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Topic: Mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 11:46 AM
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CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 01:27 PM
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 01:40 PM
Lol well can u relate to the whole "hesitation to get close and suspicion" on both sides even if u both seem to have strong feelings? I've felt the hesitation and distrust somewhat with venus square pluto before but with mutual venus-pluto aspects it is very intense.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 01:45 PM
And yep i also have venus sq pluto natally and can totally relate to what u said...100% lolIP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 01:47 PM
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Dreamy_AriesGirl Knowflake Posts: 233 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2011 02:56 PM
Interesting topic.I had mutual Venus-Pluto with someone special (conjunction and quincunx), and i can tell you that there were absolutely no hesitation, lol. Rather the opposite, my Mom thought that I would get married to him just a couple of days after I met him... but after all, the obsession (and other obstacles) were too much, so sadly it ended quite quickly. I experience the hesitation part though with someone whome I have a one-sided Pluto-Venus aspect (he's the Venus). We are friends, but from time to time, he would drop hints/would behave in a way whihc suggests to me that he probably feels more... when we got to know each other he asked me out once (we can call it a date), but nothing happened and he's never made any crystal clear move toward me. Which i honestly dont mind, cause I see him as a friend, but his behaviour sometimes makes me confused. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 07, 2011 05:46 PM
Well i've had two venus square pluto crushes where i was pluto and i was definitely the obsessed one. Then i have two other venus square pluto ones where i was venus and i was also the obsessed one, so. And for friendships with venus square pluto, i think it was pretty mutual...we were both pretty obsessed as friends.So i think it doesnt matter which one you are whether venus or pluto. In both i could definitely feel the dofference. When i was pluto the guy was definitely very venus...he was passive, shy, gentle, and beautiful, while when i was venus the guy acted very masculine towards me even though he didnt like me as much as i liked him. Definitely i could feel he was trying to get me to like him just for an ego boost. When the guy was venus he was much more passive an. only tried to "look pretty for me" lol while i was pretty much the one doing the flirting and he was the one reacting IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 08:30 PM
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 08:39 PM
Yea I had a mutual Venus/Pluto trine in synastry. He shared more things with me than others. Our relationship was also a secret.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 09:02 PM
That's interesting. Do you know why it was secret? Are you saying it had to do with the nature of venus-pluto? IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 09:07 PM
Yea I think Venus Pluto had huge overtones. And then of course it was there in the composite.IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 09:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: I'm finding the report on moonit.com to be spot-on. Everything it says is so true. I don't know if the only thing it took into account is the mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastry.
Did you get the full report or just the quick analysis. I like that it gives the friendship and romance for each, tho surprised for one it gave us 94% and our chart has a lot of sq and opps, well, conj too. Nice tho for us is our asc rulers are conj, but of course it didn't ask for time on the free lil synopsis.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 09:53 PM
Oh, how nice that you know about that website, too . Sand showed it to me on here and I've been ecstatic about it ever since. Lol. I didn't get the full report. I read on their website that the mini report is actually done by analyzing the nature of the strongest aspects in your chart, usually the 1st and 2nd strongest, but sometimes there are two equally strong ones so they take that into account as well, and sometimes there's even no stronGEST aspect all. They say it's a rare occurrence, but when this happens they give you a "anything goes description" saying that you pretty much dont know what to expect from each other from day to day, sometimes you get along well sometimes you dont as much, but your chemistry is very different every time. I'd imagine for the separate love and friendship readings they look at different planets....like moon and sun aspects for friendship and venus, pluto, and mars aspects for love. They say on their site that the friendship reading actually shows the fundamental compatibility of the relationship , no matter what the romance report says. That makes sense because friendship is the fundamental strength/glue of a relationship. They also say, if your friendship rating is bad, then the relationship will probably end badly. I found it to be true when i tested it out. It also makes sense since the sun and moon are probably the two most important glues to how much people really understand each other. If that is indeed the planets they're looking at...I have no idea honestly, lol. IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 13, 2011 10:21 PM
No, I heard about it from you on here (!) "They also say, if your friendship rating is bad, then the relationship will probably end badly." ---Yea I was wondering about that, it makes sense!IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 13, 2011 10:34 PM
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2011 11:27 PM
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2011 11:49 PM
I read this website and it makes so much sense. Wow. http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=386330&page=2#showthread.php?t=386330&page=3&forcenoajax=1 IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 15, 2011 01:15 AM
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posted August 15, 2011 08:23 PM
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9910 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2011 08:42 PM
Does he have Cancer rising? I went through something like this with a Cancer Asc person, even tho he had his Mars on my Asc and Sun/Venus in my 7th I needed more oomph from a partner. Depends on if this is something you're willing to look past? Having been the dominant one in some past relationships, I can say that you pretty much stay in that position the whole way through, if that's how it started off. Some men don't have much initiative romantically, due to various fears or sometimes even commitment issues which can manifest that way. Feeling bored is not a good sign for someone with Libra on the rise, they typically look to partnerships for some sort of feisty appeal. You can tell from looking at the natals where your energies are and how they differ, rather than thinking this has something to do with the synastry. But I wouldn't say the shyness is the Venus/Pluto dw. If you want you can post the natals I'll take a look. If he has a lot of Pluto and Saturn, not so much Air or Fire, then taking the 1st step would be worth it for example since they're attuned differently than the rest, imo in a good way. If your Sun/Moon/Mars/Venus vibes on Pluto/Saturn then it speaks to attunement there, no matter the synastry. Altho if you're both interested I would think Pluto is in contact to something important in each chart. People tend to run toward relationships where the synastry echoes their natal, as it's comfortable and attractive. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 16, 2011 12:32 PM
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Swift Freeze Moderator Posts: 691 From: One World Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 17, 2011 09:24 PM
I have Conjunction Venus-Pluto ranging to a large orb with everyone born about 1.5 - 2 years before or after me. I am not sure whether I feel the connections more than others or not however, I don't feel especially obsessed with every person I ever meet they tend to be few. That article was an interesting read. I'm shy, i've been told and talked about it with people, it doesn't make any difference though because change can only come from the inside and if the person wants it to. Mention of behavioural patterns becoming habitual was fairly interesting as well and i'd likely bet mostly accurate as well.That is a lot of editing R.A.S :S ------------------ Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask Knowflake Posts: 1234 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted August 17, 2011 09:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Well i've had two venus square pluto crushes where i was pluto and i was definitely the obsessed one. Then i have two other venus square pluto ones where i was venus and i was also the obsessed one, so.
i was just about to ask about this thanks for clearing that up. i've been the pluto before and was not the obsessed one but was obsessed with their belongings! i could've probably spent days if not weeks going through their art collection and have the time of my life... the pluto thing did come up, i wasn't fond of the playing games and the underhanded tactics they used, don't know how it was but i was the pluto and was not at all playing the games but the venus was til i just took one swift blow and made sure to sever that. there was one other person whom i met that has the pluto in this case.. i was into them very much, i used to follow their facebook, but the infatuation was only short because we have their venus opposing my uranus and saturn. we tried chatting for a bit, then one drunken night i wrote them a message claiming that 'they didn't know who they were, blah blah blah..' it was odd.... i just wrote to them after they asked me 'wtf?' and said to please never mention it again.. they knew that i was drunk, btw. anyway, the other day i did write to them and 'apologized' because i 'meant to write someone else'.. probably not a good move but whatever.. haven't heard from them. i also think i'm quite over it. there was then this other person, i was the pluto, whom i met while working on some job and, they were the venus.. naturally, they'd expect to be the person praised for everything but i wasn't so taken by them but did make a funny and i think they noticed because the rest of that day they were off trying to be quite the comedian with a group of people around them laughing at their jokes.. i didn't know if it was them trying to get attention or what but i was just confused by it. i'm hoping that if i was the venus, i wouldn't be that lame. because that's kind of what it was.. both times that i've been the pluto, i've not been the obsessed.. the one time that i was the venus, i kind of was but then again the moon was also involved *(my moon) soooo........ idk. ------------------ http://tribes.tribe.net/redemptionreflection
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RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 18, 2011 09:06 PM
lol, okay but all I really want to know is hesitation in mutual venus-pluto aspects in synastryIP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8139 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 18, 2011 09:08 PM
yeah I edited alot because i don't want anybody i know in real life coming here and reading thisIP: Logged |