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MertSerimer
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posted July 14, 2011 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I gave so much attention to my natal chart that i just started to feel my natal chart. Feeling means understanding why my soul or whatever the power above chose this configuration to have. I think solitude is chosen or given when bad karma occured or sth bad happened to your relationships in past life OR you are just tested by this way no like any other else.

My indicators;

-5th ruler is moon and getting
SQAURE from Venus and MC and sign square from Mars and Mercury
Quincunx Jupiter
Conjunct Ascendant and it is in first house
-NN in 12th house
-Venus opposite Mars
-Sun conjunct Venus .. read the threads
- MANY MANY Sag traits i have.
-Moon trine PLuto
-Chiron in cancer and in 5th house.

7th ruler is mercury and its in detriment(sag) so wrong choices when it comes to partnership.


what do you think? I already gave up on love. Weird part is i have venus trine jupiter. why do i have that?

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posted July 14, 2011 04:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a few, I adore my alone time and without it feel hemmed in and claustrophobic,
-Asc ruler sq Uranus
-Sun sq Uranus
-Moon/Pluto
-Capricorn Moon
-Venus Capricorn
-Pluto/IC
-Sun in the 8th
there are others, these are just off the top, it's written all over. all i can say is thank god for my aqua dsc and esp. cap personal placements, they keep the undesirables at arms length, and they keep the ones i desire from prying and over-pawing, respectful and clever, comfortably distant yet there when needed.

Everyone is born with the chart they need. Don't look for the negatives in it cos that's all you'll see.

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posted July 14, 2011 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CancerRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I only know of a few aspects that would make someone want solitude, but mine that I know of are:

Sun and Mercury in 12th House
Chiron conjunct Sun and in 12th House
Sun opposite Uranus (more freedom, I suppose)
Venus Opposite Mars

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Ami Anne
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posted July 14, 2011 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 14, 2011 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mert
Darling
I think you gave up on love cuz of your afflicted moon.
If you want to bump that thread,we can do it.If not ,let it lie

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posted July 14, 2011 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:

Everyone is born with the chart they need. Don't look for the negatives in it cos that's all you'll see.


Yeah i feel the same way you do. My chart is my soul message to me BUT why do i have moon in pisces and pisces ascendant then? I am capable of SO MUCH LOVE but not using it. I have moon trine pluto also which shows i can be very emotional(i can control). I am currently breaking bad (like walter =)) because of that. Nearly i have no enemy or i dont know any friend that hates me which is ironic. I have Amazing survivor power in my chart. This is why i choose solitude. At the end, they would be looking for me when i dont need anyone. Still many people advise me for their problems. I just lonely solve mines. Because i dont believe they can. My motto was "joi de vivre" and currently i am adding "TRUST NOONE DECEIVE everyone" to it =)). Sometimes "accepting" is the best thing to do.

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posted July 14, 2011 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mert
Darling
I think you gave up on love cuz of your afflicted moon.
If you want to bump that thread,we can do it.If not ,let it lie


It is up to you my lady=)). If you wanna continue, do it if it is okay for you.

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posted July 14, 2011 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
It is up to you my lady=)). If you wanna continue, do it if it is okay for you.

Well if YOU want to dig deep would be the thing.IF you do bump your thread with the moon info on it--the one I did for you recently.
This is gonna entail facing hurting kinds of stuff so think if you WANT to ,Baby.
If you do ,bump the thread

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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posted July 14, 2011 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MertSerimer:
I gave so much attention to my natal chart that i just started to feel my natal chart. Feeling means understanding why my soul or whatever the power above chose this configuration to have. I think solitude is chosen or given when bad karma occured or sth bad happened to your relationships in past life OR you are just tested by this way no like any other else.

My indicators;

-5th ruler is moon and getting
SQAURE from Venus and MC and sign square from Mars and Mercury
-Quincunx Jupiter
-Conjunct Ascendant and it is in first house
-NN in 12th house
-Venus opposite Mars
-Sun conjunct Venus .. read the threads
- MANY MANY Sag traits i have.
-Moon trine PLuto
-Chiron in cancer and in 5th house.

7th ruler is mercury and its in detriment(sag) so wrong choices when it comes to partnership.


what do you think? I already gave up on love. Weird part is i have venus trine jupiter. why do i have that?


Darling
Honestly, your chart is not that bad. You don't have 12th house planets,do you?
My book says these are the worst.I think you are in a depression

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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MertSerimer
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posted July 14, 2011 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Darling
Honestly, your chart is not that bad. You don't have 12th house planets,do you?
My book says these are the worst.I think you are in a depression


Actually i am really happy these times cuz sweden trip was very good, all day i was doing 5th house . sometimes it hits for a very short time then it passes quickly.

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starcrossedleo
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posted July 14, 2011 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starcrossedleo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Darling
Honestly, your chart is not that bad. You don't have 12th house planets,do you?
My book says these are the worst.I think you are in a depression


Ami

What is it about 12th house planets? I am curious.

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posted July 14, 2011 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TrueTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great.... according to the above comment I have the worst!
12th house stellium here. But in honesty, I don't take it too seriously. I used to dwell on it, but right now my Jupiter sextile Ascendant transit is helping me tremendously. It puts me in a great mood.
I still need my time of solitude though. I'm not one of those people who can go out everyday and meet different people. It takes too much energy from me. Once-twice a week is enough. The rest of the time is spent either alone, at work, or w/ family. I need my own time to be "myself."

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MertSerimer
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posted July 14, 2011 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
Great.... according to the above comment I have the worst!
12th house stellium here. But in honesty, I don't take it too seriously. I used to dwell on it, but right now my Jupiter sextile Ascendant transit is helping me tremendously. It puts me in a great mood.
I still need my time of solitude though. I'm not one of those people who can go out everyday and meet different people. It takes too much energy from me. Once-twice a week is enough. The rest of the time is spent either alone, at work, or w/ family. I need my own time to be "myself."

I am having the same transit!!! Also T.Jüpiter trine Uranus!!! . Commitment Alert :D

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posted July 14, 2011 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
Ami

What is it about 12th house planets? I am curious.


Well,my book on house rulers said that whatever else is in the chart he breathes a sigh of relief if there is not 12th house planets.
I have Neptune there only and it is Neptunes house so it is not too bad.
However,the 12th house is THE most inward turned energy, the most mired you could say.
I would liken it to a Retro planet if you have any.
I have Mercury , Saturn and Neptune.
Picture a top spinning ,going round and round.
The REtro energy makes it hard to STOP the top and deal with the planet energy as it is.

I think the 12th house is harder than Retro.

Are you understanding what I am trying to say about the energies?

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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MertSerimer
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posted July 14, 2011 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starcrossedleo:
Ami

What is it about 12th house planets? I am curious.


12th house is also associated with "sins, going to hell, bad karma, satisfaction in sex, being against social structure, hospitals, paradoxes, prisons, enemy protection" in vedic astrology.

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posted July 14, 2011 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starcrossedleo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
12th house is also associated with [b]"sins, going to hell, bad karma, satisfaction in sex, being against social structure, hospitals, paradoxes, prisons, enemy protection" in vedic astrology.[/B]

Thanks -I have no planets in the 12th but I have a lot of inward energy. I like you need a lot of solitude but I crave a relationship but not so bad that I sacrifice my solitude. I have to force myself to get out. I have Sun conjunct Venus in Leo and am able to socialize well but don't need it like other people do. I have no problem working with people but outside of work I can't deal with alot of socialization unless its with my family.

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posted July 14, 2011 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xiiro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's important to mention that the 12th house affliction is based on the native's perspective. Just as 9th house is “susceptible” to pontification, segregation, and extremism, or the 6th house is “susceptible” to slavery, exploitation, or drone mentality; The 12th House has positive AND negative spectral expressions. Just as 9th House can be attributed to “religion/philosophy” or the 6th House can be related to “service/health”, the 12th house simply manifests as the inner-space/no-thing-ness. Aquarius and the 11th house get everyone working together for the purpose of achieving 12th house energy.

Of course if the ego is strong, or if a person is insistent on sense being the defining force of reality, then the concept of no-thing-ness would result in escape, inability to cope, self-deception, and madness. It's hard discovering and accepting that reality is relative, not solid. The 12th house is the space we arose out of before becoming cognizant and it is the space we return to when we cease to be cognizant. Even if you go to sleep/meditate/die among a sea of loved ones, you ultimately enter that space alone. This is what makes selfless sacrifice part of Pisce's M.O. The Pisces energy doesn't particularly feel like it has a self, it feels like a space within which events (feelings, thoughts, etc...) occur. Like outer space, or like an ocean must feel, being stirred around by gravity and observing as extreme events of life and death fluctuate within.

If you have 12th House planets I say, you have reached a point where you are ready to learn about the empty, insubstantial vastness, and fundamental connectivity of self. Congratulations, you have learned about outward development and outward being, now it's time to take a swim in Lake You. Remember, if we all have a 12th house than the feeling of being included vs being alone is an ego game. The story of the zodiac begins with the emerging of individuality, transitions to recognition of other, and results in dissolution into collective emptiness (only to reemerge again as a fresh individual). I'm happy to have a 12th House SN and Eris, they indicate to me that I am graduating from an old pattern, and in this lifetime I have the opportunity to let those old patterns dissolve in the soup, and focus on the new patterns coming in. Solitude is not bad, if all aspects point to solitude in your chart, then this lifetime you won a spa treatment to the inner resort. Explore, pamper, relax, and enjoy. If you have other aspects that are directing you out of solitude, then you have spent enough time at the spa, it's time to steal the towels and get back to your outer life =)

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posted July 15, 2011 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I think it's important to mention that the 12th house affliction is based on the native's perspective. Just as 9th house is “susceptible” to pontification, segregation, and extremism, or the 6th house is “susceptible” to slavery, exploitation, or drone mentality; The 12th House has positive AND negative spectral expressions. Just as 9th House can be attributed to “religion/philosophy” or the 6th House can be related to “service/health”, the 12th house simply manifests as the inner-space/no-thing-ness. Aquarius and the 11th house get everyone working together for the purpose of achieving 12th house energy.

Of course if the ego is strong, or if a person is insistent on sense being the defining force of reality, then the concept of no-thing-ness would result in escape, inability to cope, self-deception, and madness. It's hard discovering and accepting that reality is relative, not solid. The 12th house is the space we arose out of before becoming cognizant and it is the space we return to when we cease to be cognizant. Even if you go to sleep/meditate/die among a sea of loved ones, you ultimately enter that space alone. This is what makes selfless sacrifice part of Pisce's M.O. The Pisces energy doesn't particularly feel like it has a self, it feels like a space within which events (feelings, thoughts, etc...) occur. Like outer space, or like an ocean must feel, being stirred around by gravity and observing as extreme events of life and death fluctuate within.

If you have 12th House planets I say, you have reached a point where you are ready to learn about the empty, insubstantial vastness, and fundamental connectivity of self. Congratulations, you have learned about outward development and outward being, now it's time to take a swim in Lake You. Remember, if we all have a 12th house than the feeling of being included vs being alone is an ego game. The story of the zodiac begins with the emerging of individuality, transitions to recognition of other, and results in dissolution into collective emptiness (only to reemerge again as a fresh individual). I'm happy to have a 12th House SN and Eris, they indicate to me that I am graduating from an old pattern, and in this lifetime I have the opportunity to let those old patterns dissolve in the soup, and focus on the new patterns coming in. Solitude is not bad, if all aspects point to solitude in your chart, then this lifetime you won a spa treatment to the inner resort. Explore, pamper, relax, and enjoy. If you have other aspects that are directing you out of solitude, then you have spent enough time at the spa, it's time to steal the towels and get back to your outer life =)


Hmm nice information thx a lot. My chart may not show "solitude" because A LOT LOT OF love karma(probably bad which is to compensated) is there and also moon sextile neptune, strong jupiter in 6th house shows that i am REALLY WELL TAKEN CARE from LOVED ONES and yes i am indeed. Problem is "saturn in 11" and moon placement. Moon is heavily afflicted. My NN is very close to 12th house cusp. I have no planets in 12th house... Anyway i guess, heavily afflicted moon and strong Saturn brings me to solitude. At least at the end i feel like i got no choice but to leave everythng behind maybe.

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posted July 16, 2011 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Xiiro:
I think it's important to mention that the 12th house affliction is based on the native's perspective. Just as 9th house is “susceptible” to pontification, segregation, and extremism, or the 6th house is “susceptible” to slavery, exploitation, or drone mentality; The 12th House has positive AND negative spectral expressions. Just as 9th House can be attributed to “religion/philosophy” or the 6th House can be related to “service/health”, the 12th house simply manifests as the inner-space/no-thing-ness. Aquarius and the 11th house get everyone working together for the purpose of achieving 12th house energy.

Of course if the ego is strong, or if a person is insistent on sense being the defining force of reality, then the concept of no-thing-ness would result in escape, inability to cope, self-deception, and madness. It's hard discovering and accepting that reality is relative, not solid. The 12th house is the space we arose out of before becoming cognizant and it is the space we return to when we cease to be cognizant. Even if you go to sleep/meditate/die among a sea of loved ones, you ultimately enter that space alone. This is what makes selfless sacrifice part of Pisce's M.O. The Pisces energy doesn't particularly feel like it has a self, it feels like a space within which events (feelings, thoughts, etc...) occur. Like outer space, or like an ocean must feel, being stirred around by gravity and observing as extreme events of life and death fluctuate within.

If you have 12th House planets I say, you have reached a point where you are ready to learn about the empty, insubstantial vastness, and fundamental connectivity of self. Congratulations, you have learned about outward development and outward being, now it's time to take a swim in Lake You. Remember, if we all have a 12th house than the feeling of being included vs being alone is an ego game. The story of the zodiac begins with the emerging of individuality, transitions to recognition of other, and results in dissolution into collective emptiness (only to reemerge again as a fresh individual). I'm happy to have a 12th House SN and Eris, they indicate to me that I am graduating from an old pattern, and in this lifetime I have the opportunity to let those old patterns dissolve in the soup, and focus on the new patterns coming in. Solitude is not bad, if all aspects point to solitude in your chart, then this lifetime you won a spa treatment to the inner resort. Explore, pamper, relax, and enjoy. If you have other aspects that are directing you out of solitude, then you have spent enough time at the spa, it's time to steal the towels and get back to your outer life =)



12th house stellium here and this totally resonates. When I'm at a really low point or ebb, I find myself wanting to dissolve into nothingness or go with the less extreme option of closing myself off from the outside world.

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posted July 16, 2011 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doreen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
I gave so much attention to my natal chart that i just started to feel my natal chart. Feeling means understanding why my soul or whatever the power above chose this configuration to have. I think solitude is chosen or given when bad karma occured or sth bad happened to your relationships in past life OR you are just tested by this way no like any other else.

My indicators;

-5th ruler is moon and getting
SQAURE from Venus and MC and sign square from Mars and Mercury
-Quincunx Jupiter
-Conjunct Ascendant and it is in first house
-NN in 12th house
-Venus opposite Mars
-Sun conjunct Venus .. read the threads
- MANY MANY Sag traits i have.
-Moon trine PLuto
-Chiron in cancer and in 5th house.

7th ruler is mercury and its in detriment(sag) so wrong choices when it comes to partnership.


what do you think? I already gave up on love. Weird part is i have venus trine jupiter. why do i have that?


Sun conjunct Venus and Solitude
WHAT ? err I don't think this has anything to do with solitude or wanting to be alone or what ever

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posted July 16, 2011 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doreen:
Sun conjunct Venus and Solitude
WHAT ? err I don't think this has anything to do with solitude or wanting to be alone or what ever

In Vedic and Mayan Astrology This conjunction is one of the worst aspects for "marriage, partnerships". Because Venus becomes "ignited" or "gone back to sun in earth perspective which prevents venus energies to come properly". Look at famous people with Sun conjunct venus. Almost all celebrities with that aspect had marriage problems and so thus married many times. Think in that way, -relationships, charm, beauty(VENUS)- satisfies your ego(SUN) when you have these aspect. It is like you have a relationship to satisfy yours cuz it is the indicator of being liked of you which you want it most. If there are nice marriage indicators they can compensate it but still it is not good.

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@ Doreen - Sun conj Venus can indeed feel that way sometimes because of some other placements. I have one in my circles. Gets all attraction but still gets this feeling that no one loves him. Could be true to some extent I think. As though that is not enough has Lilith conj sun and venus. And guess where? In Gemini in 4th house. Bahh! Can this person ever have a relationship/ partnership in its proper sense?

@ Mert - Saturn IS the BIG all time teacher remember? I got a retro sat in 4th. Phewwww! WIth your NN and saturn in 11th i think you have got some working to do there for others. Something which will help you build others and so in turn yourself. Your aspected moon is going to navigate you to do that. Just my 2 cents. These tough placements make us do things which we are required to do but wouldn't do otherwise. This is through my own experience.

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posted July 17, 2011 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doreen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mert and abcd after all the reading I have done I had never heard of this before
WOW
Thanks for the great info

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posted July 17, 2011 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo Di Caprio has Sun conjunct Venus. He is 35 and he never married. So those with this aspect never get legal?

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12th house NN??

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