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Nicole401
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posted August 24, 2011 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nicole401     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Nicole,

well, if you have natally a Venus-Pluto-opposition, let`s say from 10 Scorpio to 10 Taurus, and the guy`s Mars is square your Venus AND Pluto, then his Mars would fall either around 10 Aquarius or 10 Leo.

Your Venus-Pluto-midpoint would also fall onto 10 Aquarius or 10 Leo, thus his Mars would be either conjunct or oppoisite your Venus/Pluto-mp.
An exact squaring planet is always on the midpoint of an opposition of the planets it squares; the reason for that is that a square (90°) is half the distance of an opposition (180°).
That was what I meant. Hopefully this was not too confusing now.

(But with midpoint configurations the orbs have to be really tight, best under 1 degree).

EDIT:
Sorry, my mistake. I just read that his Mars is conjunct your Venus and opposite your Pluto. So of course his Mars would be square your Venus/Pluto-mp, but it still is a strong triggering of this midpoint.


You're talking about two guys here; One of the guy's mars is square both my venus and my pluto. So let's say, My pluto is at 10 Taurus and My Venus is at 10 Scorpio. His mars would be at 9 Leo or 9 Aquarius.

Example;

Now the second one, His Mars is conjunct my Venus, and since I have a Natal Venus/Pluto opposition, his Mars oppositions Pluto too.

Example;

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Jounia
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posted November 06, 2011 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for me it's

My Mars square His sun
My Mars conjunct His pluto
My moon trine his Mars
Ascendant sextile ascendant

His Mars in my 5th house

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cancercaite
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posted November 06, 2011 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cancercaite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what if.. your ascendant is conjunct their sun. is that good?

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amowls**
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posted November 06, 2011 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Out of all these, the best sex was Moon/Mars double whammy (opposition and square), worst sex was Mars/Venus double whammy (conjunction and opposition).

Moon/Pluto is a close second to Moon/Mars (again, double whammy, conjunction and square).

I feel like Venus/Mars/Pluto (I've only experienced their Venus/Mars in aspect to my Pluto) is good because it makes frequent sex easy (I like novelty so I tend to get bored with partners, but I'm usually up for it.

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posted November 06, 2011 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I have felt the sexual attraction involved in moon-mars but i didnt think it could compare in any way to moon/venus-uranus and venus-mars

have you had sex with any of these people? I think you're mixing up general lovey nice feelings with sexual attraction. Venus/mars is nice because you feel affectionate with each other, but its certainly not as hot as Moon/Mars. Venus/Neptune is deep and soulful, which is nice in the bedroom but it goes beyond sex. Venus/ Uranus is instant attraction but its more "curious." its more like "this person interests me."

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posted September 23, 2012 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 8ofHearts     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One ex and I were on and off for over 10 years - could not shake each other physically even though we hated each other by the end - ugh!

Sun trine Sun
Moon sext Moon
DW Moon/Mars trine & sextile
My BM Lilith & North Node conj his Moon
Mars sext Mars
His Mars trine my Venus
My Mars sext his Venus
My Saturn & South Node conj his Venus (exact) & loose Mars (orb 7)
his Pluto conj my ASC (exact) and Sun (orb 4)
my Pluto sq his Venus & Mars
His Juno conj my ASC, Pluto & Sun
My Juno opp his Sun
His Eros trine my Saturn, Eros & sext my Mars
My Eros trine his Eros, sext his Moon, trine his Venus & Mars
My Uranus conj his ASC

Composite
Venus trine Mars
Venus sq Pluto
Pluto sq Mars
Mars in 8th

Later I found out we had one of those Sexual/Romantic Dragons (they talk about in Magi astrology) with Pluto, Juno, Neptune, Jupiter, Venus & Saturn & Eros all in there. I think my Saturn at apex of a natal yod right on top of his Venus made it particularly hard to break.


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8ofHearts
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posted September 23, 2012 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 8ofHearts     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooops double post.

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Gabby
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posted September 23, 2012 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by popcorn:
Lioness. My first husband had his asteroid lilith in conj to my moon. My seconds husband bml trigg my moon. The other man I describe had his nessus conj my moon. All of this men got me to feel the same. For me it felts very primal including strong lust, attraction and also deeply sexual. I got feelings of primal and karma in some way. Ive my nessus and 6-8 other asteroids also in conj to my moon so.....IQ and Ammi talk about abuse feelings and pain but I cant agree about this kind of feelings in me by my relationship. Ive never felt me abused by a man either. This relationship more felts normal primal and natural like animal. Not brutal or bestial.

My fav relationship sexually also had Lilith

His lilith conjunct my mars
My jupiter trines his 3 of his lilith's
His lilith conjunct my jupiter
His jupiter/aprodite conjunct my cupido/uranus
His pluto sq my mars
His pluto sq my Nessus
His mars sq. my sun
His Nessus sq my sun
My venus sq his eros
His pluto conjunct my moon
My eros conjunct his AC
His AC conjunct my IC
His Ac squares my venus
His uranus conjunct my AC
AC sq AC
His psyche conjunct my pan/jupiter
His moon conjunct my sun/mer/nep
His sun trine my moon
My aphrodite conjunct his moon/neptune
My cupido conjunct his jupiter
My sun/merc conjunct his neptune
My hera conjunct his saturn
My eros/valentine conjunct his valentine
His eros conjunct my Penelope
His penolope/adonis conjunct my venus

Intense, raw, the relationship was intimidating but in an amazing way!


With Nessus involved, there wasn't ever anything he did even close to mean but he did threaten to kill somebody who was mean to me? He helped me heal from childhood abuse! Both of us have Nessus on our Mars...

Ive read about nessus showing the darkness or the monster but an overcome nessus gives a depth of appreciation for life, the soft place to land where everything is special because of what you've overcome and learned after you've been through hell!
Maybe your karma is that youve already been through hell and overcome the monster nessus and your reward in this life your seeing the kinder side of nessus!

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Lazyscarecrow
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posted September 23, 2012 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great thread, Moonfish.

Venus-Mars = Overrated. Had it both ways, too. Venus on my Mars and Mars on my Venus. Wasn't too overly attracted to either guy but physical involvement was much pressed upon by the guy. Prefer trines or sextiles.

Sun-Mars = Physical and sexual attraction. I have only experienced Mars on my Sun. Anyway, long story short I want to make babies with the guy even though I don't want kids. My Sun is the in the 8th house and my 8th house ruler is Cancer/Moon, I have Moon in Aries so the rulership is reversed with Mars in Cancer. I attract this placement a lot, needless to say.


Moon-Mars = Another sexual and physical attraction, but also means they p1ss me off a lot quicker.

Mars-Mars = I have only had opposing and sextile. With opposing, there is a strong force of attraction going on, although the Scorpio Mars is too mysterious and manipulative for my direct and simple Taurus Mars. I've had sextile with Pisces and Cancer Mars, the energy is a complement, nothing feels rushed.

Venus-Pluto = I have had my Venus square their Pluto, but I have this with a lot of people since Venus is in Leo. Ummm, I guess it can cause an attraction and passionate feel, but I can never get too comfortable, filled with what if's...insecurity. I don't know, need to research this one more. The other ones I can feel stronger.

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posted September 23, 2012 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Owwwww love this topic as I am uncomfortably attracted to my husband. Its magical and what people dream bout it being like. Like just cuddling him gets me going and he barely has to do anything the chemistry is so good. We've been together for 8 yrs. and it's still amazing. But I have to admit it is sometimes overwhelming and I wish it was less. It's like I don't have control over it. I'm trying to be PG here... And he agrees it's the same for him with the intensity, but really I don't think it is because I just can't keep my hands off him. He seems more balanced with me. But people look at us and say "wooaaa you guys are hot together." Its truly electric.
Our tightest aspects include:
Moon trine pluto (1)
Moon square venus (1)
Moon opposed Venus (1)
Lust square Pluto (1)
Sun trine lust (0)
Asc conjunct lust (2)
Venus sextile Pluto (3)
Asc square mars (3)
Moon trine mars (4)
Mars square Asc (4)
Asc opposed Pluto (4)
Mc square Pluto (4)
Asc square Pluto (2)
Juno square mars (1)
Mars trine Venus (5)
Uranus square Venus (5)
Eros trine Eros (2)
Sun square mars (5)

I could add more, but you get the picture. The lust one is new for me. I wonder If this explains my intense passion for him...?

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posted September 23, 2012 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think more than anything, he had 5 planets in my 8th house and i had 3 in his, we both had our s. nodes in the others 8th, so very comfortable with each other sexually, felt like we'd been together forever, like home!
His s.node was on my juno, in my 8th, and my mars squared his juno in my 12th.

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posted September 24, 2012 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SmilingHeart     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have alot of these aspects with most of my guy friends.....
I hope there is no attraction involved in these friendships.

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posted September 24, 2012 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sun conjunct sun
moon conjunct moon
^were the most powerful sexual aspects IME. More powerful than Mars / conjunct, opposite, square/ Venus.

and the square is the most powerful in venus/mas aspects



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posted September 24, 2012 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh yeah I remembered another aspect , sun conj mars ... very refreshing and passionate !!

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sweet-scorpion
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posted September 25, 2012 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The most highly charged, sexual relationship I've had to date had these aspects. It had so much sexual obsession on my end first, and then he was unable to suddenly, resist me- and loved giving in to it. It literally exploded when he gave in. But it can be surprisingly healing and passionate as well... deeply and profoundly affectionate.

Moon conjunct Mars in Virgo
Pluto conjunct Moon (exact, 0 dg. orb)
Pluto conjunct Venus
Mars opposite Saturn
Saturn opposite Venus
Ceres conjunct 8H Chiron
Saturn in his 7th house
Venus conjunct IC
Aphrodite conjunct Mercury (exact)
Adonis conjunct Moon
Cupido conjunct 8H Mars (exact)
Amour trine 8H Cupido
BML conjunct his Midheaven (exact)

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posted September 25, 2012 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Square Mars
Venus conjunct Jupiter
Mars opposite Pluto mine to his
Mars Opposite Eros mine to his
Mars sextile Pluo his to mine
Mars trine Uranus both ways
Mars trine Neptune both ways
Sappho conjunct PLuto
Sappho sextile Neptune
Sappho opposite Eros
Sappho trine his Uranus
Sappho conjunct Juno
Nymphe sextile Venus
Nymphe sextile my Vertex
Nymphe conjunct his mercury
Eros sextile Neptune
Eros conjunct Juno


Sexual tension, we were both artists so it was easy to redirect sexual tension but when alone with one another painting or in a bookstore >___> completely different.

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posted September 25, 2012 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
What experience have you had in synastry w/ someone that involved the sexual aspects?

Sun-Mars
Sun-Pluto
Moon-Mars
Moon-Pluto
Venus-Mars
Venus-Pluto
Mars-Mars
Mars-Pluto

Asteroids:
chiron (w/ venus or mars)
eros
lust
nymphe
sappho
pallas


Most sexually charged relationship

Synastry (regarding your topics)
His moon square my mars
His venus trine my mars
My venus sextile his mars
My venus trine his pluto
His venus semi-sextile my pluto (green dots?)

I didn't see any significant conjunctions with the asteroids so I added aspect lines to all and decreased orbs to 30%

My Eros and Lust (conjunct) are opposite his Sun, Mercury, Pluto, Jupiter stellium. (Sun, mercury pluto are all on same degree, jupiter is 3 away)

My nymphe is also trine that stellium^
nymphe square nymphe
his nymphe inconjunct my eros
HIs sappho trine my jupiter
His eros inconjunct my uranus and saturn

OK for composite
Sun square mars
Sun semisquare pluto
moon bq pluto
venus square mars
venus semi-sq pluto
mars sesqiquarateksdfds pluto

Sappho conjunct sun by 7 minutes
too tired to do other asteroids

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posted September 26, 2012 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sun-mars = hot, but is not instant attraction

venus-mars = hot, intense instant attraction

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posted September 26, 2012 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curious girl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Completely irresistible, but I chose to stay away from the intensity. It was unable for me and for him to try to hide the attraction, our bodies just reacted to each other even without words. But this attraction was not appropriate:

His Sun conjunct my Moon
His Moon square my Venus
His Mercury conjunct my Mercury
His Venus square my Mars conj Pluto
His Mars square my Moon conj Jupiter
His Mars conjunct my Venus
His Jupiter square my Moon conj Jupiter
His Saturn conjunct my Mars conj Pluto
His Pluto conjunct my Venus

So generally we had like 10 out of 10 synastry attraction aspects: His sun conj my Moon, His moon square my Venus, Mars Venus DW, Venus Pluto DW, Mercuries conjunct. Funny to watch the bodylanguage, anyway.

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