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Topic: You USE relationships FOR......................
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 11, 2011 05:20 PM
  
Ok Starfox
If Leo is on the 7th house cusp. --WHERE is the Sun? Which house?
That would be yours Do you see what I mean Darlink  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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starfox
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posted July 11, 2011 05:32 PM
Ruler of 7 in 11
You want a friend before a lover
Spot on!
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sand
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posted July 11, 2011 05:35 PM
ruler of 7th in 7th too i guess.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 11, 2011 05:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by starfox:
Ruler of 7 in 11
You want a friend before a lover
Spot on!
thanks
Awesome Starfox
Thanks for answering  ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Deluded
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posted July 11, 2011 06:22 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ruler of 7 in 7th
You want a true partnership with pure motives. Me Ruler of 7 in 8th
You want your partner to transform you on the deepest level R of 7 in 9th
You want your partner to expand you spiritually. You want your partner to help you find the deeper meaning behind life R of 7 in 10
You want your partner to enhance your place in society. This could be a social climbers position
Ruler of 7 in 9. Yes I have to agree with this one Ami IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted July 11, 2011 06:24 PM
Hi Deluded
Thanks for answering!------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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StelliumH6
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posted July 11, 2011 06:47 PM
Astrology just amazes me!
Ruler of 7th house is Jupiter, Jupiter in H6
My partner proves his motives are pure by serving me. My partner is used to serve me.Yes! I have been told I am a bit selfish. Do me, do me! Ami, how about the ruler of my First House is Mercury, Mercury in H7 ? How would you state that? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 11, 2011 06:54 PM
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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
Astrology just amazes me!
Ruler of 7th house is Jupiter, Jupiter in H6
My partner proves his motives are pure by serving me. My partner is used to serve me.Yes! I have been told I am a bit selfish. Do me, do me! Ami, how about the ruler of my First House is Mercury, Mercury in H7 ? How would you state that?
THIS is interesting, Stellium
YOU give unselfishly to your partner ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
Be as wise as a serpents,gentle as doves.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Aya_and_baby
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From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp)
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posted July 11, 2011 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
If your 7th house ruler is in the 1st house, your partner is used in service to you . This could be the man who likes the beautiful woman on his arm to enhance his ego.
This could be the man who could cheat on his partner but not "allow" the partner to cheat. PS I put allow in quotes for all the feminists
I have to say, it really is the opposite for me. I lose myself in the partner rather and in fact... I'm the type who generally wouldn't allow myself to cheat (few exceptions noted  ) and would in fact allow my partner to... And I do have 7th house ruler in the 1st, even conjunct rising. I have been thinking about the idea that my Mercury might actually be in 12th though - that could explain a bit, but then my Sun/Saturn would be in 11th and they really don't belong there  Then again, with my open and talkative nature it's hard to imagine my Mercury is in the 12th, but it does act like a cusp sometimes. I can be very social and initially am, but I can be so easily distracted or just not be talkative (believe it or not! ) Anyway, I digress. But my 7th house ruler is on the Asc cusp so it's a bit one or the other. Not to mention it's part of a very busy intersection which could also influence its influence  ------------------
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StelliumH6
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posted July 11, 2011 07:10 PM
Huh? That is something! My partner serves me, and I give to him unselfishishly.
I guess one hand washes the other!Now, does he prove his love by serving me because he WANTS to or because he feels that is his DUTY/OBLIGATION? IP: Logged |
starfox
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posted July 11, 2011 07:16 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Awesome Starfox
Thanks for answering
Friends first - lovers later I like the idea of that and its often been the case for me that my platonic friendships that have stayed that way, have had rather more longevity than the romantic ones that grew from friendship ... good but not so good too neh! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 11, 2011 07:27 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
R of 7th in 5th
You want your partner to be fun, romantic and full of life for yoU
True here.
The sign is Saigittarius so that adds even MORE emphasis.
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DRVM614K
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From: Wurtzite, Boron, SA
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posted February 10, 2019 10:03 PM
I thought most posts here would be on topics such as this. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted February 10, 2019 10:06 PM
^ That would make this forum astrologyweekly.All astrology and no going to lalaland makes LL a dull girl(it's a girl right? or is it a lady now, sumone tell moy how old is LL again??) IP: Logged |
DRVM614K
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posted February 10, 2019 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ That would make this forum astrologyweekly.All astrology and no going to lalaland makes LL a dull girl(it's a girl right? or is it a lady now, sumone tell moy how old is LL again??)
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Somna7H
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posted February 11, 2019 12:12 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
R of 7th in 5th
You want your partner to be fun, romantic and full of life for you
No Partner No Fun.
7th Lord Mars Conjunct Saturn in Libra 5th House. Thank you Ami. ------------------
My Chart :
http://imgur.com/hCRDawD IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted February 12, 2019 04:41 PM
Hey Ami Anne! Lord of my 7th H is on 8th H cusp
I don't feel the need to be transformed through my partner but whenever I'm in love with someone I want a deep lasting bond. IP: Logged |
DRVM614K
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posted February 12, 2019 05:35 PM
7th in 7th. Sounds accurate. What else would somebody use somebody for other than themselves.. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted February 13, 2019 05:21 AM
7H ruler in 11H. My lover has to be my friend too. IP: Logged |
bluesky
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posted February 13, 2019 06:13 AM
Ooh er, Mercury in the 8th here. Ahem...sex, and money. I should be ashamed to say, but am I? IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted February 13, 2019 07:11 AM
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Originally posted by bluesky:
Ooh er, Mercury in the 8th here. Ahem...sex, and money. I should be ashamed to say, but am I?
Nope! You go girl
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anonymidarkness
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posted February 13, 2019 07:14 AM
Sexxxx....but for that I can get FWBs too I suppose....I have loved and been loved by people even when I'm not in relationship with them, so definitely not for love I guess, being in relation does give one a bit of guarantee I suppose, but I have fallen in love with multiple people at the same time at times.Ruler of 7th in 5thhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Stellia
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posted February 13, 2019 02:16 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ruler of the 7th in the 2nd---you want your partner to provide material security.
I love this thread; great at-a-glance reference! But... Doesn't work for me! Sun rules my 7th house, my sun is in Taurus in the second. I actively do not want to be reliant on my partner financially, so I'm trying to think of other 2nd house things. I do need a partner to support my values. And I guess it is weirdly important to me that they will nurture me, is cook or care for me - but they both feel sixth house things (service) or 4th house - nurturing. If I had to pick one, I'd say the most important thing to me is friendship (11th house), then care and sex. I have a very busy 7th house, which maybe throws this off a bit? Plus I'm single, so I may have just forgotten haha Any thoughts? IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted April 08, 2019 08:46 AM
7 in 7  IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted April 08, 2019 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by Stellia:
I love this thread; great at-a-glance reference!But... Doesn't work for me! Sun rules my 7th house, my sun is in Taurus in the second. I actively do not want to be reliant on my partner financially, so I'm trying to think of other 2nd house things. I do need a partner to support my values. And I guess it is weirdly important to me that they will nurture me, is cook or care for me - but they both feel sixth house things (service) or 4th house - nurturing. If I had to pick one, I'd say the most important thing to me is friendship (11th house), then care and sex. I have a very busy 7th house, which maybe throws this off a bit? Plus I'm single, so I may have just forgotten haha Any thoughts?
2nd H is values and food, practical goodies.
Good luck with that if you are a female.
6th H is giving service not getting.
2nd H is exactly what you ask except of friendship. Maybe you have Uranus connected with DSC or Venus?
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