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Topic: What it's like to argue with each of the signs
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Nicole401 Knowflake Posts: 268 From: CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted July 21, 2011 11:11 PM
Correct me if I'm wrong but from personal experience;Aries - They'll probably be the ones starting the argument. You CANNOT talk things through with them. I don't want to generalize and say they're superficial, but in my experience they only put enough attention into things to gain a superficial understanding so trying to argue with them is impossible. They stay in one spot and DO NOT move. Very stubborn. They also like to delve into your past and use that against you when they're losing the argument, even if it has nothing to do with what you are fighting about. When they feel they've completely lost the argument and have nothing else to say, they'll walk out on you and slam the door. Taurus - They'll be nice for the first 5 seconds.. after that they'll try to say the worst things to hurt your feelings. And trust me, they WILL hurt your feelings. Lots of yelling and screaming. Gemini - This one depends a whole lot on the moon sign!! But if it's a typical one, you'll go in circles because they'll talk your ear off and lie and then forget what they lied about and you call them out on it and they come up with another lie. If they're emotional (moon sign), they'll try to get you to stop being mad at them and they won't rest until you stop being mad at them. Cancer - They'll get teary eyed (for some reason). They'll bring stuff up from the past, and trust me it will be a lot!! They have such a good memory!! Also use lies to get out of things... and from my experience they like to play the victim card a lot. "Poor me, it wasn't my fault." Leo - Very straight forward. They're approach is upfront and slightly offensive. They're also very stubborn, and will probably never admit defeat. The only way they'll get in a physical fight is if there's people watching the argument. Virgo - They hate arguing. But if they must, they'll analyze all the facts and try to understand your point of view. Once you **** them off, they'll try to make you feel dumb. When they're done making you feel dumb, they'll walk away. Libra - There are two types, both very opinionated. The first type loves to argue, they can argue for the rest of their lives, nonstop. The second will do anything just to be at peace with you. They'll ignore it, and get over it in their head. Sagittarius - They won't listen!! It's sooo frustrating because they just won't listen. They lie when "necessary", and exaggerate, just to make you look ad. They'll roll their eyes when they're not listening. Pisces - Like cancer, they get teary eyed and often cry. They also play the victim card, better/more than Cancers and they pity themselves, which can be very irritating at times. They walk away crying most of the time, when they can't argue anymore. [I've only argued with these signs] IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 21, 2011 11:14 PM
scorpio always wins not really, well, i should say not always me (scorpio here) but scorpio has a way of knowing the truth and therefore know what to say to be right and end the conversation------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 21, 2011 11:17 PM
oh, and like you said about cancer, scorpio also has a way of remembering EVERYTHING...all wrongs and goods that were done to them...so if you do something to them, they'll remember and "forget" to invite you to the party friday night or "forget" to bring you your coffee (if the scorpio usually does often) and will also use past events of your life or past wrongs done to the scorpio against you------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 21, 2011 11:20 PM
Scorpios don't win I think they end up more hurt there blood boils but not just with anger but real disapointment especially if it is with someone they love if it with some idiot who crosses a line I will scream and attack from every angle accept I don't like to say things hat are too mean unless it's another girl and she starts something with me if it someone I love I will try to avoid it but stand my ground also scorpios will remember every detail do not try to breeze over things or tell us we're wrong i'm a mix of my scorpio sun leo moon and pisces ascendantIP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 6852 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 21, 2011 11:21 PM
I'm an excellent mix of my Asc and Mars signs regarding what you wrote, the other one there, the Sun, doesn't apply.IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:09 AM
this holds true for me...i try to avoid any confrontation i can, and if i cant avoid that then i'll try to avoid it getting loud and explosive, especially if there are kids there, and if i cant avoid that then i'll do my absolute best to avoid anything physical...i'v only gotten into a physical fight twice...both within a week of each other and both with my sister...it was a really bad time for her oh, i think i should also mention that i think mars is more of the sign to look for with contention of all kinds...lucky for me my mars and sun are both in the same sign, lol
------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: this holds true for me...i try to avoid any confrontation i can, and if i cant avoid that then i'll try to avoid it getting loud and explosive, especially if there are kids there, and if i cant avoid that then i'll do my absolute best to avoid anything physical...i'v only gotten into a physical fight twice...both within a week of each other and both with my sister...it was a really bad time for her oh, i think i should also mention that i think mars is more of the sign to look for with contention of all kinds...lucky for me my mars and sun are both in the same sign, lol
Oh god you have mars in scorpio too lol
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saraintheski: Oh god you have mars in scorpio too lol
yup, and it conjuncts my pluto in scorpio  ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: yup, and it conjuncts my pluto in scorpio 
same here hah
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saraintheski: same here hah
lol, wow...does your mars and pluto sextile your venus? mine does...which is probably why i prefer to avoid contention actually, lol ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: lol, wow...does your mars and pluto sextile your venus? mine does...which is probably why i prefer to avoid contention actually, lol
nope :/ my venus is in libra IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saraintheski: nope :/ my venus is in libra
oh jesus, no, not libra...LOL, strangely enough, libras love arguing, but they can never pick a side ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: oh jesus, no, not libra...LOL, strangely enough, libras love arguing, but they can never pick a side
I feel very libra in a cliche way like what I like around me and I like to talk but about weird things not totally superficial we both are scorpios leo moon mars in scorpio a mutable acs weird ... I flip flop like crazy on issues ... Grace kelly was scorpio sun and mars and venus in libra lol I wonder what her moon and ac ... IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 877 From: Portland, OR USA Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:36 AM
Geminis don't have to lie to argue. If you can't keep up, that's your own problem.
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saraintheski: I feel very libra in a cliche way like what I like around me and I like to talk but about weird things not totally superficial we both are scorpios leo moon mars in scorpio a mutable acs weird ... I flip flop like crazy on issues
this here must be the mutable ascendant cuz i'm a lot like that too, lol ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:39 AM
My brother has a gemini moon he will lie about the dumbest things because he's scared my aunts husband on the other hand gemini moon had a double life !IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:42 AM
i have a gemini ascendant and i'll sometimes lie just so i dont have to get too involved with something and it'll usually be over something stupid...like my mom would ask me if i know the location of something and i'll just say "i dunno" because 9 times out of 10 it takes less energy to just say that, LOL------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: i have a gemini ascendant and i'll sometimes lie just so i dont have to get too involved with something and it'll usually be over something stupid...like my mom would ask me if i know the location of something and i'll just say "i dunno" because 9 times out of 10 it takes less energy to just say that, LOL
Hahah well thats different.. I often get told that I'm lying when i'm not it's just that the person will jump all over and then I just want to give up I will go out of my damn way to prove that I wasn't lying cus i'm such a sneaky scorpio I always feel like I do have to lie when it comes to my love life like I have to keep it hidden or I always want to do something that i'm not supposed to do or I always attract something totally obscure and shunned but i'm not a liar I even freak out when I'm like am I lying to myself do they think i'm lying Oh nothing is real! by lying I mean to my family especially since my dads side is middleeastern and my mom is really over protective I always had to sneak talk or lie about my" going to the mall " IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saraintheski: Hahah well thats different.. I often get told that I'm lying when i'm not it's just that the person will jump all over and then I just want to give up I will go out of my damn way to prove that I wasn't lying cus i'm such a sneaky scorpio I always feel like I do have to lie when it comes to my love life like I have to keep it hidden or I always want to do something that i'm not supposed to do or I always attract something totally obscure and shunned but i'm not a liar I even freak out when I'm like am I lying to myself do they think i'm lying Oh nothing is real! by lying I mean to my family especially since my dads side is middleeastern and my mom is really over protective I always had to sneak talk or lie about my" going to the mall "
strangely enough, thats true for me too...it must be the scorpio in us, for some reason people see us as dishonest even though we'v given no reason to be seen that way...sure, i'll lie about tiny things, but when it comes to big stuff i'v always told the truth, and in my younger days i did freak out when no one believed me when i told the truth...and i would always point out the fact that i'v never lied about anything in my life so why cant you believe me and no one could answer me...in fact they would kinda change the subject so they wouldnt have to answer ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:54 AM
i am a strictly honest person...i probably couldnt lie about something even if i tried unless i made a promise not to say anything....i feel as strongly about telling the truth as i do about loyalty...my name even contains the words "not a liar" in lexigrams------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Saraintheski Knowflake Posts: 547 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 12:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by NickiG: strangely enough, thats true for me too...it must be the scorpio in us, for some reason people see us as dishonest even though we'v given no reason to be seen that way...sure, i'll lie about tiny things, but when it comes to big stuff i'v always told the truth, and in my younger days i did freak out when no one believed me when i told the truth...and i would always point out the fact that i'v never lied about anything in my life so why cant you believe me and no one could answer me...in fact they would kinda change the subject so they wouldnt have to answer
Don't you freak out more sometimes when people change the subject cus it just goes in circles it's like I really like to settle things and then peopel will "forgive me " and then later on bring up something when I confided in them trusted them and truely enjoyed being close it's like oh lets ruin things again not that I skip over stuff I will sit and talk to a person I care about for hours I will confess every little thought going through my head I will ask them how they felt I will will will give up lol and I hate giving up my leo moon will never let me give up on life I think if I didn't have it I would of killed my self by now as depressing as that sounds LOL
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NickiG Moderator Posts: 5583 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 12:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saraintheski: Don't you freak out more sometimes when people change the subject cus it just goes in circles it's like I really like to settle things and then peopel will "forgive me " and then later on bring up something when I confided in them trusted them and truely enjoyed being close it's like oh lets ruin things again not that I skip over stuff I will sit and talk to a person I care about for hours I will confess every little thought going through my head I will ask them how they felt I will will will give up lol and I hate giving up my leo moon will never let me give up on life I think if I didn't have it I would of killed my self by now as depressing as that sounds LOL
yes, i do freak out more when they change the subject....and the last time i really, deeply confided in someone my secrets the next day she seemed to have completely forgotten (she happens to be a gemini, lol)...that had deeply wounded me...i felt like i couldnt tell anyone the things going on in my head...i felt like i couldnt trust anyone with those secrets...i'v never told a person those particular secrets again ------------------ I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate? when organic is used to describe food then you know we have come to a dark age in history IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3110 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 22, 2011 01:25 AM
Aries - I only argued with one man who is an Aries who was basically trying to tell me that there were things I didn't know about my boyfriend (it was all BS) - but he was stirring the pot - at Christmas time.. of all the times. He definitely started it and he had no reason seemingly - other than to cause drama. Taurus - ummm No, never argued with a Taurus person. Gemini - I've had little tiffs, but not an actual argument. The only one that comes to mind is when my friend who has Sun & Moon in Gem.. was trying to tell me how to spell my second name correctly LOL I mean it's MY name. I was born with it and I know how to spell it. But for some weird reason she got it into her head that it was meant to be spelt differently. Mind you - we were both somewhat tipsy. This issue ^ escalated into an argument (Now we just laugh about it because it was stupid!). Our other friend (who is a Pisces) had to basically break us up and drive off with me - so that we don't go on screaming at each other for the rest of the night. Cancer - Heavy. There are different phases here. The first phase is when Cancer is screaming at you. This is OK -- This is something that can still be fixed. The next phase is when Cancer becomes emotional or cries. This is a lot worse but there is still hope to rescue the relationship if you so want. The final phase comes when Cancer goes completely silent and refuses to speak with you ever again. When you hear these words, you know there is absolutely no turning back. Leo - Oh I argue with Leos all the time because I'm close to a bunch.. and sometimes the arguments are small - other times huge.. But they always pass in a matter of minutes/hours (never days). Leos have big voices and you will hear them roar in an argument.. It can get quite scary (not for the faint of heart lol). Actually I have never seen a scarier person in an argument. Virgo - Never argued with a Virgo. Although, I have several Virgo family members. Libra - ya.. Never really argued with a Libra.. But I've seen Libras arguing with others lol Usually they are calm but you get the occasional outburst, specially if they have Scorpio in their chart. When this happens it is very intense and very unexpected. Scorpio - Never argued with a Scorpio and never seen a Scorpio arguing with anyone. The closest is a relative who has a huge stellium in Scorpio. She goes silent and teary eyed, manipulating everyone to apologise. It works like a charm. Sagittarius - I really couldn't argue with a Sagittarius if I tried. Capricorn - Never had an argument here either. And actually my Cap friends did not have arguments that I've seen. They are very quiet when upset. Aquarius - No arguments. My dad tries to start arguments sometimes but I avoid him and he gets over it. Pisces - I had a huge horrible psychological nightmare of a situation with my first love who is a Pisces... but this wouldn't be an argument as such. We were both hurting each other. I think Pisces in its worst manifestation hurts people intentionally - but not in an overt manner. Sorry if this wasn't very helpful, but as I was typing I realised I don't argue with that many people. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 3080 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 02:45 AM
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Venus Moderator Posts: 1011 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted July 22, 2011 03:54 AM
i have alot of cardinal in my chart, when i argue its more of a statement..i once lectured a 15year old girl (complete stranger) on the dangers of smoking (she was holding a cig.) IP: Logged |