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Topic: Venus in synastry (who feels love more?)
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polysigh
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posted July 15, 2011 12:29 PM
  
In synastry my venus trines his sun and mars, trines his NN, and opposes his saturn.His venus conjuncts my chiron, opposes my uranus, and sextiles my mars and NN. He is the only person that I have ever felt such overwhelming love for, like no other.Based on his venus in our synastry could he feel the same? As a newbie to astrology, I have heard that venus is the indicator for loving feelings. Thanks in advance for any help! IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted July 15, 2011 03:52 PM
"In synastry my venus trines his sun and mars, trines his NN, and opposes his saturn.
His venus conjuncts my chiron, opposes my uranus, and sextiles my mars and NN."
I think he affects your Venus more than you do to his. Even the Chiron I think affects more you than him. I don't know if someone has to feel more. But definetely it seems like he can touch your heart. It's good that you have these influences in your relationship generally.
For deep love always pay attention to the Moon, it can mean to you even more than Venus.
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Ami Anne
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posted July 15, 2011 04:15 PM
Well Darlinks
Be careful or you are gonna get Lioness and me bemoaning our Moon/Pluto's.
If you want intense, Moon/Pluto is the worst or the best,I suppose in the right set of circumstances 
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Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 06:09 PM
The stronger aspect is Venus to a luminary.IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
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posted July 15, 2011 06:56 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well Darlinks
Be careful or you are gonna get Lioness and me bemoaning our Moon/Pluto's.
If you want intense, Moon/Pluto is the worst or the best,I suppose in the right set of circumstances
You know i have natally moon/pluto and due to pluto being so slowly moving planet i have moon/pluto in synastry with entire generation  . So it is the best  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 07:04 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
You know i have natally moon/pluto and due to pluto being so slowly moving planet i have moon/pluto in synastry with entire generation . So it is the best
Ooh I have the same, do you tend to get intense reactions from your contemporaries? IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by polysigh:
In synastry my venus trines his sun and mars, trines his NN, and opposes his saturn.His venus conjuncts my chiron, opposes my uranus, and sextiles my mars and NN. He is the only person that I have ever felt such overwhelming love for, like no other.Based on his venus in our synastry could he feel the same? As a newbie to astrology, I have heard that venus is the indicator for loving feelings. Thanks in advance for any help!
You know the best for this IMHO is to take the composite chart and compare it to each person's natal, see how many conjunction hits you get, look at the closest aspects, if you have the tob for either of them look to see if any composite planets or luminaries fall into their 7th house or on one of their angles.
Also important is to progress each natal and then see if their personal planets or angles are conj the partner's natal planets or angles. IP: Logged |
polysigh
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posted July 15, 2011 07:07 PM
I think he affects your Venus more thLunatic...why is it that you think his venus to my chiron affects me more? I thought chiron brings healing to venus? Yes, I was curious about the moon in synastry for these feelings as well. His moon trines my moon, mercury, juno...My moon is square his NN (come to think of it,his NN touches almost ALL of my planets) square his mars and sextiles his jupiter... Thank you all for the replies! IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 07:09 PM
In my experience, so it's just my viewpoint, that Chiron gets hurt by Venus. Don't want to introduce bad vibes to you, but Chiron is v.sensitive.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted July 15, 2011 07:10 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
The stronger aspect is Venus to a luminary.
I have My Venus oppose his Sun(3 deg).Would that count Lonake? ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted July 15, 2011 07:10 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
The stronger aspect is Venus to a luminary.
I have My Venus oppose his Sun(3 deg).Would that count Lonake? ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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Ami Anne
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posted July 15, 2011 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
In my experience, so it's just my viewpoint, that Chiron gets hurt by Venus. Don't want to introduce bad vibes to you, but Chiron is v.sensitive.
Interesting Lonake
So with Chiron and a personal planet ,in general,do you think it is Chiron that gets hurt? I have had such screwed up relationships when Chiron touches things.
If I even SEE it touching something,it is like an electic shock goes through me Please--help me with who feels what?
Thanks so much Lonake! ------------------
Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
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God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power,love and a sound mind.
He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
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polysigh
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posted July 15, 2011 07:14 PM
I take it you do not ascribe to what magi says about venus conjunct chiron? I will say that from my end, this has been the most healing love for me even though we are not in a relationship but we still stay connected and cannot let go. I have learned a lot about myself through the whole process.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 07:20 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have My Venus oppose his Sun(3 deg).Would that count Lonake?
Oooh la la, that is a sexy one, indeed.
Strong magnetism there. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 07:26 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have had such screwed up relationships when Chiron touches things.
If I even SEE it touching something,it is like an electic shock goes through me Please--help me with who feels what?
Thanks so much Lonake!
Do you really? I see Chiron conj in my synastries I would say maybe 1/3 of the time..i think it's just us wanting to find a way to mend that side to us, so that is part of the draw to these people..The more healing aspects would be the trines to Chiron, ime." If I even SEE it touching something,it is like an electic shock goes through me "
---Wowza. Hmm. well I don't feel the same so maybe it is something re: your natal chiron, maybe it has strong natal aspects or something of that nature. My Chiron just has 2 inconjuncts. And in my experience it is the Chiron that is more sensitive in the association, like an open wound a bit, with conj and squares in synastry. I don't think the feeling happens you know right when you meet someone, it develops gradually. This is just my experience.
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Lonake
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posted July 15, 2011 07:30 PM
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Originally posted by polysigh:
I take it you do not ascribe to what magi says
No, not a Magi believer here.IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted July 15, 2011 09:27 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
You know the best for this IMHO is to take the composite chart and compare it to each person's natal, see how many conjunction hits you get, look at the closest aspects, if you have the tob for either of them look to see if any composite planets or luminaries fall into their 7th house or on one of their angles.
Also important is to progress each natal and then see if their personal planets or angles are conj the partner's natal planets or angles.
woow Lonake thanks! I had no idea about all these 
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lunatic
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posted July 15, 2011 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by polysigh:
I think he affects your Venus more thLunatic...why is it that you think his venus to my chiron affects me more? I thought chiron brings healing to venus? Yes, I was curious about the moon in synastry for these feelings as well. His moon trines my moon, mercury, juno...My moon is square his NN (come to think of it,his NN touches almost ALL of my planets) square his mars and sextiles his jupiter... Thank you all for the replies!
I have read a lot about chiron and the most agree the "chiron person" is affected by the planet person. It can be healing or wounding. Since you have the trine you're fine!
Also, the NN person is affected more by the planet person, you give him direction. Moon trine moon, moon trine mercury and moon sextile jupiter are amazing aspects!! Better to be close also.
I've learned to pay attention so much in Jupiter. It's that feeling you get that you can trust completely this person and you feel happiness and joy and optimism around them, jupiter can open your heart and make you feel light! I guess the person that has the personal planet is more affected by that.
Mars square Moon, i had that aspect with a friend. With us it was true, as the mars person I could hurt the moon person fast..
But now i have the same aspect with a girl I like and I think it can be very attractive, sexually oriented.. If the Moon is important in your natal chart affects you big time, what do you think about that? IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted July 15, 2011 09:52 PM
Venus is the planet of love (not emotional/caring love like the Moon's.. but a love that is more sexual).I think every person experiences synastry aspects through their own lens. So with Venus you might feel a certain kind of love (more like sexual attraction) and they'll feel something else depending on the planet your Venus touches. When it's the Sun, they might feel an ego boost and want you around as a trophy-gf (a girl they can show off with socially, a girl who heightens their own self-worth)... When it's their Mars they'll feel an instinctual need to conquer and make you 'theirs'. When it's their Moon they just want to hug you all day long. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted July 15, 2011 09:53 PM
About your last post - Lunatic...This whole idea that only one person is 'affected' by the other person is a little insane. I mean both planets are in aspect so obviously both people are affected (but in different ways). quote:
as the mars person I could hurt the moon person fast..
It always goes both ways. But it does depend on what people choose to do.
With Moon/Mars.. Mars can be cutting and hurt the Moon's feelings whether intentionally or unintentionally.
However the Moon can also make Mars' life something close to living in a 'hell'. It's the "one drop at a time" rule.. dripping water until Mars feels like he is drowning - his drive is gone.. and her emotions are killing him. It's never a one way street. IP: Logged |
Taineberry
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posted July 16, 2011 03:46 AM
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Originally posted by polysigh:
I think he affects your Venus more th
His moon trines my moon, mercury, junoThank you all for the replies!
I think Moon trine Moon is THE best aspect to have for long term compatibility, because you can really tune into each other. This relationship could really work out, using this aspect as a basic indicator of instinctive mutual understanding. It doesn't hurt that you have all those venus aspects too. IP: Logged |
polysigh
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posted July 16, 2011 08:12 AM
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Originally posted by lunatic:
I have read a lot about chiron and the most agree the "chiron person" is affected by the planet person. It can be healing or wounding. Since you have the trine you're fine!
Also, the NN person is affected more by the planet person, you give him direction.Moon trine moon, moon trine mercury and moon sextile jupiter are amazing aspects!! Better to be close also.
I've learned to pay attention so much in Jupiter. It's that feeling you get that you can trust completely this person and you feel happiness and joy and optimism around them, jupiter can open your heart and make you feel light! I guess the person that has the personal planet is more affected by that.
Mars square Moon, i had that aspect with a friend. With us it was true, as the mars person I could hurt the moon person fast..
But now i have the same aspect with a girl I like and I think it can be very attractive, sexually oriented.. If the Moon is important in your natal chart affects you big time, what do you think about that?
Lunatic...that is interesting about jupiter. I don't pay too much attention to it. I guess now I should! Also, what do yoou think about his unaspected venus in his natal? what does this mean? Does it mean he would have difficulty expressing loving feelings? Also, I think I get what you mean about the role the moon plays especially how its aspected in the natal. For instance, my moon squares my saturn. This has always been a problem for me when it comes to relationships. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted July 16, 2011 04:23 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
The stronger aspect is Venus to a luminary.
even if square?. his venus square my sun/mars/venus IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 16, 2011 07:49 PM
Yes, the square is still a strong aspect.
The weak aspect would be a sextile.IP: Logged |
lunatic
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posted July 16, 2011 08:23 PM
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Originally posted by polysigh:
Lunatic...that is interesting about jupiter. I don't pay too much attention to it. I guess now I should! Also, what do yoou think about his unaspected venus in his natal? what does this mean? Does it mean he would have difficulty expressing loving feelings? Also, I think I get what you mean about the role the moon plays especially how its aspected in the natal. For instance, my moon squares my saturn. This has always been a problem for me when it comes to relationships.
About Jupiter, I felt its power to me through the transits. And I know the faith and the happiness come from this planet for me. So yes, if you want someone to make you happy, just because he exists, then you better have some good Jupiter aspects in your synastry! About the unaspected Venus. I have read that an unaspected planet gets powerful, in a way he feels the need to express the traits of this planet and it speaks louder to him, so maybe he needs to be more romantic?
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