posted July 21, 2011 07:45 PM            

Throughout the whole evening, K would stare and observe me from his table. Every time I left my table, K would follow me with his eyes. Eventually he followed me to the bathroom. When I got back, he caught up with me at the ballroom entrance and looked deep into my eyes with puckered lips.

Almost a month goes by and I send him an email through his website. He responds back enthusiastically and even told me to add him on facebook. I did just that. We were friends on facebook for awhile until my facebook got hacked and a bunch of my friends, K included, got deleted. I made a new one and asked him for his facebook username and he never gave it to me.

Sometimes I'd send him an email and he'd never respond.
I noticed on his facebook, he'd talk to his other female friends. But, he acts completely different around me.

I referred a customer to his place of business. We spoke on the phone and he was very friendly. He wanted to talk more. But, I had to get back to work. He sounded really sad when I said that. He said, "byeeeeeee" for a really long time.

posted July 21, 2011 07:58 PM            

Unless you told him what happened with your Facebook, he probably thinks you deleted him on purpose.

posted July 22, 2011 03:05 AM            

Do you know who is facebook friends are?

Look throught his friends who are not private and then his name will pop up.

My profile is private and no one can find me, but I can be found via friends of a friend. A lot of profiles are like that.

Another other option is if you know his profile url tag, but thats harder.

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posted September 29, 2011 11:31 PM            

I am so confused as to why he'll respond to my emails, be friendly in person, but not add me to his facebook.

posted September 30, 2011 05:49 AM            

personally, I would take the 'real' interaction and contact over the 'electronic'.

While facebook, text, and phone can be convenient, it can never be a replacement for true in-person communication.

I wouldn't take it personally.

Look at it the other way:
what if they added you to facebook, but never spoke to you in person - this is worse, no?

posted September 30, 2011 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by hellotido:
Hi Everyone. First off, Thank you for taking the time to read my post.
His name is K. I first saw K 3 years ago at a mutual friend's party. I walked into the room and felt eyes on me. I turned to my right and there was K staring real hard me. Fast forward 3 years to January '11. I saw him at another party. I was sitting with my date, K saw and came over and started chatting with my dad.

Throughout the whole evening, K would stare and observe me from his table. Every time I left my table, K would follow me with his eyes. Eventually he followed me to the bathroom. When I got back, he caught up with me at the ballroom entrance and looked deep into my eyes with puckered lips.

Almost a month goes by and I send him an email through his website. He responds back enthusiastically and even told me to add him on facebook. I did just that. We were friends on facebook for awhile until my facebook got hacked and a bunch of my friends, K included, got deleted. I made a new one and asked him for his facebook username and he never gave it to me.

Sometimes I'd send him an email and he'd never respond.
I noticed on his facebook, he'd talk to his other female friends. But, he acts completely different around me.

I referred a customer to his place of business. We spoke on the phone and he was very friendly. He wanted to talk more. But, I had to get back to work. He sounded really sad when I said that. He said, "byeeeeeee" for a really long time.

What is going on? And what should I do?
Any insight is welcome. Thank you.

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posted September 30, 2011 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by hellotido:
Update: So there was a dinner party my parents were going to. I couldn't go since I was unavailable. K was there and he said hi to my dad again and started talking about random stuff. Our mutual friend, the one who's hooking us up, kept asking my parents if i was going to be attending.

I am so confused as to why he'll respond to my emails, be friendly in person, but not add me to his facebook.

Any advice is appreciated.

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I didn't even bother reading the rest of the thread before I replied, so I'm just NOW seeing this...

But you saying this just makes me even more sure that something shady is going on with this guy. Only guys who are jerks, play women hot-and-cold like that, one minute giving you the eyes and talking your ear off, and the next totally ignoring you - even if it is just an online social site. A guy who has good intentions and is really into you will make you a priority, period, and will be thrilled to hear from you, whether it's face to face or on the web.

Or...he's shutting you out of his FB because there's something or someONE he doesn't want you to know about or he doesn't want THEM to know about YOU.

posted September 30, 2011 11:25 AM            

You know what you should do! Go to this party he is going to, but BRING A HOT DATE!!! Even if it means you have to bribe one of your brother's sexier friends, ask someone for a favor who is super cute and charming and TALL (make sure he is tall.. it will make this other guy feel inferior in more ways than one), broad shouldered, perfect teeth, confident and funny and NICE. Whatever you have to do... show up on the arm of a sexy charming movie star-quality babe.

And then completely ignore this dude. I do not mean sneak little glances over to see if he notices you... Do not look at him even once! If you do bump in to him, be polite, smile, ask how he is doing, but move along to the next person in no more than 15 seconds.

You'll drive him wild.