose the answer is no. What I am, what I express is exactly what I don't want in a man (I suppose my Capricorn Mars does play a role there). I am pretty fiery and impulsive and I want my man to be pretty much the opposite: calm and collected. I'd imagine a man with my chart would be a loose cannon, exactly what I don't want. So despite the perfect synastry, I think it still wouldn't work

I suppose we just cannot ignore the individual influence of the personal planets in synastry. A trine between the Venuses doesn't mean a thing if the woman's Mars wants something other than what the rest of the man's personality has to offer I suppose...

posted November 14, 2012 11:58 PM            

I Know couples that had lots of "good soulmate aspects" tho but they tend to be very immature or stupid..

posted November 15, 2012 02:32 AM            

I also found that most often synastry is being analyzed to superficially and without context, which might make it seem wrong.

posted November 15, 2012 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I believe we are just scratching the surface of modern astrology.

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my thoughts exactly.

posted November 15, 2012 09:16 PM            

In past relationships, I found that the relationship worked well when I was with a woman who had an "easy" chart like me. The synastry showed this every time.

I only recently started looking into composites because of you RAS ;-) so im still learning about them and their aspects.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc