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Topic: Banging my head against the wall..
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Betty Boop
Knowflake Posts: 1537
From: Betty Boop Land
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 05, 2011 10:31 PM
  
Well Lioness I wanted to say (this is not so much about Pisces guy) -- people with Moon/Mercury aspects find it very easy to express their feelings accurately and genuinely through words.
I have Moon closely sextile Mercury (0' orb).. and yours are conjunct (which I thought might be the case).I also get irritated by people who are unable to verbally *explain* their feelings and what they want from a situation.
I am very good at explaining exactly how I feel. This is not just a Pisces thing. In fact I'm positive that if you met a Pisces guy who had a close Moon/Mercury aspect - either conj, trine or sextile - things would be much easier. Gemini Moon also works. I'm not sure about Virgo Moon. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 2949
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posted August 05, 2011 10:33 PM
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Originally posted by noblefish11:
Lioness,With a lot of Leo in your chart, and his Scorpio Moon, I can understand your frustration. He may be ready to fix things, but it sounds like he's hurt you too badly. Distancing yourself would be best for now, and maybe some day you'll be able to talk to him again. If he confronts you, you should be honest and just tell him that he hurt you and that you need space. It will probably upset him, but I can only see the situation getting worse if he's trying to fix things and you are still angry with him. Keep us posted!
Thanks 
Thats what Im doing Im keeping my distance and avoiding him... Its worked until yesterday.. I was better and letting it all go, until he said Hi... now it made me go back and rethink everything (OK MERCURY RX..lol) but nope Im not changing my mind.. It just made me more upset..
I know he feels bad, and so do I... but my pride wont allow me to let it go... You know..
Its best to stay away, or I think it will get worse, bc if we talk Im going to let out all my anger... I know he will react badly... My Mars sq his Moon
My moon opps his Mars
(YIKES)
thats the only sq to his moon from my Leo..
But his Moon conjuncts my Neptune... I guess that Neptune fog lifted.. LOL I know one day we will talk again, but its not going to be anytime soon, nor will it ever be the same.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 05, 2011 10:46 PM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Well Lioness I wanted to say (this is not so much about Pisces guy) -- people with Moon/Mercury aspects find it very easy to express their feelings accurately and genuinely through words.
I have Moon closely sextile Mercury (0' orb).. and yours are conjunct (which I thought might be the case).I also get irritated by people who are unable to verbally *explain* their feelings and what they want from a situation.
I am very good at explaining exactly how I feel. This is not just a Pisces thing. In fact I'm positive that if you met a Pisces guy who had a close Moon/Mercury aspect - either conj, trine or sextile - things would be much easier. Gemini Moon also works. I'm not sure about Virgo Moon.
Well I have Saturn in H3.. and Saturn sq Asc.. To be honest Im not very good at expressing emotions...
I dont go around telling people how I feel.. Its actually very difficult for me, even with female friends...
I feel ashamed and embarrassed of my feelings.
So I hide them, until I explode from them.. Yeah I admit thats not very pretty... lol My daughter asked me mom have you ever cried before? I said no... I accept and move on, whats crying going to solve...
(looking down in shame)
I cry but alone usually in the shower... I can hold it for hours... IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted August 06, 2011 05:45 AM
I knew this was about the Pisces, before I even opened the thread. It actually freaks me out, because I have a Mars in Pisces and Neptune trine Jupiter and my MC, and I can be very scattered and flaky at times - it's happening in all parts of my life. I occasionally get it together, and wish I could more often, the way that I used to. If I forgot about something, I'd rush to get it sorted, I was a hard worker, and if something was too difficult, I would at least *try*. IP: Logged |
seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 579
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted August 06, 2011 10:18 AM
I have a progressed virgo moon right now and I will tell you it has done wonders for my cancer moon! First off, it makes me very matter of fact and sometimes almost makes me feel dual! meaning, my poor cancer moon is going...I feel I feel oh god I feel! and the virgo moon is like, "snap out of it ***** ! get a grip!" LOL. It has made me able to go through some of the difficult times I have had these past couple of years easier or even possible.IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 2949
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 06, 2011 01:01 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I knew this was about the Pisces, before I even opened the thread. It actually freaks me out, because I have a Mars in Pisces and Neptune trine Jupiter and my MC, and I can be very scattered and flaky at times - it's happening in all parts of my life. I occasionally get it together, and wish I could more often, the way that I used to. If I forgot about something, I'd rush to get it sorted, I was a hard worker, and if something was too difficult, I would at least *try*.
DOH!!!!
Well Im on Vac now for my birthday! yippy yippy!
So I dont have to deal with him for 9 days woot woo!!
Im having my bday celebration tonight. Cant wait.. but I need to go buy a red shirt, because I bought these AWESOME red shoes!
I wanna be BRIGHT! lol (so leo of me) and well I look HOTTT in red! hahahha I think I will wear white capri pants a red shirt and my AWESOME new red shoes! heheheh.. OO Im rambling huh? sorry... IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted August 06, 2011 02:03 PM
Happy birthday! IP: Logged |
Jamisyn
Newflake Posts: 9
From: columbus, oh
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 07, 2011 12:12 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
His flakiness or not being able to make up his mind doesn't bother me.. (maybe its my pisces asc) even the disappearing dont bother me (well in the beginning) but I always knew he would be back, so I wasnt worried...
I would disappear on him also...
He really really just pushed my buttons to another level.. HE said the wrong things to me out of anger (yeah I know it was anger talking)
But that doesnt change it.. He still said it... I feel really betrayed by his words..We have had disagreements before, but we always maintained this great level of respect and maturity... We NEVER ever cussed at each other or called another a name,even when upset.. We discussed what the problem was, and settled it...
Well we had a 4 hr argument... The crap hit the fan... lol....
We were both highly upset, but he lost it and went into the name calling, and said some mean things.... He didnt like the fact I was telling him, something was bothering me..
So then I got defensive and said things back.. We crossed the line with each other, on what was "our" level of respect.. We havent spoken since.. IF anyone else would have called me those names, I would have laughed and chalked it off... but thats just NOT what we did... I have very hard feelings towards it.. He cant take it back, and well neither can I..
I just cant believe we went to that level... @teasel
sun/pisces
moon/scorpio
ven/cap
mars/aqua
Im done.. Im not going to let it go... No more communication.. nothing.. I deleted his number... I wont give in and well he wont either... but thats mars opps mars... lol
Hmm...well I feel compelled to respond, lol. Where to start though? First off being VERY Piscean myself, by nature (and description) Pisces are actually really quick to forgive, give in to others and make peace in these types of situations because it pains us DEEPLY to be at odds with someone we love, and I mean deeply, much more than we would ever show. So I'm guessing that's prob why he said "hi", because he can't take the two of you "hating" eachother anymore and just wants to put down the armor. Not to be an a$$. Lol. Second, looking at his other placements and the stuff you've explained, I'm really not convinced it's the Pisces in him that's driving you crazy. Seems more like his Cap Venus (indifference, cold, distant) and his Aqu Mars (ever changing, sporadic, and sometimes just rebel against others wishes & requests simply for the sake of rebelling). And that driving 6hrs to tape the drive to your door, that sounds like pure Scorpio to me! Lol. The saying "hi" to you in the midst of all the hurt feelings and tension, that sounds like the Pisces, always willing to "give in". Lastly, and this is not astrologically related...but, I just can't imagine ending a 14yr relationship because one fight got out of hand. I mean if there are other reasons that have been leading up to this and it was just the last straw, then that's understandable. But if you've been together for all these years and this is the first time ever that a fight progressed to the point of crossing the line verbally...
honestly, I'd consider your self lucky. I'm by no means encouraging anyone to stay with someone who disrespects them or is abusive or hurtful, but people are human. I'm assuming the things you said to each other have probably been a long time coming, with built up resentments and things through the years and sometimes you just need to have it out & unload those feelings in order to start fresh. If you simply don't love him anymore, or feel he doesn't love you then let it go. But if it's just a pride thing, i'd think carefully about what your giving up. Would you rather be alone with your pride & miserable or give in a little (not saying you shouldn't make him meet you halfway!)and save your relationship? Real love doesn't come along very often. IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 2949
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 02:08 PM
@ Jamisyn... O hon you have mine and racole12 post mixed together.. Racole''s Pisces was the one that taped the thing to her door, and I believe she is the one that said 14 years.. I didnt end a 14 yr relationship, bc of harsh words... The Pisces I talk about is a co-worker, we briefly went out, and then became friends.. I valued that friendship.. IT meant alot to me...
Now the friendship bond is broken, BC of an argument and some harsh words to each other.. IP: Logged |
racole12
Knowflake Posts: 989
From: the world is my home!
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted August 09, 2011 04:22 AM
and I would never end a relationship b/c of one fight... he uses people, very selfish and it's hard to get him to do something unless he is getting something in return. I'm just tired of it... IP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted August 15, 2011 09:35 PM
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!! RoaRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!! Ok so I was on vac all last week... Today was my first day back.... When I get to work, I didnt see his car.. I thought wow maybe he went on vac... Well so Im walking into the office and now his car is there (he was late)
He pulled in right behind me.. I saw he was in his office, so I just kept walking like normal...
He comes out of his office and stands in the door way..
AGAIN he stares at me.. Our eyes lock... He says good morning..
I say very low, morning.. I turn my head and I keep walking..
See this annoys me!
What does he want.. Cant he just ignore me! He didnt have to stand right there, he could have went inside, when he saw me... I was so ****** I avoided him the rest of the day.. Never saw him again after that... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged | |
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