posted August 04, 2011 07:29 PM            

Me and Pisces got into a huge argument like 2 months ago... We have been speaking at all. When we see each other we avoid all eye contact and make extra efforts to avoid each other...
Me especially... When I see him turn and walk into another direction...
I see him more now that I did before...
We always seem to be walking towards each other in the walkways.. When I see him coming my way, I make a quick turn and take a short cut away from him, never looking at him.. I haven't "seen" him in months..
He keeps walking straight towards me, but I move into another direction.. so we dont really pass near each other. At all times I am more than 20 feet away from him.. Keeping my distance as much as possible... Ive made special arrangements so I dont even have to go into his office any more..

Today I was walking to my office, and he's standing talking to someone just outside of the walkway.. He could have easily turned his back as I walked by..
He was standing right in a spot, where I had no choice but to walk right past him, there was no turn for me to take.. So I keep walking, He sees me, and he takes a few steps backwards into the walkway... He then turns towards my direction as I got closer (he was still talking to someone) When I get close he stares me DEAD in my eyes for like 4 seconds.. I look at him back.... He was "telling me with his eyes" its cool now.. or I want to tell you something... He said hi with a mellow but firm voice..

Now if the other person wasnt there I wouldnt have said anything back, I would have just kept walking.. But well I have to play it off in front of people.. I said HEllloooooo.. in a happy go lucky voice (that only a leo can do.. lol) I kept walking and never looked back...

SO WTF! he should have just turned his back and ignored the fact I was near... Why even say Hi..... everything isnt cool with me.. I havent let go of the anger...

posted August 04, 2011 07:53 PM            

He cant take back what he said to me, so I have a lot of anger with him Im not able to let it go, at least not yet...

I want to keep my distance.. I will continue to avoid him and not speak to him, unless absolutely necessary..

posted August 04, 2011 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
He obviously really hurt you too though....because you mean business!

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Yeap he said the wrong thing to me.. IF you havent noticed Leo's can be a tinny weenie bit stubborn.... LOL

IT annoys me that after all this time, NOW he wants to say Hi.... come on.. give me a break.. its to late..

posted August 04, 2011 08:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Jounia:
I'm sorry to hear that. What sign is your moon in?

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posted August 05, 2011 12:31 AM            

I told my pisces to forget that I even exist, to delete my number, address, fb, email... etc etc. And he just got quiet on me.

(what led to this... is that he invited me to his place for a week but he was in a "mood" (he didn't tell me until I actually got there) which he asked me to leave early, so, I ended up forgetting my jump drive at his place. Well, 2 days later he was like, I found your jump drive and I'll put it in the mail tomorrow! I was like, wow, maybe he is trying to change... (Let me tell you how important the jump drive is to me... it has my whole portfolio on it!) Well, a week went by... I still didn't have it. I call him, and he was like, "I forgot"... Well, now it's 3 weeks later and I was like, "Pisces! I need my jump drive! NOW!! My portfolio is due on Monday!!" So, he was like, "I'll put it in the mail so you'll have it by Thursday." So... guess what? Thursday comes... guess where my jump drive is...? Exactly... he forgot again!! So, I got all ****** off and went off on him. Told him to forget about it... and told him what I told you at the beginning of this post- to forget about me! Guess what he did... He drove 6 hours and taped it to my front door and drove home. He texted me after he got home saying... "I know you hate me, that's why I didn't call while I drove to your house, but your jump drive is taped on your door." This was monday...

I haven't say anything to him... I don't know what to do. I'm just so tired of him forgetting everything (including forgetting about me). It only seems like I have to do something drastic for him to remember/change...

posted August 05, 2011 12:49 AM            

But he took it the wrong way...
God only knows the crap that goes on in his mind and the spin he likes to put on things - which is so often unrealistic & negative.

He thought I was being mean to him... since obviously everything is always 'all about him'.

We weren't well matched on many levels.... and he often did not *get* me at all. I hate to have to explain myself to someone...

BUT - Actually, this psychological immaturity or 'lack of knowledge' is not generally a Pisces thing.
I am blaming it on his Aries Merc and possibly other things in natal/synastry.

posted August 05, 2011 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by racole12:

I hate to see a 14 yr thing end... but I don't know what else to do. Maybe, I need to start a "So, you are dating/marrying a Pisces?" support class...

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posted August 05, 2011 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Lioness -- are your Moon/Mercury in aspect? (in natal!)

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posted August 05, 2011 07:50 PM            

I simpatize with your anger. I guess piscis are just difficult to figure out. they are so moody and change mind every 4 seconds. i believe that the quaities that make them to be liked (like out of touch with earth, romantic, sensitive). i have a thing for moon in piscis and i have venus in cancer as well.

i dont know if i would give him a chance. i think you have tried several times before, but it seems that a part of you still need him. some unfinished business going on. just follow your gut feeling. whatever happens is what your sould needs

posted August 05, 2011 08:01 PM            

@betty
We have the awkward feelings, but I dont care. Its going to stay like that.. Im not budging.

@crabclaw
YOu didnt know Leo's are stubborn??? boy are you in for a surprise.. I can take a no, no biggie.. the ego says its not worth it anyways... lol

posted August 05, 2011 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Lioness,

I simpatize with your anger. I guess piscis are just difficult to figure out. they are so moody and change mind every 4 seconds. i believe that the quaities that make them to be liked (like out of touch with earth, romantic, sensitive). i have a thing for moon in piscis and i have venus in cancer as well.

i dont know if i would give him a chance. i think you have tried several times before, but it seems that a part of you still need him. some unfinished business going on. just follow your gut feeling. whatever happens is what your sould needs

best,

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His flakiness or not being able to make up his mind doesn't bother me.. (maybe its my pisces asc) even the disappearing dont bother me (well in the beginning) but I always knew he would be back, so I wasnt worried...
I would disappear on him also...
He really really just pushed my buttons to another level.. HE said the wrong things to me out of anger (yeah I know it was anger talking)
But that doesnt change it.. He still said it... I feel really betrayed by his words..

We have had disagreements before, but we always maintained this great level of respect and maturity... We NEVER ever cussed at each other or called another a name,even when upset.. We discussed what the problem was, and settled it...
Well we had a 4 hr argument... The crap hit the fan... lol....
We were both highly upset, but he lost it and went into the name calling, and said some mean things.... He didnt like the fact I was telling him, something was bothering me..
So then I got defensive and said things back..

We crossed the line with each other, on what was "our" level of respect.. We havent spoken since..

IF anyone else would have called me those names, I would have laughed and chalked it off... but thats just NOT what we did... I have very hard feelings towards it..

He cant take it back, and well neither can I..
I just cant believe we went to that level...

posted August 05, 2011 09:27 PM            

Funny. Whenever a Pisces male thread appears I see the same ladies popping in.

posted August 05, 2011 09:32 PM            

My Leo stellium is in H6..

Its always the same women, talking about the same pisces man, that keeps popping back up... lol

posted August 05, 2011 09:51 PM            

Not to generalize, but Pisces are very sensitive, and we tend to "get lost in things." I bet this guy has been obsessing about the fight that you had, and it's probably upset him. The fact that his moon is in scorpio would suggest to me that he can hold a grudge longer than the typical pisces, and it may be hard for him to think about rectifying the situation. But, the sun and moon placement make me think that he is sincerely trying to communicate and ammend the situation.

posted August 05, 2011 10:11 PM            

Maybe you are not suppose to get away from it.

posted August 05, 2011 10:14 PM            

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Originally posted by noblefish11:
Ok, as a Pisces guy, I feel like I should add my two cents.

Not to generalize, but Pisces are very sensitive, and we tend to "get lost in things." I bet this guy has been obsessing about the fight that you had, and it's probably upset him. The fact that his moon is in scorpio would suggest to me that he can hold a grudge longer than the typical pisces, and it may be hard for him to think about rectifying the situation. But, the sun and moon placement make me think that he is sincerely trying to communicate and ammend the situation.

Pisces can be awkward, and perhaps speaking with that other person and seeing you walk by forced him to just react without thinking. Or, maybe since his venus is in capricorn, and capricorn is practical, he realizes that the mature thing to do is move on. I'm obviously not an expert on this situation, but my gut tells me he's trying to move on from what happened. As to how that turns out, I wish you luck!

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Well your pretty much right... For what ever reason, I can feel him and I pick up on him, like no one else ever before...

When he starred at me, and said Hi.. (the impression I got) was him saying I havent forgotten BUT its cool now, and I dont want to go around ignoring each other and having these awkward moments. So Lets say Hi when we see each other.. baby steps..

BUT!!! ITs still not cool with me... He damaged the Leo ego and pride.. He hit my sun,moon,merc and mars... I feel as if he stabbed me in the back..

posted August 05, 2011 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
It makes perfect sense to me! You "see" him everywhere.

Maybe you are not suppose to get away from it.

I have quite a bit of Fire in my natal chart. Not Leo like you. I had to learn that I did not need to control this relationship. He has taught me, it is what it is. I was never vulnerable or wanted to do the right things for anyone like I do for him. I have become softer (in a good way) and I am selfless with him. I thought I was number one in my other partnerships. I always had to know everything. Tell me, tell me. He showed me that he cares by his actions. After almost 3 years I do trust his feelings for me. See how long it took?!

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posted August 05, 2011 10:21 PM            

With a lot of Leo in your chart, and his Scorpio Moon, I can understand your frustration. He may be ready to fix things, but it sounds like he's hurt you too badly. Distancing yourself would be best for now, and maybe some day you'll be able to talk to him again. If he confronts you, you should be honest and just tell him that he hurt you and that you need space. It will probably upset him, but I can only see the situation getting worse if he's trying to fix things and you are still angry with him.