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Topic: Experience w/ "Sexual" Aspects?
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Nicole401 Knowflake Posts: 443 From: CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 24, 2011 09:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Nicole,well, if you have natally a Venus-Pluto-opposition, let`s say from 10 Scorpio to 10 Taurus, and the guy`s Mars is square your Venus AND Pluto, then his Mars would fall either around 10 Aquarius or 10 Leo. Your Venus-Pluto-midpoint would also fall onto 10 Aquarius or 10 Leo, thus his Mars would be either conjunct or oppoisite your Venus/Pluto-mp. An exact squaring planet is always on the midpoint of an opposition of the planets it squares; the reason for that is that a square (90°) is half the distance of an opposition (180°). That was what I meant. Hopefully this was not too confusing now.  (But with midpoint configurations the orbs have to be really tight, best under 1 degree). EDIT: Sorry, my mistake. I just read that his Mars is conjunct your Venus and opposite your Pluto. So of course his Mars would be square your Venus/Pluto-mp, but it still is a strong triggering of this midpoint.
You're talking about two guys here; One of the guy's mars is square both my venus and my pluto. So let's say, My pluto is at 10 Taurus and My Venus is at 10 Scorpio. His mars would be at 9 Leo or 9 Aquarius. Example; Now the second one, His Mars is conjunct my Venus, and since I have a Natal Venus/Pluto opposition, his Mars oppositions Pluto too. Example; IP: Logged |
Jounia Knowflake Posts: 628 From: United Kingdom Registered: May 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 03:03 PM
for me it's My Mars square His sun My Mars conjunct His pluto My moon trine his Mars Ascendant sextile ascendant His Mars in my 5th house IP: Logged |
cancercaite Knowflake Posts: 64 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 06, 2011 06:07 PM
what if.. your ascendant is conjunct their sun. is that good?IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1948 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 06, 2011 06:45 PM
Out of all these, the best sex was Moon/Mars double whammy (opposition and square), worst sex was Mars/Venus double whammy (conjunction and opposition).Moon/Pluto is a close second to Moon/Mars (again, double whammy, conjunction and square). I feel like Venus/Mars/Pluto (I've only experienced their Venus/Mars in aspect to my Pluto) is good because it makes frequent sex easy (I like novelty so I tend to get bored with partners, but I'm usually up for it.
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amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1948 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 06, 2011 10:17 PM
quote: I have felt the sexual attraction involved in moon-mars but i didnt think it could compare in any way to moon/venus-uranus and venus-mars
have you had sex with any of these people? I think you're mixing up general lovey nice feelings with sexual attraction. Venus/mars is nice because you feel affectionate with each other, but its certainly not as hot as Moon/Mars. Venus/Neptune is deep and soulful, which is nice in the bedroom but it goes beyond sex. Venus/ Uranus is instant attraction but its more "curious." its more like "this person interests me." IP: Logged |
8ofHearts Knowflake Posts: 69 From: CA Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 06:27 PM
One ex and I were on and off for over 10 years - could not shake each other physically even though we hated each other by the end - ugh!Sun trine Sun Moon sext Moon DW Moon/Mars trine & sextile My BM Lilith & North Node conj his Moon Mars sext Mars His Mars trine my Venus My Mars sext his Venus My Saturn & South Node conj his Venus (exact) & loose Mars (orb 7) his Pluto conj my ASC (exact) and Sun (orb 4) my Pluto sq his Venus & Mars His Juno conj my ASC, Pluto & Sun My Juno opp his Sun His Eros trine my Saturn, Eros & sext my Mars My Eros trine his Eros, sext his Moon, trine his Venus & Mars My Uranus conj his ASC Composite Venus trine Mars Venus sq Pluto Pluto sq Mars Mars in 8th Later I found out we had one of those Sexual/Romantic Dragons (they talk about in Magi astrology) with Pluto, Juno, Neptune, Jupiter, Venus & Saturn & Eros all in there. I think my Saturn at apex of a natal yod right on top of his Venus made it particularly hard to break. 
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8ofHearts Knowflake Posts: 69 From: CA Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 06:27 PM
Ooops double post.IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4662 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 06:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by popcorn: Lioness. My first husband had his asteroid lilith in conj to my moon. My seconds husband bml trigg my moon. The other man I describe had his nessus conj my moon. All of this men got me to feel the same. For me it felts very primal including strong lust, attraction and also deeply sexual. I got feelings of primal and karma in some way. Ive my nessus and 6-8 other asteroids also in conj to my moon so.....IQ and Ammi talk about abuse feelings and pain but I cant agree about this kind of feelings in me by my relationship. Ive never felt me abused by a man either. This relationship more felts normal primal and natural like animal. Not brutal or bestial.
My fav relationship sexually also had Lilith His lilith conjunct my mars My jupiter trines his 3 of his lilith's His lilith conjunct my jupiter His jupiter/aprodite conjunct my cupido/uranus His pluto sq my mars His pluto sq my Nessus His mars sq. my sun His Nessus sq my sun My venus sq his eros His pluto conjunct my moon My eros conjunct his AC His AC conjunct my IC His Ac squares my venus His uranus conjunct my AC AC sq AC His psyche conjunct my pan/jupiter His moon conjunct my sun/mer/nep His sun trine my moon My aphrodite conjunct his moon/neptune My cupido conjunct his jupiter My sun/merc conjunct his neptune My hera conjunct his saturn My eros/valentine conjunct his valentine His eros conjunct my Penelope His penolope/adonis conjunct my venus Intense, raw, the relationship was intimidating but in an amazing way! With Nessus involved, there wasn't ever anything he did even close to mean but he did threaten to kill somebody who was mean to me? He helped me heal from childhood abuse! Both of us have Nessus on our Mars...
Ive read about nessus showing the darkness or the monster but an overcome nessus gives a depth of appreciation for life, the soft place to land where everything is special because of what you've overcome and learned after you've been through hell! Maybe your karma is that youve already been through hell and overcome the monster nessus and your reward in this life your seeing the kinder side of nessus! IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1385 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 07:03 PM
Great thread, Moonfish.Venus-Mars = Overrated. Had it both ways, too. Venus on my Mars and Mars on my Venus. Wasn't too overly attracted to either guy but physical involvement was much pressed upon by the guy. Prefer trines or sextiles. Sun-Mars = Physical and sexual attraction. I have only experienced Mars on my Sun. Anyway, long story short I want to make babies with the guy even though I don't want kids. My Sun is the in the 8th house and my 8th house ruler is Cancer/Moon, I have Moon in Aries so the rulership is reversed with Mars in Cancer. I attract this placement a lot, needless to say. Moon-Mars = Another sexual and physical attraction, but also means they p1ss me off a lot quicker.
Mars-Mars = I have only had opposing and sextile. With opposing, there is a strong force of attraction going on, although the Scorpio Mars is too mysterious and manipulative for my direct and simple Taurus Mars. I've had sextile with Pisces and Cancer Mars, the energy is a complement, nothing feels rushed. Venus-Pluto = I have had my Venus square their Pluto, but I have this with a lot of people since Venus is in Leo. Ummm, I guess it can cause an attraction and passionate feel, but I can never get too comfortable, filled with what if's...insecurity. I don't know, need to research this one more. The other ones I can feel stronger. IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON Knowflake Posts: 265 From: CA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 07:47 PM
Owwwww love this topic as I am uncomfortably attracted to my husband. Its magical and what people dream bout it being like. Like just cuddling him gets me going and he barely has to do anything the chemistry is so good. We've been together for 8 yrs. and it's still amazing. But I have to admit it is sometimes overwhelming and I wish it was less. It's like I don't have control over it. I'm trying to be PG here... And he agrees it's the same for him with the intensity, but really I don't think it is because I just can't keep my hands off him. He seems more balanced with me. But people look at us and say "wooaaa you guys are hot together." Its truly electric. Our tightest aspects include: Moon trine pluto (1) Moon square venus (1) Moon opposed Venus (1) Lust square Pluto (1) Sun trine lust (0) Asc conjunct lust (2) Venus sextile Pluto (3) Asc square mars (3) Moon trine mars (4) Mars square Asc (4) Asc opposed Pluto (4) Mc square Pluto (4) Asc square Pluto (2) Juno square mars (1) Mars trine Venus (5) Uranus square Venus (5) Eros trine Eros (2) Sun square mars (5) I could add more, but you get the picture. The lust one is new for me. I wonder If this explains my intense passion for him...?IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4662 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 08:47 PM
I think more than anything, he had 5 planets in my 8th house and i had 3 in his, we both had our s. nodes in the others 8th, so very comfortable with each other sexually, felt like we'd been together forever, like home! His s.node was on my juno, in my 8th, and my mars squared his juno in my 12th.IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 24, 2012 07:12 AM
I have alot of these aspects with most of my guy friends..... I hope there is no attraction involved in these friendships.IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 09:00 AM
sun conjunct sun moon conjunct moon ^were the most powerful sexual aspects IME. More powerful than Mars / conjunct, opposite, square/ Venus.and the square is the most powerful in venus/mas aspects
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vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 01:01 PM
oh yeah I remembered another aspect , sun conj mars ... very refreshing and passionate !!IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2239 From: CO, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 11:05 PM
The most highly charged, sexual relationship I've had to date had these aspects. It had so much sexual obsession on my end first, and then he was unable to suddenly, resist me- and loved giving in to it. It literally exploded when he gave in. But it can be surprisingly healing and passionate as well... deeply and profoundly affectionate. Moon conjunct Mars in Virgo Pluto conjunct Moon (exact, 0 dg. orb) Pluto conjunct Venus Mars opposite Saturn Saturn opposite Venus Ceres conjunct 8H Chiron Saturn in his 7th house Venus conjunct IC Aphrodite conjunct Mercury (exact) Adonis conjunct Moon Cupido conjunct 8H Mars (exact) Amour trine 8H Cupido BML conjunct his Midheaven (exact) IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 4941 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 11:22 PM
Venus Square Mars Venus conjunct Jupiter Mars opposite Pluto mine to his Mars Opposite Eros mine to his Mars sextile Pluo his to mine Mars trine Uranus both ways Mars trine Neptune both ways Sappho conjunct PLuto Sappho sextile Neptune Sappho opposite Eros Sappho trine his Uranus Sappho conjunct Juno Nymphe sextile Venus Nymphe sextile my Vertex Nymphe conjunct his mercury Eros sextile Neptune Eros conjunct Juno Sexual tension, we were both artists so it was easy to redirect sexual tension but when alone with one another painting or in a bookstore >___> completely different.
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peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 4011 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 11:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: What experience have you had in synastry w/ someone that involved the sexual aspects?Sun-Mars Sun-Pluto Moon-Mars Moon-Pluto Venus-Mars Venus-Pluto Mars-Mars Mars-Pluto Asteroids: chiron (w/ venus or mars) eros lust nymphe sappho pallas
Most sexually charged relationship Synastry (regarding your topics) His moon square my mars His venus trine my mars My venus sextile his mars My venus trine his pluto His venus semi-sextile my pluto (green dots?) I didn't see any significant conjunctions with the asteroids so I added aspect lines to all and decreased orbs to 30% My Eros and Lust (conjunct) are opposite his Sun, Mercury, Pluto, Jupiter stellium. (Sun, mercury pluto are all on same degree, jupiter is 3 away) My nymphe is also trine that stellium^ nymphe square nymphe his nymphe inconjunct my eros HIs sappho trine my jupiter His eros inconjunct my uranus and saturn OK for composite Sun square mars Sun semisquare pluto moon bq pluto venus square mars venus semi-sq pluto mars sesqiquarateksdfds pluto Sappho conjunct sun by 7 minutes too tired to do other asteroids
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frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 1146 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 26, 2012 01:29 AM
sun-mars = hot, but is not instant attractionvenus-mars = hot, intense instant attraction IP: Logged |
curious girl Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 03:08 AM
Completely irresistible, but I chose to stay away from the intensity. It was unable for me and for him to try to hide the attraction, our bodies just reacted to each other even without words. But this attraction was not appropriate:His Sun conjunct my Moon His Moon square my Venus His Mercury conjunct my Mercury His Venus square my Mars conj Pluto His Mars square my Moon conj Jupiter His Mars conjunct my Venus His Jupiter square my Moon conj Jupiter His Saturn conjunct my Mars conj Pluto His Pluto conjunct my Venus So generally we had like 10 out of 10 synastry attraction aspects: His sun conj my Moon, His moon square my Venus, Mars Venus DW, Venus Pluto DW, Mercuries conjunct. Funny to watch the bodylanguage, anyway. IP: Logged |