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Topic: Experience w/ "Sexual" Aspects?
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Moonfish
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posted August 21, 2011 02:30 PM
  
What experience have you had in synastry w/ someone that involved the sexual aspects?Sun-Mars
Sun-Pluto
Moon-Mars
Moon-Pluto
Venus-Mars
Venus-Pluto
Mars-Mars
Mars-Pluto Asteroids:
chiron (w/ venus or mars)
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Nicole401
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posted August 21, 2011 03:58 PM
There's only a few with whom I have "sexual aspects".The first one; My Venus and his Mars are conjunct and my Pluto and his Mars are opposed, and he's the one that's attracted to me, I'm not attracted to him. The second; his Mars is square both my Venus and my Pluto. We're both attracted to each other but we've agreed to stay friends. The third; My Venus is opposed his Pluto, and let me tell you; he was OBSESSED with me.
Like completely obsessed. It took him a while to leave me alone. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 21, 2011 06:27 PM
Bump. This thread is interesting. I would like to know more.IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 21, 2011 07:11 PM
My second husband and I was married in 15 year. We was like drugs to each other. The sex was the best in all year. We could not leave each other after our divorcing. It took us two year to really ended. Composite mars square Pluto. O-1 His mars conj my jup
his Venus in pisces and nept in libra trine my Venus conj mars.
His BMl conj my moon
His moon conj my chiron My biggest passion relationship ever
His eros conj my first name conj algol
DW moon - mars
DW sun-Venus
Lust square lust
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sunkissedqt
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posted August 21, 2011 07:22 PM
How about when your venus trines his venus?IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 21, 2011 07:29 PM
It could never be good sex without feelings and other good components in our life. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 21, 2011 07:38 PM
Venus trine Venus are not an sex aspect but a good one to use in relationship between a couple.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 21, 2011 09:02 PM
that's true, popcorn
lol how didn't i realize that earlierIP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted August 22, 2011 01:52 AM
1) An ex. Very sexually attracted to this person from beginning, felt uncontrollable lust just crazy, he was attracted too just not as much as I was. I broke it off since we weren't emotionally compatible.
---my Sun conj his Mars in my 8th, 19"
---my Mars trine his Sun, 1.5°, opp his Moon, 6°, conj his Pluto, 5° (have this in my chart)
---my Pluto opp his Moon, 1° (he has this aspect in his chart)
---my Moon sq his Pluto, 3° (have this in my chart)
---my Venus sq his Pluto, 1° (have this in my chart)
Asteroids,
---my Moon conj his Eros, 2°, sq his Pallas, 2°
---my Mars sq his Lust, 2°, sq his Sappho, 1.5°
---my Nymphe trine his Sun, 0°, sq his Sappho, 0°
---my Pallas sq his Sappho, 1°, trine his Sun, 1°
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2) Loads of sexual tension between us but I've chosen not to act on it even tho he's in an open relationship. The chemistry is unbelievable. At first when we met yrs ago he was the one who noticed me, but I acted aloof. Now we're more on an equal attraction playing field. I never looked at our asteroids before..
---my Moon sq his Mars, 1°
---my Venus sq his Mars, 1°, trine his Pluto, 4°
---my Mars opp his Mars, but very wide at 7°
---my Pluto opp his Mars, 0°, sq his Moon, 2° (he doesn't have this natally, diff gen)
Asteroids,
---my Lust opp his Jupiter, 0°
---my Nymphe sq his Lust, 2°
---my Pallas sq his Lust, 1°
---my Sappho trine his Venus, 1°
---my Moon sq his Sappho, 0°
---my Venus sq his Sappho, 1°
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3) An acquaintance, friend of a friend, who was very attracted but the feeling wasn't mutual, also his Mars is conj my NN and I don't like Mars there since it squares my Mars/Saturn,
---my Moon opp his Mars, 6°
---my Venus opp his Mars, 4°
---my Mars sq his Mars, 2°, sextile his Pluto, 3°
---my Pluto sq his Mars, 5° (he doesn't have this natally, diff gen)
Asteroids,
---my Eros sextile his Lust, 2°, Pluto, 1°
---my Asc opp his Eros, 2°
---my Nymphe sq his Mars, 1°
---my Mercury trine & Uranus sextile his Nymphe, 0°/1°
---my Sappho sextile his Pallas, 0°
---my Asc conj his Sappho, 2°
---my Pallas sq his Mars, 0°, sq his Jupiter, 2°
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4) We were on fire here. Lots of affection too. No longer dating but good while it lasted (we were born 3 yrs apart but we both have Moon conj Venus sq Pluto natally so that was a huge draw, plus his Moon/Venus conj sat on my NN & was opp my Moon/Venus conj which was v.comfy)
---my Mars sq his Moon, 5.5°
---my Pluto sq his Moon, 2° (we both have this natally)
---my Mars sq his Venus, 2°
---my Pluto sq his Venus, 5° (we both have this natally)
---my Mars trine his Mars, 0° ~ this one was hot, i love mars trine in synastry
---my Mars conj his Pluto, 3° (have this natally)
Asteroids,
---my Eros trine his Pluto, 1°, sextile his Asc, 2°, sextile his Jupiter, 0°
---my Sun conj his Eros, 0°
---my Lust opp his Lust, 1°, conj his Pallas, 2°
---my Nymphe/Pallas trine his Mars, 1°, sq his Venus, 1°
---my Asc trine his Nymphe, 0° & Uranus trine his Nymphe, 2°
---my Mars/Nymphe/Pallas sextile his Sappho 2°/1°/0°
---my Moon conj his Pallas, 2°
Uranus is also important in my synastries since it rules my 7th/8th & is placed in my 5th,
1) it was sq his Mercury, sextile his Venus, sq his Mars, sextile his Jupiter/Saturn, conj his Dsc
2) it's trine his Sun, sq his Mercury/Venus
3) it squares his Sun/Saturn (ouch), sextiles his Venus, conj his Chiron
4) it trined his Sun, sq his NN
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frankie2912
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posted August 22, 2011 01:53 AM
i am always always always attracted to a man whose mars conjuncts my venusIP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 22, 2011 04:07 AM
quote:
Originally posted by popcorn:
My second husband and I was married in 15 year. We was like drugs to each other. The sex was the best in all year. We could not leave each other after our divorcing. It took us two year to really ended. Composite mars square Pluto. O-1 His mars conj my jup
his Venus in pisces and nept in libra trine my Venus conj mars.
His BMl conj my moon
His moon conj my chiron My biggest passion relationship ever
His eros conj my first name conj algol
DW moon - mars
DW sun-Venus
Lust square lust
At popocorn... Can you explain how BML conjunct moon felt... Can you separate that energy and explain it? I have that with Pisces..
My BML (also my Neptune) conjuncts his Moon
His Lilith conjuncts my moon (and merc,Sun)
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Ceridwen
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posted August 22, 2011 05:09 AM
After skimming the posts it seems that most of the time the Mars-person will be attracted, right?IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 22, 2011 05:34 AM
Nicole 401,in your case: "The first one; My Venus and his Mars are conjunct and my Pluto and his Mars are opposed, and he's the one that's attracted to me, I'm not attracted to him."
In both cases it is HIS Mars that is being triggered.
Do you have a Venus-Pluto-opposition natally? "The second; his Mars is square both my Venus and my Pluto. We're both attracted to each other but we've agreed to stay friends."
Again, his Mars is triggered. The question is, in both cases your Venus and Pluto are aspected. Why do you feel attraction with this one, but not with the first one?
Maybe it is found somewhere else in the chart OR, here in this case his Mars probably would be rougly conjunct your Venus/Pluto-midpoint; might that increase the chance of being attracted? Popcorn, with your exhusband "His mars conj my jup"
What house does Jupiter rule? "his Venus in pisces and nept in libra trine my Venus conj mars."
So his Venus was trine your Mars? "His BMl conj my moon"
This one sounds very primal soulful and deep to me. For myself I termed BML as "the dark side of the Moon", and coupled with the Moon itself, the emotions might get very deep and soulful, though not easy at all.
"My biggest passion relationship ever
DW moon - mars
DW sun-Venus"
So I guess, the Moon-Mars was adding the sexual spice and the Sun-Venus the affection?
Also I want to underline this statement of yours: "It could never be good sex without feelings and other good components in our life."
(If I also could make this sparkle, I would.)
Lonake,
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not surprised. DW Sun/Mars with your 8th house touched. Interestingly I would have thought that since he is Mars in the conjunction he might have been attracted more. But then on the other hand he was triggering your natal Moon-Venus-Pluto-aspect, which would have added maybe an almost compulsive emotional streak to the attraction. Whereas the Sun/Mars-attraction is more uncomplicated.
The Moon-Pluto-challenging DW might have been too much to handle in the end.
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With his Mars so closely aligned with your Moon-Venus-Pluto I am not surprised the attraction is intense (and that he noticed it before you did; Mars is pretty quick to react).
But again the aspects might be too intense to really work out in whatever relationship there might be. Maybe you kind of feel that and choose to keep your distance? 3)
I agree Mars squaring Mars/Saturn might feel more like just a wet blanket.I am not at all opposed to Mars-Saturn aspects (my parents have the DW conjunction of these and it worked for them for 37 years to date), but in a square, with two Marses, I don`t know. Don`t like that. In this case again it is HIS Mars which is triggered by all these planets in your chart (moon-Venus-Mars-Pluto: wow, what an intense natal alignment!) and he is the one attracted. 4)
I think probably the mirrored aspects were really the cause of your attraction to each other, which might not have been just sexual, but emotional and intimate as well with moon/Venus included.
So your Mars was being triggered quite strongly, but there was at least one connection to his Mars, and it was a positive one. I guess Mars-trines might be very nice, maybe not just as hot as the challenging aspects, but spicy enough and allowing for more sexual harmony. Also his Eros conjunct your Sun exact might have added spice (I find that Eros often acts as some sort of "refined Mars" and often figures more strongly than I would have believed it to be, given that it is an asteroid). "Uranus is also important in my synastries since it rules my 7th/8th & is placed in my 5th,"
That`s a very significant point!
In your case Uranus might carry a lot of sexual / erotic significance.
I would always advise to check the ruler of 5th (and maybe 8th) and the planets in 5th (and maybe 8th) as "sexual significators".
In my case it is very obvious; I just will not be attracted to someone unless they trigger my Venus strongly (square or conjunction - I do not know why the opposition doesn`t happen to me) and Venus rules my 5th house (in Placidus and topocentric at least).
Funnily Saturn also seems to carry a lot of attraction for me, though it`s complicated and not always welcome (Neither is Venus, with her square to Pluto).
Maybe the reason for this is that Venus is in Capricorn and Saturn is in 8th house. Moon would make the third part of this triangle, as ruler of the 8th house and being exactly quinkunx Saturn. So, Moon, Venus,Saturn for me, which feel more sexual / erotic / passionate than would be expected given their planetary nature. (of course it also implies having some serious emotional blockages there and demanding a very sincere, serious approach and exchange, based on having built a very firm foundation of trust. Definitely not one for one night stands or flings here).
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popcorn
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posted August 22, 2011 06:28 AM
Lioness. My first husband had his asteroid lilith in conj to my moon. My seconds husband bml trigg my moon. The other man I describe had his nessus conj my moon. All of this men got me to feel the same. For me it felts very primal including strong lust, attraction and also deeply sexual. I got feelings of primal and karma in some way. Ive my nessus and 6-8 other asteroids also in conj to my moon so.....IQ and Ammi talk about abuse feelings and pain but I cant agree about this kind of feelings in me by my relationship. Ive never felt me abused by a man either. This relationship more felts normal primal and natural like animal. Not brutal or bestial.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 22, 2011 12:43 PM
Strongest sexual attraction aspects for memutual moon-neptune trines
mutual venus-pluto aspects
moon square venus
moon trine uranus
sun trine mars
venus conjunct mars
venus trine uranus
my sun and mars in his 8th house
sun trine venus this isnt all synastry with one person. I wish. Oh and sun conjunct jupiter, venus trine pluto, and sun-mercury-venus stelliums in the composite certainly help because they add to the affection---I love venus trine pluto in the composite, though. It is amazing how one little aspect can do so much for me in so many different relationships with totally different astro-makeups. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 22, 2011 12:50 PM
I have felt the sexual attraction involved in moon-mars but i didnt think it could compare in any way to moon/venus-uranus and venus-mars. I have moon sextile pluto with someone but i cant say if that aspect creates sexual attraction because we also hae venus trine uranus, venus conjunct mars, an mutual moon trine neptune. I've also felt the sun trine pluto before but even tho there's a slight sexual attraction it cant compare to sun trine mars, little yet the aspects mentioned before. Plus in sun trine pluto the pluto person pushes u to show off ur talents more than u appreciate like the annoying stage mother.For some reason my favorites are moon trine uranus and moon square venus...... sweet and affectionate, but not as compulsive and obsessive as venus conjunct mars, venus trine pluto, or venus trine uranus in synastry.
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Nicole401
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posted August 22, 2011 07:02 PM
quote:
"The first one; My Venus and his Mars are conjunct and my Pluto and his Mars are opposed, and he's the one that's attracted to me, I'm not attracted to him."
In both cases it is HIS Mars that is being triggered.
Do you have a Venus-Pluto-opposition natally?
Yes, I do have a Venus/Pluto opposition natally. quote:
"The second; his Mars is square both my Venus and my Pluto. We're both attracted to each other but we've agreed to stay friends."
Again, his Mars is triggered. The question is, in both cases your Venus and Pluto are aspected. Why do you feel attraction with this one, but not with the first one?
I think it's because the first one makes it obvious he's attracted to me, while the second likes to act mysterious. quote:
Maybe it is found somewhere else in the chart OR, here in this case his Mars probably would be rougly conjunct your Venus/Pluto-midpoint; might that increase the chance of being attracted?
Nope, they are (mars/venus & mars/pluto) at an exact square by like 1 degree. IP: Logged |
Planet Queen
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posted August 22, 2011 07:40 PM
The strongest attraction/admiration I've ever felt is with my current bf, we share some potent (tight) interaspects:Sun square Sun
Sun trine Venus
Sun opposite Jupiter
Sun opposite Pluto
Sun opposite Asc.
Sun square Eros Moon Square Mars/ Moon opposite Mars
Moon conjunct MC Venus conjunct Mars
Venus sextile Jupiter
Venus opposite MC Mars sextile Mars
Mars conjunct Jupiter
Mars opposite Asc.
Mars square Sappho Eros opposite Pluto
Asc. square Lust IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted August 23, 2011 05:34 PM
My favorite are moon-mars DW but I also think algol connecton should make sex strongt between à couple.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted August 24, 2011 02:17 AM
Here is the synastry between some I might start having casual sex with. I had the talk with him today. Made sure we where on the same page and stuff. (I'm the one on the left and hes the one on the right) Mercury Trine Mercury
Mercury Trine Neptune
Venus Sextile Uranus
Jupiter Square Sun
Jupiter Opposition Uranus
Saturn Trine Venus
Uranus Conjunction Uranus
Uranus Conjunction
Neptune Trine Mercury
Neptune Conjunction
Neptune Conjunction
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Pluto Sextile Mercury
Pluto Sextile Saturn
Pluto Conjunction Pluto I'm also pretty sure that my Moon conjuncts his Pluto IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted August 24, 2011 04:51 AM
Nicole,Does the first guy (who you are not attracted to) have Venus or Mars in aspect to Pluto - in his natal chart? What about the second guy? (or... do either of them have Venus or Mars in Scorpio?) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 24, 2011 05:41 AM
Nicole,well, if you have natally a Venus-Pluto-opposition, let`s say from 10 Scorpio to 10 Taurus, and the guy`s Mars is square your Venus AND Pluto, then his Mars would fall either around 10 Aquarius or 10 Leo. Your Venus-Pluto-midpoint would also fall onto 10 Aquarius or 10 Leo, thus his Mars would be either conjunct or oppoisite your Venus/Pluto-mp.
An exact squaring planet is always on the midpoint of an opposition of the planets it squares; the reason for that is that a square (90°) is half the distance of an opposition (180°).
That was what I meant. Hopefully this was not too confusing now.  (But with midpoint configurations the orbs have to be really tight, best under 1 degree). EDIT:
Sorry, my mistake. I just read that his Mars is conjunct your Venus and opposite your Pluto. So of course his Mars would be square your Venus/Pluto-mp, but it still is a strong triggering of this midpoint. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 24, 2011 05:48 AM
Betty,good call! Yes, it is always important to first check the natals. Though in my case, I must say I feel the Venus/Pluto or Mars/Pluto-connections the strongest, if they are present in their natals as well; with my natal Venus-Pluto-square it might be something like a triple whammy of Pluto to Venus or Mars. Hard to miss that one. lol IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 24, 2011 05:48 AM
Betty,good call! Yes, it is always important to first check the natals. Though in my case, I must say I feel the Venus/Pluto or Mars/Pluto-connections the strongest, if they are present in their natals as well; with my natal Venus-Pluto-square it might be something like a triple whammy of Pluto to Venus or Mars. Hard to miss that one. lol IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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posted August 24, 2011 09:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Nicole,Does the first guy (who you are not attracted to) have Venus or Mars in aspect to Pluto - in his natal chart?
Yes, he has a Mars/Pluto opposition (orb -4°07').
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What about the second guy?
His Mars squares his Pluto (orb -4°22') and His Venus oppositions his Pluto (orb -9°45') quote:
(or... do either of them have Venus or Mars in Scorpio?)
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